Family › Re: My Wife Hid Her HIV Status From Me For Many Years Till Before She Died by Dpsychologist(op): 3:49pm On May 02 |
okomile: Good hat she told you and u stood by her morally and financially when she feel sick.
Be thank for life. Move on and take care of the kids. But she told him very late. |
Family › Re: My Wife Hid Her HIV Status From Me For Many Years Till Before She Died by Dpsychologist(op): 3:48pm On May 02*. Modified: 4:58pm On May 02 |
budaatum: Did she infect him, is what I wonder!
And what's the status of his children? They are negative. She must have prevented them from having it through PMTCT. |
Family › My Wife Hid Her HIV Status From Me For Many Years Till Before She Died by Dpsychologist(op): 2:26pm On May 02 |
“My Wife Hid Her HIV Status From Me for Years and Only Told Me Days Before She Died” – Mr Bishop Shares Heartbreaking Story
A Nigerian man identified as Mr Bishop has shared a deeply emotional account of how he allegedly discovered that his late wife concealed her HIV status from him throughout their marriage, only revealing it shortly before her death.
Speaking during a live interview on Daddy Freeze’s 5:55 show, Bishop narrated that he met his wife in 2017 and believed they built a stable family life together. He said they got married and had three children during the course of their relationship.
According to him, everything appeared normal until 2025, when his wife suddenly fell seriously ill. He explained that he spent significant time and resources trying to seek medical help as her condition worsened, but said she gave inconsistent explanations and frequently travelled for treatment.
He alleged that despite medical consultations, the true nature of her illness remained unclear to him until she returned to Calabar and eventually disclosed the truth.
In his words, “My wife hid her HIV status from me for years and told me only days before she died.”
Bishop stated that the revelation left him devastated, especially because he had no prior knowledge of the condition during their marriage. He further alleged that some members of her family and close acquaintances were aware of her status but did not inform him.
Shortly after revealing her condition, she reportedly passed away.
The grieving husband also revealed that following her death, he faced heavy criticism online, with some blaming him for her illness while others accused him unfairly. He added that the emotional trauma and financial burden of medical care significantly affected his livelihood.
Despite the painful experience, he said his primary focus now is caring for their three children, who he claims have tested negative.
The interview has since triggered widespread reactions online, reigniting discussions around honesty in relationships, HIV awareness, stigma, and the importance of full disclosure in marriage.
As of the time of this report, there has been no official response from the family of the deceased. Source : https://africalevel.com/my-wife-hid-her-hiv-status-from-me-for-15-years-and-told-me-only-days-before-she-died-mr-bishopWhat are your thoughts on disclosure and trust in marriage when it comes to serious health conditions?
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Investment › Re: Retirement Benefits Don't Pay Bills by Dpsychologist(op): 3:06pm On Apr 30 |
TheMensch: Seems like you know me in person and actually wrote it for me That is a coincidence then. Many need this. |
Investment › Re: Retirement Benefits Don't Pay Bills by Dpsychologist(op): 3:05pm On Apr 30 |
Plan your life well my fellow Nairalanders, salary is not enough to secure your future. |
Investment › Retirement Benefits Don't Pay Bills by Dpsychologist(op): 1:57pm On Apr 30 |
RETIREMENT BENEFITS DOESN’T PAY BILLS :WHAT 30+ YEARS CAN STILL LEAVE YOU WITH
They threw him a big retirement party. Music, speeches, praise. A “dedicated man” who gave his best years to the system.
Then it ended.
He went home with an envelope.
Inside was his gratuity. Enough to settle a few debts, fix a leaking roof… but nowhere near enough to secure the future.
Thirty years of work. No house. No business. No meaningful investments. Just a pension struggling against inflation.
That quiet moment after the celebration is the part nobody talks about.
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This is not an isolated story. It is the reality many people walk into after decades of honest work.
The mistake is simple but costly:
Confusing income with wealth.
Salary feels steady, so it feels safe. But salary alone rarely builds anything that lasts. Especially in an economy where inflation keeps eroding value year after year.
