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Guys crushing on your wife will never miss this kind of wedding.

cktheluckyman:
Do you think I should give her more time or just move on

The more you give her time, the more she continues to act that way and the more you fall deeply in love with her. Surprising right? Sometimes we tend to love those who don't give a fvck about us. Well if a girl likes you, she would always want to contact you. If you believe she will change and therefore deserves more time, then its up to you.

The girl is not into you "yet". This shows she's in control of the relationship. It seems you will play the role of the party who is always contacting the other. This is what I always try to avoid. In my own case it's usually the other way round. The girls contacting me first. Just concentrate on other meaningful things. No relationship will ever survive without good communication. Don't be surprised that same girl is always pinging and calling another guy who doesn't give a fvck about her.

You are extremely introverted. A lawyer who can't relate well with people is bound to fail. You have to deal with your introversion first. There are books, guidelines which will go a long way to help you.

Observing

mirexxx:
djeezy did you get my shout out?

My mention doesn't always work. Which page is your vn......?

Tashaamania:
Thanks Zac

Tashaamania thanks for the shout out. That was really amazing and spectacular. I really loved it.

rokiatu:
Perry2020 I think you pretty much have this thing. If you contest you are definitely most likely to win no doubt.

Damn! I won't lie that girl is so pretty.

There are top police officers who are graduates and are doing well.

Smh she meant 3D. Me I prefer 9D.

The best place for inspiration. It's hygienic jor.lol

For married people and you brought it to romance section.



Firstly, I think this happened to you and not your friend. How come you know all those dates when she ran away?

Secondly, she could be running away due to the cruel treated metted out to her in consequent thereof of the quarrel/fight.
Was she battered constantly to the extent she is impelled to flight?
Is the marriage leading to an irretrievable breakdown that she could no longer live in the same house with her husband?


Well if your friend has not been cruel to her or in extreme cases battering her at home, the running away may be unlikely don't you think?

Finally if your friend's story happens to be true and he has done everything to bring her back to no avail. It's a pretty good sign she is tired of the marriage and wants dissolution of marriage.

Well if you value your friendship with your friend, it will do you no good to have something with his girl.

Interesting. Let's apply a little logic here. Thread is about the girl you date and the girl you marry. You dated the woman you married right, so did she just change overnight the moment you married her? Going by this thread.

Agape.

Nice one Twaci. You have an amazing voice.

daviyjones:
Boss I believe the reason it didn't work out is because you were young and naïve, well both of y'all.

With your experience now and the magic of first love I believe you two will do well. Boss if the past is the best option we have to make us happy and be a better man we should take it.

What has change since you both separated? Haven't you date an average of 3 or 4 since you left her? Is that how we will keep letting the past be past?

Surprisingly this is your longest post have seen this year.

Lol well this isn't my longest post this year. I addressed the topic as it appears. I clearly stated in my post ab initio that I could not marry my first love if I was giving the chance. I aforementioned the factor of not had the basic prerequisites which clearly connotes that I was young and naive. So obviously if I'm to fall in love with her today, she may not be what I want in a woman because my standard now differs from my standard from the fons et origo.

My point is, if I hadn't met her when I was young and naive and meet her today, I may probably not ask her out or even date her because there are some things I won't ignore now like character and personality which I did ignore during those days when beauty and nice figure was what we sought for. Then as for having subsequent girlfriends and ex as you pointed out. I call it experience. I believe the best source of knowledge is experience.

"The magic of first love is the ignorance that it will never end'' Quote of the day.

I like to move on in life and seek for something better than the former. When this don't work out there's a pretty good reason why it didn't. My priorities and prerequisite for choosing a girlfriend then and now differs. For instance then I was just more interested in physical beauty neglecting other facets I should have considered. If I'm to weigh my first love on my current benchmark and what it is predicated upon now, she may not even be an option to consider. While I enjoyed the love and thrill while it lasted, I'd also consider letting the past be past.

Lala247:
Djeezy voice hmm nah die
So silky smooth like milk chocolate ..

Interesting.

Smh

It's a thing of choice.

I will repent.

I ain't clicking that link.

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