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Offpoint:
I understand you bro, it's good to do self assessment and if we didn't get where we had planned_ it's perfectly right to feel like we've not done our best.

Setting up a particular time or age we're supposed to be successful could do us more damage.

As long as you're still on the right track and still working towards your dreams... don't bother about age or time. Every success you make be proud of it and look forward to do more.

thanks bro

MichaelBukamzy:
Are you really 28? are you sure? you didn't like one.

am 28 by september i didnt like one?
I dont understand bro

I currently have no mentor but i wish to know its importance.
Do you have a mentor?
Have you had any?
How important is a mentor to ones life?
Hoping to learn

Logobenz:
you said 28 year olds should list their achievements Right?
What for if not for comparison purposes?
And watch your tone cos I wasn't rude to You,I see no reason why you gotta be too.
Goodluck

what achievement?
Did u see any achievement made by me so far aside school
am clearly under the presure of being an under archiver more reasons i needed to know how far off am still at, secondly there is no reason of being proud because am aware someone will always be better, but am not happy with you trying to turn it to a challenge

rockyh:
kudos to u, u av done a great job u are far off better than most of them here

i feel like i havent done enough but tnx anyway

Logobenz:
if you start competing with others at this point,na em be say you never ready for life yet.
Stay you and do You,be happy with what you have,life no be race

i dont compete and you must not comment
If you went through the post with a sane mind then you shouldn't have typed this

Memberclub:
Same as you. But I'm 24
Savings right is 1.3M. God help us all.

you doing great

proeast:
Hmnnn, by 28 I was done with NYSC, has become a landlord in the city (owns a land not a house), already a CEO...

your doing great bro

Offpoint:
Our time frame differs bro, there's no age limit for success or achievement, nor time frame set up for it either. you can achieve all at 20, you can achieve all 90.

Listing out whatever you achieve at particular time of your life in a public forum, it's intimidating. even though that might not have been your intentions.

Keep your achievements private and to yourself, I always hated when some pastors invited to your church would mount the pupil and start intimidating people with irrelevant stories and achievements.

Things like these are what contributed to most suicide committed by youths, you might not know.



The key is staying focus, determine and making every minute of your life useful and resourceful...

Let your achievements speaks for you, don't speak your achievements.

i feel am not doing enough
Wanted to know how much challenge i still need to summont but am you reply is the real truth here

post=77936649:
You even have time replying Lucifer.
He's a nonentity.

All the very best for the future Divine

lol same here bro

I think most guys would aviod the thread either because of not being proud of thier stats or cos they enjoy being private on thier archievments
Am not proud of mine anyway but i just posted these also to remind people like me what is still expected of us at 28
Ladies your also not left out kappish!

Lucifersticlala:
A 28 year old man counts 500k as his greatest achievement.

OP, divide 500 by 28.

That is your IQ.
*spits

That's my current savings aside everyday expenses nd emergency funds not my greatest achievements dou

BlueAir:
So far so good.



Won't like to list tho. No achievement is an achievement to me

it will be nice if you do list them regards

Actually life isnt bed of roses especially living in a country like ours, some are lucky to have attained a great family support at thier youth level even beyond
Some arent and i fall into this category.
Well life isnt a competition but i always like to measure up my output not with my resources but with the standard i should attain.
Like someone i admire alot said always be competitive and take on new challenges and work hard..
So lets measure what he had or should had accomplished at 28.
Here is mine
Will be 28 by September
Will be done with nysc by then after sponsoring my self through uni
I stay alone(self con) sponsoring my bills
I support my family alot financially( training my siblings
Half a million is my highest current save fund

What have you or did you achieve at 28 ?

lilianofentse:
am currently single don't want to mingle but we can be frnds

okay send me a pm or reply mine so we can chat privately

lilianofentse:
focus on changing your bae first

am done
Time to move on made lots of sacrifice i didn't even consided writing so i wouldnt brag
Its an online forum and am sure you find it difficult saying yes even if you want to but can i send you a pm

lilianofentse:
a shot to do what exactly?.

love you

CyberWolf:
You dey write project for her, na you send her go school? Instead of you to collect better money from if you have enough time to write the project, you’re there fooling yourself.. Go and start hustling for your future mumu boy, time no dey again o.

thanks for your advise but do you know me, did i tell you am broke? Or that i dont have anything doing?
This is just a piece of my moment not my life
Am not doing bad bro and hustling is part of me just that i was creating time to give my best to her education once more thank you

lilianofentse:
I wish I could find sm1 like you. Try giving her a chance and see if she changes. She might be going through emotional problems. Don't be too quick to judge her.

give me a shot will make it count

united442:
hahaha...

o.p listen to me and listen very carefully..

first, you love that babe so much and from your comment, with the call aspect about ignoring each other for a week, i can sense you are the man in the relationship, controlling her and controlling your feelings/ emotions towards her at thesame time..kudos.!

o.p see,that babe has an "i don't care" attitude,if in case you dnt know(i may be wrong though)..and it might drag you down along in future if you are still loyal to her or still with her of which i know you will cause you love her.,dnt be surprise she may not even be reasoning a future with you self

o.p lemme tell you, that babe isn't cheating "Yet",but i can bet my balls that she's going to cheat, 101% sure..why?
*you are to nice and kind for her,
*you are to available for her,
*she knows you love her so much and you can do the undoable for her, thereby using it to toy with your feeling and emotions you have for her,cause even after doing some shitty stuff,she knows you are still going to forgive her,
*you sacrifices way to much for her, with your energy? time? resources?..its way too much man,

i understand your love for her,i understand you want things to be right with her, but man, frankly speaking from other people's experience, i can foresee a bad end..chances are she's just using you as a step stone to her success..
her family knowing about you,your relationship with her and the marriage stuff isn't yet enough for you to sacrifices alot on her..IT ISN'T oooo!

op you know her better than i do,do you think if things is now okay with her, like no more carry over, project Done, graduated, financially stabled,with rich dude coming her way, o.p do you think she will still look your way? or think twice about you and all what you passed through for her when things were rough with her??

op, op ,op!!! i pity you

all what i said above may be wrong though,but i insist you keep it in mind and apply caution to that babe matter with her aunty problem on the other side..

i may edit and add more adv latter

most useful to me thanks all for input and contributions

ifex370:
Op

Your contribution might go a long way

PORNeliusHUBson:
A similar reply i gave to sum1 a week ago.. Una no dy eva learn.

Paying a girl's school fee is
somethin u shud'nt risk. Bro, use
ur money to invest or epp ur
family. As lng as u neva marry her, no be only u get d gal. Just lyk banana, may sense fall on
u.

Her aunty is nt even supportive sef. The gal in kweshon seems disrespectful, tueh.

Guy, u re datin ursef, u ar d only one in dt reltnshp. If nt dat u re sponsorin ha. She 4 leave u tey tey.. Wait 4 her to graduate, u'll c ha true sef

am not sponsoring her, her parents are
Her fees are paid by them and other educational cost are met by them

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