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First off, this is a counterproductive and childish topic based on advice on advice a five year old has common sense to doubt on dating a white guy. This is why we as Africans can't progress and we're playing checkers while our enemy plays chess. For any African whom wants to ascribe to this backwards thinking good riddens and don't let the door hit you on your way out. Enjoy your superficial fantasy of a mixed race baby with straighter hair and lighter skin your dreams can now be realized. Clearly that individual chooses to neglect the current events in the world and that history always repeats itself. If call yourself an adult and don't know whom your enemy is by now I don't feel sorry for you as I know you're a willing participant in your own genocide.

My question for anyone whom wants to live in reality is what happened after the Europeans colonized African countries and why did they need to be "colonized" in the first place? Is it a coincidence that in every single country in the world those with closest skin color to white have more power while those further away are relegated to bottom dwellers of the society? But of course, this was the natural order of things and the media only tells us the truth! Regardless of the individual everyone of European decent practices white supremacy as they benefit from it whether they admit it or not, now that it's no longer a crime with interracial dating these lost sheep are running to the front of the line. As far as I'm concerned a slave master will always be a slave master and they're never to be confused with a hero or some sort of savior, or that they now have made amends for what their ancestors left for them at all of our expense.

Why advocate one to do such a thing to a group of people that have done nothing but torment your ancestors and made you believe as people that you were nothing but slaves and accomplished nothing. For one to consider this argument whether male or female is plain ignorant and that individual isn't educated enough to understand the racism and how it affects the globe. The ladies whom defend such a toileted concept are now happy to name call/insult their brothers/sisters all for the sake of their white master whom they've been trained to be docile towards yet aggressive towards their own people. Of course there's nothing wrong with this This is why we can never progress and why we will continue to be a laughing stock and seen as "third world' by those whom we allowed to put ourselves in our current mess.

bukster:
I don't find Kanuri men ugly and there's also nothing wrong with dark skin.
I just think that those pictures were not a good representation of an average Kanuri man

I agree bukster that this isn't a true representation of the "average" Kanuri. They shouldn't have to be light skin to be seen as beautiful. We have a unhealthy obsession in African with light skin at the expense of some of our women whom feel they need to bleach their skin.

In India and all over the world just as there are good Africans.. there are Africans who are hoodlums and involvved in crime, drug dealing and prostitution rackets, plus gangs so theey have created this negative impression about themsekves. Blacks take pride in calling themselves niggas and gangstas and all that trash and encourage their crappy rap music filled with all sorts of disgusting imagery .

This comment speaks to why you feel as you're receiving hate here and exposes whom you truly are. Don't play the victim on this board. I never said Siddis & Dalits are the same but stated they were similar in being treated poorly. I supplied facts and a speaker (Velu) and of course you didn't acknowledge him or look into this in depth. I wonder why? You subjectively ignored that, it's clear to all of us Indians in general have a bad inferiority complex forced upon them by the ideals of the caste system no one can deny this.

You masquerade this message of equality and unity yet you mention very few blacks (predominantly in the U.S) whom refer to themselves and in their music in a negative way but you fail to realize they were a product of white supremacy and the Jewish control in their music. The many blacks/Africans that are educated worldwide don't subscribe to this but why mention them or have that as image of blacks. You mention the very few blacks and yet you choose to have that be your defining view of all "blacks." We don't subscribe to that as our image of ourselves and only white supremacists and others whom use that as their doctrine choose to have this be there global image of us. You're not sincere or honest in any manner of your comments yet you pretend to be. As I stated had I been in an Indian chatroom the flood of negative subhuman comments I'd receive would be massive. We blacks are the only people that would treat other people better than we treat our own selves, many of "us" know this.

