₦airaland Forum

Berankis:
I don't know about dating but for married men. Can a man be married without having to tell a lie or 2 to your wife?
Sometimes, I lie to just have my peace. I found out that my wife can't handle some truths. Something I will say that will cause weeping, I would rather lie cause I can't withstand someone crying close to me, it disturbs my mind alot.

You are doing well!
It's called White Lies !!

It's meant to ensure "Peace" !

SpencerForbes:
Another folklore🥱 I’ll read it for Knowledge purpose. But I’ll mention you if I find any flaws😜

Some reads are meant to fvck up your psyche... I pass and Jump

manuelkel:
Gbam, you said it all.
We have a long way to go but sadly Africa is not United enough to go through that way together.
We are absolutely being disrespected.

We are all Evolving including the Europeans and Asians too ....

The evolution is towards On World and One Mankind Under "Good" !!

At that Point, Africa Couldn't afford to be left Behind ...

Either You Evolve or You Extinct ... !!

I think we shall choose Evolution and those who couldn't survive the next waves of Evolutionary Challenges would Extinct !!

This has always been the way of Humanities!

manuelkel:
I was telling someone here on NC that Dangote will never top world's 20 till he dies the person understood it as an offensive statement.
How can Africa come close when we don't even have an African currency?
For the past 3 decades it has always been dollar and Euro topping world's list, Africans are not understanding that....we are being disrespected because we are divided. Gaddafi was saying all these things, we need to be united to get close to these world lists, lists like this and so on.

Africa is in 20th century in terms of Mental Capacity Right Now ....

We are only using Technologies and Modern Life Amenities But we ain't The Power Brain Behind Any of them .....

Mental Power, Psychological Power and Physiological Powers are Required to Be Ontop of the world !

We don't have any Except "Spiritual Powers" ...

Our Spiritualism is also Mostly Towards Evil(Destructive) Spiritual Forces ......

They Introduced Good(God) Spiritual Forces to Us, We still Mixed am with Our Evils Ancestral Forces .....

We are not yet There .... Na Push and Tyrannism we dey use ... It can't work in a Sane world !

bluebay:
This is one disadvantage of dating a popular and beautiful SMALL child. The whole world will hear your story when things go south. Imagine a girl of 20s calling a 60 plus a baby. Omo... If Ned na my papa, I go find Regina Go Mend o

Why your Dck dey rise na

She was his wife .... Leave the 20s for Mathias!

ogascomax:
Europeans that are losing values every time

Which Values are they losing

In tech, Explorations, Science, Medicine, Space or what ?

Sexual Exposition ? ....

Is Life all about Sex and Dressings

Africa Think !!

SpencerForbes:
Na lie😂 girls wey no pass 10 naim you Dey feel fly😂😂😂

“Una girlfriends”😂😂 and you believe say men Dey date again for this generation 😂 (it’s just your turn, stop feeling superfly)

I even doubt the ones wey dey buy stuff for you pass 3 and that talk about you not remembering when last you bought something in your house, PREMIUM LIE!!!

Joy Killer ... Joy Spoiler
Small Fly Make Person Fly, You Cast Am

Uptheante:
At the last paragraph.....
And you don't deem it necessary to inform the poor husband about his wife's promiscuity?
Albeit anonymously?
It is unconscionable for you to just condemn the atrocious act in your mind without making any concrete effort to stop the evil especially since you have the power to stop it by alerting the husband.

Unless you are also scheming & bidding your time to have a share of the woman's kpekus.
In that case, you are an accomplice to the adulterous act.

Stop evil when you can, it's not just enough to condemn it secretly within your mind.

Chairman, Look and Pass .... If You do Anyhow on Matter wey no concern You ... Sorry is Your Case!

Why would you report on such Private Issues ...

Don't Ask, Don't Tell ....

Why would you Scatter a Home because someone is Kpanshing Someone ....

The game is Rigged ... Just live and Pass!

If the hubby discover on his own, Good for him ... If Not, Good for Him also ...!

LagosOrigin:
This is an insult to our military forces and the president.

In a radicalised Country ... This Man would have been treated Right!