Take a real example.
Around 2011 or 2012, ₦1.5 million could buy three plots of land in some parts of Nigeria.
Today, those same plots can go for tens of millions.
Meanwhile, a car bought for that same ₦1.5 million has lost most of its value.
That is not bad luck. That is how money works.
Assets appreciate. Liabilities depreciate.
If most of what you own is losing value, then time is not working in your favor.
Another hard truth.
Hard work is important, but by itself, it does not guarantee financial security.
People work hard for decades and still retire with very little because:
They never moved from earning to building. They saved, but did not invest wisely. They depended on a system that was never designed to make them financially independent.
Look around.
Opportunities exist:
Land in developing areas. Small businesses that can scale over time. Investments that compound quietly.
None of them require perfection. But all of them require awareness and action.
The shift that matters
Stop measuring life only by years of service. Start measuring it by:
What you own. What grows while you sleep. What will still feed you when salary stops.
Because retirement is not the end of life. It is the beginning of a new phase.
And that phase can either be peaceful… or painfully dependent.
Final thought
Applause fades quickly. Income stops eventually.
What remains is what you built.
Plan early. Act wisely. What do you think about this?
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Business › CBN Moves To Reshape Nigeria’s Digital Payments System by Dpsychologist(op): 9:53am On Apr 23 |
CBN Moves to Reshape Nigeria’s Digital Payments System as New National Vision Nears Launch Nigeria’s financial landscape is set for another major shake-up as the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) prepares to unveil a new payment systems vision within the next month, aimed at guiding the country’s fast-growing digital economy over the next three years.
The announcement was made by the Deputy Governor, Economic Policy Directorate, Muhammad Sani Abdullahi, during the inaugural meeting of the Payment Service Providers Committee in Abuja.
According to him, the upcoming framework was developed jointly with key stakeholders in the financial ecosystem, including fintech companies, mobile money operators, and other payment service providers.
He explained that the vision is designed to deepen financial inclusion, strengthen stability in the financial system, and sustain Nigeria’s position as a leading player in Africa’s digital payments space.
Nigeria’s electronic payment sector has recorded rapid expansion in recent years, with over 11.2 billion transactions valued at more than ₦1.07 quadrillion processed in 2024 alone. This marks the first time the country crossed the quadrillion-naira threshold in digital transactions.
Abdullahi noted that this growth trend has continued into 2025 and 2026, driven by increased adoption of mobile payments, fintech innovation, and expanding digital financial services across urban and rural areas.
He also stressed that the new strategy would focus not only on growth but also on safeguarding the system against fraud, money laundering, and terrorism financing, ensuring Nigeria avoids international financial restrictions such as grey listing.
The newly inaugurated Payment Service Providers Committee brings together regulators and key institutions including the Nigerian Communications Commission (NCC), Nigeria Deposit Insurance Corporation (NDIC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC). The committee is expected to meet quarterly to address industry challenges and improve coordination.
Deputy Governor for Financial System Stability, Philip Ikeazor, also revealed that fraud in the payment system dropped by about 50 percent between 2024 and 2025, attributing the improvement to stronger oversight and new anti-money laundering frameworks introduced by the apex bank.
Industry stakeholders have welcomed the development, describing it as a long-awaited platform that will improve collaboration between regulators and operators.
The Managing Director of the Nigeria Inter-Bank Settlement System (NIBSS), Premier Oiwoh, described the initiative as historic, saying it would strengthen Nigeria’s global financial competitiveness. Similarly, fintech and mobile payment operators said the move would help reduce long-standing regulatory bottlenecks and support innovation.
The CBN says the ultimate goal is a more inclusive, secure, and efficient payment ecosystem that supports businesses, improves access to financial services, and strengthens trust in Nigeria’s digital economy. Source: https://leadership.ng/cbn-targets-launch-of-new-payment-system/
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Business › Re: Dangote Refinery Moves Into Plastics & Detergents, Targets Global Market by Dpsychologist(op): 7:48pm On Apr 22 |
ezebunafo: propylene is a by-product of crude oil so am not surprised. Yes it is indeed. This is good development. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Popular Sayings… But Let’s Tell Ourselves The Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:32pm On Apr 22 |
Careente7: "Be yourself but first make sure "yourself" is not the problem" hits.
