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musicwriter:
I was 29 years old when our mother left. And ever since I became the breadwinner of the house.

But I had a choice to just carry on my own life, instead I sacrificed my own aspirations for them to make sure they go to school, feed, etc. Example; I wanted to take up a part time in UNILAG then, but couldn't just do that anymore.

I never knew what was called a girl friend as I actually lived like a parent already. I could have got married at that point but I didn't. I remember the same friend asking me to get married then but I didn't. He once told me that "if you could take care of these people, then you can as well get married now." But their upbringing was more important to me.

Long story short, when things went sour for me, those that are male vow that I've never helped them in my life. And they're living on their own now. Those that are female got married within a couple of years. So, at the end I realized they could as well survived without me.

Now, I have no serious interest in getting married cause I feel I'll be taking up a responsibility that I already passed many years ago.

Finally, it's not as if I regret it but the attitude of some of them today makes me seriously consider whether that was the right thing to do on my part

You are a low Spirit Bro.

You are the one that did charity with expectations of recognition & gratitude from fellow Human... Nah, Human are ingrates even to the God that created us talkless of fellow Men like you ....

I did what you did for 5 of my siblings out of 11 of them .... it really affected me but I have watched Many Soldier/War Movies to Know that ... Just do Your own & Move Da fvq On ....

One of them even backbite me to the family that I was the one instructing them never to visit the extended family again .... Person wey pass through me for B.Eng & I still Marry for wey me never marry ooo.... Awon Omo Weyrey...... Me wey no well ... she thought after B.Eng she don see life ...... Who dey beg na ...

If you ain't a Wizard, Some Endeavours would make you hate yourself but if you do it for God(Good), The Spirit of Good(I.e.) Would Reward You beyond your expectations of "Thank-You" ..........

I was called into family meeting, I blasted them all that If they(Family) did their jobs ... I'm not the one that suppose run those Pikins school ... I Denied ever teaching anyone against them but I said worst to them & drop cup like Olamide did at Headies.....

If you wanna help people, who is helping you ..

If you don't have God, You can't emancipate people because you will be depleted while they rise & the Demon would make you blame yourself with regrets just to evolve your wicked side ....

Do it for God & Move On like a Soldier that You are serving His Commander-In-Chief(God)- You will be Rewarded by Nature & They will all come to Apologise when they see doings!

richiemcgold:
Criticizing the government in power.

.. it does not worth it. A waste of productive time and resources.

Most of us did it during our Youthful days but at Adulthood, God knows it never worth it ...

If you ain't comfortable with Government in Power, Just Go and take It from them & use it for what you think they ain't doing right !

Talk is cheap ... I too talk back then !

omowolewa:
Africans are brilliant in their our nature, they failed to evolve intonthe current world order

No thanks to juju ... that shee connects the Brain back to the ancient Primordial worlds & obstruct the Brain from relating with contemporary reality!

Whobedatte:
If I have my way in Nigeria, I'll ban pentecostal churches.
Let everyone go back to their CAC , catholic and Apostolic churches

It's not about Churches But People !

RealityKings1:
Danmmm maybe it's really true it's hard to break through by just doing legal things and believing in God.

You can Breakthrough by doing legal things & believing in God but People don't want to use their sense to create & invent innovative Techs or Ideas that Humanities would pay for ...

You can be using God to do shortcuts, that's the devil kinda things ....

The pastor could have started a luxury cars that could rival Lamborghini & see whether he wouldn't be rank alongside Elon Musk .... But Nah, We have Shortcuts ingrained in our system!

Softmirror:
He should have elaborated and explained his own insights as to what he is not comfortable with and why and what he thinks should be done. The bill is meant to carry everyone along. Mrfeel

That's the Problem with Most Northern Leaders ... They just love destroying Nigeria for No Reason while the Southern Leaders are not also Helping Nigeria ....

It's all about North Vs Southern Nigeria Not "Nigeria" ..... A Baby being Milked by Dad & Mom shall Perished But Nahhh, ....

Pantami ended up saying Nothing .... He should have highlighted the errors he saw & Provided wayforward but Nope, He wanted to be called for Consultancy By the National Assembly .... Then He Got Paid .....

Where is the National Interest

RedpillAnalyst:
Another sad case for normies. 100Million for a high mileage mediocre puna 30 other guys already sampled.

Dude forgot.
Rule zero: Hypergamy doesn't care

He goofed On a wrong Banny!
Misinvestments !

ArcFresky:
Dude did right.

People just like making nice people feel like mugu.

He Fvcked Up!
Me will Never-Ever reason their matter like that laye!

Judas is a Carrot 🥕!

Bhadboyjago & Tosyne Story Is now the trending ...

Nigga blow Money for Girl come dey Cap when she chop ihm eyes .... That's what happened to Monies 💰 Made From Street Sense Not Wizardry... You spend it anyhow ....

