The sarcastic judgements given on this thread anytime people post their "sinful" acts to get an American visa is quite harsh. Yes, what they do is wrong by lying and they might think they are being 'smart' when conjuring the lies. However, the essence of this thread i believe is to help people know and get their visa the right way with the right intention/purpose. Therefore, it is unnecessary to talk down, insult anybody no matter how outrageously annoying their 'lies' and stories are, emphasis should be on the event/situation not the person. Their posts/experiences are valuable (just like the success posts) so people can learn from their errors.

It is very sad that tribe is a reason why a lady will throw away 5years of a good relationship. Who says love is not enough in marriage?? if its not enough, then its not love. Few people marry for love this days, and that is why they have that ideology. People marry whites for gawd sake!!! Love is a two way thing, just make sure you and your partner are on the same page. If his family are traditional, then its its a NO!

@NIV: i am filling my DS-160 form, i am having issues uploading picture. Is it compulsory i upload the picture?

sometimes, the best relationships do not start with the sparks and all. the sparks often time end in fling as your senses are clouded. This is the best time to evaluate who this guy really his (character). My dear, If he is a 'good' guy, then u can choose to love him. i believe we all have a say to choose who we love as long as you like him.