No comment; next question. You hit the nail on the head bro. |
Business › Dangote Refinery Moves Into Plastics & Detergents, Targets Global Market by Dpsychologist(op): 10:16am On Apr 22 |
Dangote Refinery Moves Into Plastics & Detergents, Targets Global MarketNigeria’s industrial landscape may be on the verge of a major shift as Aliko Dangote expands his refinery operations beyond fuel into high-value petrochemicals.
The Dangote Group has confirmed plans for its Lekki-based refinery to begin large-scale production of key industrial chemicals used in plastics and detergents. This follows a strategic partnership with Honeywell to deploy advanced processing technologies.
Under the deal, the refinery will produce an additional 750,000 metric tonnes of propylene annually using Honeywell’s Oleflex technology. Propylene is a critical raw material in packaging, consumer goods, and industrial manufacturing.
In addition, the facility will produce about 400,000 metric tonnes per year of linear alkylbenzene, a major ingredient in detergents and cleaning products. At full capacity, the plant is expected to rank among the largest of its kind globally.
Industry analysts say this marks a strategic shift from fuel refining to higher-margin chemical production, a sector known for more stable demand and stronger long-term returns.
Dangote said the move is part of a broader plan to strengthen Nigeria’s industrial base, reduce import dependence, and position the country as a key supplier in global petrochemical markets.
The development also aligns with wider efforts across Africa to boost local manufacturing and reduce reliance on imported industrial inputs, especially in sectors like plastics, packaging, and household goods.
Meanwhile, Dangote Sugar Refinery Plc has announced plans to raise up to N500 billion through a rights issue to support expansion and strengthen its financial position.
With these moves, analysts believe the Dangote empire is not just refining oil but steadily building a fully integrated industrial ecosystem that could redefine manufacturing and supply chains in Nigeria and beyond. Source: https://www.thisdaylive.com/2026/04/21/dangote-refinery-to-begin-large-scale-production-of-high-margin-chemicals/
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Jokes Etc › Popular Sayings… But Let’s Tell Ourselves The Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:27am On Apr 20 |
We’ve all grown up hearing these sweet, motivational, almost perfect quotes. They sound deep… until life actually happens 
Let’s adjust them small. Real life version. The one on bold is the real life version.
Let's go.
--- To err is human, to forgive is divine.
Real life version : To err is human, to forgive depends on what the human did 
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God helps those who help themselves.
God helps those who help themselves, but some people need help helping themselves 
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Money can’t buy happiness.
Money can’t buy happiness, but it can solve 90% of the problems causing sadness 
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Love conquers all.
Love conquers all, until reality enters the relationship 
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Be yourself.
Be yourself, but first make sure “yourself” is not the problem 
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Everything happens for a reason.
Everything happens for a reason, sometimes the reason is you 
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What goes around comes around.
What goes around comes around, except for some people that escape justice 
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Time heals all wounds.
Time heals all wounds, but some wounds need money and therapy 
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Hard work pays.
Hard work pays, but not always to the person working. 
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Follow your passion.
Follow your passion, but carry sense along 
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The customer is always right.
The customer is always right, until they start talking too much 
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Silence is golden.
Silence is golden, but sometimes it means you don’t have an answer.
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Actions speak louder than words.
Actions speak louder than words, but some people shout nonsense with both.
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Never judge a book by its cover.
Never judge a book by its cover, but the cover can warn you 
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You only live once.
You only live once, but one mistake can follow you forever 
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Forgive and forget.
Forgive and forget, forgive we can try, forget we will see 
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Knowledge is power.
Knowledge is power, but applied knowledge pays bills 
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Good things come to those who wait.
