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JESHAL007:

Our honourable Caveadullam giving us the redpills on a steady daily dose back to back, learnt so much from, applied them and I was transformed. Guy is too good. I have all his redpills nuggets stored in my archive.

This is part of the cultural practices in Nigeria. Cultural practices can be harmful and non-harmful. This falls under the category of "non-harmful" cultural practices. The other non harmful cultural practices is backing of babies which may even be beneficial in preventing and correcting some cases of developmental dysplasia of the hip (DDH).

Attention should be drawn towards harmful cultural practices that are still deeply rooted within our culture. These harmful traditional practices that should be avoided include but not limited to:
1. Putting objects like spoons, onions, cow urine, substances, oil or anything whenever a person or child convulses
2. Inflicting pain in any form including but not limited to beating, slapping, setting fire to the leg or body of a child or person who is convulsing
3. Using pawpaw water or leafs to bath a child that has jaundice (i.e yellowish discolouration of the skin, eyes)
4. Applying oil, methylated spirit, rub, menthol, camphor smelling clothings to a new born baby. These increases the risk of a child developing jaundice and neonatal sepsis
5. Giving a baby nospamin or grape water because of 'stomach movements ' this increases the risk of the baby having intestinal obstruction in the form of intususseption.
6. Not exclusively breastfeeding a baby for 6 months
7. Forcefully massaging and shaping the baby's head or other parts of the body
8. Throwing up and catching a baby, the baby can have shaking baby syndrome
9. Force feeding a child or person who is unconscious (the person can aspirate into the lungs and this can worsen prognosis and lead to death)
10. Feeding palmoil or forcefully inducing vomiting for ingestion of poisonous and harmful substances

OneOnland:
The paediatricians seem to be ignorant then.

Wool being placed on the head is not scientific, or let me say, biology really related, but more of the mechanics of the brain. Whereby, "what is this on my head?" curiosity interferes with the part of the brain that coordinates the hiccups.

The interference then puts the curiosity first and the hiccup stops. It's more mechanical.

For it to work, the hiccupee needs to not exactly know prior what's on their head. Or at least, trick their brain that they aren't unaware, signalling the brain part for curiosity, and so on that the hiccup stops.

Wool on head, or any other curiosity begging item placed on head would work for a curious person, but won't work if you're hard-headed. I even do it for my own self by tricking my brain that I didn't know if a thing's on my head.

Those paediatricians must be hard-headed.

Which pysch ward did you escape from?

If you want an eatery, sha carry your money along because I'm not paying for your food.

luminouz:
What's this one saying again?

So Will Smith is not entitled to loyalty from his own wife by treating her like a queen?

He is surely entitled but unfortunately, he cannot get loyalty from his wife, it's highly impossible. In life, you can't give what you don't have, a prostitute can never give loyalty because she doesn't have it in her, same way it will be difficult for a womanizer to be faithful in marriage because he doesn't have it in him. The fact that you're kind to the world will not make the world kind to you back, infact good people suffer more because they think that because they're good, the universe should be good to them back, the world doesn't work that way, has never worked that way and will never work that way

Alakoriomo:
Learn

I've realized that men has absolutely no advantage in marriage.
As a single man, I know how much I spend. I now imagine myself in my dad's shoes and look at his responsibilities, damn!
A man will first make sure his family is comfortable before he comforts himself, that's disadvantageous to a Man, very.

Alakoriomo:
Man cancel date because his date wouldn’t contribute

Well, it depends on the individuals involved.
Countless ladies have taken me out on dates and they paid for everything!
This has made it difficult to take a lady out for date and spend on her, because why should I be the one doing all the spending? I don't spend to impress girls because they're fickle, girls love material things and can make you go broke if you're not careful. I detest parasites and I squash them. In those days, I chop the money of girls who claim never to spend on a Man. Girls have money and simps are the ones giving it to them, rubbish

Philosopher1979:
Nicolas pepes (former arsenal player) new girlfriend is Teanna Trump a porn actress and only fans LovePeddler.
Please can anyone explain why some men are fascinated with prostitutes or whores. Is it scarcity mentality or what. He might have children by her or marry her if care is not taken.
It's terrible.
The redpill is needed

I call it the knight in shining armor theory.
Some men are attracted to prostitute or love peddlers thinking they need help and that they can save her by marrying her. Oh, such a big mistake because a damaged LovePeddler is impossible to save. He will learn the hard way.

