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There's this little girl I'm with (I don't know if we're dating cos I carefully avoided relationship like plaque) she's 15 about to complete her ssce next year, initially I didn't want to have anything sexual with her cos I see her as a little girl, but when ever she comes to my place the kind of discussion we'll be having I always doubt her age, there was a day she visited and we were alone, she told me she's on her period meanwhile such taught never crossed my mind cos sex was the last thing to reason with her.

I told her I don't understand why she's bringing that up as I still see her as a small girl. Long story short after three months I ended up disvirgining her, now she's all over me. I'm 30 and I have like 5 years to complete my building projects and other stuff before thinking of relationship with her. Given that she has a reserve personality. (One of the reason she's close to me) have promise to marry her when she's 20yrs.

I'm a very respectable individual in our church and everyone knows me, you know nothing is hidden, two of her friend is away we're seeing, because of my reputation I can't do away with her. Except she changes her mind then I can remove her from my plan completely.
Now the question is can I keep/maintain her for over 5yrs before commitment cos I'm less or zero emotional when dealing with women /girls.

Choir from the pit of hell... By their dressing you'd know they're praise singers (singing for material gain or acknowledgement),,, and not choristers...
Choristers with trousers and open hair.. tweeeh...

Brethren lt's not easy to be the first son, no wonder Esau (in the Bible) chooses to be a coward. Yesterday was my birthday I celebrated with my family members expenses covered by me, my junior one's had their BDs they all come to me for funds even my elder sister.
Mine everyone was like, bro today's your birthday o, buy/put drink na make we jolly but na me De put drink for their own o ...
Chaii.. first born no easy ooo... Thanks to God I'm capable.

Desireeee:
Hello young lady. Your story no complete. When this guy paid close to 300k to get you a job, you did not ask us maybe he loves you. You did not add that you are the first born and your parents wants one of your sisters to move in with you after the wedding so he can start taking care of them. You did not speak about how much he has spent for venue and the exorbitant amount your family asked him to bring for food during reception.
A proper yoruba family will make sure an introduction takes place before the wedding no matter what. Can you tell us why your family want to rush everything and make sure all is done on the same day? If your aunt who only followed you to the market to buy stuffs expects thank you, what should the person who sent you the money to buy the stuffs do then? Or you don't know many people contributed to get you that money.
Someone has spent close to 3.5m for a wedding, your aunt destroyed everything just because of "thank you". How much did she contribute? Please note that this guy has not received salary as he just got a job too and just got captured to IPPIS.
Don't come here to play emotional blackmail. You threatened him with the wedding, he found out you and your family has been using him as ATM and he left.
If you and your parents have put in efforts and funds in the wedding, will you threaten to put it on hold? It was because he bankrolled everything.
Lots of receipts dey here in case you want to press further.

I already knew that this girl is hiding something.. I'll be waiting for more info..

Cypress042:
Poison don't kill africans

Fire on man

You for kuku kee me, I no wan commit soft suicide. Mbok

Natbrowny:
Its risky. The drink thats flat lacks taste and doesn't have d right level of carbonation.

So its nt fresh.

I was thinking same thanks for clearing my mind

After opening a bottle of beer yesterday, I had mood swing, decided to pour it into a plastic container resealed it and refrigerate. This morning I discovered ice formation in it (we had light overnight), when I pour into a glass there was no foaming whatsoever... Have to pause and think twice before I drink poison o.
My people is there any health risk?

It's only a low lifers/low self-esteems fall in love with a single mother, not a real Man with their thinking faculty intact... Why did her baby daddy refused to marry her ,.
Never listen to her sermon, it's a great manipulation, to cajole you into spending on her and her baby.
If peradventure the baby daddy showed up she'll Bleep him, ...
Guys stop falling in love with street property.

I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

EASYGURU:
It's either I keep them silent or I just ask back what do you think?

Lolzzzzzzzz

My ex asked me TWICE
What was your response?

