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Can you be more elucidating? How do you exoect us to nail it properly if your details are sparing?

I truly understand your fears gurl.... It takes a sincere heart to worry on such matter to this extent. The thing I detest most and would be very hard to tolerate from my future partner would be unfaithfulness. I so detest it that I would rather remain single for life than being cheated upon for once.

Anywayz, I am the kind person that don't allow things bother him. There are two ways I arrest issues that present themselves to my mind. First, I try as much as I can to let it die a natural death and forget about it for life. Secondly, if its something that proves abortive, then the only alternative would be to face it and arrest it asap cause trust me, I hate to have something bother me.

Well... people can be quick to judge you unfairly because they feel you are just hallucinating or having a phantasmagoria. Since it has become so pressing that you find it hard to bear, then I would say you satisfy your cravings and figure out a way to catch him red handed. I cant tell you what to do or how to go about it. You know him and as such you should figure out a way to clear up everything and be free becauee I tell you girl, you dont wanna continue like this as it will ruin you big time.

Have you thought about it like you are just being insecured? You know sometimes when there are emotions flaring, insecurity tends to show its ugly face and make you fave fears that are unreal.

I would advice you think it through and through and try to see if you can kill it. If you can't, then its either you figure out a way to confirm your fears or you leave him for good. If you get to find out its true what would you do? And if leaving him would be the option; if you leave him, how sure are you that the next man would not do the same? And if you wont leave him but talk him out of it, i would rather you do that now and get reassured once more that he loves you and wont hurt you in any way. There are lots of questions that needs answering. Don't you agree?

Take it slow so you dont make a mistake please.....

Dang!!! this is ridiculous.... I have stated this times without number, sex is enjoyed by both parties. Ohh, are you implying that men are the ones who enjoy sex, while women feel nothing about it? Seriously?

FYI there is no authentic proof yet that men are just the ones who crave for sex. And what makes you think you are doing a man a favour by having sex with him? Gosh! This is pure Naija mentality. No offence @op.

How many of you will even give in to the idea of no-sex-no-money in relationships? Since you now align them side-by-side, I guess you don't give in to sex except when money emanates from a guy's pockets. That would mean that you are more like a....

Anywayz, as far as I am concerned, you are not doing any man a favour by having sex with him, Infact, you enjoy it more. Is the word órgasm more familiar with men or women? And you still think you are doing a man a favour because of what you enjoy more than him? Think again gurly....

Besides, its obvious girls who always weigh money and sex in relationships are the dependent kinda girls with low self-esteem and values... If in giving out sex to a man you feel something should always be given back in return, what makes you different from a love-peddler? Probably you are just doing it a more revised way, yet you are doing the same thing....

God, with all these, who is gonna be that true one for me when it seems virtually all girls are just after money and all and have forgotten about the real values that makes a person unique? I think maybe I should reconsider going to the seminary oooooooo. Cause it seems I am not safe with the kinda women the world is producing.... Lol

God help us all.

ibiso1986: Nice write up.. But if a lady knows that d guy approaching her is rich, first impression won't even count for most nigerian girls..

Gbam! I tell you bruv.... Please we are sick of all these incessant lists in making women fall for us... Why do we need them to fall when they are already on the ground? Just asking....

Nice post you got up there....

But it's obvious you are not the writer to this piece. Anywayz, it's really worth perusing....

Unfortunately, its Martino.

You are welcome to the best club in the entire planet..

May God be with you and make your reign a successful one.

Mes cue un club...

Visca Barca
Anims Tito

Popowaa: No forming things.Na to hug him with all the strenght i have and tell him i like him.

Just like that Mehn e be like say time no dey to dull at all ooooo

^^^^ I know you are joking cause you can't be serious....

Johnpaul88: Barcelona are holding talks with
both Luis Enrique and Tata
Martino and will decide in the
coming hours who'll become
the new coach. [sport]

I thought the decision have been made. Anyway finding a coach for the best club in the world is not going to be as easy as finding one for the best team in, say, Germany or France.

That's more like it...

dayokanu: We just come to say Barca oooooo E sheeee fun Thiagoo(ibi te ti bere.)

We just want to say Barca ooo E seee

Adupe oo Barca ibi ten ba wa lo

Ati gbó

I think they desire taller guys in order to compliment themselves. I know quite well that girls generally love taller guys but, its more rampant with shorter girls as the issue of complimenting each other would come to mind.... Thank God I am on the taller side anywayz

Seriously? Why would I do that? I'm straight and why would I wanna spend the rest of my life with someone who doesn't share the same view as myself...?

