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misspicy:
A sane man you say?

you mean a sane man who is not insecure will feel threatened by a dead man?


you all are confused,for Christ sake,the man is no more,not like she will go and meet him in the land of the dead I don't see the fuse here?

its just a phase and she will be over it soon.
they must have shared some memories and it hurts to lose anyone not to talk of someone you were close with

OP is just insecure mbok

Ok... let your wife or gef be thinking about a dead man
for more than normal and tell me you wont be bothered...
That only happens in Nollywood and bollywood
BIKO! we are human...

If you knw d definition of insecure, u wont post such!
I think you are the most confused nigga here!

You are not overreacting, you are not jealous and you not insecure.
A sane man in you shoes would av felt the same way.

But my advice is...trynna give her some time to get over it.
Sit her down and ensure she doesn keep things from you.

My own view is that since she could come out clean and tell you
what she is passing through just the exact way it is, even no matter
how much she felt for him...she still respects you.

And for the fact that she has asked for apology, please give it to her bro
and find more ways to ensure she keeps opening up to you...no matter
how difficult.

Just know that women will be women, i guess that why she took it too far!

NOTE: there are some girls that would prefer not to talk about it, pretend all
is well and wouldn't even ask for any apology in this type of case!

#soft

NifemiOlu:
Consent means approval. I hope you know, and if you know, it's really funny that you need approval from your pastor, siblings and friends. Really funny.

Am sure you not dumb... right?
I dont think thats funny!

nnamdiosu:
with all due respect.....is that the rubbish you teach people on ur blog? closet friends must give their consent before I marry? well I will like to be ur closest friend .......wen I tell u no 5 times, na only you go cone back to Nl and remove closest friends from this ur post. no offence meant.....

U not gonna be the first to diss... Like.... ion bloody care




Now, i tell you.. clarifying my post. Is there a fight, stress or misunderstanding free marriage?

Me putting down the list doesn't meant u must have a yes from them b4 the marriage...
are you guys this DUMB!

What am trying to pass across is, there are things they see that the lover wont notice.
If they try and tell you to slow down a bit or giving the marriage a rethink...then the person
should....

As for those pointing at my four list... Here is more clarity

1. if u don't believe in your pastor knowing about your marriage, then you shouldnt tell me God matters!
2. If you tell me your parent doesn't matter in the choice, then same awaits you from your children too.
Mind you, ion know who you will run to for advice when the trouble starts.
3. You wanna neglect your siblings right? go ahead. I dont know if they will be there when you need someone around you or not
4. Friends too aren't neccessary... No probs, just go ahead and marry without seeking for advice and wisdom from elders!

I have said mine....
#soft

Jolllyjoy:
am in lag.



Will u be my collabo?

With an open heart, i will



But the collabo go get part 2 o

GboyegaD:
It's one's life and nobody no matter how much they care lives the reality of marriage with you. As such, take your decision and stand by it.

ok...
if it was that easy, i wonder why we needed
shoulders to cry on in trying times....




You need to stop watching Nollywood and Hollywood!

Will come and comment tomorrow morning!

GudMorning!
Yea...after reading through, i see that 1,4,5,7 and 8
are the most correct.
May we never Jam them ooooo


my number 10...
Ladies that already know you will be bigger than Aliko!

God punish devil!

prettythicksme:
Oh gotya

You should be tired now...
Go take a nap!

feelme3:
Matured mind. God bless you

Amen sire! and you too

jasmines:
@funkyibodude @donTbone @Michellla @STFUareyouGod @pinkbarbie @Nubian113 @Strawberrycream

What is osu?
Osus are people who were:
1. banished, sent into exile or cursed for an abominable deed committed by them or their parents. Deeds as grave as incest, incuring the wrath of the local deities through intentional or unintentional acts which in turn triggers a curse on the entire village and the likes.
2. People who are dedicated to serve the village Idols either by choice or force. Their entire lineage can't mix with others. These types often enjoy wealth and beauty from the deity they serve as long as they serve it and face tough battles if they stop.
3. Osus are sometimes people suspected or known to be possesed by powerful spirits capable of bringing ill fortune on the village or those around them and as such are bansished to live in the evil forest with other spirits.

Failing to steer from osus in the past have triggered rows of death, curse or ill-fortune in the family or entire clan of the offenders.

Support is needed from as many people as you can. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH!!! If love is enough, why do couples break in as little as 1week. Why do ppl date scores of men whom they all loved at a point?

My advice: if she can bear being cut off from family and friends and bear whatever spiritual implications follows those families then she should go ahead.

If she wants to stop, she should xplain to her family that she is ready to do as they wish but she is already pregnant for the man then follow whatever they decide. She will not die if she doesnt marry the man. He's just one man.

Making sense bro...
Love is never enough!

http://datingyouths..com.ng/2015/11/love-is-not-enough.html

GboyegaD:
Fact is often times, those who don't concur are selfish. Why bring up a tradition to destroy your child's joy?

The traditional part...i dont agree with.

