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diegs:
Good evening house. I went for hsg and the result wasn't pleasant. Both tubes are blocked. I gave been depressed and I have been crying. Don't know what to do. Has anyone done surgery to unblock tubes? Is the surgery worth it? Thnx

Tubal surgery has high failure rate cost d scar wil caused d tube to reblock or narrow even more...unless u find an isolated centre wit a new groundbreaking procedure.
Some pple swear by enzyme therapy wit wobenzyme, serrapeptase n the likes. Combined with castor oil therapy.
If its minor blocking flushing may be able to dislodge it.
Options like ivf down d list cos its invasive

I suggest u repeat (if u can) in a better/best centre and see anoda gynae consultant for 2nd opinion


@jejelaye101 may ur stay be short n fruitful

Gud evening fruitful moms n dads

@amhappy, megamum, miraclebaby una doo...hope u n urs r gud

@mummyelena its usually called pseudo pregnancy (false pregnancy) all d symptoms r present yet no scan imagery. It can go as far as a growing tummy taking shape of preggy, even d woman can "feel" baby kicks. #The power of d mind.
May God giv u ur own physical babies n settle u IJN

@adufe78 right lower abdominal pain could possibly be frm ectopic preggy, appendicitis, ureteral stones, ovarian issues...take some painkillers and go fo an ultrasound. Wen was ur last menses?

Baby dust on us all amen

Helo fruitful ladies, its been soooo long I came to nl

A lot of new mamas on board. May God answer our deepest heart desire n perfect all dat concerns us. Amen.

@tomyunbornchild may ur stay be short n fruitful IJN amen

Helo my bearyful belleful ladies n belleful gents how pushing ministry?

How my vigilante mamas? I hope ur touch ish shinning bright!

@waistbead longest tym. How u dey?
@lovinam lovingitis kedu? I got ur pm....missed u loads. How r d lovinams?

@imurboss how u dey? Hope u pushing great

A mama sent me a pm! Gosh I don forget her moniker...a loving shout out to u dearie

@phunmielomo dearie eku igbadun? Hope u n urs r good

Tchiwinnie olia? Mamasy, mamaabike, toyosiR, dhabeautyjas, beeevan, lyndaroyce, chifreke, switgoody,godsfavouredgal, favoured girl, atonementchild, miraclebaby, rukemi291, dunni29, opeoluwa, opeolukoya, sayoberry, justwinnie, beckytunde, joy4mi, kings kiddie, starbuck (ite ego n'esi isi), ehi blessing (akwaugo), debbyray, debbie, preciousan, preshyla, rechybabe, A-Z senior mamas I hail ooo

Newbies! Una dooo!
@beedam, *scrolls down to do expo*
Ahmanim, prouddad, proudmum, kimoni, mytestimony, miraclemum A-Z mamas daalu nu rinne!

May God make it easy for u on d delivery day.

*i refuse to read back* I knw its good news all d way. Congrats to all new mums n new dads and d dad wanting to "kpekus* @3weeks! Ur body is hotting! U no wan d place to rest @all! 5gbosa to u ℓσℓ

lovinam:
Hahahahaha. I wan run small sha before una go infect me with 9 months condition. Loll. Babe your head de dia, u be correct lady. I bin see ur post for d other thread. It is well. I no wan talk too much cos I vex small for d crew as per why dem no adopt that baby case. E don pass sha. How borri de do you na? Hope everything de fall in place.

Chifreke I de salute you! I just de wonder wia all of una disappear to eh? Beckytunde! Donatee my very person. Nkemella. Dbeautyjas! Wia una de? Beeevan/ byvan I de sight u. Lyndaroyce!! Hola

Lovinam lovingitis I ful ground ooo...#ghostmode use me dey do peppersoup. How's family? 9mths gini? Kip lurking e go soon catch u *starts packing back for early mornin baby bathe n massage*

@zedge I didn't read ur original post buh I saw some1 replyin u about hard poo...kpele. Don't sit too long witout standing to walk around. Every 1hr of sitting down stand up n walk around for 5min.
Don't postpone poo-ing. Evacuate ur tummy immediately u feel d urge
Add plenty pelnty veggies to every food u eat. Also Oats add bulk n help u to poo
Drink plenty water don't economize cos of pee-ing frequency
Take 1tablespoon of Olive oil b4 eating any food. I hope dis helps...hapy bumpin

ToyosiR:
@ All mama, please answer my question. what is the effect of posterior placenta position on Labor

Please dont ignore again oooooo

Ders no effect of placental position. Rather d position of d baby may affect labour especially if d baby is facing upwards

tchiwinnie:
lol. no b small english mistress. i dey fyn o. ow jaymin bobo. any luck wt residency yet?

