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Keshi is so unprofessional, just like the other vagabonds in power.

@Samuel onainor
Thanks a lot for the detailed reply. As far as managing it myself goes, I'm not in Nigeria and I have someone I can trust to run it, he has a passion for it as well. I understand the risk aspect of the business, it's the same with every other businesses out there; the higher the risk, the higher the returns.

I may end up with a combination of both.broilers and layers. Thanks once again

Please can someone kindly answer some questions I have in mind
1. I heard their is currently too much eggs in circulation making it less profitable for the farmers, how true is that?

2. Which is more profitable, broilers it layers business?

3. How's the market like for starters, is it hard to break into it or is it already a saturated venture?

4. I'm an IT guy with no farm experience whatsoever and I'm only going into this primarily for the profit and not necessarily because I have a passion for it
I hope to get all the right people/ an expert or someone who knows more about it to run it. You know what they say about going into a business just for the love, is this something I should undertake still?

I'll appreciate all opinions and advice

Freaky toads

Gboliwe: This isnt a one off thing, its a habit already.
na God that saved me that day o.

this thing sounds so familiar abi? Eiya sorry. I didnt know you'd be on this thread, I wouldnt have mentioned it. Sorry for being a part of the 'most' I mentioned.

Lol you seem to be talking from experience. Fyi, guys have little to worry about in that department but you lot? A whole load worries

Gboliwe: and most of you use one boxer continuosly till it grows hair at the crotch. Ewwwwww

Speak for your boyfriend or yourself. Not everyone wears boxers till it turns as dark as the region around your panties

Do that here and your life will never be the same again by the time you're tagged a sex offender, a felony.

Start by smoking weed, then go out to the bus stop and beat up a soldier. If you survive it, you can then boast to the girls showing them scars and how high you could get and tough you are to survive such. If you don't make it, too bad but your family will tell the story of the bad boy that you were.

Looks staged

fnk: @jites thank you for your encouraging words. This is something I have always wanted to do. My company represent American companies that want to expand their product distribution into Africa, I have brought in 4companies but amist all this, I feel having a business that is locally produced and locally consumed will be much better than so much worries about importation. So for me poultry business opportunity falls into that bracket. So I am glad to be starting something.

To answer your question, want to focuse on broilers to start, and I want to build a pen that cab hold 8,000 birds at different stages, the pen will have demarcations inside (removable). I want to create a moving system where in each demarcation, we will have about 1,000 birds at different stage, I.e day old, a week old, 2 weeks old and so on. The deal is to create a system where we would have 1,000 birds ready for sale to our customers weekly. And as we grow, we can reduce it to daily.

I am starting with 2 plots, but I have about 9 plots all fenced in, so their is space to expand into when needed. About the Sq/bird, I will double check, but to tell you the truth, I am following this tread religiously and learning from everyone, and I think above on this page, there is info on sq/bird that I am cross checking with other info I have. I just hired a supervisor, that will start work tomorrow, even though the poultry is not even build yet, his initial job will be to start from page one of this tread read every thing and take notes, thinking about it, I hope he doesn't run off to go start his owner after going through the tread. LOL!!!

I want to do this thing right, this is an opportunity. Yes I will post pix to show how my V-mix is working. It will be fun.

I'll be following you keenly. I have my eyes on going on a large scale poultry farming but i have zero knowlege of the operations but willing to learn. Please keep us posted as you move along..Thanks

Princessmel: Ok thanks very much for your advice, I won't give in, hopefully he still says

Best of luck, i hope it works out between you two

Sanboy25: @DnigerianPrince: If I have a problem some day, I'll come for your advices. Very (long & insightful paragraph

Anyday, i learn from here as well and will definitely share my humble advice/ opinion. Thanks

Princessmel: You really think so? But someone said it doesn't matter when so If I wait for a few months, how do I know he won't still run?

Exactly! Look at it from the point you just made, If you give in today or at a later time, only 2 options, he either leaves or stay.

Depending on how you view sex, to me it's more than just sleeping with someone. I'm looking at it from the worse case scenario and i advise my sister to do same.

If you don't give in and it turns out that he leaves. Fine, you can gladly move on because that's definitely not the person you want in your life. Then again, it depends on how you see sex, if it's just a pleasure of the moment thing to you and you don't care about anything else, give in now.

Best case scenario, If you don't give in and he stays with you still, then he most likely sees beyond being with you just for sex only. I don't ask for sex from a girl if i want her for something more than casual dating, that's just me. Most of my guy friends are like that too.

If you give in and he stays, you're in luck but that doesn't happen very often that a guy asks for sex after the first week and still sees himself with you for a long term relationship. If i meet a girl and i see potential in her, sex is always the last thing on my mind for at least aa while during the dating process, the fun and excitement of knowing her outweighs the sexual feeling.

