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skj1377:
This your story may not be true. How is the sex going that she has time to pick the phone after checking who is calling. She is celibate for 3 years and gave it up just like that to you According to you you did not take her out or spend anything on her infact you collected N1k from her and did not return it probably because you don't have. How do you even think of obtaining a girl your asking out?? You don't have ATM or transfer , you had to borrow N1k . Anyways your lies are porous. I wonder what you said to her sef in this your mumu story..

I swear with my life that this story is true whether you believe it or not. If it's about girls, forget it, I'm a pro!

Her boyfriend called, at a point her mother called and she lied to both of them. And yes, I confirmed that she's celebate for three years. How she gave it up for me, me sef don't know the full answer. It just happened. And I didn't spend on her o because she said she doesn't ask guys for money, so it's a plus for me. About the 1k, I wasn't with my wallet at that point in time so I asked her to give me and I told her I won't give her back. That's how it went my gee

Girls are very cheap and easy to get.
I met a girl 5 days ago, beautiful and endowed. Many guys including doctors have tried to have sex with her but failed, so someone came to give me the challenge. I said it was easy stuff, give me one week!

I met the girl, talked with her and she became attracted to me. She followed me to my place the second day and I tried initiating some intimacy but I failed! This girl no gree, the third day I went to her place and we went to the market together to get some stuff and she cooked for me, after eating, I tried initiating some intimacy, she refused and left her house for me. Was I too quick in my actions? Was I taking things too far? She asked me the obvious question later in the evening, do I want to Bleep her? Do I want to just play around? I gave my usual answer and she said she isn't giving me anything that she's been celebate for three years that many guys have tried and failed!

Yesterday, she came over to my place and it happened by a stroke of luck! She rode me to the heavens and she had a crazy climax, she couldn't believe what happened and when I thought she would be angry with me, she confessed she loved me and that I shouldn't toy with her brain. She claims not to love guys. Funny enough, I didn't spend any money on her, infact I collected 1k from her two days ago to buy suya and I didn't give her back.

Getting girls is very easy.

In addition, her current bf is a doctor but they haven't bleeped yet. When she was riding me yesterday, the Mumu guy called and she said she's in the hairdresser's place. Ladies can lie ehn!

To answer your questions specifically, there are no disadvantages graduating in your late 30s.

It doesn't affect your employment, infact as a doctor, you can hardly get out of job, there's always vacancy. Always because of the mass Exodus of Doctors. So you'll definitely get a job and a good salary especially if you have surgical skills as an advantage.

The difficulties are more of individualized though. Some find it relatively easier and some find it extremely difficulty but definitely challenges will be there

Jackanda1:
Dr. dontrulee please your comment would be highly appreciated on this thread. Thanks

Since you specifically requested for my opinion, I'll give it to you from my own point of view. Medicine in Nigeria is deplorable, stressful and not worth it at all. Doctors are complaining, doctors are broke and many are Japa-ing. If I should choose all over again, I won't choose Medicine. Medicine will take your time from you if you're not careful.

At 29, you can choose to study Medicine if you wish but I'll advise that you have a skill alongside with it because the salary of doctors is just barely enough for you to survive. Some centres have toxic senior colleagues that you'll be lamenting why you're in the medical profession.

I currently have an house officer who is 37years old and she older than me but I'm her senior colleague. There is hierarchy in Medicine and some senior colleagues abuse such privileges.

Asides that Medicine is a cool profession and a Nobel one at that.

Navigating through medical school can be stressful though, it not about being brilliant but about how smart and intelligent you're. I hardly read when I was in Medical school, infact I did a whole lot of other things outside of Medicine and I was always on my phone 24/7 yet I never failed any course. It's about knowing and applying yourself.

Probably 20 if not more

To borrow money dey sweet but to repay na wahala. Hopefully you find help Sha. Happy new year to you

Blackdisciple:
My mistake was to go to buy items including curry powder at the end after payment and almost home when I checked items I bought on the receipt I realised that the curry I bought was 4,500 ...

