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pansophist:
Both are not easy, either finding a wife or finding a husband.

I have always said before that good marriageable people are scarce. Until you have made money as a man, or are ready to settle down as a woman, you won't know how hard that thing is.

Then, you begin to think back on the good people you have pushed away due to your ignorance, vanity, or lack of tolerance. You were caught up in the lie that there is someone special and angelic waiting for you. And that there are many fishes in the sea.

True, there might be many fishes in the sea but do you know what's also in the sea? Trash, yes, lots of trash and plastic. Also shit, stones, sands, shells, and inedible stuff. All the rubbish you find on land is also in the sea.

Also, many of the reasons people push off good partners are because of their lack of self-consciousness. You are so imperfect, totally blind to your imperfection, but somehow, expect others to be.

When Jesus approached the men who wanted to stone the prostitute to death, he said a simple sentence to them, ''he who is without sin, throw the first stone''. They all vanish after he says that.

This sentence made them conscious of their imperfection, and that they should be easy on the prostitute. Don't kill her because she sins differently than you.

So if you are conscious of your shortcomings, you won't be out there looking for perfection in people. By tolerating imperfection, it is not character-based, but mostly physical such as what young people call ''spec''.

If someone lies, manipulates, wants to tame/conquer, is deceitful, vengeful, wicked, and just a shitty human, then dump him/her. Don't tolerate that because it's character-based. It's free to develop your character.

But if they aren't having a fat ass, not over six feet tall, a bit chubby, broke but not poor (poverty is a mindset), then these can be overlooked.

So yes, stop pushing off good people, them no plenty at all. If you are young and reading this, thinking you will just push good people off, you might not meet them again. I don't believe in karma, but only a few people escape this.

If you meet a good person that your heart accepts, who loves you and treats you right, then work with that. Otherwise, accept that you might not meet them again. Then go ahead and break up.

Na hu be dis

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Repent for the kingdom of God is at hand

dominique:
I have very vague memories of Senegal '92. Tunisia '94 was was the first Nations cup I watched consciously and we won .
South Africa '96 and Burkina Faso '98 were a total blur as we did not participate.
Nigeria/Ghana 2000 will forever remain in our memories as a cancelled penalty shootout robbed us of the trophy to Cameroon .
Mali 2002 (Mali Deux mille Deux) remains my best of all the AFCON, we won bronze medal with just 5 goals through out the tournament
Tunisia 2004, Egypt 2006 back to back bronze
Ghana 2008 crashed out
Angola 2010 bronze
Equatorial Guinea/Gabon 2012 blur as we no qualify
South Africa 2013 We won🏆
Equatorial Guinea 2015, Gabon 2017 total blur as we no gree qualify (it's like our spirit no gel with those 2 countries)
Egypt 2019 bronze
Cameroon 2021 crashed out
Cote D'Ivoire 2023 - only time we tell

Total of 16 tournaments, I've witnessed so far. Some Indomie pikins cannot relate

Mama you don old o....

Wonders sha never start

BinamRex:
My brother, it happens to me a lot. And the funny thing is that I'm not even religious. I can't even bring girls home anymore because my neighbours will be disappointed that pastor is womanizing. Mehn, I am tired.

Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

I'm pleased to wish you a Happy New Year!!

2024 will be the year of Nairaland's resurgence. I will face Nairaland squarely like I used to before the discouraging Data Loss Incident of 2014. I will hire more hands to help us to improve Naira
Do u mean what u just said
The problems of Nairaland that we should have solved years ago will be solved.

* We will defeat tribalists, trolls, & spammers.
* We will complete our advertising platform.
* We will improve the UI and UX.
* Home page topics will be educative & fresh.

However, I must warn you that things will get worse before they get better. Please stand with us and fight for u as Nairaland faces the tough challenges of 2024, which have already started.

Happy New Year and thanks for using Nairaland!

Seun Osewa,
Nairaland's Founder.

Are you sure

Antoeni:
Muslims Are Still The Highest Consumers of High power Brewed Alcoholic Drinks in Niger State

They pour it inside kettle and drink

Vinnie2000:
When given a New notebook to use, I write from Back to Front.

When reading Newspaper, I read from Back to Front, too.😕

U'are a backward man

Witch-hunt house demolishing

Every body with his own gospel

Don't just eat food bcus u have money. That is why business men tends to age faster than government workers. No food plannings.



You are physically what you eat

Let me give my own ultimatum also

None christian should not comment on christian section unless they swear with Jesus name, Seun take note

dalongjnr:
The games have just began. The familiar northern game of terror.

Exactly
that was what they used to butt GEJ out of govnt, but unknown to them, that can't work in this regim

FalseProphet1:
If you don't have money to do autopsy, just bring the dead body to my spiritual center and I'll tell you how he/she died. My prices are quite affordable.

This I have seen.

Pls update your diery.
It has been long you updated last

andyblinks05:
Moderators:
1forall
mukina2
CrazyMan

Pls help with a wider view

Lalasticala
Seun
Look into this matter

Stop Westin ur time in expecting mentorship from unknown ppl online..


My advice to you is that, you shud learn properly the English course you are studying in the university. When you're are good in writing, you can start publishing books in "AMAZON" that can sustain you after your graduation from sch, even without a reliable job.

So stop been afraid of the future. Your destiny is in your hands. What you do today determines who you will be in tomorrow

John 14:15. If ye love, me keep my commandments.





People of God, follow God's command!

My forex exploit

LincolnOnyeabor:
I don comot hand for anything competition abeg.

Those traders there I can't tell what they are but naaaaa, that no be trading abeg.

How can I join the competition
Which broker

Link me the website for registration

Jef4u:
Please how do people pass this funded next competition? I am now at 7% profit but still on the 1973rd position.

Can I make the 100th position by making just 1 to 2 % daily profit?

Pls. I want to join the competition




How can I register

How much is the price of the toy

Birds of the same feather flocks together

He went to realmadrid and did what






Is better to be a king in the village than to go to the city and be a slave

How can a thief capture a fellow thief

What of the 4 refineries built by the military gvrnt, the so called messianic civilian gvrnt can not mentain


I pray that the junta's shud take over Nigerian gvrnt by fire by force

Apc means: poverty to people, by the people and to the ppl.