Laslas some boys would still blame the girl for chopping a street nigga ....

Street Girl Chop Street Guy .... Case Close!
No be today Street dey chop Street... That's why You must hold yasef Tight .... He sef don chop Street wellwell so he no suppose dey Cap Normal Normal ... Dust am and move on ....

Shey na the person wey dem chop fvcked Up or Na Who Chop the Person Fvcked Up ...

Dude is just sweating inside AC 😳.... Person wey dem suppose wire cord for back !

Jago just dey Spoil Men Face ... Gisos !

Wise Up Men & Have Peace ✌

felong:
I need your input on this as am about to make a decision.

Our Past Determine Our Present because a Damaged Brain is a Damaged Brain ....

So If You don't have the Psychological Wherewithal to Repair a Damaged Brain ... Kindly Refrain ....

A Damaged Brain Can't Repair Another Damaged Brain, It must End In Disaster!

SAMBARRY:
Every man or woman that makes a child doesn't make him a father or mother.infact I have seen ducks,hens and dogs more fatherly and motherly than human parents.

I have seen male dogs that will not allow neither male or female dog go near his wife or children but I have seen men pimping their own wives to one alhaji or chief because of money.the bottomline is any fool can get a woman pregnant and any 1d1ot can open her legs to allow spe#m enter her jajaina.its the easiest thing to do but it's an entirely different thing to be a father or mother. It takes responsibility, commitment, decency, decorum,wisdom and discipline to do thats unfortunately its people with character and
mental deficiency that are always quick to reproduce children

.. That's because The Nerves In The Penis/Jajaina Do All the thinking for their Brain 🧠

Rukevwe999:
U don see am na

As much as we may call Will Smith a "simp", we can't deny is an high valued man. He's had a successful career in Hollywood and he's one of the few celebs out there with a squeaky clean image - except for that entanglement issue and the punch he gave Chris Rock at the Oscars.
Sometimes let's not use celebrity relationships to measure real world relationships - theirs is very complicated and lots of things are hidden from us. If Jada is having her engines oiled, so is Will also able to knack any babe he wants, anyday and anytime.

We may declare Will Smith a simp but he can omah lay some guys girlfriends here and there's nothing they'll do but watch and sulk.

Thanks for The Bolded, Celebrity Relationship is Mostly Business Relationships Than "Love-Relationship" Because Stardom Comes with a lot of Stress to Maintain The Standards in order to stay relevant in the industry ....

But when it comes to real sexual things most of them find next Hustles to be deeply connected to on Emotional Ground because Laslas Human Minds Desires Connections beyond Business Situationship which fellow Hustler like you may not be able to Provide ...

Most Women are Femme Fatale especially in a Professional "Business" Industry ... They Use and Dump Men at Will while In Normal Communal Relationships, Most Women are Hypergamous & That has been happening since Year 0 .... Anyman that doesn't understand these two terms shall cry tire

Not Just women, Most Human are Hypergamous cuz who no want Better things except Someone with Good Heart ....

Any Celebrity that puts Minds On Another Celebrity shall be Jonsed because they needed one another to maintain limelight which is what pays them their Money 💰 💸 .... No stardom no sales ... who will put you in their Project If you ain't the one in limelight, They will be Ready to Wait for the limelight ones to finished whatever Project they are doing.... Even if na One Year, They will Delay for You !

They all Used Themselves & Dump Themselves from Hollywood to Nollywood ..

All Relationships to Me is Business But With Women, A Man is not expected to Be Emotional Nahhhhh, If You Open your eyes wella without being confused by "Love(Emotions)", You would have seen the Zigzag characters before sheeeetttt happens & Trahhhhhh, You do What You Have to Do ...!

luminouz:
K

I don Edit am .. !

Martinez39s:
I thought you warned me about that fellow. Redpillers will just be chatting on their thread as usual, clowns will claim they are wiping, crying, complaining, bitçhing, or whatever. Critical thinking skills and maturity are lacking these days.

Don't mind that guy. Smh

Nigga, I ain't Fellow ... Come to Me Directly Stop Backbiting Me with That E-Fool(Luminouz) ..

Redpilling is a Thread for all Nairaland to Contribute... There is Nothing Like My Thread, Our Thread in Public Forum ... You can Move it to Private Place & We go comot here !

Philosophies come and Go ...

Every Philosophies in Life Faces Adjustments & But Any Excessive Of Any Stupidities Makes The Bearer Useless Themselves!

Bitching Over Women or Forming Odogwu On How You Conquered The Opposite Weaker Sex is not an Achievement, That's a Simping Shit In Itself ...!

luminouz:
I know the fôôl wella.... He is a lowlife. Anytime his life is on a downward spiral, he takes it out on us ..I asked him a simple question and he went on a mad rant, which I enjoyed then slammed him with a 'K'. 😉😉😉

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Online Muscle ... A Chartered Accountant is not a Lowlifer Modafvcker .... if you have one among your Folks .. You would know what it means ...

