dangotesmummy:
Wunmi is beautiful.i love her as an actress but she exudes wayy too much masculine energy (aggression)

Maybe it could be as a result of series of heartbreaks/disappointments she has had From people.i know she's an alpha female and alpha females tend to have a lot of anger issues/overbearing attitude but with a wise and mature man who can handle an alpha woman,he can use his wisdom to turn her masculine energy to a feminine and soft one.however if she's with a fvck boy or all these overgrown baby man child who cannot handle choleric women or understand women he Will only make her more hardened and rebellious.

Anytime you see soft feminine especially the ones who were ones aggressive check their men, you will see it's usually the quiet but wise ones with discernment who did a good job in softening her up without any violence or toxic energy

Great Piece!

FreeStuffsNG:

There is Bi o şe, bi ko ni şe, adura san ju eepe lo. There are 3 generations I have seen where their Dads were dead beat fathers One person will eventually break the jinx if he or she does the exact opposite of what the forebears did. Success, like failure, always leave a trail.

It's Genetic Instructions That leads to Chain Reactions from Generations to Generations!

BaaleYaku:

Check their Views Below

Tunde Ajaja

By norm and social standard, parents are expected to take care of their children. But in some cases, some parents abdicate this responsibility, oftentimes leaving the children to survive on their own or at the mercy of relatives or strangers.

I can't Be like Them, My Children Must Inherit Better DNA from Me .... They will be well Catered For Without Sweat !

The Rat Race has Been too Much ...

Globalisation & Capitalism is Feeding Deep into The Pysche of Younger Generations Fuelled By Social Media Not Many Younger Generations Including Their Parents & Guardians Understand The Realities of What's Happening, People Just tagged Along Like Zombies Until Realities Started Hitting Hard Then The Depressions Start popping Leading to Suicide(Sniper) Solutions!

Everyone wants to be Like Everyone Across The Globe Even When Your Ancestral Limitations & Societal Inhibitors Wouldn't allowed You to Achieve Your Wildest Dreams ... Depressions Sets In Then Other Vices Follows Reducing Your Happiness Index !

Demigod22:


Lol, after my experience with those girls, my penis is never the same. Sex is an important aspect of every living organism.

Olohun!

Fryx:


I get you. I use to say it that I am not married yet though.

However, I have always been entangled with women. Both nice ones, snd strict ones. In fact, even the ones that guys struggle to woo, they usually develop soft spot for me. I think they mistook me for an easy man to control.

But, regardless, I do take charge once we get closer. But by then, they would have been too taken by their feelings to keep up putting on their guard and high standards.

Apart from the feelings. What works best is “know what you are doing as a man”. Have a clear vision for yourself and any woman in your life (friend or lover) and they will naturally submit to you.

Just be a leader. They will follow. They are meant to follow.

But being a leader also means you have great responsibility. They look up to you and emulate you. It’s dangerous to betray a woman or take them for granted. Even if you want to hurt them, take their permission and make it seem sweet. They love sweet pain.

Just make any pain you are causing them a sweet pain. They wont know when they will start agreeing to you. Also, make every decision you made look like they are the one making the decision. It gives them a sense of belonging.


And it’s true that replacing a woman is not always easy. Marriage is like a covenant plus if you love her, it became harder.

I think, the most important thing is focusing energy on developing mental strength. With a good mental strength, you can take any hard decision.

A girl once use her diabolical power to tie me down (she is an ogbanje). But once I discovered it’s not normal. I made it my next step to break free.

Do you know how I succeed? I found a girl that’s also spiritual. Ever since I met my new girl, every influence the former one had on me stopped. And I saw what transpired in a dream.

My new girl is more respectful. More reasonable and not as bitter as my previous one. Although, the both of them are still close to me.

I don’t hate my old girl. But, I don’t have control over her because of what she did to me. I won’t mind whatever she does if she is reasonable. But she is far from being reasonable. I have that control now, having broken free.

.... Two Women tied you down ....

NaijaNaWaa:
So Pat Utomi expected Tony Nwoye and Ireti Kingibe to behave differently from Akpabio, Adeola or Orji Uzor Kalu? Anyway, the only surprise for me is that they’ve not decamped to APC yet.

Ajeh!

PaulH07:
We're slowly going back to the stone age, where the strong eats the food of the weak.

