Henhen, You want her to LOVE you without MONEY,Can you LOVE her without SEX? Did i hear you say money is not love? please help me ask if sex is love

Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex.

Sex nor money doesnt define a good relationship.

Na poverty dey cause all these things.

This is fair enough

Nomski0: Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex.

Sex nor money doesnt define a good relationship.

Now I understand why Boys re becoming very open, give dem money n f***ck dem, I think all gurls re same, give them money if dey so wish n f**ck dem den it ends, it all boyles dowwn to dat. B4 now I was seen guys patronizing roadside gurls as ill virtued now I know every gurl is desame.
4rm now on, I mek a solemn declaration I SHALL NVR HLP ANY LADY FINANCIALLY IF SHE. CAN'T OFFER SUMTIN IN RETURN
N pls no gurl should comehere n talk ill about "ashawos" cus all U gurls re "PRostitutes"

No hard feeling , just saying d truth as it is,n I am aware d truth hurts, buh datz not my fault either

Nomski0: Neither money nor sex is love. Just because he asks for sex doesnt mean you ask for money, and just because she asks for money doesnt mean you ask for sex.

True

Nomski0:
Sex nor money doesnt define a good relationship.

They definitely have their roles

Lol. Remember one Nigerian celeb that said her mother told her to be prostituting herself. The same with Joseph Yobo's wife now. Lol! May God give Nigerian women wisdom. I know some women from afar and I pity the men who will settle down with them. A super story really. Tragic!

Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait

scribble: Lol. Remember one Nigerian celeb that said her mother told her to be prostituting herself. The same with Joseph Yobo's wife now. Lol! May God give Nigerian women wisdom. I know some women from afar and I pity the men who will settle down with them. A super story really. Tragic!

Bootylicious: Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait

lol. i dont know why most men do it, but a lot of women too love premarital sex. infact my present girlfriend is the reason im always sinning. she doesnt get money in exchange though. infact she's very supportive to me too, like a real relationship we are both giving of ourselves.

this money for sex thing is a nigerian woman and corrupt politician/businessman created construct. Naija girls like sex too, so dont go with the premarital sex argument. it just makes u look silly. naija women just learnt that men will pay for what they enjoy doing anyway, so its a win-win-win for y'all

No1 is talking abt paid sex here. Lots of men feel sex is dre right in a relationship and somehow so many ladies one wayy or d oda may end up needing d help of dre bf,and once she ask shez termed as being materialistic or term it to paid sex like most of u are.. A matured man anyway shld b able to fix @least little of his woman's problem and not just d man, it's a vice versa tin!!!

scribble:

lol. i dont know why most men do it, but a lot of women too love premarital sex. infact my present girlfriend is the reason im always sinning. she doesnt get money in exchange though. infact she's very supportive to me too, like a real relationship we are both giving of ourselves.

this money for sex thing is a nigerian woman and corrupt politician/businessman created construct. Naija girls like sex too, so dont go with the premarital sex argument. it just makes u look silly. naija women just learnt that men will pay for what they enjoy doing anyway, so its a win-win-win for y'all

The problem here is d total Lack of Self Respect prevalent these days..cos I dont see y any secure, self respecting girl will EXPECT her man t foot her bills if he wants t or not, it is His CHOICE not Obligation. Same goes f d guys..I Cannot spend on a girl expecting sex in return..NO! If am t spend, its becos I Chose To. If I end up wit her, I then know its becos We Both chose to..I cannot Respect a girl that meets me f regularly f her needs..is she handicapped
This thread just exposes d warped mentality of d boys n girls out there..its becoming annoying.

RELATIONSHIPS IS FOR MATURE MINDS..

Raymondenyi: Now I understand why Boys re becoming very open, give dem money n f***ck dem, I think all gurls re same, give them money if dey so wish n f**ck dem den it ends, it all boyles dowwn to dat. B4 now I was seen guys patronizing roadside gurls as ill virtued now I know every gurl is desame.
4rm now on, I mek a solemn declaration I SHALL NVR HLP ANY LADY FINANCIALLY IF SHE. CAN'T OFFER SUMTIN IN RETURN
N pls no gurl should comehere n talk ill about "ashawos" cus all U gurls re "PRostitutes"

No hard feeling , just saying d truth as it is,n I am aware d truth hurts, buh datz not my fault either

you are just knowing this? Ok! Good morning to you. I've always known this, anyway. most Nigerian girls are ashawos. The op is a good example of one. I don't have regards for these ashis...only mugus and magas do.

Okay no money and no sex.

The problem here is that most of these guys coming here to say "Truth" will cannot stay in a relationship without sex. A lot of men can not even stand their women paying for the meal as they will enforce themselves sayin "it is my duty as a man" and they come her to for solidarity.

Nonsense

Bootylicious: Henhen, You want her to LOVE you without MONEY,Can you LOVE her without SEX? Did i hear you say money is not love? please help me ask if sex is love

if u ask for money, and i no give u, make carry ur sex dey go o!

No be say i no fit get elsewhere.

