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greatness77:
see this one, if na pregnancy wahala no go dey, na infection I d fear most like HIV, syphilis, herpes and antibiotic resistance gonorrhea

achimendy:
What do you mean by has it worked??

Secondly you're ignorant of the spiritual implications of sex, but only concerned about the physical aspect.

achimendy:
If you want sex go and get married. Sex outside marriage is a sin.

rheaden:
The article raises some strong points on how domestic abuse isn't always one-sided. I wish more focus was given to emotional abuse too—it’s often overlooked. For anyone dealing with this, a good domestic violence attorney in Williamson County can help sort things out.

whnowz:
Men cheat too but maybe that is not story for today

There’s a dangerous illusion many of us live in—a world where problems "just happen," where pain is random, where chaos is a product of bad luck. But what if we told you that every problem in this world—yes, every single one—can be traced back to just two roots: Human Carelessness and Human Wickedness?

Sounds dramatic? Good. Because it’s time to rip off the veil and see things for what they are.

Let’s dive deep.

I. Human Carelessness: The Slow Poison of Neglect

Carelessness is not always loud.
It doesn’t always show up in riots or bloodshed.
But it creeps. It corrodes. It erodes responsibility, logic, and foresight.

And eventually—it destroys.

A. Environmental Destruction

The Earth is burning. Oceans rise. Forests fall. Species vanish.

Not because God is angry, or nature is cruel—but because of human carelessness.

Factories dump waste into rivers.

We burn fossil fuels recklessly.

People litter without thought.

Leaders ignore climate science.

This isn’t fate—it’s failure to care.

B. Health Epidemics

Obesity. Diabetes. Heart disease. Drug overdoses. Even pandemics.

Many of these crises could have been mitigated—or entirely avoided—if not for:

Poor hygiene habits,

Misuse of drugs,

Careless sexual behavior,

Refusal to listen to science,

Delayed responses from government bodies.

We play with fire, then blame the smoke.

C. Relationship Breakdowns

Most breakups, divorces, and heartbreaks don’t happen overnight.

They begin with small, careless acts:

Ignoring your partner’s feelings.

Taking love for granted.

Forgetting birthdays.

Withholding affection.

Carelessness kills intimacy.
And where there is no care, connection dies.


II. Human Wickedness: The Poison That Stains History

Where carelessness is ignorance or apathy, wickedness is intentional. Deliberate. Malicious.

It is the conscious decision to harm, deceive, oppress, manipulate, or destroy.

Wickedness has painted the darkest chapters in human history.

A. Slavery, Colonialism & Genocide

No one enslaves another human by accident.

It was wickedness that shipped millions across oceans like cargo.

Wickedness that colonized nations, raped lands, and stole cultures.

Wickedness that gassed millions in concentration camps.

Wickedness that lynched men, burned villages, and buried truth.

These were not errors—they were evil executed with precision.

B. Corruption and Exploitation

Millions starve while a few feast.

Why?

Because of wicked leaders who:

Steal public funds,

Divert aid,

Create artificial scarcity,

Manipulate elections.

People die not due to lack of resources—but because wicked men hoard them.

C. Betrayals and Deceptions

Cheating on a partner isn’t carelessness—it’s a conscious decision to betray trust.

Lying under oath, framing an innocent person, spreading malicious gossip—these aren’t oops-moments.

They are acts born from rotting hearts.

III. The Marriage of the Two: When Carelessness and Wickedness Combine

Now, imagine a society where leaders are both wicked and careless.

They don’t just steal—they also don’t plan.
They don’t just lie—they also ignore advice.
They don’t just manipulate—they also fail to maintain order.

This is when the worst of the worst happens.

Think:

Collapsed buildings from both substandard materials (wickedness) and lack of inspection (carelessness).

A pandemic spreading due to denial (wickedness) and poor health systems (carelessness).

The fusion of both is a perfect storm of destruction.


IV. Why This Matters Now More Than Ever

We live in a world overloaded with distractions. It’s easy to blame “life” or “God” or “bad luck” when things fall apart.

But the truth?

People are the architects of almost every crisis.

The wars. The poverty. The heartbreak. The diseases. The injustices.

They’re not random.

They’re a consequence of someone’s carelessness or someone’s wickedness.

And sometimes—both.

V. So, What Can You Do About It?

1. Audit Yourself

Are you careless with your words?

Are you wicked in your intentions, even in subtle ways?

2. Speak Up

Confront both carelessness and wickedness wherever you see it. In government. In relationships. In institutions.

3. Practice Extreme Awareness

Know that every action—no matter how small—echoes.
Careless driving can take a life.
Wicked gossip can destroy a future.

4. Teach the Next Generation

Let them know that problems don’t fall from the sky. They’re created—and can be prevented—by human hands.


Final Word:

"Every problem is a product of either human carelessness or human wickedness."

Let that sentence ring in your mind every time you see a broken system, a broken heart, or a broken world.

Because only when we understand where the roots lie, can we begin the work of real, lasting change.

Kipaji:
I have been thinking about this too. And I also came to the realization that most men are not the gatekeepers of relationships/commitment.