Alakoriomo:
Are SIMPS truly happy?

He chose his misery, he chose his predicaments.

This is what happens when as a man, you do the choosing and you're not the chosen.

Will Smith probably has a lot of ladies who will willingly submit themselves before him (obviously because of his fame and wealth) however he chose not to cheat on his wife who is a serial cheater and then forgave her for her adulterous act, what a big looser and simp he is, very foolish I must say.

The true nature of ladies is disturbing, if you show the slightly hint on being dependent on a lady, she'll use you, use you, over use and dump you like you're nothing because you presented yourself as nothing.

Women cannot be satisfied, hence you must choose the one that chooses you at least loyalty to you is guaranteed, not you spending your resources and still get cheated on.

Men have a long way to go, the redpill shall be restored.

God and Man met and both exclaimed, oh my Creator!

Sonnobax15:

Na WA...

See as the woman Destiny just go conceive own goal for extra minute before referee go blow final whistle

May we never die before our happiest day on earth 🙏

Rip to the young man..

Why do you think marriage is the happiest day on Earth?

heartofcity12:
Lmao 😂. It’s always the audacity and delusions for me..

Their entitlement mentality baffles me.
That's how one of them sent me aza that I should pay for her nails. I was like, for what? Even if I have the money, I'm not sending anything.

I used to be a very strong advocate of sexual purity. Knew all the scriptures that talked about sexual purity and all that. I was a virgin till 25 years, went through university being a virgin. However, I realized that it's just a farce, an ideology, I'm not against it but I don't put it on my head as before. Sexual purity is good and has it's own advantages, however it shouldn't be forced on anyone. Everyone has their choice to make. Many sexual puritans are hypocrites, many are vulnerable and easy to get

If it's fixed deposit, you won't be able to access the money until after set date for withdrawal.

If it's target savings, you can break it Sha but fixed deposit, I doubt it

Why didn't you use the cashbox option, mutual fund option? That's much better and money is easily withdrawable

Yes, I've tried all and nothing happened to me

JESHAL007:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

You're right, a woman who chooses you his golden, your presence alone is satisfaction to her, she wouldn't want to loose you to others, she will do everything within her power to please you. Unfortunately, most men don't know how to treat the lady that chooses them right, they treat them as trash and run after ladies who doesn't choose them. When the lady who chooses them leaves because one day she may leave, they then realize how much they've lost. This life is unbalanced, the ones we sometimes want don't want us and the ones we don't want, chases us all day. It's fvcked up man!

JESHAL007:
The woman that chooses you and finds you interesting will be all over you

All over you, I agree with you on that.
I have a lady that can call me up to 100 times in a day

JESHAL007:
Is it a Nigerian thing or something? Met 2 ladies already and its same old stuff.

I initiate all chats and calls. If I don't call..no communication..if I don't chat..no communication.

While chatting..you have to ask all the questions and bring up gists.

They can't call u randomly to ask after you.

I don tire o

The modern Nigerian girls are bad with communication. They hardly message or call guys because they believe that guys should be the one doing the calling.

I've gone through most girls phone and what I saw was appalling. I mean, different guys sending multiple messages without the girl replying and many unread messages. I use to think before that the natural answers girls gives to guy is usually monosyllabic and all this 'kk' things until I encounter girls who 'claim' to love me and they started bombarding my phone with messages and calls, some became so annoying that I have to ghost some of them because it's looking that they've become desperate. I have understood that girls can also be desperate, and any girl that I reply her message typically replies within two minutes and is trying to book a call appointment with me. Girls can be funny and interesting creatures

Acidosis:
Hmmn... Thank you for sharing all of that with me, bro. I can only imagine the pain each of those losses must have caused, especially losing a sister and brother at such young ages.