And we all knw that kind girl's toto go don wide finish, cos she go fucck anythin wey drop d cash!

And d toto no kukuma get air conditioner, abi street light.

So, wetin be d fuss all abt sef?

Bootylicious: Why do men also ask 4 sex? Premarital sex is wrong nd so many of u will dump a girl if she refuses having sex, if money and love doesn't go hand in hand den u guys shld stop using sex as a bait

jus d same way premarital spendin is wrong...cus d guy myt as well kip his money for his future wife...and the ladies are like"if u love me u'll wait"like she never bin there b4 smh

Dang!!! this is ridiculous.... I have stated this times without number, sex is enjoyed by both parties. Ohh, are you implying that men are the ones who enjoy sex, while women feel nothing about it? Seriously?

FYI there is no authentic proof yet that men are just the ones who crave for sex. And what makes you think you are doing a man a favour by having sex with him? Gosh! This is pure Naija mentality. No offence @op.

How many of you will even give in to the idea of no-sex-no-money in relationships? Since you now align them side-by-side, I guess you don't give in to sex except when money emanates from a guy's pockets. That would mean that you are more like a....

Anywayz, as far as I am concerned, you are not doing any man a favour by having sex with him, Infact, you enjoy it more. Is the word órgasm more familiar with men or women? And you still think you are doing a man a favour because of what you enjoy more than him? Think again gurly....

Besides, its obvious girls who always weigh money and sex in relationships are the dependent kinda girls with low self-esteem and values... If in giving out sex to a man you feel something should always be given back in return, what makes you different from a love-peddler? Probably you are just doing it a more revised way, yet you are doing the same thing....

God, with all these, who is gonna be that true one for me when it seems virtually all girls are just after money and all and have forgotten about the real values that makes a person unique? I think maybe I should reconsider going to the seminary oooooooo. Cause it seems I am not safe with the kinda women the world is producing.... Lol

God help us all.

SLIDE waxie: if u ask for money, and i no give u, make carry ur sex dey go o!

No be say i no fit get elsewhere.

And we all knw that kind girl's toto go don wide finish, cos she go fucck anythin wey drop d cash!

And d toto no kukuma get air conditioner, abi street light.

So, wetin be d fuss all abt sef?

heyyyyy Mr Raw....lmao....nice 1

Smh!


This thread reminds me of Dailynews.

Eeja Nla01: Smh!


This thread reminds me of Dailynews.

Who knows, it might be him

Maybe it's because I have a lil fever at the moment, I just cannot seem to understand the purpose of this thread. Mynd, abeg, Save a Sister!

alutacontinua: Maybe it's because I have a lil fever at the moment, I just cannot seem to understand the purpose of this thread. Mynd, abeg, Save a Sister!

Just the normal crap. The OP is saying that if a man wants a woman to love him without him spending money, he should be ready to love her without sex.

In order words, if you don't spend on me, no sex........

Mynd_44:
Just the normal crap. The OP is saying that if a man wants a woman to love him without him spending money, he should be ready to love her without sex.

In order words, if you don't spend on me, no sex........

@ the bolded.
@op, if you're not comfortable doing something in a relationship, DON'T. As simple as ABC.

No Money No Sex ba
Dont come to this section and cook up wan story that the man you married to is impotent i wont listen o.
Instead mak you sample am now you saying no money no sex.
Come o do you go into relationships basically to invest through your boyfriend
eh na wa o. Money is not love, sex in not love either.

She can as well go stand at a street corner

Mynd_44: She can as well go stand at a street corner

That's what I thought....

This fever is dealing with me no be small tin....I actually missed the part where the op is a female. I thought he's male. Guess that's why I didn't understand the thread in the first instance.

op, what exactly is your point That your man is supposed to be paying for sex
Oooohhhhhh Laaawwwwdddd...what has this world turned into?
Dear op, just give me 3 solid differences between you and a prostitute.
Thanks in advance.

dmcdad:
That's what I thought....

But then due to globalization, a street corner might be her phone or laptop and they meet in the room

dBard: The problem here is d total Lack of Self Respect prevalent these days..cos I dont see y any secure, self respecting girl will EXPECT her man t foot her bills if he wants t or not, it is His CHOICE not Obligation. Same goes f d guys..I Cannot spend on a girl expecting sex in return..NO! If am t spend, its becos I Chose To. If I end up wit her, I then know its becos We Both chose to..I cannot Respect a girl that meets me f regularly f her needs..is she handicapped
This thread just exposes d warped mentality of d boys n girls out there..its becoming annoying.

RELATIONSHIPS IS FOR MATURE MINDS..

Well said.

Mynd_44:
But then due to globalization, a street corner might be her phone or laptop and they meet in the room

Gbam!!! Your head is there... If you were a girl I would say you are guilty of this, but I know you ain't. Lol.

dmcdad:
Gbam!!! Your head is there... If you were a girl I would say you are guilty of this, but I know you ain't. Lol.

I know their tricks na? Street things

sex+money = prostitution