The last is the worst and this is what you should pay attention to. If you give in now and he leaves, how will you feel? How does giving up your body to every guy you meet after a week sounds like? Just because you believed in your mind he is the one. What makes you different from the prostitutes when you do that? If you're cool with giving up sex willingly, then this last one should mean nothing to you.

annawhite: then ask him to marry you so wnt feel guilty** straight face**

Marriage proposal just after a week to someone she barely knows

Princessmel: Yes, I have read your opinion and everyone else's too. Thanks people. The only problem i have is that he is subtley pressurising me and i don't want to lose him over such

If he's already pressuring you for sex only after a week, then that's a red flag. Trust me, 99.9% of the time, he's only gonna hit it and run after a while, if not immediately. If that's what you want as well, then go for it otherwise...

spikes C: guy, what is your problem. Why are you being an enemy of progress to someone

Huh

@princessmel,
I have given you my honest opinion and others have as well. At the end of the day, the decision you make is yours as well as the consequences of it.

Princessmel: I honestly think he's the one, I see myself marrying him. And I'm not that young, I'm 24. Thanks for your advice tho

Personally, As a guy, I will say No, don't do with him it yet. We value it more if we have to work for it, not saying it's good but it's just what it is. If you don't give in easily, he'll have more respect for you after all, he can always pay to get sex outside. My advise remains the same, go otu with him more and build someting at least. If he likes you enough anf wants you, he waill wait.....at least you are not asking him to wait till he marries you.

I'll say a week is too soon, give it some time. Depending on what you want from the relationship with him, long term or short term. I don't know how old you are but from your post, you're probably very young(i might be wrong) BUT, at certain age, a lot of guy you meet will look like the ONE until you move closer and realize he isn't that one you've been seeking. However, if you keep letting them have their way one week after meeting, think of howe many guys you'd have slept with in your search for the ONE. That said, you no fit hold body till marriage? If you can't, go out on dates for a while first, or at least spend time with him without sex, Don't just give in to every Tom, Dic.k (literally) and Harry. Remember to use a condom when you finally let him in.

Ornaments':
Like seriously, is it a crime to be truthful, am sure if she isn't serious abt u, den she won't tell u anything, believe me, and u come out with diff list everyday on nl on being truthful blah blah blah...
And moreover u kw the reason y she did it(a problem has already being identified, d next step is soln), am sure if dat guy was close to her, she wouldnt av done it, so u def kw dat distance relationship can't work for her.
The way we control our emotion differs.
(Dats y counsellor's advice dat couple shud stay together for @least 10years before living apart)
Its up to u to help her fight it if u kw u need her, its not dat u'l start sneaking on her or something.
Yh, wat she did was wrong, buh that doesn't mean she'd do it to u, as long as u dnt give her reason to do it, am sure she's not dat dumb.
Someone gave her the reason to and she did it.
In fact nau dat she has told u, she wud want to do everything to prove to u she's not promiscuous..
if u need her, @op go ahead, or go for someone that wud unleash herself wen u get married.
Nobody is perfect @l and dat doesn't make her an object of ridicule
Thank God u ddnt find out from an outsider that she told u herself, she indeed luvs u.

Thanks for the advise and everyone else, i appreciate all the comments

Decryptor: Both! My opinion though!

Thank goodness everyone has an opinion, just like an asss that you just portrayed yourself to be

20pounds: She was away from her boyfriend for 3months and she cheated on him! What if the boyfriend travels for one year? She'd open a brothel, abi?
@op..You can date her but dnt think of marrying such a girl ,unless u wnt be travelling after marriage to her. What if as her husband u fall ill and it renders u incapable of 'performing' for a while?
B4 u fall in love with her, ask urself some questions. I am sure u dnt want to spend ur life thinking what ur wife is doing behind u.

No, they were in a long distance relationship and he never cared as much or bothered to see her, that's what she told me and another friend of hers corroborated the story. The guy is now begging to come bac which is strange.

Decryptor: @OP, just close ur eyes to fidelity ​in any future relationship. Any girl you date will definitly cheat on you (whether this one or another). Go on till u find a woman who is compatible for u to marry unlike me who won't cos i wanna live long! As for cheating, girls MUST CHEAT. It seems to be in vogue now amongst them

Are you saying every girl will cheat or every girl I get with will cheat? Which is it?

WackyJ1: Guy every girl is capable of cheating, it is in them whether they have done it or not, that we know (xThis is your girl when she is still with her ex and had not cheated), okay now we know that sometimes there can be tempatations that one cannot resist at times and this leads to cheating, when a girl has done is once and she is truly sorry she can decide not to do it again (This is your girl after she has cheated once on her ex), here we don't know whether the girl will cheat again though it likely that she will but there is still a chance, you just have to watch and then see what happens (ooops what happens, your girl cheats again). do you see the point i am trying to make?
Hey you could look at what caracta has said and decide to have faith or you can look t history and also consider the fact that sometimes appearing to come clean can also be a deception. Guy i will tell you something, it is not safe to hang on to only one babe even when the babe is good, talkless of one that has cheated twice before, guy forget confession matter, catholics confess all the time but sometimes they still repeat the smae sin (this is not a jibe at catholics just for analogical purposes).

summary of Advice: Watch your step with that girl, you have no proof that she has changed, all you have is proof that she can cheat and has done it before (twice on one guy). What a girl says is different than what she does until and unless proven otherwise

If i get you right you're advising i keep an open relationship with her? I'm at a point in my lie where i wanna settle down and she's at that point too but i wanna be sure i'm making the right decision.