Wow.... That would be alot relieving. Personally, I won't be taken aback and would make the hug just an ordinary one...

sean0470: Chiamrase or wats dat ur name u no dey read message abi which one be Adieu...dem tell u say tito vilanova die...mumu na u kill am ba....for all anti-barca fans talking of racism in barcelona, u better get a life..@t least barca own still better pass man utd wey no like black players talkless of coach...God forbid make barca sign Di matteo, we dey call animal wey get horn..Di matteo wey be snail sef dey show head.

Ha ha ha ha ha... Guy abeg no use laugh kill person ooooo

Anims Tito

Visca Barca

Its really crest-fallen that our Coach is leaving us this way, but then life comes first. Like our President rightly stated, life continues....

I just hope they get us a very good coach that would be capable of taking the team to the next level and try as much as possible to work on Tito's achilles' heel as regards managing the team.

Visca Barca...

hardbody: Well I think it is.

Well, that's okay cause you are not everybody.

spongeback: In Malaysia my Ghanaian friend got 13 piercing all over her face and ridiculous tattoo's all I've her body which included hello kitty and a bow when we visited Accra couple of weeks back it was embarrassing people insulted or stared at her where ever we went to and I said to myself I would never get any piercing(apart from the one my mom did while I was still a baby) or a tattoo no matter the message or symbolism it represents.

Your head is there jare...

Kirinwa: Trust me they do.A man is shy about walking down the aisle not until he finds who he's looking for. He will not only walk but run down the aisle and be happy doing it!

I have a girl I care about.Assuming she says yes tomorrow.Omo see my wedding cards o.

Keep it up.... Keep waiting and...

Lol

Kirinwa: The smart ones.Need I tell you that it's not every girl that plays hard to get is smart.
If you meet a smart girl who knows what she wants,exposed to the ways and tricks of men.She will so much frustrate you if you're a player.You would agree they do exist or are you after winning this argument?

Winning? Are we in a competition?

I only want you to be logical as much as possible... And that was why I had to straighten up certain issues you brought up...

Kirinwa: ^^^ Most times what they want is marriage.Are you ready to get married in 3 months time?

And how many of em actually get married in three months?

Kirinwa: Bruv. between guy to guy.How many girlfriends have you had?When a girl plays hard to get.She is more likely to attract men who know what they want and are more focused not boys who just wanna hang out and catch fun with any available girl.

Just so you know, I've had a couple of em in the past but none now. Let me get this straight, the fact that one is yet to arrive financially, does that imply he is boy? Cause that's what your assertion pointed at...

And for the records, most guys who condone hard-to-get attitudes from em girls are not really sitting by the corner waiting for the girl to come to terms with them, they more often than not, have other people they use to keep body and soul together. Do you agree?

Also, if you are a sui-generis guy and you know your worth, then I think you will not just go after any girl just anyhow and would not tolerate shît from just anyone. Its not easy to keep yourself as a guy today, but for a guy who knows his worth and what he is made of, I don't think he would wanna sit by and watch you front while he stays helplessly by the corner. Besides, people are very much different, and the fact that you can be as patient as a dog doesn't actually prove you would be better of than the fellow who is not ready to wait for crap's sake. Capiché?

Anywayz, I'd prefer a girl to be herself rather than act conventionally. How many girls who form hard-to-get actually dignify themselves consequently? Or is it for you to form what you are not and at the end you appear or act cheaper than a love-peddler?

In most cases, the dignity and the integrity of a girl cannot be determined from the outset cause many claim what they ain't... After forming hard-to-get, the guy takes you out on the first date and before the close of the day, he has seen everything there is to see in you. Now tell me, what is the essence of playing hard-to-get then?

Even with the hard-to-get thingy, they are more often made helpless by the so-called men you claim are ready for marriage after the men must have had what they crave for from the outset.

Now, which do you prefer; a girl who plays hard-to-get and is actually nothing or a girl who plays fair but with dignity and integrity?

lyfe: Thank you.

You can't judge a book by its cover, but you can judge a slut by appearance.

Lol.... Badt guy

Godson201333: I hate clubs girls,I hate girls who plays hard to get..You date with Maturity...Na so una go use your future Husband play hard to get,Not all men gat time for bullshit.

Same here bruv... I am not into club girls and the likes.... And for hard to get? I ain't got time for that bullshît. The thing is virtually all girls think a guy who is ready to stay around while they front is the good guy. But newsflash! it ain't! You would definitely judge me wrongly if your criteria for knowing a good guy is how long he is willing to stick around while u front...

That's just me anywayz. I'd prefer being single to taking shît from anyone.

k2039: Not surprised, it came from a woman.

Exactly the thought I had when I saw her quote....