First of all, let's see why women are the gatekeepers of sex.
As you said, "women control access to intimacy—they decide who gets it and under what conditions." Take a random woman out there, let's call her Abiola. Being a woman, Abiola has many guys who would like to have sex with her. There are colleagues, classmates, neighbors, clients, churchmates, online acquaintances, and many more who have made their direct or indirect advances. But, whether any of these men get to have sex with her depends on her. She is the person who decides whether any of these men get to have access to her body. In effect, she gatekeeps sex FROM THESE MEN. If there are 15 men that would like to have sex with Abiola, then Abiola is the gatekeeper of sex from these 15 men.
Since 99% of women out there have at least one guy that would like to have sex with her (regardless of her age, beauty, economic status, intelligence or personality), any woman is EFFECTIVELY gatekeeping sex FROM AT LEAST ONE MAN. Therefore, it makes sense to say that "women are the gatekeepers of sex."

Now, let's examine the men side.
It is said that "men are the gatekeepers of commitment." But I have come to the realization that most men are not "gatekeeping" commitment/relationships from anybody.
Think about it. How many men have girls that would like to be in a relationship with them? The average man out there is not being checked out by any woman. No woman cares about him, no woman thinks about being in a relationship with him, and women couldn't care less about his commitment. So, if he is the gatekeeper of commitment, WHO IS HE GATEKEEPING THAT COMMITMENT FROM when there are no girls that would like to be in a relationship with him? If you are a man, and you believe you are the gatekeeper of commitment, please take a pen and a paper, and write down the names of the girls you think you are gatekeeping that commitment from. If you can't think of any girl, just know that you aren't gatekeeping shît. If there are, say, three girls that would like to be in a relationship with you, then you are the gatekeeper of sex (only) AS FAR AS THESE THREE GIRLS ARE CONCERNED.
Since most men out there have no woman that would like to be in a relationship with them, I don't think it makes sense to say that "men are the gatekeepers of commitment."

The truth is, nowadays, women are indeed the gatekeepers of BOTH relationship and sex. For most (not all) men, it is women who decide who gets into a relationship and who gets sex. Virtually any woman knows at least one man that would like to be in a relationship with her; she is effectively gatekeeping commitment from that one man. But can we say the same for the average man out there? Is there a woman he is effectively gatekeeping commitment from? Is there a woman he can get into a relationship with today, if he wanted to?

Only a minority of men (I'd say around 30%) are truly gatekeepers of commitment. The rest have NOBODY to gatekeep their (undesired) commitment from.


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APOPTOSIS:
My Department no dey dia.
Always exempted or missed in the scheme of affairs 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️

Reverseng:
So mosquito Carrying 5 different what have you... scientist have to eat. They're humans like you. They need funding and they're slaves to their funders and 'peer reviews'

When you come across a knowledge from them, scrutinize it if it's a knowledge or a lie. Or an incomplete piece.
Learn to think for yourself.


This is a world of cause and effect. And our sense organs respond to effect and not cause. Your ears don't hear stillness. Your eyes don't see darkness. Your sense organs respond to motion and not stillness
Because it's not there doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

It's just because your sense organ doesn't respond to stillness or it's vibrating above or below our range of perception


So in a world of effect where our sense organ responds to effect, we have to trace the cause of an effect to actually experience creation as a whole

If you learnt reincarnation is real and the church hides it from you, would you believe

If you learnt that the sun doesn't rise but moves forward and backward giving the illusion of rising and falling, would you investigate?

If 1×1= 2 would you believe?

Reverseng:
You only converse about something you need to know or pass unto others. When you know it, the need to converse in a bid to argue mostly drops and you start applying (if you can)
You won't be arguing about it to see if it'll hold or not against an argument. Truth is simple. Lies are complicated
pardon me. Words fail how to convey this point

Reverseng:
It's The question that drives us. It makes us susceptible to the answer when it is brought to our consciousness

I can only show you the door to the truth..I cannot Walk the path for you.

Germs don't cause disease. Same way mosquito do not cause still waters. Mosquitos go to still waters. They do not cause still waters.
Focus on this.

Reverseng:
You only converse about something you need to know or pass unto others. When you know it, the need to converse mostly drops and you start applying (if you can)
pardon me. Words fail how to convey this point


You only date a girl until you find a wife. If you're married to a wife and you Still keep dating other girls, then you haven't found a wife

I told you germs don't cause sickness like schools will make you believe but instead a wrong combination of food.

For a disease to hold you, first you have to be susceptible to it.

Being susceptible Is like a soil. Do you plant yam in clay soil?
Exactly. That's why two people in a room filled with mosquito...one ends up with sickness while the other doesn't

Rockefeller who founded the general education board was quoted saying he needed a society of workers and not a society of thinkers.

Every modern knowledge you know now, are wrong.


They were made so in order to get a society of workers.

So mosquito Carrying 5 different what have you... scientist have to eat. They're humans like you. They need funding and they're slaves to their funders and 'peer reviews'

When you come across a knowledge from them, scrutinize it if it's a knowledge or a lie. Or an incomplete piece.
Learn to think for yourself.


