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LordErrk:
It's possible she may have had a common complication of evacuation called asherman's syndrome. Has she met a gynaecologist? Usually she'd need to be dilated to make the uterus patent again.

Na people like you makes me to still be coming to this site..
Not some N1twited 1diots with nothing to offer..

Highways:
Your friend or you?

What does that have to do with the issue?

Isony:
Yul should drop is ego and apologize, I think that is what May needs to be comforted.
I mean, I am even willing to escort him for the apology

Apologize for what?
Marrying another wife?
So after the apology, what then?
He should send the second wife away?

bepositive11:
Yes, she should stay there and die slowly

Let her be on her merry way then..

Racoon:
Normal thing to do, but Yul will definitely regret this absolute foolishness.

And if he no come regret am nko?

oloriooko:
No na the wife no want children abi Mr solicitor
This OP is selfish self centered and callous
He talked more of his friends feelings than his wife's
We know it's his life but since he went public about it sorry it's no longer private so he must be told the truth
He should marry his wife and carry his cross
If he goes to another woman he might meet a worse situation

He doesn't have to be married to his wife and THAT is his choice..
His,would not be the first marriage to fail due to childlessness and it will not be the last..
It is an incompatibility issue..
Whether he meets a worse fate in another woman is his palaver and not yours..
And he is selfish and self centered because he wants children?
Nigga,please..🥱

MiztaDynameek:
Person wey never chop belle full wan marry. Only 150k for small marriage you dey complain. I no even understand how you wan take care of woman and kids if you dey fear to spend money like this untop say na you wan marry no be say anybody dey force you.

You must be a Werey..
150K just for the officiating?
Not to talk of Halls and Reception?
Na real Oponu you be.
THIEF🎯

Scam!
All na SCAM.🥱
Religion is a SCAM.💯

SonofGod231:
What are even saying?!
Is this enough reason to dissolve the marriage?
In this age and time 🤔
Shey,this will fix the woman's problem?

It is enough reason to dissolve marriages..
A childless marriage can be a loveless union..
Why should you stick in a union devoid of love and happiness?
And what does 'this day and age' have to do with it?

oloriooko:
hello mr "am walking out of patience" some words for you:

1. did you marry the woman or baby manufacturing company
2. are you aware the lady is in more distress than you are about this condition?
3. are your friends good friends that laugh at their so called friend's misfortune
4. how are you taking care of your wife in this trying time? is it by walking out on her or sticking to her?
5. FYI marriage is first meant for companionship while kids are added
6. stop living for your friends, live for yourself (you + your wife)
7. you can get the kids and lose them all in one day (ask the parents of sosoliso air crash years ago, God console them!)
8. if you don't put your head right, you will destroy your future
9. and who told you she won't eventually conceive for you!

finally, i know of a couple childless for 30+yrs but are closest pallies

He wants children..
And he doesn't have to apologize for it, to you or any other..
Some couples don't want children,that is their business..
He wants children..
It's HIS LIFE..

MrBroke:
The Slaves of Society. So you got married to give birth to kids. Go and marry another wife and give birth to your children. I tell people everyday, if eventually i get married, it has to be somebody who thinks and live like me not a Society person who don't know what they want from life. I pity your wife sha.

He knows what he wants..
He WANTS children..
How you live your life,is not a yardstick for how others live THEIR LIVES..
Stop sounding daft..

MindHacker9009:
With all the problems in this world why are people still so obsessed with bringing kids to this world. You are blessed when you have a woman that canot get pregnant as you don't have to buy condoms if both of you ae safe.

This is what happens when you use your life options to judge others..

Lannyjoe4u:
Patience

Indeed..
So,so easy to say when you are not the one wearing the shoe .

kelvindj98:
She is probably barren

Great realization, Sherlock..😂

Purvan:
Go for adoption or go the surrogate route

Person way not get money,dey do surrogacy?🤦

MrBrownJay1:
the important question here is: WHATS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU?
A) is it the look of your friends/society on your marriage?
B) is it your wife and family?
C) is it to have a child by any means necessary?
or better yet, D) why did you get married to this woman?!

He got married because he wants children..
What's with all these guilt tripping?
Should he apologize because he wants children?
It's HIS LIFE and he doesn't owe you any apologies for his priorities.

UyaiIncomparabl:
OP, 5 years and you're running out of patience.