I agree that children can become our own "melting points." We want to protect them from any harm.

No parent will like to experience the loss of their child. It's a very painful experience, very painful

NOBLE179:
The spirit of death is a very strong one. I went to the morgue one day to see my mother after passing at the age of 60 through heart attack. I didn't 3days fasting and praying, embarking on a journey to resurrect my mum. When I got there, I wanted to raise my hand to pray and wake her, but I felt so much weight on my hand that I couldn't even raise my hand to pray. That's when is done on me that it was all over.

I'm not against resurrection however what's the point of resurrecting a mortal body when they will still die?

Yes, I've been to the morgue and I've certified many people dead.

They all look like they're sleeping, just that it's a sleep they can't wake up from.

Sometimes this year, one of my girlfriends took a picture of me sleeping and it reminded me of my mortality, that one day (which could be anytime), my eyelids will close never to open again. I loved the picture so much that I used it as my screenlock. We shall all die and it's something we shouldn't be afraid of

It will only work if the girl has some form of interest towards you.
If she doesn't have an interest in you, if you like pull from heaven to earth, nothing will happen

rentAcock:
It's not an allergy if she doesn't have allergic reactions from eating it. Just sounds like a typical 1st world problem. I've never heard of a Nigerian person having any food allergy, but these White people are allergic to just about every fruit and food.

I'm allergic to Semo and Catfish

Death comes to us all.
And it comes unexpectedly, except for those terminally ill and whose days are numbered (even at that, the exact date and time is not known)
This life is vanity, a person alive and well can be gone the following day.
We shall all taste death and the reality of such shouldn't make us afraid but rather make us enjoy the variety of Life and live life to the fullest. I went on a date with one of my female friends and she's describing how she lost her dad a few years ago, the best of medical practice can't prevent death, even the best medical expert must taste death one day. The thought of death doesn't scare me, rather it comforts me and makes me give my best in all situation. May we live good life's and when we die may we not die in vain.

I still have them.
I keep them as relics

jayAjoku:
[b] anything you see them rant about online just know that the moment they drop their phones they’ll do the exact opposite. If she says she does not date broke boys online , she’s fucking them offline, if she says she cannot date a man without a car online , she’s dating multiple men without cars offline , if she says she has certain standards online, i can assure you she doesn’t have those standards offline.
Women are not concrete or stable people that’s why they seek that stability in men, so I wonder why some of you are not laughing when you see what these women are demanding online, I know of multiple girls demanding One thing online and acquiescing to the opposite offline. I know of many girls who say they hate Fûck boys online and are still fûcking those same Fûck boys offline . Don’t take what she says seriously she’s only talking in the moment. Most of you don’t know how much nonsense a womans emotions will make her say and do 🤣, you’d be shocked 🤣😂 , girl done ever come Bleep you because she hate you before ? 🤣😂 Wake up boys stop allowing their social media posts deceive you bro they’re not that happy or fly in real life

You're very right.
Most of the sex I have had with ladies were unexpected and unplanned even to myself. For example, we could have a disagreement that would make the lady extremely angry and she may even block me off social media but when I visit or meet in person, we eventually end up on the bed. This has personally happened to me more than ten times and I've come to understand the psychology behind it. Ladies are emotional beings and their emotions lead them more than their reasoning does. Ladies say one thing and do another. There's one of my platonic friends who was very religious but celibate who condemned me for sleeping with various ladies and cohabiting with some of them, the funny thing was that after some weeks of condemning cohabitation she herself was later cohabiting with a guy. I just laughed and said women! I played my game well and this girl that swore that she'll never have sex with me was the one later begging for my dick . That's one of the reasons I don't really take women serious, especially when they talk or make promises. If I as a man make promises and barely keep them, why should I trust the words of a woman.