None yet...I'm hopeful next year smth wil happen. Dis state nothing moves fast...lagos berra pass #locum. Here nathing like dat

A witch may be fanning firewood wit ur peechure.... oldervaginaphilia

ℓσℓ @dangling n elongated, chai! Lwkmd #georgia dome #sudanes tuareg

*stil chuckling*

opeoluwa2:
Hello mamas, how are you all. Sorry for missing in action. I ve started working so my schedule is tight.
I miss you all, dhabeautyjas, mamaabike, mamatwins, chifreke,donatee,preshila,imurboss,sayoberry,beevann don,lyndaroyce,prishila, ehiblessing, and all the newbies. How are you doing?
Congrats to everyone who put to bed may God watch over them.

Congrats dearie. May dis new job b a stepping stone for berra financial empowerment. Thanx for d metion

Sooo much to read up #i ll pass jare
Congrats to d newbies, new mums.

@imnuflawal try drinkin loads of water n emptying ur bladder frequently. Don't postpone passing urine wen u feel pressed. Reduce ur sugar consumption, eat more fruits, don't allow soaps n perfumed substances around ur vijay

@lamdec kpele. Try eating tiny foods @a tym. Kip praying...it usually reduces by 2nd trimester

@tchiwinnie d english mistress how r u n urs?

Osahon7:
. Lool..But seriously Why are igbo ppl like dis na?? What's up with ya guys and stock fish in wedding?

Na flexing/enjoyment sontin to dem. Dey shared d stockfish to every1 dat attended. Also important family members piece of stockfish n slice of uncooked yam was given to dose who couldn't attend....I remember my uncle called frm abuja to say he got his parcel

I heard it is aimed @ making it difficult 4 d couple to separate...cos u can't go round taking bak ur bride price n goodies d groom brought frm different pple. Tho dese days pple separate n dats dat. Berra stil poor pple stil marry wit "modified lists".
Also its worse if d man isn't frm d same village/town wit d girl

ℓσℓ d list is expensive...buh I'm sure its negotiable to some extent.

My List was similar to this BUT witout d moneys given to different pple, no Rooster ℓσℓ , no tobacco n cigarette L̃̾Õ☺Õ̾Ô=D=))ÕÔ☺ÔÕ̾L̃̾
Funny tho #old men smoking @ a trad wedding...epic

Mine had household furniture, electronic n kitchen gadjet, stcokfish sef dey specify d size #biggest size 20pieces...Gosh. Afikpo List Cost jare

@op if u love d girl n treat her right she ll attract blessings to u

@switgoody and mumz a big congratulations to u. God who has done this awesome miracle wil supply riches to cater to ur LOs n family.

@suzyt its normal. Ur baby is growin @awesome speed n pushing ur lungs n ribs upwards. Pls take gently breathes. Ders nothin much u can do. As d preggy continues ur tummy wil descend n u ll start breathin fine again.

@halimatt how r u? May God settle u. Frm 4cm no1 has d right to send u home contractions or not.

@mamasy inyanga pikin ℓσℓ u don already dey wear figure 8 dress? Dis wan u dey worry about ya tummy
BTW its ur uterus dat goes back to PRE-PREGGY size n it happens gradually n completed long b4 6weeks. If ur tummy is big its more of fat n stretched skin. It wil gradually go back. Kip breast feeding. It helps d uterus shrink faster. As for tummy fat n skin depends on ur genes. D hot water stuff I didn't do much jus a few days so I don't knw much about it

@imnuflawal its perfectly normal. Der is increased blood flow to dat are dats y. I hope u n Oga dey "do the DO"? It wil dampen d vibrations AsAP