Women should learn to be ruthless and selfish when it comes to taking several decisions like this one. Many men in this dispensation wouldn't take half of what you accept from them. If this man was the problem, the woman would have hung in there, stayed patient, prayed, and done whatever society expects of a good wife. Should we turn this table and demand the same measure from men, they will leave you in a heartbeat unapologetically.

Lest I digress, there are several invasive and alternative methods your wife's predicament can be treated which can make her tubes open. Leave IVF. Consider alternative and herbal methods as well.

As a couple who wants children, I would always advise not to leave caution to the wind after a year of trying for a baby. Problems are better solved from the infantile stage.

If you are reading this thread yourself and the thread originally belongs to you and not some ploy to garner comments from Rubyjade and friends, I'll implore you to follow @fertilitywarrior_withadesewa on Instagram. Send her a message and perhaps, if you like, you can book a session with her. I can assure you with my full chest that you'll carry your baby in your arms soon.

With the advent of natural herbs, alternative medicines and roots, and technology, infertility is a past worry. Don't despair. You'll have your child soon. My thoughts are with your wife. I can't imagine the pressure and worries she must be passing through.

Cheers.

If it's a man's fault,the woman would have gotten pregnant from outside and hang it on the man..

emmylight4u:
...dated for five years and still counting. For the sake of love, pray about this as I have seen genotypes change. God can do yours. If it is not changing for you guys, part ways please.

Since you have confirmed severally that you are both AS, please part ways.

Now, note that withdrawal method is a sin and bad let alone abortion.

I have a sister who has 5 children, 3 are SS, bro it's not funny.

Make stop here first.

You have seen Genotypes change?
Really?
Things we see and hear in Africa..🙆🏽

IconicR:
She's not in right thinking mode

Maybe she should employ you, to be thinking for her..
After you are through with thinking for your own self..

Mazisimonekpa:
Today is Phase II of our sit at home
Sit at home so that the Jihadist Zoo Army will not kill you

Mazi Simon Ekpa
(Prime Minister)

Na for your family house for Abakiliki them dash you Prime Minister..
Nwa Aba feeling funky..

sobhladi:
Is Marriage supposed to be for everyone?

Is anyone forcing you to marry?

Ola9ja23:
This people and their wahala

What are they trying to prove ?


Yoruba always dominate the list Year in year out

So what's the bro haha all about

Dominate which list?
The list we have seen or the one in your dreams?

Viraltrends123:
LOL, if it's in ilorin, then you might receive threats, Traditional religion lags in that state, and I bet, you will receive few attendants, it's like organizing Islamic program in the south east, you will also be threatened and will receive few attendants

You had to drag the South East into your nonsense?
EFULEFU

jubrilELsudan:
NICE......THEY ALL FINE AND SWEET

ABEG WHO GET THEIR CONTACTS CAUSE I FOR LIKE FVCK THEM

Go marry your own,pu.$$y..

VicM6:
The religion of piss has gotten this one intact....if u knw u knw.

While your own captive religion,keeps you shackled to one pu.ssy,in other to better manipulate you..

God1000:
Only him with three wives.

But it seems only African men marry plenty women, you will hardly see European or American man doing this, I'm not even sure.

Because it is illegal to do so in such countries.
Why is that hard to appreciate?

Took me like 30 minutes to observe and learn and then I was off..😀

I spent 8 years at Ekosodin,I never knew there were a River..🙆🏽

Buhariiswicked:
400 level final year student drowned 2 months to his graduation. If you are a uniben student or alumni, you go no sey na scores things. The police suppose drill those him so called friends. So them go stop their Chico Ejiro stories.

Everything na Conspiracy to you people..

crossfm:
Hehehe .

Some men dish out what they can't take.

I know soon the proponents of Africa men are polygamous in nature will soon land here. They also forget that Africa women also love sex.

For God sake marriage is sacred and should be respected. If you need more women,then go and marry more.

The same species that said broke men shouldn't seek love..
Now wants a made man to stick to one woman?
Make all of una getat!

ManWater:
Meaning our Failure is guaranteed.

Before nko?
No be jamboree we dey go?

UYEMDO35:
The daughter might have a reason for scolding her father, can't her father stay without taking second wife.

Maybe you should be advising the man on when to sh1t and when not to sh1t..