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Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 9:47am On Jun 18, 2022 |
realtalk19: Nice point here.. The fact here is that I can take anything as far say na past.. Because me kwa my past is bloody.. Whats else could possibly be in the past that is necessary when she is hiv free and she has given birth for me.. This na the two important thing for me na.. So anything past no concern me.. Na abortion ni? I Don do that one before and I told her, na ashawo ni.. I Don do that one too and I told her.. Shey na going to babalowo.. I Don tell am that one too self.. All this na past and she was told.. So I deserve to know her past too especially when it's confronted like this.. Na girls just get this kind character in them.. They go just dey keep secrets anyhow anyhow.. Even necessary one.. They said in marriage no secrets.. But like they said that if you toast a girl without lieng you no go get the girl.. The same way that without secrets in marriage, it won't last.. But does that breaks the fact that lie is lie.. Or secrets is bad in marriagr |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 11:37am On Jun 17, 2022 |
Richy4: Hmmmm... Person wey no fit tell you say she had something with your close friend in the past when you both don't know when confronted gives you reason to think their are more things she is hiding from you... Note: me and my wife are very cool, even since yesterday.. But the fact remains.. What would be in my mind.. What impression has that done in my head... That's is whats is important.. Make no one come here dey talk forget oo.. Its easier to forget when you get a clear picture of the damage than still being in the hang... |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 9:07pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
McDuncan: Leave am.. Make she no go tell her husband things of the past when both of them are being confronted about it and the husband found out himself.. Na that she go know say action speak better than words.. Nonsense people giving excuse for their past.. We all know that it should not affect the marriage.. But oboy.. When you see say una Don jam the thing for road or future.. Oga tell your huzy first.. He go understand say na past 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 9:03pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
JovialJune: I asked her and she said she does not remeber after all questions. I lock up na.. Kept quiet.. For the peace na.. But what is the impression na(u wey be girl go think say it Don pass na).. Na people like una go carry belle outside come marry... You no go tell your husband.. Then when your husband come dey suspect come ask you. Na past things ooo.. U go they talk say its not necessary |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 8:57pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
JovialJune: Bros.. You got a point. But the way you take talk am ehh.. Point taken: talk to her to see reasons why she shouldnt keep anything from you |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 8:54pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
JovialJune: Wo.. Am not of the view to compare between man and woman who emotionally weak goor... And then I am not emotional weak oo or crying my friend.. We are very much cool self... Even sincerely we had some rounds self. After I asked her. Its past.. No come here dey talk say I dey emotional weak.. This is how you all will be thinking that not telling him is the best because he go react or vex or just like you said divorce if he find out not knowing you are actually making it worst. You don come here dey talk say I dey emotional weak and crying.. I brought up a topic.. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 8:21pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
JovialJune: Truth be told.. I could vouch that if it was a man ex that was brought up.. The man will just jejely tell the girl that something sup oo.. But its past and its past.. Then the clear will be cleared.. But when women sees it that its not necessary.. That it does not matter.. Wo. It does not matter oo.. Let's put this in another way.. If you got married to a girl, and then after several years of marriage, the girl found out that in the long past she and the guy cousin bro.. Had something in the past.. So make she no tell the husband ba because it not necessary just like you na dey talk? Because say na past? Man normally are born with EGO... Wo.. If a man founds out his wife that she loved get HIV.. he loved her.. My brother.. Even if Doctor say she get hiv for public the man go deny am.. But if he does not know.. And the doctor said he public.. Believe me.. The man ain't gonna defend it with boldness #respect |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 8:12pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Richy4: So your point now is if me and her after two years of this ex.. Got married and she finds out that that her ex is a very close friend of mine.. She should just be mute baa.. And keep silent.. then I find out there is a link between two of them both.. And I confronted her to know.. She replies.. I don't remeber.. That would be okay.. The point is irrespective of it being a past bro.. And it not having bearings in the present or marriage.. THE MAN HAS TO KNOW.. because the guy is a close friend to him and the past was brought to present.. But if they are not close.. Then it's a difference case.. |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 6:20pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
I have heard you all.. But the truth is that no matter the answer she gives me.. It will bring no bearing to the present.. But let's tell ourself the realistic truth.. I need to know.. Because it was past but we were confronted with it in our future(by the girl finding out she is my friend) . So she had to be straight.. In my perception.. Mens have EGO.. and sometimes to protect our Ego.. We need to know some certain things.. Now let me put it like this now.. If my friend mistakenly made statement like them both in the future. Definatly I will defined my wife in front of me.. But tell me the impression.. The impression will definatly be different from me getting to know it from my wife than from the guy. To the guy saying if I had have sex in the past that I am definatly no different. That its past .. Wo. I dey even Bleep ashawo self before I hands down getting married and since then I stopped.. But I told all this about everything without leaving stone untouched.. Even when I was toasting her.. I got to found out that her friend I once toasted her thou I did not bleeped her.. I told my wife everything about it...wo.. Imagine.. I even told her and showed her one girl I had something with in the past on our wedding when I surprising saw her in the wedding We are all progressing.. But my opinion is that when you are married, you won't talk about all your past because definatly I did not tell her anything .. Because of you want a safety marriage.. But when you are confronted about it.. We have to be open.. Because leaving him hanging ain't the best Abeg no insults in reply 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 3:54pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Well, coming to those criticising the way she was reffered.. Definatly if I should say my wife now some will come and be saying he said my wife.. |
Family / Secrets In Marriage by Dominickhune: 6:29am On Jun 16, 2022 |
There is this girl I have been married with for one year plus now.. One day we decided to go for a vacation to abuja.. In the vacation she met some of my friends..we sat down together friends things.. Some of my friends are still single.. On our way back.. She told me that one of my single friend face is familiar.. I asked her more about it and she said that she does not remeber what transpired between them both but she was certain that the guy once toasted her in school..(we all schooled in the same school)... I then told her that she should be open that it's a thing of the past but she kept insisting that she does not remember.. She told me.. Its a thing of the past that we are married now and that we should focus about the marriage.. And I was telling her.. Yes.. That is true.. But I need to know about her past when confronted and everything.. That she needs to tell me the truth.. But she kept insisting that she does not remeber.. We had this to an argument that she told me to go and ask my guy.. Now what would you. Advice us? Because I am of the opinion that the past matters when confronted with it.. But she was like it does not matter.. Please.. No one is perfect.. We are all progressing..need suggestion and advice 1 Like |
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