Nowar:
Good morning bosses.
I’m an old member of this forum ..
I need your advice on something. Pls it’s going to be a very long post. Luminous , jeshal007, dontrulee and others, pls I need you to read this.
I have been in relationship with this girl for 4 years, she’s a graduate and a 100/10 beauty wise .. when I
say beauty wise, Omo ehn she’ll be regarded as one of the most beautiful and attractive woman you’ll ever come across, , . Lol..
her cooking is 8/10..
respect 5/10..
Intelligence generally 5/10
Exposure 4/10( most of her exposure na wetin she dey read on phone lol)
Intelligence bookwise 4/10
A graduate .
Beautiful is honestly speaking 1000/10( imagine a Beyoncé and nenji put together )..
Age 23
Wealth - nil
She barely talks outside , infact people would say she’s proud lol.. but inside she can talk ehn,

Now here’s the thing, her mom has divorced twice , and she doesn’t have a good or bad relationship with her dad. Her dad married 4 women. And from little I’ve known, her dad is present in her life , sometimes they visit their dad during festive times..
When we met, I was not doing bad , although was still living with my parents, but from all indications , I was doing well by my age …


During the course of this four years , I have progressed tremendously , she among others influenced my decisions of going for my degree and moving out of my parents house. I had NATIONAL DIPLOMA when we met and was living in a room inside my parent house. she was running her degree then) . up till now, she barely knows net worth, I’ve always given her the impression that I am average money wise. In all honesty and to be fair , she’s not that money freak, but she’s stubborn.,


Due to her background, there has been many things off about her which I’ve been able to correct some. Before, during argument, she’ would talk back at me or go home or start crying .. I’ve been able to correct this after years… she’s the kind of person that’ll give you the impression that you can’t control her.. but the moment you start vexing or looking at her, she’ll adjust .. I’m yet to catch her cheating ( generally I don’t trust women) but tbh, I have not , sometimes I sneak around her phone and all that, but I stopped recently cos it makes me feel desperate and obsessive.

She’s caught me cheating once , and that was when we had issues, we didn’t see for like 3 weeks it was then i met one sweet nairaland babe lol.., my girl discovered and cried bitterly , she went to report me to my family ( my mom really really loves her ehn), they scolded me and she fell sick for like two weeks cos of this . She said something which I hold dear to my heart since then, she said ‘ even though she saw the evidence of cheating on my phone , that she’s still not going to believe if not that I confirmed it with my mouth’ she said was willing to die that I didn’t do it.,’

I learnt that even if a woman catches u live and direct doing something bad, baba still deny am o. lol



She’s open to me financially wise, infact she keeps her money with me and won’t take any decision concerning money without my knowledge. Shes stubborn o , except u change it for her, she no go hear word easily .. her mom and brothers really love me, especially her immediate brother … she’s currently doing her service and would travel every 2 weeks to meet me, infact she’ll lie at the school and visit me unannounced at my place ..


Let me put it like this, I make around 30-100k daily average na 60k most time sha ,
And I spend around 15-30k on her monthly .. the highest money I have spent on her at ago was 120k and 50k .. she’s spent on me too but it’s very little compared to mine.. highest she’s spent on me was 40k at a go, I’m 28 years.

Now this is the problem , I discovered that when she gained admission to school, she’s slept with an older man. And she’s had abortion for her ex. That was like two years before we met.. I narrowed down my search and discovered she’s no more in communication with them. She’s 23 years of age. And tbh, I love her but anytime I think of those things e Dey always pain me in silent …









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When I was running my NG program, I knew this girl as a friend sister, she was around 16 or so then,she added me up and we would and jokes on Facebook.. she’ll subtly profess her love for me but I Dey always body shame her that she’s below my standard, she ended up blocking me and years later , she texted me on Facebook and we started talking .. she’s 21 now , look and appearance wise, she’s 2/10.. also her cooking is 1/10 tbh she’s not my type appearance wise , she studied nursing in school and she came visiting sometimes last year..