We4all:
A 16 year old boy is old enough to reject the advances of his teacher. Physically, he is even stronger and from the video, he wasn't rape.

However, people tend to raise alarm if an older man sleeps with a teenage girl because they mostly do it forcefully; even threating them with death. So, comparing both scenarios is absurd!

I wonder person dey tear tear Pvnny like that and dem call am Rape ....

That boy should be jailed for Abuses of His Teacher ... The Slap wey dat Ass receives no be here ... backhand, Up Down Slams and Hammers ...

Eleribu lo mo yen

kingthreat:
This is not abuse. The boy just became a man early.
So are all the young boys that sneak to brothels for short time being abused by the prostitutes?

The guy sabi Knack abeg ...

Small remain make ihm beat Baltasar Records ....

He dey tear D teacher wetin no Good ...

Bendeco02:
Some men sha

Man will fine finish, make money and go propose for one careless lady.

When will some men learn?

That lady you married because of her appearance, do you think you will be attracted to her forever?

After few years your eyes will clear.

As a guy, I know howmany pretty girls I have dated and had affair with. The only thing that can move me now is your desency.

Weyrey ... You no even sabi spell Decency... E sure me say na Desency you go Marry abi all dey ones wey you don knack finish na Who go carry dem

Salewa97:
The US should stop behaving like a jilted lover. Why are they so interested in Nigeria's internal affairs?

We don't need their intervention. We can handle our security issues by ourselves

If Nigeria should fall into Terrorism, The Entire Saharan African Goes With It and Businesses(Commerce) In Africa is Affected With So many Fall Outs Of Sects & Factions .....

Nigeria is Key to Businesses In Africa thus Must not be allowed to Destroyed Herself !!!

Also, Nigeria was created by Brits, So Big Brother America must helped Brits to Protect Her Former Colony

Bobodee09:
Most people on this forum are big disgrace to educated.

They actually don't read....they just comment without even understanding.

The person granted asylum is the opposition leader, most of them think is the president that is being accused of planning the coup.

Most Nigerians Comment On headlines.... Since they see Presidential E don finish be that .....

Our blood too dey hot for this country!

TheAnimeEnjoyer:
edit: No I don't believe personally West Africans aren't intelligent or smart. I'm just looking at raw data and numbers, and history as well. I mean Africans did build their own civilisations like the Songhai Empire, Kingdom of Benin, Kingdom of Mail, and The Asthani Empire. In the Ashani Empire, they had indoor plumbing systems similar to Romans and cisterns.

So, I don't really buy into the believe. Plus, the Average IQ for Nigerians I checked online is around 90-96ish so thats still average.

Most Nigerians and Africans Have "Evils" IQ .....

The IQ of Damages, Destructions and Battles-Wars Against "Good" ....

While Most Developed and Advanced Nations Have "Good IQs" .....

Na we worship God Pass Na we Have Evil Behaviours Pass!

If say na we Have Nuclear, Aswear, We go don use am One Another Teytey... Cuz Our Brain Dey Move Weyrey On Slightest Provocations But Charms na ihm we dey use Pass!


Our Culture is Faulty... We have to Rejig Our Value Systems and Strengthen Our Laws Against Injustice(Jungle Justice) & Tyrannism...

Giving Birth to Children You can't Nurture Is Injustice Against Those Children ... Until We Put That Into equation, We ain't Going Anywhere because The Street Raised Children Would Emerged to become Problem to the Organised Societies!

placeofallure:
Hmmm, so I be sinner like this?

I wear ankle chains, I wear waist beads, I've got multiple ear piercings. I wear about 4 rings on my fingers simultaneously, I have tattoos in hidden places, though they're not permanent. I plan to start wearing a stud on my nose soon, then what again? I'm gonna dye my hair golden for Christmas. Mohbad Style, loading.
I am a daughter of zion and don't joke with my prayer meetings and choir rehearsals. I came back from the church (choir practice) about an hour ago. I'm a good girl, those things don't define me. I work 9-5, I'm very resourceful. Yesterday was our annual Award Day at the office, and guess what, I won the Staff of the Year award, It came with a cheque. I have my side hustles too, not Prostitution. My hubby is proud of me always cause I'm not a liability. I've got a good head on my shoulders...if any man runs away from me because of those things the OP has mentioned, it's his loss!