Why do women/girls like asking this question, I've been asked this same question by three different girls, sometimes I'll be speechless... "What are we".... what do they want to hear when asking this.

Op is speaking for himself not me, I'm 30+ I don't see myself worrying over what he's listed above... (Maybe because I'm moving well). God didn't create anyone to be miserable, it's our actions, reactions and failures on our part to utilize the God given opportunity that makes one experience hardship/suffering in his 30's. I realized earlier that time waits for no one, use your time well when you're young,,,And before you quote me, remember there's no excuse for failures.....

As a married man you need to be strict with your wife and children to avoid see finish, according to your story, the wife welcome's her own relatives in his house, but wouldn't want to see his relatives in the same house.
Your brother is a low life simp, he'll learn the hard way, but before then it'll be too late.

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OKOATA:
Tales of a simp, imagine an ordinary woman controlling the affairs of a grown up man. You should have been born with a puszy you this sissy man. I am sure if your wife tells you to forget your mom for life you would do it, funny enough I am sure that your so called evil wife is one useless and full time lazy ass woman always depending on her husband. A lady that wasn't there with you when you were born till you became a foolish man that you are, a total stranger from no where is now telling you your mom's a witch, any lady who tells that of my mom will regret this for life after I don slap her ear comot. Mr mumu man, go fuvk yourself because the "MAN" doesn't suite fools like you.

this was very funny but the truth.

and I was even planning of polygamous family, OP thank you very much for your story..
nothing will make me delve into satanic set up IJN,
but how about Ned nwoko, chai this life no balance o.
so I have to choose between ifoama and fumilayo.
which kind thing be this

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Pochettino:
No it is not. For serious minded people, it is an effective way of knowing whether it is worth the effort.

Relationships are an investment. You don't expect me to invest my time, emotions and effort in you if you have nothing reasonable doing with your life.

I like you already,, you reason like a matured girl... do you care for an ice Berg

where are you at ( I mean ur location)? @meemeetruth

no amount of money is enough, just have steady income and you're good to go..

Bros u be thief o, Goan apologize to ur dad immediately..... what are you waiting for

upon all the problems that Man has, urs is k leg something you have no control over. hmmmm o boy don't make me angry with you o.....

Liliantalks:
I feel one thing that helped me was friends, I don’t know but people just liked me , people just like me being the quite one among them . I had a clique in secondary school , I was just the laugher n I hardly spoke. I was this neat quite girl, everybody liked. I didn’t even hv to try . That’s how my life is till date . I am not a snub. Maybe that’s why. Many introverts are snubs. I am a listener n I don’t judge or gossip , I hv nothing to say

My main issue is getting into a relationship n making my spouse understand how I value my me time. Making him understand I prefer saying home watching movies n eating. Guys like these friends gathering with their gf , I hate it with passion, a guy ones took me to such gatherings n i told him I was going to use the toilet n went home !! He saw me on the bed naked n snoring !! No time

I am not a book worm , but I am a literary graduate, I love interesting book, I don’t just read anything. I hate wasting my time on boring books . Well I am Gemini

I like you already.

Liliantalks:
Personally I am an out spoken person , but not just in public , I love my house more than anything that on earth , my bed is just the love of my life , I love music and enjoy my phone , why ? Because I am only free on the internet compared to real life . I hate talking to strangers but I just hv to when they talk to me,, I don’t hv a problem making friends, why ? Cause people like making friends with me ,, I go out ones in a while after my friends abuse the hell out of me . I wish to be an extrovert sometimes , those peeps r enjoying life , why? Cause when I go out I do enjoy myself also ,,, but there is this comfort I feel when I am home , alone!! I don’t even want my mum around. I come around people when I want to cm around people ,, don’t cm to me when I am in my room alone , I hate it .

This is so me, and I also hate it when people barge in to my room without knocking on the door, I always feel like slapping some sense into their skull..

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