It's not Woman Matter Sha, I don't have to Break it Down for Your Red-Moronic-Head !!

Rukevwe999:
If you've got issues with him or his views, quote with him directly instead gossiping him like women.

... ..He is just a Nairaland e-rat that fights everywhere ... It's all about the "likes" to Him & Validation as Women Champion...

All These Fake-Ass Niggas That would Go Wimp When They Meet Real Women ....

He can't Withstand Me Nor Anyone On Nairaland... That's why he devised The "K" as an Escape Route from Intellectual Discussions Anytime Anyone Disagrees with his Stupidity!

Eriokanmi:
Tiwa's son is all grown. Handsome dude I sight you

He don dey resemble his Dad !

EmperorCaesar:


See the ancient keys sef

Spiritism might be real but you guys are already attributing too much powers to these socalled 'principalities"

They dont have the power the reverse or even interrupt Natural phenomenon and its impossible to lock people's potential(an abstract thing) with a physical lock


There's nothing like Destiny too

You wanna know why Africa is the Base of Contemporary Humanities, Those Locks 🔒 are As Potents as The Engines Used to Power Aeroplanes ...

They work as Fvck, It takes Another Demonic Forces to Unlock them & That One also Comes with Its Quargmires ....

Those Locked are Destiny of Weaker Soul-Energies being tied down ... some of those people would never experience any Good in their life till death & not just them even their offsprings .....

Anyway, those who do those Locks sef go collect from Both God & the demons they use ...

Nothing is free in Demonic Realms ... Demons sef go collect !

Anyway, With Almighty God, All Locks are Unlocked !!

drstranged:
She probably is the one that would never have wanted anything to do with you anymore because she'd probably be wondering in her mind how a guy could be so simpish to pay for everything she ordered for and even went ahead to pay for her tfare. Ladies hate guys without intelligence, without swag, without common sense. They sense it as weakness and weakness makes you a woman before them not a man. I'm sure she'd have been laughing in her mind and calling you a child or a woman as you deleted her number before her. She had gained everything and you lost. A lady would only value and respect you when she knows she had invested or lost something valuable and tangible because of you.

You are a Gamer .... !!
Not a Player !

Samantha125:
I lost my baby last month because of Instagram... My husband is active on Instagram and he was so excited that we were going to have a baby that he even posted the picture of the ultrasound on his Instagram account, not knowing that his ex has been stalking him with a different account.

About a week later, she contacted me and started telling me about how she's now born again and turned a new leaf, that she wanted to make amends for what happened in the past... I assured her that I've long moved on from what happened and held no grudge against her... She then suggested that we should meet, so that we could bury the hatchet the right way, again I fell for her trick and told her that I'll let her know when I'm around Limpopo and we'd meet... Because I'm the type of a person who believes in second chances.

My husband warned me against the idea, but I assured him that I wasn't planning on being friends with her, but I just wanted to hear her out in person.

Last month I visited my parents in Limpopo and I informed her that I was around... We arranged our meeting and since it was a restaurant, I didn't think anything bad could happen... Long story short, I ended up fighting for my life in hospital and lost the baby... I had to undergo three surgeries, all because of that ultrasound my husband posted on his Instagram.

Like 2024 isn't my year.

Human could be so Wicked ooo

Basiljoe:
I have mixed feelings.
I want to build an online brand, share my tech journey, life experiences, and possibly earn from content creation.

People will reach out to you easily for jobs if you're competent and experienced, but how do they do that if you don't have an online presence that could build trust.

At the same time, I want a low-key life of privacy. What they don't know, they can't ruin. 🤷🏽

It's Simple ... You can't do Mass Com jobs without being fortified either in God or Demon .... You will crash out because there are so many competing forces at Play beyond Ordinary ....

If you don't have what it takes, no gamble am ... Dem go Kee for & ur business !

EmperorCaesar:


Havent posted anything on my personal Whatsapp status since 2017, so its hard to even post anything on IG or Twitter...Only on Linkedin

I do things this way cause i no like attention. I once changed job three times(across three different fields) early this year and not even my best pals that i see everyday were even aware of it

I just like being under the radar. My personality

That aside, posting ones achievement wouldnt change anything . Village people and juju cant do shii

Life happens to people at anytime it so wishes

This your bolder philosophy can hurt you in abundant measures if you don't adjust it for African Contemporary Realities!

African is a Spiritual Continent & Village People & Juju is Part of Our Heritage depending on the Energies of the Beholder !

Righteousness2:
I laugh in Swahili....
Londonistan is in the making..

