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SouthAmericalif:
Today mark 7 months in Lagos,but should I say it's worth it,I am not even sure,I move in with my family august 2 luckily after two days in the hotel I got an apartment with 2m naira per annum for just a mini flat on the island. Up on till now I couldn't find a job that can pay my monthly rent allowance,and I can't go below that standard of apartment so I just key to small online jobs.
For warri where I come this kind apartment I can't pay more than 300k, this Lagos stinks like hell, everywhere smells,aboki spiting up and down, no gaging like deltans do, you go see people for street looking so dirtylike mad.. you go hardly differentiate some from sane.
Sometimes I go see the way people they hustle for street,their store is their apartment no good living,na so life come bad reach,the Igbos and other tribes and the funny thing nothing in that shop to make a good living. Stop crying to come to Lagos, he no worth am when you are starting from zero. But if you get like 3million then give it a try but...
As I dey here I still dey find the thing when they sup for this place I never see am,my other family member is working in a popular mart here in Lagos and I have the opportunity but I no gree,so when I weigh my life in Delta and my life now in Lagos I come know say I was doing excellent before and if I grade am here now I don't even know where to start because the people when they street for this Lagos overshadow people when dey do well so you no go see eye count, if I am making Sense I just need one person to say it and reply to my post so I can say it all for those that one to learn,there are good side I have not mentioned, thanks.

SouthAmericalif:
Today mark 7 months in Lagos,but should I say it's worth it,I am not even sure,I move in with my family august 2 luckily after two days in the hotel I got an apartment with 2m naira per annum for just a mini flat on the island. Up on till now I couldn't find a job that can pay my monthly rent allowance,and I can't go below that standard of apartment so I just key to small online jobs.
For warri where I come this kind apartment I can't pay more than 300k, this Lagos stinks like hell, everywhere smells,aboki spiting up and down, no gaging like deltans do, you go see people for street looking so dirtylike mad.. you go hardly differentiate some from sane.
Sometimes I go see the way people they hustle for street,their store is their apartment no good living,na so life come bad reach,the Igbos and other tribes and the funny thing nothing in that shop to make a good living. Stop crying to come to Lagos, he no worth am when you are starting from zero. But if you get like 3million then give it a try but...
As I dey here I still dey find the thing when they sup for this place I never see am,my other family member is working in a popular mart here in Lagos and I have the opportunity but I no gree,so when I weigh my life in Delta and my life now in Lagos I come know say I was doing excellent before and if I grade am here now I don't even know where to start because the people when they street for this Lagos overshadow people when dey do well so you no go see eye count, if I am making Sense I just need one person to say it and reply to my post so I can say it all for those that one to learn,there are good side I have not mentioned, thanks.

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going
Some women brings good luck, while some brings bad luck to a man. No matter their educational level or background. You think, it's by your own power that you make 3-4m monthly. Don't you know that money is a spiritual substance. wait till you lose the woman then you will understand what l'm saying

foliman:
He's at same time a cancer in the corridor of APC.

obicoolnino:
With the new silicon battery technology, expect phones especially the midrange category to top 8000mah and more. 5000mah should be the list going forward.