@slim4bush I don de find dat ur Q tire. I can't read bak anymore. Pls follow ur doctors advice on diet n drugs. Ur diet is sooooooooo important. Also ur routine urinalysis check during antenatal. Gestational DM also has tendency for Big babies. D key is to av a control blood sugar cos dat wil really help to avoid complications on d baby n U. Pls always see ur doctor wen due, don't self medicate n I'm sure ur doctor wil discuss delivery options wit u once u r about 34 to 36weeks...@dat point ur baby is better out in a few weeks. Getting to 40weeks is not advisable to avoid exposure time to complications. Pls not to scare u or other mamas. Google wil tell u more. Be rest assured millions of women have it n go thru many preggy witout much hassels. May God help u.

*so help me God to pop in more to avoid missing Questions jare*

...zzzz sleep typing.....zzzzz

texazzpete:
Just to say one more thing.

If this is a genuine suicide attempt, he's been a thorough d*i*c*k about it. Thanks to that posted receipt scan, he's pretty much guaranteed that the Manager of Zagbayi Pharmacy (150Y, Bosso Road, Minna, Niger State) will get arrested for selling those vials without a prescription.

All drugs r sold witout prescription in naija so far d sales girls know its available in deir pharmacy. I doubt if der r tangible legislation prohibiting sale of prescription drugs.
Even patent chemist shops sell such.

A lot of harm is being done to d populace frm easy access to such dangerous drugs.

I hope he makes it n retraces his steps. He had a lot goin for him.

@mamasy congratulations love. May God supply riches to tak kia of ur princess

@lovinam ℓσℓ I claim it ooo...#consultancy takes yrs buh I ll get der soonest.

Meme5 thnx darl

@vivkilafab abi oooo

@mumroyal congrats dear. Happy bumping

@snowflakes12 hmmm all tinz being equal nothing wrong wit kpekusing. Buh Gentleness is d watch word. No ruff ryding tinz....if u aint comfy u guys shld discuss it n delay it for 1 or 2 weeks...ttc shldnt rule out ur kpekusing life naaa...

Gudnyt dearies *yawns*

@bossladymo, chydollz, otses congrats dearies. May joy n gladness continue to fill ur home.

@mychildishere mayur miracles locate u IJN

@vickilafab jay is gud...he's a terror #his energy is outta d world

@tchiwinie result don show...I knack am 1 touch. I really thank God for his mercies.

Wow! Congrats @mychildishere. Ur blessing is permanent IJN. MIA don do me strong tin

@vicklafab wow! Awesome birth story

@shawlay congrats n welcome to the club

@preciousan congrats dear. May God suPply riches to cater to ur new baby

@bossladymo u too fear...seems u av a tin against naija hospitals Its not dat bad if u choose Good hospitals tho...I wish u supernatural childbirth. Induction isn't necessarily painful. I didn't feel a thing during labour. @ d point of delivery my baby was facing upward dey had to put a drip to make d contractions stronger n push baby out. As dey put d drip I stil didn't feel a thing. May God make it easy for u. Amen

Wey all ma beauryful ladies??
Mamasy, multibillionair, chyvy, laroyalhighness, mumddd hmmm...my brain don cold. E remain to cram newbies names too...hope we r all gud? May God meet us @ d points of our needs

switgoody:
Donatee, beevan,lyndaroyce,lovinam,rukemi,dhabeautyjas,beckytunde,preshilia, I don try abeg any senior mama sud pls answer my question on Epo.Plssssssssss

I used EPO( evening primrose oil) capsules from 38weeks. 1.500miligrm #3.capsules (500mg each) mornin n nite. Iwash my hands, get d capsules in 1 palm, lie on my bak. Get 1 n squeeze d oil inside d vjay til I'm done wit d 3capsules, I also massage the perineum wit my oily fingers. Den I lie on my bak for 45mins to 1hr. If possible I may kpekus after I put d EPO

@Lioha congrats dear. May God continue to bring forth his marvellous works in ur life. Ur blessing is permanent IJN

@sweetose congrats dear. Ur blessings r permanent.

@all newbies welcome.