Strong men would band people's wives and nothing will happen.

We must return to the stone age from whence we came, before the world comes to an end.

The world ain't coming to an end bro ... if we end humanity New Set of Human shall Be Created in No Time ...

ReluctantAdult:
Some random nairalander just kept liking all my posts on this thread and got me reading this again after over 3 years

Super cringey that I did some erotic back and forth roleplay with a total stranger online
I guess it was good fun then

Na me !

Johnjustice:

Yes, in the sense of where the materials come from you are correct...but I mean all these are not in the grand plan of the universe. The universe is about evolution, biology, this is how the universe creates life forms. You are not wrong just different context.

The Only Misconceptions I'm Addressing is That "Everything is In The Grand Plan of The Universes" .... Everything Even The Ones That Shall Happen in The Next 1billion Light Years Away From Earth & Everything......

We Human are not doing anything Spectacular neither have we done anything Spectacular because everything we are doing, Shall Do & Have Done is Within What The Universes Already Inscribed in Our Scripts(DNA) ... We still have More Than 1billion Unexplored Resources Within Ourselves & If You Can't Explore Yourself, You Can't Explore The Worlds .... It Starts From Within !

... We haven't Even done 0.01% of What The Universes Expected from Us because to Move Faster, All Humanities Must Become One Unified Entity Devoid of Any Iota of Crisis & Everything Must Be In Peace & Decorum ... No More Crisis .... We shall Move Faster in Progressive Growths & Developments....

Johnjustice:
No essence, just a biological, evolutionary process...that process birthed you, and everything else. Money and other material things are human machinations has nothing to do with the universe.

Everything has to do with the Universes Because we didn't invent the machinations out of nowhere ... we are materials of the Universes same as all other materials whether invented or not .... we only gather the elements together to make a purposeful sense !

everythingtall3:
we are here to contribute our quota to the growth and development of the world.

👌

ayjay45:
As we sleep, wake up everyday, go to work or school, strive to make money.

Is the ultimate purpose of life making money or what is it exactly?

Serve God(Good) ... Help Yourself & Help Your Neighbours Then Fvck Your Haters Real Bad !

Sunday2021:
at 30 years you are hanging around your parents? That shows you are a dumb ass that cannot make life for yourself. A married man depending on his father is a foool.

Dey there dey Cap ....
They all have their Companies & Jobs ....!

Enugurangers:
Nigeria is a big crime scene.

The World not Just Nigeria ... Na Who God Exposed Be Thief!

Skoonheid:
No society wants you to become wise: it is against the investment of all societies. If people are wise they cannot be exploited. If they are intelligent they cannot be subjugated, they cannot be forced into a mechanical life, to live like robots. They will assert themselves – they will assert their individuality. They will have the fragrance of rebellion around them; they will want to live in freedom.

Freedom comes with wisdom, intrinsically. They are inseparable, and no society wants people to be free. The communist society, the fascist society, the capitalist society, the Hindu, the Mohammedan, the Christian – no society likes people to use their own intelligence because the moment they start using their intelligence they become dangerous – dangerous to the establishment, dangerous to the people who are in power, dangerous to the “haves”; dangerous to all kinds of oppression, exploitation, suppression; dangerous to the churches, dangerous to the states, dangerous to the nations.

In fact, a wise man is afire, alive, aflame. He would like rather to die than to be enslaved. Death will not matter much to him, but he cannot sell his life to all kinds of stupidities, to all kinds of stupid people. He cannot serve them.

This Really Hit Me to The Marrow !

Unfortunately Only The Leader Can be Wise But Here in Nigeria ... The Leaders are Half eyed Men Leading Blind Men ....

If Your eyes too Opened for Here, You will be in mess !

ESANMEA:
Ok

Hello Dear, Hope You Good...

Elohorp:


Nigeria is indeed lawless and the citizens even encourage it

Welcome to Reality!
It's Called "Capitalism" Not "Emotionalism" !

Chicagograduate:
How can 3 cement brands be selling their products to 300 million Nigerians?They are taking undue advantage of Nigerians.

You can't be Complaining Bro, Start Your Own & Drop Your Price to N2k Per Bag...

You will automatically become the Market Leader Right Now !

YinkaOlusesi16:
Wetin be hin own?

wonder oo ... They should stop hanging where their Parents Lives & Works ....

femi4:
Maybe 18 century women....Kilo kan baddy pelu love, she just wanna get laid n move on

Ajeh ... Gen Z girls makes the world an easier Place ...

