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Hello nairalanders, A friend was told she have
P.I.D and multiple fibroid blockage of the womb...after checkup at the hospital

Can someone please explain and way forward

Thanks guys

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My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years.

A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won’t be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me.

I forgot to say that I work in Guarantee Trust Bank along Lekki, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its because I’m the senior banking officer. Lol. This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and…I was tripped.

“Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card!” She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you.

I just tried to form Boss laughter…

“Good morning, You know what? I’d personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday?” I smiled

“GTB shaaa! OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I don’t come twice? Please? My name is Nancy” She blinked her eyes in a funny way.

“Sure” I smiled

We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday!

So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club…as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m never home Friday nights.

“Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Nancy.

“Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didn’t have to wait till Monday to see her again.

“Happy Friday!” She screamed because of the noise, “Wanna dance?”

I didn’t even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible, I certainly didn’t want this to end now.

“You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting…any guy would want to be with you all day” I said.

“I wasn’t always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad” she sang

Then her phone rang…

“Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…alright boo” she talked excitedly as usual.

I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her.

“You were late. Meet Dayo; I met him this morning, he’s helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and Dayo this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed “Meet my husband Kolade, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids.”

“Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake him

Then she stood now excitedly holding her husband’s arms.

“Why don’t we invite Dayo for Mimi’s 16th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband said

They have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating!

“Silly me, please come for my second daughter’s 16th tomorrow. It would be an honor” She brought out an I.V from her purse.

I began to feel so ashamed of myself…this was another guy like me, getting it right with one woman.

I collected the I.V and promised to be there.

“See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Kolade?” she talked and dragged her husband along.

They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Temi loves to dance…she also likes long walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz music, there’s this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary…I found myself typing all the things I knew Temi loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all…I had made her the old woman she acts.
What on earth was I doing here! I didn’t even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Temi’s call came through and I picked at first ring.
“Temi?” My heart raced
“I know you are not coming home…”
“I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her.
“Are you alright?” She was shocked I suppose
“And I’d like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple”
“You sound different Dayo”
“Maybe I’m different”
“Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you come we will gist very well” she laughed
She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago…
Dear reader,
I wrote this natural piece just to remind us that creating memorable moments with our partner matters. Do you know that little things are the sweetest things? Just creating time to gist and laugh with your partner, having a day in the week that’s exclusively for you both-No friends or kids allowed.
Lady, when last have you told your partner he is so darn hot? Guy! Wen last have you told your lady she is the sweetest thing? Wen last have you whispered ‘Thank you’? Wen last have you been quick to say ‘I’m sorry’ THE END.

I kind of like this new flag Lols

Jochebed7:
not sure number 1 applies so much in Nigeria, however please and please don't visit a new born if u are sick, particularly if its something contagious

Number 1 is not always applied here in Nigeria because we all tries to show love being exited and carried always popping unto d parents.
I recalled last month I was carried away to visited a lady who just put to bed, getting there I met other ladies, I felt like a stranger cutting them short of something going on...kind of embarrassed like they were not prepared to see me.

Find attached with Etiquettes for visiting parents with new borns

Macaulish:
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Cheers.

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misscareer:
yes dear...we will overcome..
Can we meet you?

Sure, am Dominic by name, from extended family.
1st born of 4 from my mum side and 2nd male child of 8 from Dad.
From lagos, 33, single, Logistician by profession

Mumm d cross heavy wella

I have been looking for a group to recharge my prayer live, like minded people come in.
To be created if encouraged

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“How My Wife Was Beheaded By Muslims Right In Front Of My Eyes” – Husband Of Igbo Woman Killed For Blasphemy In Kano Cries Out


Speaking exclusively with National Helm in a phone chat, Mr Mike through his associate (pastor Kem also in Kano) gave point-to-point details of what transpired on that fateful day.In his words; Mrs Bridget who sold plastic materials at the popular Kofar Wambai market had wanted to close her shop on Thursday June 2, 2016 by 4.30pm to go for a church programme. Her neighbour simply identified as Dauda who is a Muslim came in front of her shop to wash his hands and feet in preparation for his own prayers. Mummy as fondly called by her church members told him to leave the front of her shop that she wants to lock the door. The man refused and told her to wait till he finishes with what he’s doing. (N.B; Mrs Bridget had been having serious problems with Dauda to the extent that their matter has been reported to the market’s association numerously). So she persisted that he should leave her shop, instead of complying the man started raining abuses on her saying that he would deal with her in the market. After people started gathering around due to the insults and abuses, the man calmed down and left…

The woman thinking all had ended -went to meet her husband who also has a shop in the same market but different location to report as usual. Both her and her husband went to meet the landlord of her shop one Alhaji Mustapha – a prominent trader in the market which has been their advocate -to table the latest issue at hand.While they were reporting the case to Mustapha in his shop, Dauda and his reinforced gang gathered and started chanting that the woman must die for blaspheming against prophet Mohammed. The Alhaji pleaded with them to come back in a few days time promising to settle the matter but they vehemently refused and started stoning him. The Alhaji ran for his life leaving the Mr Mike and his wife in his shop… The woman knowing that her end had come -knelt down and started praying before she was beaten and clubbed to death by the mob right in front of her husband. Meanwhile, Dauda and his cohorts have been arrested and are currently in Kano State police station.