*lazy to read bak*

@lovinam u write TIMETABLE for kpekus? Taaaa!! Go tender ya home work b4 rust n cobwebs wonjure u

lovinam: Donateeeeeeeeeeee. Welcome sugar. Omalicha nwa, baby OK. Lol. How far

sweety banana I dey oooo...been busy like hell. Its all gud. I don miss enuff gists eeh...I ll pop in regularly now

@chocome chocomilio wow! Gods name b praised. May God add more riches n blessings to ur family

@tchiwinnie nwunyedim how far? Anya gi? Ole? I don miss u ooo

All ma beauryful mamas una doo...all d beauryful newbies welicome, all beauryful new mums daalu kwanu. Welcome to vigilante association of naija. God is ya muscle

@mum4all congrats on ur bfp. God wil perfect all dat concerns u n ur baby amen

@miraclebaby receive ur blessings in triplefold. Ur space awaits u on dis thread. U wil b fulfilled in life. No man shal take ur joy away IJN amen!!!

@rukemi in tokyo, olori olowo I hail ya bak

edwife: lyndaroyce, chifreke, dhabeautyjas, beevan,beckytunde , rukemi291, joy4mi, donatee, tchwinnie and the rest,please forgive me it has been long.

I had to copy and paste,i just came to greet y'all and see how you all doing.

I thank God for each and everyone for keeping your family safe and healthy.

To all the new mamas it is well.

Wow! Gud to hear frm u sis. I've been MIA buh I'm bak for gud...hope u r spreading ya mat regulary u need 9m IT soonest

rezzy: Pls oo,, what can i do? My back aches a lot. Im using 4 pillows to sleep yet, i cant have a good sleep both day and night.

*zooms in*
Kpele my dear..massage wit balm n hot water, sleep on a HARD foam/floor (pad it a lil wit a flat foam or blankets) pillows r to support ur legs.

@nkemella julibest n all d mamas wey born may God kip u n ur LOs n provide riches unto ya family

All newbies una doo...

@sayo n chydollz d recipe na firewood dey giv dat taste..stock up firewood n ditch ya gas cooker

Ana m abia!!
*zooms out*

Hello mamas!!!! I've missed u all.

@chifreke na only God dey do such miracles for us. I bless God for u n ur DD n ur family. May stupendous riches abound IJN!! Amen.

Pls d mama wey get leg swelling go to a gud hospital. Der r tests to check ur renal fuctions, ur urinary protein n glucose. Leg sweeling in early preggy not gud @all. Nurse or doc u need to get tested.

All d mamas havin day sickness hang in dere. E go lighten.
Pls make una resurrect pre also to remember ttc mamas. May God help us all n grant us our desires as we remember others.
*zooms out*

Hmmm wonders wil not cease @ ikot-ekpene junction!
... According to dis story d woman was too blind to notice thing n wen she noticed she wasn't to persistent to knw wat drusg d man was taking. Wat if it was cocaine n other illicit contraband substances?
...Also I pondered y she discovered her status n was afraid to scream out? Y did she not repeat d test or confront her Dh? Was she doubting her HIV status maybe b4 marrying d man? Or is she too desparate to remain "married" y she was questioning how she contracted it?
...Dere is not point staying back if she doesn't want to b4 she wil comit #homicide wit "otapiapia" out of anger n depression.

Wat she needs modt now is to accept her condition n make d most of free treatment given to retroviral positive women to protect her baby. I pray d baby scales thru!

Men can b wicked! Years bak dis same story happened dat d man was positive. He was asked to tell d wife n bring her for counselling n testing. He refused @a point he lied dat he has told d wife n she is receiving treatment elsewhere.

Somehow after 5yrs a woman registered in d same hospital for recurrent illness n was tested positive$ she already had "full blown Aids" she was sooo flabbergasted! She was afraid to tell her dh. She was later given drugs n how to take d drugs. Dat was wen she remembered her dh takes some drugs regularly!!! She went home n compared deir drugs n it was same! Haba!
She confronted her husband. D idiot beat her up, sent for her family members n packed her bags out for her. Dat was how d man infected her, hid his status til she got sick n chased her out. She came bak to d hospital devasted. Anyway thnk God she picked up her life, continued her treatment n got better.

Dis life? More pple r cheating even after d propaganda n even true life stories dat happened to pple dey knw yet... D exhilaration of d sexcapades has ruined reasoning n respect for deir lives n deir patners.