Beauty is 2/10
Cooking is 1/10
Respect 5/10
Intelligence bookwise 10/10
Intelligence generally 5/10
Bsc( nurse).
Age 21
Exposure 3/10
Wealth nil
She can talk anywhere.
I discovered that she’s a virgin , she won’t allow me to penetrate, she was asking me to make a promise that if I do it, I must marry her, bro no be say I get bad intentions towards her o but I no fit Dey promise woman cos of sex, she’s very small in stature and she also has daddy issues. Her mom has remarried she’s living with her stepdad,,, she said so many bad things about her dad and her stepdad, I tried to mediate and reconnect her to her dad but it didn’t work out.. my relationship with her is a long distance type but I LIKE HER TOO.. and she likes me a lots ehn..






the nairaland girl I met said she has 6 body counts ( she agreed to) but from my calculations and research, e go reach 17 ( no jokes).. said shes aborted twice for diff men.
she’s rich though and the smartest of them all, she’s very beautiful too, her beauty is 8/10.. she’s super extremely smart , business wise, mentally and emotionally. Infact she’s better than me at the emboldened.. she’s 25. All of dem are ready to say yes, if I Dey ready. Her mom has divorced too, but remarried ..

Beauty 8/10
Exposure 10/10
Cooking 100/10
Respect( 5/10)
Intelligence bookwise (4/10)
Intelligence generally Omo 1000/10
She has hnd
Age 25
She can talk anyhow and dress anyhow too.. not so modest but she’s willing to address that..
Wealth ( she’s doing very good, I mean very very good) she lives alone. Shes into business , atleast from what I know..
Non of these girls are really demanding financial wise( or let me say their demands no really mean anything to my finance tbh)..
Note, in the past four years I’ve dated atleast 30 girls , but these 3 made it to Final.. lol,
I live in north central ..

I won’t lie to you, Im tired, I’m looking forward to settle down anytime soon , I have the money…




Bros, left to these girls, which one should I choose, tbh I’ve dated a lot of girls before I narrowed down my options to this .

Correct Guy, you're doing very well and I'm impressed with the vivid descriptions you gave about the three ladies. I'll give my opinion and be brief as possible.
1. Beauty and lovely shape is good but they fade with time and they're not enough for marriage. When beauty fades, character remains, so for marriage prioritize character over beauty.
2. For marriage to be successful, it's a long term commitment and should be built on purpose. Marriage fail because they're built on desires, emotions and purpose are neglected.
3. In choosing your spouse, consider these things: how she treats and sees herself, how she treats and relate with her family, how she relates with you, how she relates with others.
4. What does she know about children upbringing? Can she train a child well? Does she have the ability to instil moral discipline and enforce them? When you think of marriage, your children should also be your concern too.
5. Are you guys attracted to each other? Attraction and compatibility include sexual compatibility is key
6. Forgiveness: does she have the ability to forgive? Do you love her enough to forgive her faults aside cheating?
7. Financial Stability

These are but a few things to consider when choosing a partner to marry. Marriage is a long game and one must have foresight. Marriage can get boring, have plans for that, your partner can change suddenly, have plans for that, you'll sacrifice a lot, have plans for that. The truth is no matter how you look at it, marriage is disadvantageous to a man and that's why you have to choose a partner that aligns with your goal, vision and purpose.
I hope this helps, will drop more tips later. Wish you good luck

JESHAL007:
The money men waste on sex is too much and the sex is not worth it, regardless whether it's porn, prostitutes, plates, girlfriend, wives, after orgasm you return to your sense, but money earned by sweat and labor is permanently gone, all the ladies have to do is appeal to your sexual appetite, sometimes nature does it's work when you see an attractive lady and you start simping which still costs money, my bro in this tough economy, guys suppose wise up and get sense, sexual urges are like waves they come and go

I totally agree with you

JESHAL007:
Men get hornyy anyhow, small thing we catch erection, even breeze can make you hard, you wake up and you are hard, Kai, testerones is too much, libido is too high, nature don doom us, it's a reason why men would continue simping even if they don't want to, the prickk usually wins against the battle of the head