Wild Daughter Of Zion ....

Life must be Lived Aswear.....
Wa Gbayi!

A life without Touches Of Ogbaaa na Boring Life

We are definitely coming Oyinbo's Way ....

Hope we shall be able to manage the fallout !

Anyway, It's a welcome Developments But Political Office Must be earned & Brokered Not Compensated For !!

Dpsychologist:
In today’s relationship landscape, too many people argue about “body count” like it’s a moral scoreboard.


Men must start thinking with strategy, not sentiment.
Numbers don’t lie.
Patterns don’t lie.
History doesn’t lie.

If a woman has a consistent pattern of saying yes to multiple men, multiple situationships, multiple impulses…
You’re not the “one.”
You’re simply the next.

Choose wisely.
Not based on what she says now
but based on what her pattern already proved.

You bunch just write many senselessness in senses ........

Same Men You are Rooting for are Responsible for banging Shege out of the Pvssies of Same Women You are Condemning and Criticising .....

What Hypocrisy Disguised as Sanity!

As Una Turn Una Women to Be ..... na So Una Go take them Like That ........

Men would have to be chaste to cohabit with Chaste Women !

Whatever Women Become, Men Designed them to Be exactly like that ...


The World is Forever Men's World and Women takes After Their Men's Desires!

Enjoy Ya Women's Milage Like that ... Na Ya Fellow Gender Widen The Shiiiiitttssss with CrazeFvcks!

Dyfynezz12:
Iyeabe

Ereluroz ..

Different Shades of Weyrey !!

Runner wants to Run Don ... !!

pocohantas:
I would be bored if my staff does this. I have just one, a housekeeper and I don't want her to ask how I am . Do your job well and we are good. Don't act like I saved you from the apocalypse, even if you think I did.

The housekeeper is even Saving You from "Madnesses" accruing from Running House Chores With Your Professional Jobs ....

Nazgul:
Thanking your boss for paying you for services you rendered seems awkward to me.

Your salary is not a gift. It’s not charity. It’s not a personal favour. You showed up for 30 days, dealing with stress, deadlines, pressure, sickness, unexpected tasks...etc, and all the wahala that comes with the job. Yet you still gave your best to keep the company moving. That is value. And value deserves compensation.

Sadly, a lot of Nigerians have been conditioned to see basic their rights as privileges. So instead of standing confidently on the fact that you earned your pay, they act like the boss did them a special favour by releasing the salary they already worked for.

Yes, you can be respectful, professional, and appreciative of good working conditions, but collecting your salary is not something you should feel indebted for. You’re not being blessed, you’re being paid what you deserve.

It’s time people started valuing their effort and understanding that compensation is a Right, not a privilege.

In an Environment Of Tyrants and Terrors In Suit, You just have to be licking Their Nyansh to keep getting Favour But One day go be day ... The Ogas would still Molest You like Rag ....

Be Humble but Stand For Your Worth!!

SpencerForbes:
I dislike offering verbal appreciation; I’d rather communicate through my work ethic. Compliments often get to people's heads, and they start believing they are doing you a favor. I prefer to let my results speak for me. If the employer is treating me well, he will see the gratitude in my productivity. However, if he starts misbehaving, he will notice the shift in my actions immediately.

Thanks For knowing Your Worth .. A Progressive Relationship!

Sonnobax15:
. You won't understand....

If you had been jobless for years and you luckily land a job, especially when all hopes seems to be lost, only then you'll understand why this employee has chosen to appreciate his employer...

It's a Servitudes Mentality .... Deliver Your soul from Slavery ...

Some people sells themselves Off ...

You can Be Appreciative No Doubt but Overdo na ihm make you to become a Puppet and other Stupidities follows Afterwards!

dierich:
Thanks so much
This man is well known by me. I mean, we know each other well

Oga ade .. You no get work abi ... From spying to reporting to Nairalanders ...

