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Olayinka8793:
sure bro,my future is my priority but then we all have a desire to love and be loved.

OK

Thanks for the encouragement thou!

ikbnice:
why do we still have music artistes dat are dumbass

In my own opinion, no musician is a dumb ass... Mere combining of english or Yoruba words to form
lyrics which later becomes chorus and verses and then edible or non edible to human hearing... that's
putting the brain to work.
If its a lie...you can try writing a song one day!

cbrass:
What will happen

See the idiot still dey ask me wetin go happen! get busy with your life jor!

Olayinka8793:
noted bro,thanks but am sure u know some feeling are difficult to suppress,so it will be hard to take your advice of waiting for a true love to come,as for trying to impress gals I get your point and will never do that.

Waiting doesn't mean you just do nothing... but I'd advice you plan well for your self and future first before any gal comes to mind!

Show me the pictures...or something will happen!

WOOPS! having taking the stress and time
My opinion is this... be yourself and never do
to impress ladies, the one who truly loves you
will come. Mind you, there might be a surgery
for the hearing probs. Your focus should be on
that for now!

Walahi! e show say na Otuoke uncle jona hail frrom
Na so kiss dey be!


See that Ajumobi guy! you go knw say na since secondary school
e don dey do am!

Get a lens and se that I was photoshop!

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cc: lalasticlala

I wish I could, but my boss wouldn't permit me.!

Now at the long run, she will say "men only want to use and dump me"...
why wont they!



When person no go go market, see trouble for ground den start to dey
negotiate say na him he wan carry for house!

ilotriouzAY:
I av seen instances of pple claiming love at first sight,though I think its lust

Love never occurs at first sight...its mere attraction mistaken for love!

It does exist only in Disney and Nollywood!



Ask me and I will tell you more

Dating na business wey go generate money for u?
@20, you don be like this..i wonder wetin the future get 4 u

Get a job and start paying bills...then lemme know by then if this is gonna cross your mind again!




Will you common gerrarahia!

Ashanti0522:
thanks. ..

My pleasure

You can always count on me... always!

:-XI have had over 250 plus girlfriends and I have enjoyed their pu.ssy

Its either someone is exagerrating or someone is lieing here!

The imagination of your sisters and unborn daughters just came to mind!

A man that will settle down with you wont ever agree to split all into 50|50 with you!
Men love to see they are the one in charge of the expenses, to take you out, pay the bills,
house and cater for you. Mind you, that doesn't mean you don't have a role to play in the
bills payment.

As for the cheating and sex stuffs, not all men does that. As you've mentioned, there are
still some faithful ones out there.

My advice....if you eventually see your Mr Right, don't wait to share 50|50 with him. All he needs
is your care and your respect!

#peaceOut

slimchi115:
lolz i dnt knw dat guyz vex get part 10[b],see hw all of them dey hammer mouth[/b]

see hw all of them dey hammer mouth
@bolded... never tag and think all guys are same!
#wordofwisdom

slimchi115:
u see the funniest part was i didnt even act as if sumtin went wrong,i need to flow along wit him xo dat he wont feel embarrased but dat scenario always amuse me anytime i rememba it

Seriously...it doesn't need to. Its just the norm of social life. Av you thought of it in this way..."how you gonna feel about your self if no guy called you, text you or woo you in a month" and you are not in any relationship yet?

Am sure you know the feeling...right!

Just relax and be good to those guys you can be good to!

This aint the best place to tell a guy if he z dumb or not..u could av just told him before he walks away from you!

Mind you, if the chorus of your song is "guys are dumb with their wooing" when you are 23+, I pray the Chorus wont change
when you are 30+!

Simply because they spend most of thee time together.
In my own opinion...such shouldn't happen but that's the norm
in this part of the world.


But from another angle... Why is it that, if those children later became responsible
in life, their mother tends to be the one to be cared for more even if their mother
isn't as supportive as their father.

ok

slimchi115:
u see dats the point,,wooing a total stranger nd making mess of it

The thing is, we all have things that gives us high self esteem or boost our male ego. To some, its the confidence to face a total female stranger to talk abt liking her and stuffs. You ladies shouldn't see them as dumb. Best is just to appreciate such people.

As for me, am not a lady freak...if I meet you as a stranger, i don't woo, I initiate mutual discussion. If you are making sense and intelligent to me....good for you, otherwise, I just forget such pple like we never met!

slimchi115:
nd from her dumb story you borrow her language,,,just admit you guyz are dumb wit your wooing skills nd am sure you one of them

Like who cares about the wooing techniques! When the money starts flowing, The wooing surely starts coming!



As for me, never will I stop a stranger to woo... Never!