*zooms off*

@mamas doo. How's d day rolling?

For age @marriage 23 n above is okay. Me I don't want to imagine my child kpekusin biko #scary!!! I couldn't imagine my lil sis! I ll jus freak out buh sadly its a reality

As for sex education pls its important to start early! 10 yrs is okay cos many children des days cos of diet 9 or 10 yrs dey don enter puberty. Girls start seeing smal smal menses n d guys start avin wet dreams n pubic hairs etc. D earlier u told dem about deir bodies n y deir body is changin d berra. If dey notice d changes b4 u tell dem dey may withdraw frm u n deir sibs thinkin dey r abnormal or cursed
We shld set aside days to re-vist wat u ve taught dem because dey may forget or wld av gotten oda wrong infos outside so u need to clarify dem

From der u can now delve into d functions n den need for control, wat ur religions says about improper deviations, and d physical repercussions.

Also we shld help dem as teenagers to "flee frm all appearances of evil"
D kain of movies dey watch shld b monitored frm 1x dey can reason appropriately say frm 3yrs or so. U shld also control d music flow. Let dem watch age appropriate movies

Also its important to engage deir tym wit learning of skills, educative tv programmes n outings, church activites. Dat way deir is less tym for kurekere waka

We av to b a firm n lovin pilla to our kids. Treat dem right n correct wit love. Hear deir points of view n correct witout rubbishing deir views dat way dey listen to u n d correct info is in deir subconscious. Dey wil also confide in u easily cos u lend dem ur ears.

We av to monitor d kind of friends dey av, d family backgrounds, wat dey do wen dey go to visit friends n if dey r being monitored.

2boys or 2girls #teenagers left alone can b experimental wit deir bodies in order to solve "puzzles" in deir mind. Especially if 1 of d kid is corrupt he may put ideas in d oda persons head.

Giving books to read as beeevan said is excellent buh we av to read d book 1st to make sure u share d same point of view wit d author.

In all we shld always pray for our kids. Interceeding for dem.

My 2cents

Lawd av mercy!!

An Applause to all philandering men who r married to women wit poor self esteem!

A society where poor self esteem is deemed as "being submissive" or being "d perfect wife" is a Rape of intelligence.

If ur daughter gets married n u go on 1 of ur sexcapades n meets ur dausghters husband goin into a hotel room wit d most notorious runz girl in town, wil u stil av a solid turn on to devour ur mistress? I doubt it!
U berra watch ur back b4 u get hurt or hurt d family u care so much for.

As for me any lover witout faithfulness is a fallacy.

90% of cheating men are perverts n Sociopaths. Der is no justification for cheating

*im outta here*

@beeevan true talk. I've seen very old couples dat jus hold hands n gist, take walks n perk.
Body don tire. If u don cheat wen ur body is fresh na wen wrinkle full am u go cheat? Not @all

As for Sarah she was under special annointing biko. Na God inspire her. I'm sure her body go strong like young person

After menopause women's vagina gradually over d years undergoes Atrophy #shrinking n dryness. Dis is due to ceased ovarian function secretin oestrogens dat is important for fleshy n moist vagina.
Now dats where being a lil plump comes in handy. Fats cells secrest a lil estrogens wich may help. Also some women wil opt for HRT to replace d oestrogen artificially cos d ovaries don't function again. Tho risk of cancers increases wit age n hormone replacements

As for old men sex is a brain thing. Some men r jus too flirtatious even wen deir jt is not workin dey stil chyk girls jus to feel d fun n probably rub deir bellies n JT e fit no go stand sef. Don't b surprised deir JT is limp where as na hand he dey use in place of JT dat doesn't mean deir prostrate n testes isn't workin. So far its not diseased it work buh d strength can neva b compared to youthful JT its a 2way tin. D semen can av healthy sperm n can impregnate or abnormal sperm n can form "genetically abnormal" children. Old age affects genes of sperm n ovum in both sexes. So old JT is not pleasureable after all cos its limp as for drug dey fit slump because d rugs aint for feeble minded. D drugs can cause blindness too.