Oniroyin Isonu ... ....

Give her your blessings to shag the Man .. Your mind go relax afterwards...

Manofsteelx:
I can't stand people suffering, if you even complain of something and you didn't ask for my assistance, as long as I heard you're going through stuff guilt will consume me like I'm the one at fault and I'll try to do something about it no matter how little, and if you ask for assistance I do more than you asked and if I can't help I'll try to solve it using other means like borrowing from others for your sake, I've always been like that.

I've been looking out for my siblings as the eldest since I can remember, parents are not there, and I've been lucky with some measure of financial freedom, everyone respects me then and whatever I say is what they do, conflicts were easy to resolve, I thought they respect me because I was responsible and I behaved matured and stepped up, mind you I was in my 20s fending for four siblings, I stopped schooling because no one was there to pay my fees, and started hustling before financial freedom came, I made sure my siblings goto school so they don't repeat my mistakes, not too long ago I even bought phone for one of them (siblings), borrowed on their behalf even when I don't have.

Fast forward to the past couple of months things took a drastic turn, my source of income dried off, everything stopped working at once, when I'm close to benefiting from anything that thing will crumble, things got so bad and within three months I'm totally broke, could you believe these same siblings I went above and beyond for turned on me, they don't respect me anymore, they now ask what have you done for me, one even starved me for some time when I stayed with her, in summary I'm nothing to them anymore and they even blocked me online because we had a falling out when I asked why are they're suddenly disrespecting me, then it hit me, they didn't respect me because I'm older or how I behave, they respected my money, the money they all drained,

I'll get back on my feet eventually, with a bitter lesson learnt, don't burn for anyone, not even your family, few people remember what you did for them and you're lucky if you have such around you, I'll get back up and when I do I'm cutting everyone off.

The Game is The Game ....!!!

Mercury12:
Most Nigerians are just hypocrites.
You dey watch porn steady and still dey form holy holy. From your politicians to pastors, imam, lecturers, teachers, school and college kids.

Buh nah naija dey pretend like virgin grandmother

Not like that ... The Game is the Game ....

Anything contradictory to the immaculateness of the Mindsets always Fvcked Up the Minds & the Brains ..... Especially Women Whom doesn't have much Resilience like Men .... or Some weak Ones who couldn't bear the hishhash that comes after Weyrey Life ... You could be mentally fvcked Up for life ....

Going inside madness is Easy But Turning Back is Madness

SpaceX:
Where do jiihadists come from? Islam!!!!

Dey there dey shout Islam .... Until dem knock ya door ....

War against Humanities should not be reduced to War of Religion Ideologies!!

Idk when you religion fools would get sense ...

Mohammed is dead more than 1,400years ago ...

Jesus was Dead More than 3,000 years ago ...

You guys are still crying Islam & Jesus ....

Where is Simply "Human" ... Not Mere Religion Stupidities!

Racoon:
A country where a fully armed terrorist wield more influence than the sovereign leadership of the nation and it barrage of security agencies

When Sovereign Nation has been ruined with Injustice aka Corruption.. This is what Happened

VOsimhen144:
Can the northerners just start their own country already?? Like, let's separate. Their way of thinking is so so weird. We are not aiming for fight or anything, but let's just separate. We can't be in the same space with these people

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You can't Separate without a War !!

ibtommy:
Get enlisted at your own risk o, my people. Those Isla' terrorists ain't playing at all. We need a working system to combat them. Fear dey catch me like this

Every Man must be a Soldier .... Fear or No Fear ....

If they Overrun Our Military and Defense System, They are Coming for You !!

No where to run Bro !!

Armaggedon:
They went to meet a US congressman. And these are the same people soludo defends in his numerous lectures.

It's not brilliance; it's integrity. Little wonder character comes before learning.

That is what happened to a rotten Nation ....

Nobody respect You if you dedicated Yourselves to Dishonours !!

njokuuche77:
Well, I think it’s the banking industry 😏. I don do am before those days for diamond bank. it was fun… until I begin eye another babe for the same department. You can guess how that ended 😅.

Complete the story na