Mtcheeeeeeeew

headbasher96:
well it seems she needs the company of a man badly u are the one to weigh options here it might be a blessing in disguise or u will be anchoring your doom

@doom that's what I was discussing with my guy about, it's either she wants to escape loneliness or something I really can't place my thoughts on. Anyway have advised him to investigate her very well before marriage, cos I don't trust women of all ages .
However.. I'm not the one in the soup as I'm not ready for commitment for now.

emoboy4u:
The girl talk sense, e shock two grown guys so tey dem no fit advise themselves.

If she talk otherwise, dem go sae she get olosho vibes.

Wetin Human be want gaaaan?

Guy for a girl of that age to have such blodness responding to marital question with confidence, Bro I was surprised

headbasher96:
Tell him to do research i hope the girls mum is not a single mum because na rope i the see like this girl of 22 never get this kind understanding make e be say she no get coach by the side

Her parents are late, mum died just of recent.

marlow1962:

Lol, I sure say na op be the friend and tenant precisely.

Lol the guy na my Paddy, also my tenant

ifihearam:
How old are you?
Cos a 22 year old girl is more mature and intelligent than both you and your friend.

No be me abeg

shortgun:
I know you are your imaginary friend.
For you not to know what you want and stand by it shows you should stay away from marriage for now until you come of age mentally. Marriage will make life miserable for the immature.

Nope it's not me
I'm not even up to 33.
my guy was expecting her to talk about lives adventures, but was shocked by her response

One of my friend (my tenants precisely) had a conversation with a girl he just met recently, along the line he jokes about dating her.,if she'll be comfortable dating a guy of 38 while she's 22. According to him the girl
took his words very serious to the point of bringing Regina Daniel and ned nwoko to it.

She said marriage is an understanding between two persons that age has nothing to do with it. She even said she's ready for marriage so far the guy is ready. My friend was really Confused as he didn't expect such reply from her. And he couldn't know how to respond to her.

There's this little girl I'm with (I don't know if we're dating cos I carefully avoided relationship like plaque) she's 15 about to complete her ssce next year, initially I didn't want to have anything sexual with her cos I see her as a little girl, but when ever she comes to my place the kind of discussion we'll be having I always doubt her age, there was a day she visited and we were alone, she told me she's on her period meanwhile such taught never crossed my mind cos sex was the last thing to reason with her.

I told her I don't understand why she's bringing that up as I still see her as a small girl. Long story short after three months I ended up disvirgining her, now she's all over me. I'm 30 and I have like 5 years to complete my building projects and other stuff before thinking of relationship with her. Given that she has a reserve personality. (One of the reason she's close to me) have promise to marry her when she's 20yrs.

I'm a very respectable individual in our church and everyone knows me, you know nothing is hidden, two of her friend is away we're seeing, because of my reputation I can't do away with her. Except she changes her mind then I can remove her from my plan completely.
Now the question is can I keep/maintain her for over 5yrs before commitment cos I'm less or zero emotional when dealing with women /girls.

Choir from the pit of hell... By their dressing you'd know they're praise singers (singing for material gain or acknowledgement),,, and not choristers...
Choristers with trousers and open hair.. tweeeh...

Brethren lt's not easy to be the first son, no wonder Esau (in the Bible) chooses to be a coward. Yesterday was my birthday I celebrated with my family members expenses covered by me, my junior one's had their BDs they all come to me for funds even my elder sister.
Mine everyone was like, bro today's your birthday o, buy/put drink na make we jolly but na me De put drink for their own o ...
Chaii.. first born no easy ooo... Thanks to God I'm capable.

Desireeee:
Hello young lady. Your story no complete. When this guy paid close to 300k to get you a job, you did not ask us maybe he loves you. You did not add that you are the first born and your parents wants one of your sisters to move in with you after the wedding so he can start taking care of them. You did not speak about how much he has spent for venue and the exorbitant amount your family asked him to bring for food during reception.
A proper yoruba family will make sure an introduction takes place before the wedding no matter what. Can you tell us why your family want to rush everything and make sure all is done on the same day? If your aunt who only followed you to the market to buy stuffs expects thank you, what should the person who sent you the money to buy the stuffs do then? Or you don't know many people contributed to get you that money.
Someone has spent close to 3.5m for a wedding, your aunt destroyed everything just because of "thank you". How much did she contribute? Please note that this guy has not received salary as he just got a job too and just got captured to IPPIS.
Don't come here to play emotional blackmail. You threatened him with the wedding, he found out you and your family has been using him as ATM and he left.
If you and your parents have put in efforts and funds in the wedding, will you threaten to put it on hold? It was because he bankrolled everything.
Lots of receipts dey here in case you want to press further.

I already knew that this girl is hiding something.. I'll be waiting for more info..

Cypress042:
Poison don't kill africans

Fire on man

You for kuku kee me, I no wan commit soft suicide. Mbok

Natbrowny:
Its risky. The drink thats flat lacks taste and doesn't have d right level of carbonation.

So its nt fresh.

I was thinking same thanks for clearing my mind

After opening a bottle of beer yesterday, I had mood swing, decided to pour it into a plastic container resealed it and refrigerate. This morning I discovered ice formation in it (we had light overnight), when I pour into a glass there was no foaming whatsoever... Have to pause and think twice before I drink poison o.
My people is there any health risk?

It's only a low lifers/low self-esteems fall in love with a single mother, not a real Man with their thinking faculty intact... Why did her baby daddy refused to marry her ,.
Never listen to her sermon, it's a great manipulation, to cajole you into spending on her and her baby.
If peradventure the baby daddy showed up she'll Bleep him, ...
Guys stop falling in love with street property.

I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

EASYGURU:
It's either I keep them silent or I just ask back what do you think?

Lolzzzzzzzz

My ex asked me TWICE
What was your response?

Why do women/girls like asking this question, I've been asked this same question by three different girls, sometimes I'll be speechless... "What are we".... what do they want to hear when asking this.

Op is speaking for himself not me, I'm 30+ I don't see myself worrying over what he's listed above... (Maybe because I'm moving well). God didn't create anyone to be miserable, it's our actions, reactions and failures on our part to utilize the God given opportunity that makes one experience hardship/suffering in his 30's. I realized earlier that time waits for no one, use your time well when you're young,,,And before you quote me, remember there's no excuse for failures.....

As a married man you need to be strict with your wife and children to avoid see finish, according to your story, the wife welcome's her own relatives in his house, but wouldn't want to see his relatives in the same house.
Your brother is a low life simp, he'll learn the hard way, but before then it'll be too late.

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OKOATA:
Tales of a simp, imagine an ordinary woman controlling the affairs of a grown up man. You should have been born with a puszy you this sissy man. I am sure if your wife tells you to forget your mom for life you would do it, funny enough I am sure that your so called evil wife is one useless and full time lazy ass woman always depending on her husband. A lady that wasn't there with you when you were born till you became a foolish man that you are, a total stranger from no where is now telling you your mom's a witch, any lady who tells that of my mom will regret this for life after I don slap her ear comot. Mr mumu man, go fuvk yourself because the "MAN" doesn't suite fools like you.

this was very funny but the truth.

and I was even planning of polygamous family, OP thank you very much for your story..
nothing will make me delve into satanic set up IJN,
but how about Ned nwoko, chai this life no balance o.
so I have to choose between ifoama and fumilayo.
which kind thing be this

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Pochettino:


No it is not. For serious minded people, it is an effective way of knowing whether it is worth the effort.

Relationships are an investment. You don't expect me to invest my time, emotions and effort in you if you have nothing reasonable doing with your life.

I like you already,, you reason like a matured girl... do you care for an ice Berg