If you were truly honest and spoke the truth, you can't dispute that the Indians in Kenya, Tanzania, & South Africa receive the same poor treatment as a whole from Africans as the Africans do in India. But yet you choose to zig zag and avoid admitting the undisputable fact then made a poor connection of how very few blacks mistreat their women or have poor self image. The comments you receive are calling a spade for a spade. You see blacks in a low light as your comments have unmasked this. I don't see myself as superior to any Indian nor feel they shouldn't be treated without dignity and respect the same can't be said for you or others in dealing with us. It's as shame we can't work together on a larger scale but I will credit just the very few that do. If the day arrives when you and the majority I speak of finally unmask yourself from the global operation of white supremacy then we can have a debate, until then there's nothing I can learn from your dishonesty and your ignorant denial of the mere truth. Your comments are atypical of one whom doesn't feel the actions of many are wrong and is no different than what the whites would say to justify their mistreatments of a group of people.

Please do not do such a thing or even think it. It's only shaitan that puts such an idea in your head. You have a lot to live for even though things seem tough. Although I don't know you it would be a big pain to me my brother if you were to do such a thing. Please remain upright and only harbor positive thoughts life is worth living so know that you will have highs and lows. Although I disagree with a public post such as this, I see it has a cry for help. I hope you take head to not doing this and keep us updated on your health.

@IndianBwoy

I laugh at your reply to my claims and knew you'd have a poor counter argument to my claims. I suspected such a dishonest reply from you and you surely proved my assertions. With your claim of many, you mean very few Siddis, but of course you want to be an exagerant lier. I'm talking of the current situations of Siddis & Dalits in India which you'll of course blame the oppressed for their own oppression. Ever heard of (velu annamalai) he speaks in great detail of the problem in India and the caste system you follow that treats the (Dalits) poorly. You're a fool if you want to compare how we treat our women versus how people in India "train" their women to be extremely submissive to their husbands. You're the only country that practices a backwards toileted caste system under the cloak of Hinduism. I assume by your comments you aren't part of a "lower caste system" so therefore you see this subject through the eyes of a European male whom you admire. Don't throw around the term racism when you fail to recognize the very meaning. I clearly in my post stated not all of Indians may feel this way but the vast majority act this way. Gandhi only protested South Africa for his "people" and cared very little of the blacks whom he saw as below human. It would take a mere couple of minutes to pull up quotes so don't go there. If I were to question all the blacks whether in Africa, America, or UK their experience with Indians it would be very poor. South Africa, Tanzania, Kenyan Indian populations are treated fairly with their dealings with blacks and with dignity the same should be done in reverse.

Remember you're allowed to post on this Nairaland forum, however if I were to post on an Indian forum, I'm sure I'd be met with hateful comments stating what am I doing there, then immediately banned.

Things to point out for this topic that might help us understand this. Why are the vast majority of Africans mis-treated in India and are there blacks who live their whom speak native language that are treated the same or differently?

To understand this issue one can reference the Siddis whom are African descendants living in India, not only are they treated poorly, provided little to no economic opportunities, they are also looked down on as a lower caste lower than the "untouchables" in India. One must remember the great Gandi himself was a racist and came from an aristocratic family. He didn't view blacks as equals which is pathetic as he was trying to fight British colonial occupation in India and brutal mis-treatment of his peoples. An interesting paradigm is that those whom are subject to white supremacy which is a global scale operation normally are the most extreme participants of its teachings especially the darker skin people like Indians whom may have an inferiority complex in terms of tribe/skin color. The hate they may receive from one and another is projected upon darker/different persons from a different background. When in reality their fuel/hatred should be directed towards the same whites with their way of thinking and "colonizing" (political way of saying stealing) not Africans who've done nothing to them and treat them with respect in Africa.

Of course NOT ALL Indians think or feel this way but it can be seen the vast majority of them allow such things to happen and don't stand up for what's right. The vast majority of Indians in Kenya/Tanzania which in Africa is where there highest population is concentrated are definitely not treated like this from the vast majority of Africans. They are in fact treated equally and are praised for their contributions. It would be nice to use a umbrella statement that there's bad in every race/tribe or group however, if the experience among the vast peoples of their respective group prove very bad such a statement is and cannot be true as we are in fact not all equal.

This is what is called the BLACK EXPERIENCE around the world and should be why we should get our act together to stop corruption because our fellow brothers ESPECIALLY sisters don't deserve to be treated in such an inhumane way.

Sorry for the novel...