Good things come to those who wait, but better things come to those who move 
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Life is not a motivational speaker, it is tough and ruthless. Reality always adds the fine print 
If you get your own version, drop it let’s adjust more quotes  Cc nlfpmod seun Dominique |
Romance › “Na Woman Na” : The Excuse That Enables Abuse by Dpsychologist(op): 8:55am On Apr 15 |
Last night I witnessed two lovers “fighting”… but let’s be honest, it wasn’t a fight. It was one sided.
She slapped him. Once. Twice. Then threatened more.
The man didn’t react. Not because he couldn’t, but because he knew exactly how society would judge him if he did.
And then the real problem showed up.
Another man stepped in… not to stop the assault, but to hold the man down, giving the woman room to land another slap.
That right there is the issue.
“Na woman na.”
That mindset is why situations like this keep happening.
Because the moment people hear “woman,” accountability disappears. Violence is minimized. Excuses start flying.
But let’s call it what it is.
If someone hits you repeatedly, that is assault.
Not “drama.” Not “relationship issue.” Not “she’s just emotional.”
Assault.
And gender does not magically change that.
The moment you remove accountability from one side, you create imbalance and once there’s imbalance, abuse finds space to grow.
However, the moment i came there i spoke up and challenged that narrative.
I got pissed and said “ Oga no de hold the guy hand!Dem dey assault your fellow man you de hold am, allow him defend himself."
Clown was like “ Na woman na “ 🤡
Na woman as how? Na una de spoil them.
Soon as I said that…
I noticed the girl froze in the moment. All her ginger suddenly vanished and she appeared calm.
Why?
Because deep down, even she understood the boundary had been crossed. The only thing that was fueling her boldness was the environment enabling her.
That’s the uncomfortable truth.
Some behaviors continue not because they are right, but because they are allowed.
Now, let’s be clear so nobody twists this.
Defending yourself is not the same as attacking someone.
There’s a difference between protecting yourself from harm and using violence carelessly. A lot of people intentionally blur that line to avoid this conversation.
But telling a man to stand there and absorb physical abuse simply because the attacker is a woman is not morality.
It’s hypocrisy.
Real standard should be simple.
No one should hit anyone, not the msn not the woman. But if someone crosses that line, they should be held accountable.
Period. This is because once you start excusing wrong behavior based on gender, you’re not protecting anyone.
You’re just creating a system where abuse is selective and that never ends well. Cc nlfpmod seun Dominique |
Romance › Re: Provision Is Not Always About Flashy Spending But Patterns by Dpsychologist(op): 8:48am On Apr 15 |
Moderator101: You are talking to the wind.
Alot of Ladies today view men with the patterns you listed as ''broke and stingy''. They want a dirty boxer wearing, rough looking, dredlocked, 24/7 high and intoxicated yahoo boy who can buy them an iphone on the first day they met. To them, if he is able to do that then he can provide and take care of her.
They don't want to be a responsible wife to a responsible man. They find such men and such an idea boring. They wish and dream of being a baby mama to a yahoo boy. I am well aware of this that is why i created this thread in the first place. |
Romance › Provision Is Not Always About Flashy Spending But Patterns by Dpsychologist(op): 11:20am On Apr 14*. Modified: 9:54am On Apr 20 |
A lot of people get this question wrong from the start:
“If he doesn’t provide for me now, how do I know he will provide in marriage?”
The mistake is thinking provision equals spending money on you. It doesn’t.
If you want to understand a man’s capacity to provide, you don’t look at how much he spoils you. You look at how he handles responsibility.
Watch his patterns.
How does he treat his obligations? Does he support his family when necessary? Is he responsible with money or reckless with it?
These things reveal more than gifts ever will.
Look at the small moments.
When you go out, does he handle bills with maturity or does he avoid responsibility completely? If he owes you something, does he make effort to repay, or does he act entitled?
That tells you who he is.
Because a man who is serious about his life will not be throwing money around just to impress. He will be thinking long term. Investing. Building. Planning.
That kind of man may not look flashy now.
But he is laying a foundation.
And here is where many people get it wrong.
They ignore discipline and chase display.