Na to call yourself stephen curry be that. Pele.
Hope you learnt a lesson. The lesson is to double check, infact I triple check everything I do and this has made me very meticulous and efficient!

Fatbam005:
It will be better to leave it for good. It's a trap

It's only a trap when you're not wise and strategic about it. Stake only what you can afford to loose, don't chase your losses, stake 30-40% of your capital, withdraw 20-30% of your profits daily. If you do that, it's a reliable steady flow of cash flow

TheBTCinvestor:
Na scope..very soon he go lure addicted gamblers to his DM and start selling sure odds

Na I don't sell sure odds.
The platforms are on Telegram and they're free, no VIPs. Yesterday was a 100% in three different groups I am currently in and profits was massive!

millionboi2:
you are a scammer.....be warned guys

Dey play, did I say anyone should send me pm or did I promote any platform?
It's only a simple strategy that I made for myself to ensure steady cash flow and my gee, it worked!

Sergio107:
Lending people money.

It breaks my heart whenever I remember that the mugu has refused to pay back

Do not lend people money, however if you feel like lending people money, lend only that that you can afford to loose because it's easy for people to borrow money but difficult for them to pay back

Ibkrichie:
My only regrets this year was allowing my flesh to overrule me, I engaged in fornication by patronizing sex worker... i regretted it 😢😭

It could have been a wrong decision but you shouldn't regret it.
I also patronized sex workers this year and I even had a favourite who fell in love with me and was giving me free services. Lol
I later blocked her number and stopped visiting that place. If one is not careful, it can be an addiction and self destructive!

johnog4sure:
wey me I get over 4m debt, n forget to count it as regret, such is life

Dem no lock you for prison?

bouncin04:
Flow of income wasn't steady anymore , panic set in.

I dabbled into gambling too this year but just for fun.

To make money from gambling is a strategy and one mustn't be greedy. I started with 50k and I was staking 30-40% per game, I joined a platform that was having a winning streak of about 80-90% daily. So I was in profits daily and I was withdrawing 5k daily. Gambling became another source of income for me!

bobbiiee:
None of us is above mistake. I believe when a woman leaves one should allow her be. Even the ones pardoned for cheating that I have seen turned worse.

You're right. About cheating women, never accept a cheating woman back for she'll blame you for forgiving her cheating behavior

I enjoyed life and explored the dark and grey areas of Life. 2023 was a year without plans, I just did as I felt. I had a lot of money, saved a lot of money and spent a lot of money. I dated a lot of women, made a lot of male friends, built a lot of connections, I made a lot of mistakes and errors, corrected some and learnt from Many. I was free as a bird, I tested the waters, I lived life and I enjoyed it!

No go do Olosho. I wonder what people get in patronizing Ashewo's. I tried it and stopped because there was no gain in it

Maintenance?

ufotunang:
.. nawaoooo ...see what the harmattan weather has caused for you... weather for two 🙄

Abi oooo. What harmattan cannot do doesn't exist

Evolutionism:
The funny thing is Nigeria has a lot of Potential people in your Age bracket and above languishing in Pains and Misery. The worst of it all is Some don't even have an O'Level or Skills nor any Tangible directions in life.

But believe me, At 33Years you have REALLY learned nothing because you are still towing the path of working for people. You should be looking towards creating OPPORTUNITIES and start reasoning like those of your Wicked employers using people as SLAVEs. You write good but i'm boldy telling you Good Writing Skills, Being Honest, Being Intelligent et all is not enough to succeed in a country like Nigeria. Most Nigerians are Cruel Predators and they will keep on using you till you drop. I'm absolutely certain you are from a Poor/Average Background.

I'm very glad to hear you don't have any kids or wife of yours yet.

I will keep on saying it most especially to men. You don't have any business creating a Family in a Cruel and Evil place like Nigeria if you are from a Poor home or you patiently wait and iron things out till you get comfortable.

Let the Misery and Mistakes your ignoramuses parents created end with you if you are unlucky to find a great headway in life.