I'm thinking of keeping her as a girlfriend for now and study her but i get what you mean about putting my eggs in one basket.

Thanks

I don't' want or need any justifications or assumptions from anyone about what my relationship with her is gonna be like.

All i wanna know is if you've ever cheated, are you prone to cheat again? I need people who have done it before to talk (it's anonymous anyway)

Why are you you guys making this about spelling? I didn't even put this on the fp and my heading is all i have control over. Besides what does it matter if it's 'cheat' or 'cheater'?
I only need opinions on the subject matter and most have been on the spelling

baba dey: Not every persons dat once a cheat will always be. This is what me think, there is ₪ö reason to justify her reason to cheat while in her relationship. I swear,₪ö reason. If you don't like distance rela,speak out and if tins can't work,end it. For you to come online for this menh,you don't need her,jast let her be. If I was in her shoes and really I've repented,I would not tell you and promise masef not to ever never do it again cos when a guy/gal tells a typical nigerian his/her past menh,its leads to what the OP is doing know. How would she feels if she stumbles on this ur "can-I-trust-her" write-up dude?. If u feel the spirit of doubt will yield the rela esp you jast leave (by what u wrote) the sincere and repented babe.

I find it hard to understand you fully but i'm guessing you meant that i should give her the benefit?

emmysenior: At op! Are you a student in a higher institution? This sounds like campus stuff.

No, this is a real life situation of what i'm experiencing

kandiikane: @lexoshattapu! You never see program call cheetah?


Op, please do not waste the girl's time if you're not going to trust her. The worst you can do is enter a relationship without trust. It's a waste of time and emotions so biko, don't bother.

I do trust her but that revelation raised some questions, i don't wanna be cheated on because i don't cheat on my girl

tpacalipse: They never actually tell the correct number of times they have cheated.

I want to believe in this instance that she did.

Caracta: She made a mistake she wasn't proud of (i guess). How would you have known if she didn't tell you? There are some things we do and question our actions later. I'm not trying to hold brief for her action(s)...but i think you should give her a chance. To make you feel better, don't get deeply involved and commited until you trust her again.

I agree we make mistakes as human, thanks for the advice and it's duly noted

Caracta: It wasn't an accusation. I was just trying to tell you that nobody is perfect. Twasn't even a direct shot at you.

As for me, the fact that a man has never cheated doesn't mean he cannot cheat He might just choose not to. I trust a man, not because of what he CAN do but because of what he chose not to do. And also for the sake of peace and longevity.

Do you trust a girl that has never confessed cheating before? Pls answer.

I didn't think it was a shot at me

I can't say i do or don't but because she has no history of such or none that i'm aware of, it makes it easier to trust her and let her have such benefit.
However you're right in the sense that, everyone is capable of cheating but we only choose not to. Question now is, why didn't she choose the other option of not cheating? Please note, i can't ask her this as it makes her feel worse about herself and it's like beating a dead horse BUT i'm curious

Caracta: Old things have passed away. Give her the benefit of the doubt. Watch her closely. Some girls have done a lot worse than that and they are still living good lives. It's a good thing she told you about her past.

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone...

I've never cheated on a girl

Can you trust such a guy if it was reversed?

17 views, no answer?

please move this to the front page, i need contributions..Thank you
https://www.nairaland.com/1274793/how-true-once-cheater-always#15490044

I recently met this girl and she was honest enough to tell me that she cheated twice on her ex twice

First time with a guy, second time with another. They eventually broke up and she attributed it to her ex finding out and breaking up with her and how she was also done, according to her, she wasn't getting enough attention, care and love and had been long over the relationship before it waas over. As a matter of fact, the guy has been begging her to come back which is kinda weird considering she cheated so, might be true about the neglect.

To be fair to her, it was a long distance relationship (same country) and the guy never for once attempted to see her for over 3 months.
She was very honest with me about everything and i'm not sure many girls will do that.

With that said, this girl likes me a lot and seems to be in love with me, i'm falling for her as well and she's said the ball is in my court. My fear is that i've been a victim of a serious infidelity in a relationship, my ex cheated on me which was shattering and left me scarred

It's been a long time since that and i've pretty much been single since my ex and i'm long over it but is this the right way to get back in the game? For those hwo have cheated in previous reltionships, do you see/find yourself doing it again?

Serious reponses only