They want proof in the form of expensive gifts, rent payments, or constant spending. Meanwhile, the man who is careful, focused, and building gets overlooked because he is not performing extravagant 'financially' .
But marriage is not performance. It is responsibility.
A man who cannot manage money wisely before marriage will not magically become better after marriage just because he earns more.
So instead of asking, “Is he spending on me?”
Ask, “Is he building something stable?”
Because if you understand that and you align with someone who is disciplined, the future he is working toward will not just benefit him.
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Romance › Re: Why Women Are On Body Creams And Men Are On Painkillers by Dpsychologist(op): 2:20pm On Apr 11 |
meobizy: Hit the gym multiple times a week and you’re good. No time for weak men. This post is not about weak or strong men. Its a commentary on reality of life. |
Romance › Why Women Are On Body Creams And Men Are On Painkillers by Dpsychologist(op): 2:15pm On Apr 11 |
“As you grow, you’ll understand why women are on body creams and men are on painkillers.”  The Joke Is Funny… But the Truth Behind It Is Deeper At first glance, it sounds like just cruise. But if you look closely, there’s a social truth hiding inside that joke. From a young age, women are often conditioned to focus on appearance, beauty, and presentation. The world rewards it. Compliments, attention, validation, even opportunities sometimes come through how they look. So naturally, industries target them with products that enhance that. Men, on the other hand, are conditioned differently. Less about how you look. More about how much you can endure. You’re expected to carry pressure, solve problems, provide, stay strong, and keep moving… even when things are not okay. So instead of “looking good,” the system teaches men to manage pain and keep functioning. That’s where the joke comes from. Not that men don’t care about appearance or women don’t face pressure, but the expectations are wired differently. One is trained to be appealing. The other is trained to be resilient. And both come with their own problems. For women, it can become pressure to always look perfect. For men, it can become silence around pain and mental health. So yeah, laugh at the joke… but also understand the reality behind it. Because growth is when you realize: Both sides are carrying expectations. Just in different forms. Cc nlfpmod seun Dominique
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Romance › Re: “All Men Are The Same”… Or You’re Picking The Same Man In Different Bodies? by Dpsychologist(op): 2:47pm On Apr 04 |
EmperorIsaac: Seconded...Gbamsolutely!✍️ But a large proportion of the people who would come across this post lack capacity for comprehension; you'd see it in their comments. I can actually see it in their comment. It says alot about who people are. |
Romance › “All Men Are The Same”… Or You’re Picking The Same Man In Different Bodies? by Dpsychologist(op): 1:37pm On Apr 04 |
“All men are the same.” You hear it everywhere. Then someone replies: “Who asked you to try all men?”  It sounds funny, but let’s slow down and be honest because this conversation is usually more emotional than logical. When people say “all men are the same,” they are not speaking statistically. They are speaking from experience. Repeated experience. But here is the uncomfortable part. If you keep meeting the same kind of person with the same behavior, at some point you have to ask: Is it really “all men”… or a pattern in your choices? Because human beings don’t pick randomly. We are drawn to certain traits: 1. Confidence 2. Looks 3. Lifestyle 4. Energy The truth is that the very traits that attract you are the same ones that come with red flags you keep ignoring. So you meet Different names with Different faces Yet with Same story and it starts to feel like “all men are the same.” But they are not. There are men who are loyal. There are men who are disciplined. There are men who are serious about commitment. Just like there are men who are not. The real issue is not the existence of bad men. It is repeated selection without reflection. Now let’s balance it. This is not about blaming women alone. Men also say “all women are the same” after dealing with similar patterns. Same logic applies. If you don’t pause to understand your choices, your standards, and your blind spots, you will keep recycling the same experience. So instead of asking, “Why are all men like this?” Ask: “Why do I keep choosing this kind of man?” That question is harder. But it is also the one that actually leads to change. Because until you fix the pattern, the faces will keep changing… but the story will remain the same.