This is a world of cause and effect. And our sense organs respond to effect and not cause. Your ears don't hear stillness. Your eyes don't see darkness. Your sense organs respond to motion and not stillness

So in a world of effect where our sense organ responds to effect, we have to trace the cause of an effect to actually experience creation as a whole

If you learnt reincarnation is real and the church hides it from you, would you believe

If you learnt that the sun doesn't rise but moves forward and backward giving the illusion of rising and falling, would you investigate?

If 1×1= 2 would you believe?

Reverseng:
What carries the parasite?

Is the parasite air borne?
Can it be found in food/water?

Reverseng:
Lol
That was you beating around the bush. Truth is simple.

What cause Malaria?

Reverseng:
You haven't stated what cause Malaria

Reverseng:
Germs don't cause disease that make you sick, same way mosquitoes don't cause still waters that breed their eggs

Dialogue between a 5yr old girl and her teacher

Girl: teacher, what's causes malaria?

Teacher: mosquitos. mosquitos causes malaria

Girl: but teacher, mosquitos are everywhere. Why am I not sick with malaria?

Teacher: it's because your immunity is strong

Girl: really? So what then makes my immunity weak

Teacher: it's germs my dear. Germs makes your immunity weak

Girl: but you taught that germs are everywhere. What are they waiting for? Why haven't they attacked my immunity?

Teacher: it's because your immunity is strong my dear

Girl: but you said germs make my immunity weak and you also said germs are everywhere, so why isn't my immunity weak now?

Teacher: you ask too many questions. Go to bed now.
*******

Now pay attention to part 2:
The dialogue of an informed teacher and her student

Girl: teacher, what causes sickness in my body

Teacher: Germs

Girl: but why isn't my body sick now?

Teacher: that's because the conditions haven't been met for germs to act on your body

Girl: 'conditions'
how do you mean, teacher?

Teacher: Germs go to diseased tissues and cells In our body, same way mosquitos go to still waters. MOSQUITOS don't cause still waters. They go to waters that are ALREADY still.

Girl: hmmm. That's interesting. tell me teacher, what causes diseased tissues and cells in our bodies?

Teacher: our food

Girl: but I eat food everyday. Why am I not sick?

Teacher: my inquisitive child, that because you properly combine your food

You see, the different classes of food have order in which they're properly combined. it's when humans improperly combine their food that they get SUSCEPTIBLE To GERMS that makes them sick

Girl: food combinations? That's new

Teacher: that correct. Food combinations isn't taught in school. What's taught is balanced diet. That's why everyone that eats balanced diet is sick, especially the rich people that can afford the so called balanced diet.

Shouldn't the rich who can afford balanced diet fall sick once in a blue moon?
If the rich who can afford the best balanced diet still fall sick, what chance does the average man have? The common denominator is balanced diet, which is the lie of the food/health industry

Protein and carbohydrates shouldn't be combined in one sitting, there are rules for their combinatiion, same as food and fruit juice, alcohol and milk. There are also rule for combining protein and fat/oil food. The rules doesn't end there.

There are rules to what we put in our mouth. Some Humans neglect these rules that's why they run to hospitals. Now you know why our body falls sick.
Time to go to bed dear

Girl: thank you teacher!








Author's note:

Cancer of your liver happen when your liver is FIRST diseased.
Same as cancer of any part of your body.

Now guess what makes your body Diseased?
Toxins arising from your improper food combinations!
Balanced diet is the world greatest health scam

Humans are omnivores in the sense that we eat meat and fruits.

We eat and fruit and meat BUT WE DON'T EAT THEM TOGETHER unless the rules of food combinations dictate so

eat your carbs, let it digest, then eat your protein and let it digest. Not eating rice and beans or bread and egg together. That's the rule for carbohydrates and protein combination. And I'm sure you're beginning the see and understand the implications of this rules concerning the everyday food you consume.

Now feel free to go make your research on rules of combining other food class and see for yourself how distorted the mainstream media of food and health is

Nyascobar1414:
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And broke girls should go for broke men

dkidd:
That's a lose canon. A big careless hoe

dkidd:
Lol I am not arguing with ur points bro and yeah I do agree. I'm just saying we all need love even single mothers too, but whomever wants to tow that line should do it with their eyes wide open

dkidd:
While I don't completely disagree with u but there are single mothers who are quite different in the sense that they are not just out looking for a provider but support emotionally and financially which isn't that bad. Again not all of them are bitter or ended things on bad note with their exes, although the numbers are very few, some are still on good terms just that things obviously didn't and won't work out, some made very poor decisions and have come to realize their errors, some lost their partners to the cold hands of death. All I'm saying is not all single moms are terrible but u still need to be careful. Find out why she's single and never believe her story but try to hear from someone neutral cos most of them lie. All the same I wouldn't advice any young man without kids of their own to start life with a single mom. That will be something else but then single moms need love and dicking too

NigeriaIsGreat:
no lesser crime in the presence of God