Watch & Learn ... Londonislam ... New Name of London !

Zubeezanga:
There is nothing Christian about most church today, .majority the churches are just for fornication and the pastors scamming the gullible ones don't raise your hopes high, good people are not in the churches this days just perfect pretenders

What you called Churches is now a "Motivational Centres" & They also do Praise & Worship ... see, Na so life just be jhare ...

No sheeeee ... we go dey roll am like that !

realsportclub7:
Christians I believe are called out people.
Distinct and different from the world, in words, fashion and likeness.

If you can't see a clear distinction between a Pastor and Hip hop stars, it's either the pastor is fake or the Christianity he's portraying is run by devil.

You are still locked 🔒🔐 to Oldskool Era of Worshipping God ... With the Trend of Gen Z life of today, hip-hop stars are Definitely gonna lead Church services because Generations Comes and Goes ....

Don't be afraid when you see Tiwa Savage of 2020s leading Church in 2050s when her Sextapes Littered all over the Internet

Remember, the Gen Z of Today shall be the elder of tomorrow Providing Wisdom & Wizardry for Gen Alpha(Children of 2020s) ..

How do you imagine Life or Church/Mosque services to Be in this generation ... .. It shall definitely be different for what we used to know ... Definitely!!

Expect Anything & Everything....

This generation will be Productive to the Universes No Doubt even More Than Their Ancestors has ever Been but They Would Slay & Wild it all Out More Than Their Ancestors has ever been.

I.e. More Productive than their Forefathers But More Sins Than Their Forefathers....

& Earth Would still be better off than Before while Humanities would still be balance than before !!

That has always been the Evolutionary trajectory of Humanities! ....

More Productivity But More Sins Meanwhile Lesser Satanism/Demonism ....

We are Evolving so Expect Shocks just Grab Your Shock Absorbers ... U go See Craze ... But it shall be corrected in due time ... !

youngestgrad:
Na so juju dey work?

No doubt Am oooo .... Demonic Powers Dey ... But God's Power is the foremost Power ... Just Call God & Pay attentions with Good Reasonable Scientific Knowledges!... All Quargmires are solved !

Softmirror:
And you decided to bring this to the public. Nawa.😏 If she come sleep on top ur shoulders nko?🥴

That Guy Na One Madafvxker from Sheeeehole

McStoic:
It changes nothing. Her profession does not change her intrinsic wild inclinations. Though she could be among those who combine academics well with wild vibes/lifestyle

It took me hell of years to combine that sheeee ....

The beauty part of human brain is that ... it can be easily trained on most anything.....

Moderation though is key to everything!

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luminouz:
K

... Elepon Blue ... Isi-Ewu ... Onyeoshi, Nkwobi .. Baba Were

dontrulee:
Well, it depends on the individuals involved.
Countless ladies have taken me out on dates and they paid for everything!
This has made it difficult to take a lady out for date and spend on her, because why should I be the one doing all the spending? I don't spend to impress girls because they're fickle, girls love material things and can make you go broke if you're not careful. I detest parasites and I squash them. In those days, I chop the money of girls who claim never to spend on a Man. Girls have money and simps are the ones giving it to them, rubbish

Ladies spent on you because you gatz steeze, rizz zz, class & you are alluring to their eyes 👀 & mostly important You ain't simps ..... Laslas, You be OG cuz you gatz experience in this Game .. so you know even what women don't know about themselves ... that makes you interesting to them.....

You be Doc na ... All of una na Ashawo shuuu ...

Women wouldn't engage in a Man that's not giving her Emotional Happiness whatever she defines that Happiness to be .... Na she know wetin she dey gain & she is ready to pay & even kill rivals for It ...

Unlike classless dudes at the lowest end of Masculinity hierarchies ... Instead of learning games, learning Women ... Understanding the hormones that flows in them at a particular point in time & the decisions that comes with each hormone ... nah, na cry dem wan cry ...

Women has been making gameless men cry since Year 0 ... ask Adam how e tey chop Apple 🍎🙄

dontrulee:
I've realized that men has absolutely no advantage in marriage.
As a single man, I know how much I spend. I now imagine myself in my dad's shoes and look at his responsibilities, damn!
A man will first make sure his family is comfortable before he comforts himself, that's disadvantageous to a Man, very.

That's your Job to Humanities & The Universe as Biological Wired into You By Nature ....

If you defy that Order of your Masculinity Energies, it comes with consequences which could be depressive only for you to use Alcohol 🍸 or Other substances to suppressed it & Alcohol also comes with it's consequences on Organs ....

It's a Pyramid designed by the designer & as far as You failed to comply by that Order, Consequences Abound .....

Choose your poisons & live by it but as a Soul and a Human ... There is no Escaping Universal Embedded Responsibilities by any Gender even Animals and Plants !