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Romance › Re: The Ring Didn’t Kill The Desire, Your Habits Did by Dpsychologist(op): 10:57am On Apr 03 |
fyzaila: I don't believe all that is written up there, I have come to realize that marriage is luck, if you're lucky to marry your best friend as a husband where you're compatible in 99% aspect then you will enjoy marital bless.
Although, Satan will interfere but your connection will drive him off. You started with saying it's luck then you ended up saying Satan will interfere. So which is it? Cos your point has just become weak. |
Romance › The Ring Didn’t Kill The Desire, Your Habits Did by Dpsychologist(op): 10:11am On Apr 03 |
The Ring Didn’t Kill the Desire,Your Habits Did. Why do people get married and suddenly stop having sex? Why does desire seem to fade the moment commitment becomes official?
It is easy to blame marriage. That is the wrong target.
Attraction does not disappear overnight. It fades quietly when it is no longer maintained.
Most couples do not lose desire because they are married. They lose it because they slowly stop doing the things that created attraction in the first place.
Think about the early stage.
You paid attention. You dressed well. You flirted. You created mystery. You made effort.
Now look at what often happens after marriage.
Comfort replaces effort. Routine replaces excitement. Familiarity replaces curiosity.
And then people are shocked that the spark is gone.
Here is the uncomfortable truth.
Attraction is not a one time achievement. It is a continuous process.
You cannot switch from being intentional to being passive and expect the same results.
Desire feeds on a few key things.
Effort. When you stop trying, attraction notices. Novelty. Repetition without variation kills excitement. Respect. Emotional neglect weakens physical connection. Individual identity. When you lose yourself in the relationship, you become predictable and less interesting.
Another mistake people make is turning marriage into pure responsibility.
Bills, children, work, stress. These are real. But when a relationship becomes only about survival, intimacy becomes optional. And what is optional is often ignored.
Sex is not just physical. It is emotional, psychological, and even strategic. It reflects how two people see, value, and engage each other.
So when it fades, it is usually a symptom, not the root problem.
The solution is not complicated, but it requires honesty.
Start dating your partner again. Bring back intentional effort. Create new experiences together. Communicate openly about needs and frustrations.
Most importantly, stop assuming that love will automatically sustain attraction.
Love can exist without desire. That is the part many people do not want to admit.
If you want both, you have to actively build both.
Marriage did not kill the spark. Neglect did.
And the same way it faded slowly is the same way it can be rebuilt, if both people are willing to do the work.
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Business › Re: Flutterwave Announces Banking License, To Rival Nigerian Banks by Dpsychologist: 10:04am On Apr 03 |
Flutterwave is expanding then.
More ways to make money. |
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Romance › Re: Are Humans Naturally Polygamous? The Truth Most People Get Wrong by Dpsychologist(op): 2:35pm On Apr 02 |
QuinQQ: Your conclusion is ridiculous. As if humans go about choosing "what actually works emotionally, practically, and sustainably for you". In realty almost all our sexual behavior is by instinct NOT logic. And I believe it is rooted in biology NOT psychology or choice. And I believe it all goes back to giving your genes the best chance to survive and be passed on. For men this instinctively means impregnating (sleeping with) as many new women as possible. For a woman it means sleeping with a strong (rich) man who'd protect her and her children into survival. Result: a man is more turned on by a NEW woman while women are more turned on by power, prestige, wealth. Just because you have the instinct doesn't mean you must fulfill that instinct. |
Romance › Are Humans Naturally Polygamous? The Truth Most People Get Wrong by Dpsychologist(op): 2:11pm On Apr 02 |
There is a statement people casually throw around.
"Men are polygamous in nature"
And recently that :
“Humans are polygynous (polygamous) by nature, both male and female.”
It sounds bold. It sounds scientific. But it is only half trueand that is where the confusion starts.
Let’s break it down properly.
From a biological and evolutionary standpoint, humans are not strictly one thing. We are not purely monogamous, and we are not purely polygamous. We are flexible.
Anthropological data shows that many traditional societies allowed polygyny i.e one man with multiple wives, mainly because of resources, status, and survival structures. But that does not automatically mean both men and women are naturally wired to live that way without conflict.