Authority
Self Control

The average man is filled with a lot of energy hence he must learn how to convert such energy into creative energy however environment and situations stiffles most men creative energy leaving them with only one way to express or release such energy - Sex. Men use sex as an avenue to relieve stress from their system, sex is good but it's not a lasting solution and many men fall prey of getting little amount of sex while expending a large amount of resources

Philosopher1979:
Madness workd. Maybe 5gat it us why it us more important to get a woman sexuslly than just financially. A sexusl man will have women who cannot get over him.
Reality is like quantum physics. 2 different things can be true at a time.. u suspect some rich ladies are Bern sexed by poor or average men who target them sexually and not financially. These kind of women will say they don't need a man but will have one young man servicing them underneath. Ubunja arrested these issues.
Truth is stranger than fiction.
My opinion I'd
IF YOU CAN BRING OUT THE SLUTTY SIDE OF A WOMSN AND GET HER SEXUALLY, EVEN IF SHE IS TICHER THAN YOU, SHE WILL FOLLOW YOU. SHE MIGHT DO IT CODEDLY BUT YOU WILL ACCESS HER AT ANYTIME

Yes, you're right. I've experienced it many times.

DonroxyII:
I met a very beautiful girl with shapes ... You know .. she quizzed me like I'm entering World Bank just first day of meeting ...

I be like shuuuuu ...

When We got close ... I showed her I be Street & started sharing my sexcapades with her ....

When she opened mouth started talking her own after ascertaining I'm not a judgemental person ... Ohboy ... My body was just getting hot unnecessarily ....

I put my head for Sujud(Like when Muslim put head for ground & started praising Allah for the insight) ........

Ohboy .... She called her best sex in the middle of the night of our chat ... person wey don forget her teytey ......

I was just laughing 😃... No judgement, no Qualms ...

If you be Homeboy(Daddy & Mummy Pikin), Women go Hustle you ... Person wey Street don show shege since she was 13-15yo ....

I would never developed Toxicity for any Woman ...

Na You own ya body, use am do how you like ... why would I be building toxins in my own Body-Systems because person dey knack anyhow dey use simps dey guide ...

Person wey no know must pay to know ..

"Owo Omo Go" na ihm Yoruba dey call am (Fool-Dues, Na so you go wise) .... Pikin Wey Fool Must Pay to Become Wise ...


Na so one person dey craze say .. can't we see woman ain't beautiful Na bra & kinnikan dey make dem dey ... Abeg ...

Extreme Toxic Psychology Na Madness e go create because the brain is always greedy pushing things too far than necessary & reversal is quite painful ..

Women are very open to you once they know that you're not a judgmental person.

The things most women have done in secret especially beautiful and married women, mhen, no be small thing o. When a woman choose to explore, she goes far and wide. I've done crazy things with women, I've seen women do crazy things... Women are wonderful creatures and should be enjoyed.

Even the virgins are not left out, many of them desire intimacy and pleasure but get it through other means like cunnilingus, anal, clit rub, heavy petting etc. Women love sex and can be wild when they're hot. The big ones may not necessarily bill you if they're interested in you, the upcoming ones will definitely bill you, the religious ones may try to guilt trip you or preach to you. I have tasted all and though it's a wonderful experience, I still feel this emptiness and enjoy my aloneness. Sampling different ladies has made it difficult for me to settle down because the thought of what a lady has done in the past either with me or other guys interferes with whatever plan of the future I have with her. It's a crazy cycle and the dating pool is polluted

This one never wise.
If you want to make a deal especially with a lady, she has to do her own end of the deal first. I hardly do transactional deals with ladies, infact I hate the idea of such because you're the one at a disadvantage.

If you know your game well, you can get girls to give you free nudes or sex without you spending your money or spending at the lowest minimum while gaining at the highest. For me, I can't spend on a girl that can't or haven't spent on me. The lady most be more invested than I am