Kano beheading. Look at that one with an axe, is she a cow? The murder of a pastor’s wife, Mrs. Bridget Agbaheme by a mob of religious extremists, who accused her of defaming the Islamic religion. Late Mrs. Bridget Agbaheme, a mother of one,

#KillingChristiansInTheNorthernPartsOfNigeria

youngberry001:
Shut'up jhor why not u take action dat time u get a free chance to stop d man from doing dat shiit now u re here making a free noise mtcheeeww.......#fvck u

I don't need to see ur profile from ur statement u are a kid wit No manner, insinuating like a walking dog full of shit.
What do u want me to do, like I said its an environment, unfamiliar with, dark... I thought of call or shouting but I don't know who is who.
So u want family should start looking for u d next day.
Like u r not in this country.

sonOfLucifer:
If you can keep your head...




While others are losing theirs..

Is that in Christ doctrine?

Spicylate:
You want them to carry sticks and machetes and wage war?!

At least somebody should talk about it. But they all silence.

We fellowship together but in time of trouble they run away

On The Silence Of The Religious Daddies And Mummies On The Kano Beheading. I say

"if your rich religious fathers and mothers can't fight and stand for you while you suffer for your faith in what they built in you, "Stay At Home Worship Your God". The church building is just a combination of bricks and cements, God lives in you. You are His temple. " 1st Chorintians Chapter 6 verse 19 says "Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you?".

As You All Know I am No Atheist But I Think It Has Gotten To This. #WhatRubbish

Hello room,
A couple of weeks ago I passed a dark and less busy street on my way to visit a friend.
I saw a jeep car parked by the side, inside a man of 50+ of age and a girl of 13 to 15yrs of age, the man was playing with her and touching her brea*st with d car in light on.
I was touched, and speechless. Since then the memory kept flashing back to me, whenever I see a girl I still remember d incident.

Pls what can I do when next I see such act.

Hello room,
A couple of weeks ago I passed a dark and less busy street on my way to visit a friend.
I saw a jeep car parked by the side, inside a man of 50+ of age and a girl of 13 to 15yrs of age, the man was playing with her and touching her brea*st with d car in light on.
I was touched, and speechless. Since then the memory kept flashing back to me, whenever I see a girl I still remember d incident.

Pls what can I do when next I see such act.

A GOLDEN HEART
I made a new friend. She is Leila, one of those Fulani’s from Mali who beg for alms at the Accra mall. She approached me smiled and spoke pidgin.Auntie "make u give me money make i buy food chop'.. I smiled back and said I have not eaten since morning myself..she asked if it was true ...I said yeah... she then handed me all the coins she had in hand... I asked if she is sure i could use the money...She replied Yes I could...When I counted the money, it was just a cedi and 10p... I told her it wont be enough...she asked me to wait for a minute...She went to check where she keeps her money and brought back 4cedis...She said 5 cedis should be enough to buy rice... I told her i would need water she then asked me to wait so she begs for some money for me, after 10 minutes she came back with 50 pesewas from her brother and said she can direct me to a canteen...I followed her.While engaging her in conversation,people just starred at us.Others advised i shouldn't mind her. I told them she wasn't begging for money.
I distracted her with question while we waited.She is js 10 years. I asked why she gave me all the money.She replied "ibi u dey hungry auntie, i go fit beg for money but u no go fit, so just take am".At this point i had tears in my eyes.People were wondering what conversation we were having..She asked that i take photos with her.When my friend arrived she told her to make sure i get food to eat. I asked her to take back her money.She looked very disappointed and asked why, I told her i just needed company while i waited...
Wow,what a touching story. I believe you and I would agree that Leila has a heart of gold. How many of us will give wholeheartedly to people who need our help in trying times as this young lady did. This is love. She loves her neighbour as herself or more than herself I should say. I pray that Leila will never lack anything in life,Father bless her and protect her and all her family. Because of this act of love O lord, may she prosper in life.Send forth angels to make a way for her and her family.Leila you are blessed. Brethren, lets learn to love like Leila.Good morning.
ONE HEART FOUNDATION.

As introvert is an advantage to me staying out of bad company, where I stay people talk about being like me because am the only simple and gentle guy around.
Sometimes the temptation of being someone else arises like breaking bottle as rugged as mad to fight in public but no matter what I still calm down and people take it as my weakness.

Am still single and getting married is not easy to see a compatible best friend for marriage...some say am not responsible...
A big thank you all, it better to be single than go through hell in marriage.

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