Those opportunities you talk about doesn't come on a platter of gold. The average man is on survival mode and it's difficult to build wealth from survival mode. However, it is possible if one doesn't give up

A woman that raises her hands to fight at that moment ceases to be a woman, she has become a man and should be treated as such. If what you narrated is true, Mr. man, you did very well. How girl go slap me and I go dey look, I go return my own back with interest!

The debit more than the credit abi na my eyes dey pain me?

If there are no consequences attached to absconding and spending money erroneously deposited into an account, more than 95% of people will run away and spend till the last dime. For me, even if it is 1billion naira or dollars that enters my account and it's not mine, I won't touch a dime out of it for it is beneath me to steal!!

Na gbola and pregnancy I dey give my girlfriend this Christmas

The very reason of why it is forbidden is why I will eat it!
Why the fuss about premarital sex? Something that happens on a daily basis

You still dey give people money for Naija?
I hail ooo. If you want to give, give what you can afford to loose. So that whether it comes back or not, you'll not be bother.

People hardly return favours these days. Na why I dey stingy with my funds these days except you be my personal personal person den I go fit reason you

You're right.
This year, I didn't write down any goal and I achieved greater than 10x of last year.

Love her and marry her jare Op.
Send us IV,I wan chop rice

I eat indomie only as an appetizer.
I can eat up to 6small packs and three hungry man size when I'm extremely hungry. I eat half of it while on the pot still on fire and finish the remaining within two minutes as I love my noodles very very hot.

It burns my tongue and the roof of my mouth most times but I don't mind the pains
Noodles is bae unfortunately I hardly eat it anymore

I'm a medical doctor specialized in O&G and I can tell you that we have many incompetent doctors out there. This is not to shade my colleagues but truth must be told.

In medical practice, a good doctor is one who knows his or her limits. I know my limits and I'm very careful not to cause any harm to my patients. Unfortunately, many doctors don't know how to come about a diagnosis, most just write routine tests/investigations and end up treating symptomatology rather than the root cause. Many also use polypharmacy which is also wrong. While the majority just give iv infusion and treat typhoid and malaria. The health system in Nigeria is very very bad, avoid government or public hospitals. The doctors there will just use the patient to teach the medical students and your treatment if you're a patient can be delayed. Many patients die preventable deaths and it's very painful and alarming.

About using Google, the truth is that most doctors use Google either to confirm a diagnosis or consider other options that may not readily come to their minds however the difference between a medical doctor using Google and a layman using Google is that a well trained medical doctor can easily identify and filter out the wrong informations online that the layman can't. There are a lot of wrong informations on google that are not backed up by scientific study and I see a lot of patients present to me and ask concerning questions because of what they found on google whereas it's wrong. If you use google to Google your symptoms, your mind no go touch ground however it's good to use google to not to be left in the dark.

In the end, may we be blessed with Good health and peace of mind.

opicgif:
I won't use the word incompetent

For some, inexperience
For some, stress of the work
For most, it's pride.

Mine is UPTH, 2016
A surgeon

He pronounced my name, and asked why I pronounced it another way
I told him, the way I pronounced it is the right way
Polite discussion, I was even smiling, thinking it's a normal human being I was talking to

He shouted that I'm not a serious human being, that I can't even pronounce my name
Told me I should leave his office

I was still smiling, I thought it was a joke,
Long story short, he chased me out of the office.
The matron outside signaled another woman to enter his office, elderly woman, probably 70's, the surgeon started shouting she's walking too slow, and it's like she's not serious.
Other patients were replying

"doctor take it easy na, don't you have a mother?, this is a government hospital na, take it easy doctor"

He started shouting to the matron to call another patient.

UPTH will humble you in this life. I kept wondering if I went ahead with the surgery there, the man can even slap me on the hospital bed.

N/B
This period was a very depressing period in my life. Low self esteem at its lowest ever. I couldn't even speak back. Zero confidence. No job. I regret leaving the hospital like a coward till today. Especially after the surgeon shouted at the elderly woman.

Sorry about your experience.
Most surgeons are hot tempered with bad manners, they are usually toxic and treat patients like trash which is very wrong

phintohlar:
i no dey suffer from anything mr man, na you know where you see suffer

You definitely have vaginismus. Hoe