Berra to wait to die n reincarnate and resume kpekusing I no talk am oo

omoyeleomoyeni: Mama plc somtin come out from my privatepart white is tik like expired milk.am 6month preg

Seems like plenty clotted thick whitish curd/milk? Or watery milky? Is it itchy? U may consider doin HVS to check if its a yeast infection or plain leucokorrhea

@fina4804 u don try. I had to use bitterleaf, my ds didn't budge. I put lime juice on d nipple he even prefferd it d more, I put melted tiny flagyl he didn't evn notice. So 1 day as he dey suck for afternoon I started talkin to him eyebal to eyeball. "U r now a big boy. I wld av lov to breast feed u more buh Mama-ma is stressed out. Moreover u shld remain some for ur Taata. Frm dis night u won't suckle anymore. So u berra coporate or u wil cry while I face d oda side". He was 14mths den. As if he understood! @nite he came I told him "rememba our afternoon talk NO MORE SUCKIN he grumbled n turned to d oda side of d bed n slept off. So... Even now he stil fondles n eyes d booby buh I tel him NO n he jus giggles
Meanwhile u av to take paracetamol for d pains, and wear firm bra in 3days d swelling shld b reducin

@eumaca u r normal. Dats part of d package. Doo

@tundeism pls fret not. Do d needful n leav d rest to God. Let her be on Bed rest no standin except to pee n bath. Take her prenatals, progesterone n pray. Walkin about. To do scan now may stress her out d more. U can get a 2nd opinion maybe 2weeks time.
Not to scare u pple loss babies witout a drop of blood! Some pple bleed heavily like period yet d baby stil Stuck there surprisingly. Na God sabi wetin dey happen for inside der. May God perfect his works

mum2bsoon: Its pweety gud 2b back, missed everyone ere. Where is deardoc, donatee n oda docs. Mamateniola1, hp u r gud? pls, au did u treat d candidiasis. All oda infectns r gone xcept dt. Tanks 4 helpin a sis in need. Also, will lk 2 knw if it causes increase temp

Mum2bsoon saw ur mentions. Sorry for late reply been sooo busy.
Use canesten or gynamed vaginal pessary 1 @nite for 10days, take yoghurt wit active cultures or FLORA NORM one satchet twice in a day for 3days. Don't douch n avoid washin inside ur vijay wit soap.
Wash ur panties n rinse wit hot water n spread under hot sun.
Avoid usin non-cotton undies

lovinam: http://www.pinkysdiaries..com/2014/07/memoirs-of-pregnant-woman.html?m=1

I laff tire. Simply hilarious

ℓσℓ ℓσℓ egedembge no b small granny food ni! I laff no b small!
ℓσℓ see paranoia of losing her baby reminded me of @mamaabike mamafunmi tissue!! Eating 4,500 fOod for buka? Na 1pot of food she chop! Wan wear suit ontop belle abi na d Iro n Buba? Kai! Nice 1

@ all ma bearyful mamas howdy?

Wich topic una wan trash? @favoured gal suggests "HOW I BROKE D NEWS OF BFP TO DH" lest discuss dat tomoro. Meanwhile any oda topic to complement it is welcome

@lyndaroyce lydiarose whataguan


*peace out* zooms off

@joy4mi I tuale for u! Well composed speech. How body

@twinmama we full ground how ya side? Twinpapa nko?

@byvan welcome back

@amis u r perfectly normal. Different pregnancies come wit diff symtoms. Meanwhile r u carryin multiples? Cos it gives exaggerated preggy symptoms

@rezzy welcome dear. Its not a baby kick. Wen ur baby starts kickin u go know. Is dis ur 1st? Frm 18 to 22wks dat wen baby starts punchin. Meanwhile its ur blood pumping dats wat is soundin in ur ears n movin below ur tummy. See ur doc. Don't freak out cos anxiety can make u feel a lot of tinz.

@oluqueen hope u r takin Calcium too. Paludrine do u av malaria? How many weeks r u? Cos its not necessary til after 13weeks to take malaria prevention for som1 dat doesn't av malaria. Wats d generic name for LOTEMP? Check d packet n tell me. Meanwhile seeing ur dentist is wise. U can't continue takin drugs for a long time due to pain. I hope it resolves soon meanwhile eat foods rich in calcium too cos ur body is using ur calcium stores

@mum Z so no more lazyness to type abi? Let's all contribute n learn frm each oda