My opinion and comment is just for a rethink for those who think parental advice, ideas and consent on who to marry doesnt matter...
#soft

prettythicksme:
How much is d cloth dey wan do? serious issue now but dont forget i push pple inside water.

We gonna get back to you as soon as it is finalised!

irondome:
What's the meaning of this bullshit? Would all these third parties live with you in your home? This was exactly how my grand parents literarily imposed a wife on my uncle and she ended up as a nutcase. Grand parents are now gone, unfortunately, this dude is still stuck with a mad wife in the name of christian marriage.

In my own opinion, genuine love should be pivotal in picking a life partner. And even at what, you still require a huge dose of God's grace to have a successful marriage.

My advice to the OP, screw the OSU and follow your heart. Make sure the love is mutual.

First, i said parents not grandparents?


in between! when the marital conflicts sets in, who will she/he run to?
The parent that was rubbished by not listening to them?

We have more than a choice to make in marriage bro!


As for the God's grace...Yes, we so much need it.
But at the same time, wisdom is essential.


Mind you, God showing you your woman in your dream
doesnt mean u wont work b4 u get her...application of wisdom
only makes the dream come true!
#soft

tranxo:
the only blessing you need is that of both parents. Period

Yes, but the advice of the spiritual head cant still be overlooked!

prettythicksme:
no b my name go dey d back of my cloth naw,i fit write aminat508 or mrsphyno at d back so wont knw.After my mission,den i leave d beach

You are not serious!

Common get out of mu thread!
#PushesHerOut
Gerrarahia mehn!

STFUareyouGod
softapples




God is watching you oooooooo

jidxin:
lmao pls dont say wat u dont know.



U only needs d parents consent if she is less dan 21 so it means u dont need anybodys consent wen u re abv21

ok...

And who will she run to when probs start happening in the future?




Always think beyond the present bro!

prettythicksme:
Throw me stone? bet y?

I am letting u knw my mind now bf dat day,so it wont b strange if i push d two pple inside water oo
I fit swim naw,no b say dem go die i will just push dem inside,so after water full their belle we will rescue dem!do me dat favour

Mention the two ppl
Plus, na security go come carry you!



I go just pretend say i no sabi you!

ucheheart:
smelly bull sh.it

Ok....
Mention me again and you die!
Must you rubbish my opinion?

prettythicksme:
But wait,shey u fit allow me push just two pple inside water dat day?

If you are not careful, i go throw you stone through the internet!
Why are you so cruel
Shey you sef can swim?

We really appreciate all contributions, suggestions, oppinions and badmouthing... God bless us all.
As the plans are still ongoing, never stop suggesting please but be on the lookout for the venue and date
soonest!


Really appreciate us all!

misspicy2:
sure sure

at your service

PM awaits you... Just sent one now

misspicy2:
lovely

needs more planing that's all....

done a lot of party organising and I must say this, people disappoint a lot....


all in all,nice idea

Please, you might be of help in ideas too. Its for us all!

sickstars:
Mr u free to have it

Im only stating d fact


If u guys were dat reasonable i wudnt object

But y'all have gat hidden plans nd u kno it

Ok.... Thanks!

sickstars:
Av said my own i cant change any ones mind

But i can love d drama dat follows

Surprise awaits you!

prettythicksme:
big head

I tell am say you no dey wear bikini... but he no go hear!

oldtopics:
where is d venue i will love to be there ,,, i want to shake bum bum been a while

Lekki/ Elegushi beach

prettythicksme:
Shey we fit wear bikini?

Dem dey wear khadigan and flowing robe for beach?

prettythicksme:
buhahahahahahahaha as u don expose yaself naw,pple don knw

Hunhun! i only whispered it... so no one knew!

sickstars:
First m nt a party freak so uploading pix cant move me

Next u all can change plans cos i av spoilt d initial plan i kno all wat u guys are up to

Ny ways i careless m impossible to please by the Way

oooooops!
Sorry to break your heart... we not going back.

We are team #CENA
#NeverGiveUp

misspicy2:
no make we free them for now.....

but e sure me say na human being dey behind that antispam bot

this is not the first time




BTW the idea of a party makes sense but I think you should have been discreet about it,why? some evil minded people dey this place o,one even threatened to kill me if he sees me,just because of my usual joke,and not my fault that the joke touched a soft spot,he is actually broke offline too

so you see,I don't know how you wanna go about It but absolute care should be taken

BTW who is funding the party,will it be known as nairaland party? is se-un aware? you know things like this

Thanks dearie... really appreciate this!

1st. its an open place and not a night party. we are done, latest by 5 or 6pm. Main idea is just to bring us together and have fun.
2nd. concerning security, those in charge at the beach will help us with that. So, be calm... we are all safe!
3rd. as for Seun, i was just thinking about it before i saw your mention. The thing now is, i dnt just want him to know, butr he should be there. But, if he is there, is he safe as there are some angry Nlanders that will be ready to yab with words

As for the funding, you and me are gonna do that. We not planning something BIG, but am sure the little we all are gonna do is gonna make it memorable

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