Eyes don Break Everywhere.... ....

Better Days Ahead

ESANMEA:
I no go anywhere jare, I still dey active here sef but with another moniker. I was searching for that your mail to drop a message for you but I couldn't get it anymore. I've got gist for you o

No Wahala ... gmail.com...
Don't Quote so I can Edit !

ESANMEA:
I've got something to share now

Omoh, Where did u dissappeared to ...

Welcome back anyway

officialwdhtvv:
Jaws drop as a lady stood up during Sunday service to accuse a Pastor of getting her pregnant

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_C6op63oxA

Social Media Don Create Much Wahala Dan Solutions ooo ... ... Pastor Don Lapiopio ..

U just have to choose your world in this world & Stay Glue to Ya world ....

Fvck from your world .... no claim Holy dey do madness .... dem go cast you ...

chatinent:

It is all About Mindsets & Emotions.

Don't attached yourself to a "Belief-System" That will Limit Your Realities & Civilisations Only For You to Become Wounded & Toxic ... If You Misbehave Towards Nature, She will Treat Your Fvcked Ups with Much Fvcks as Nature Doesn't Give a Ratazz about You or Your Emotions Just Serve Your Good Great Purposes Do Your Fvcked Ups, Cleanse Your Messed Up & Die ....

I Hold God in Higher Esteem Then I Face the Harshness of Realities With Nothing Than to Emerged a Conqueror, Nothing-Else!

Neither Saudi Arabia Nor Isreal Shall Determine My "God" For Me .... Neither My Yoruba Heritage Too.... I can Determine My God Myself Just Look into Realities Without Emotions, You will See God via Trial & Errrors Then Use the Religion Books as a Guide & Guard.

Life is all about Good-Sins-Evils ... Choose Your Thresholds Wisely ... You can't Escape the Three Parameters!

E dey happen wellwell!

Ogamysamo:
i was on this thread few months back(if not a year) with the op favorolasupo the madam learning multiple languages. maybe if you'll scroll up you'll remember.
remember now?

Make I Check first ..
So whatsup ?

Ogamysamo:
hello! remember me?

Nope ?

Victimoftribali:
if you do someone a favor, allow them reciprocate on their own terms. 'doing a favor ' is not same thing as paying for a service, even if it were, there are limits a service provider can decide go. If she wanted that extra meet that bad, she should have not bought the food for him, she should have instead, used the money to get extra meat. Atleast I didn't read her say she was forced to buy the food.

They already built personalisation so if the aboki is free to request for personal favour she is also free to request for personal favour .... The Aboki is an Ingrate ...

If I'm giving you as Per paddy ... & You No reciprocate doing my own times of needs ... I will withdraw myself & my gift from You .... Which kain parasitic friend be that ... I'm always on Symbiotic Relationships! ...

Do for Me, Make I do For You .... I do for You, You Do Me For me .. (My Sanity Must Be Protected) Except I do "Charities" & You Must Never-Ever Reciprocated Me with "Evils" .. I might Be Your Wreck !

placeofallure:


You're mistaken. Mi o buru rara o. Far from it. The thing is there are a lot of unreasonable people here on this forum and generally in the world. If any of those crosses my path, I should set them straight that's all. This generation needs to be salvaged whatever is left. I'm just doing my little part in changing the world.

I understand You as Per Civil to Civil ...

I'm just making an Allusions to what your In-laws conceived about your Personality going by the Civility of Average In-laws Families & Your kinda Personality on Nairaland(How you defend Yoruba-Race & Tinubu & Your Patriotism for Nigeria, Women & African Race) as well as Your Intense Passion for Teaching(Madam-Disciplines)

You Might not be blocking them with Words of Mouth, But You are Counteracting their Actions with Your Actions ... ... You don show them Shege without words ...

Our People Would Fight You for Resisting their Enslavements & Controlling Miens That's what You Did ... You Didn't fall in line ... You Also dey form woke so na dem come be Pako if You are Licking their Nyansh .... They won't give you problem but They Will wrecked your mental state with Stupidities Demands..

IDK, Where those oloribus derived their entitlement mentality from ... It Breaks the families Apart... They will do worst to Your Children if You ain't There ....