Here is the reality people avoid.
Humans have dual instincts.
On one hand, there is the drive for variety, attraction to multiple partners, curiosity, and sexual diversity that exists in both men and women.
On the other hand, there is a strong need for emotional security, bonding, exclusivity, and stability which also exists in both men and women.
These two forces constantly compete.
So when someone says “ men or humans are naturally polygynous/polygamous,” what they are really pointing to is the capacity for multiple attraction not necessarily the ability to manage multiple committed relationships without emotional cost.
Those are not the same thing.
If humans were truly and comfortably polygynous by nature, we would not see jealousy, insecurity, competition, and emotional breakdowns in multi-partner relationships. But we do see it consistently, across cultures.
This tells you something important.
Biology may open the door. Psychology often complicates it.
Now add society into the mix.
Culture, religion, economics, and personal values all shape how people express their relationships. Some choose monogamy for stability. Some practice polygamy for cultural or personal reasons. Some reject both and define their own path.
So the smarter conclusion is this:
Humans are not “naturally polygynous” or “naturally monogamous.” Humans are adaptable, with competing desires.
The real question is not what is “natural.” The real question is: what actually works emotionally, practically, and sustainably for you?
Because having the capacity for something does not mean you can handle the consequences of it.
And that is where most people get it wrong.
Cc nlfpmod seun dominique
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Romance › Re: Soft Boy Era: When Nigerian Men Finally Taste Their Own Script by Dpsychologist(op): 11:23am On Apr 01 |
Seunpapa65: You will not understand how stupid and audacity this girls dey get until a fellow man will talk this kind thing The audacity in which dey say it eh. And they don't even see any wrong in it. |
Romance › Re: Soft Boy Era: When Nigerian Men Finally Taste Their Own Script by Dpsychologist(op): 11:00pm On Mar 31 |
eepeepook: Must be Gen Z news. I know nothing of this. Then you are not on Twitter/X. |
Romance › Re: Soft Boy Era: When Nigerian Men Finally Taste Their Own Script by Dpsychologist(op): 4:47pm On Mar 31 |
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Politics › Re: CBN Named “Central Bank Of The Year 2026” by Dpsychologist(op): 11:45am On Mar 31 |
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Politics › Re: CBN Named “Central Bank Of The Year 2026” by Dpsychologist(op): 11:44am On Mar 31 |
Sheuns: Na Kangaroo award? Cause there’s no where in the post that mentioned who gave the award.
A simple click on the Source attached by the OP returned an error page. The link is broken. Sorry about that. |
Romance › Re: Soft Boy Era: When Nigerian Men Finally Taste Their Own Script by Dpsychologist(op): 11:40am On Mar 31 |
SeverusSnape: In essence, What is good for the goose is good for the gander. I like the rate at which Nigerian men are waking up to reality, These girls are in business. Lol it's just hilarious when you turn it around. Men dey suffer. |
Politics › CBN Named “Central Bank Of The Year 2026” by Dpsychologist(op): 10:40am On Mar 31 |
CBN Named “Central Bank of the Year 2026” : What This Means for Nigeria’s Economy Nigeria just got a major global nod.
The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has been officially named Central Bank of the Year 2026 by the Central Banking Awards Committee in London. This is not just a ceremonial title. It is a strong signal that global investors are beginning to take Nigeria seriously again.
Let’s break it down in plain terms.
When Bola Tinubu took office in 2023, Nigeria’s economy was in serious trouble. Inflation was spiraling, the naira was crashing, and investor confidence was almost gone. At one point, inflation hit nearly 35 percent, the highest in decades.
Enter Olayemi Cardoso and his team at the CBN.
They made some tough and unpopular decisions:
• Removed multiple exchange rate systems • Introduced a more transparent FX market • Cleared billions in forex backlog • Raised interest rates aggressively to fight inflation • Ended reckless central bank lending practices
Painful in the short term, but here is the result:
• Inflation has dropped to about 15.1 percent as of early 2026 • FX market gap reduced from over 60 percent to under 2 percent • External reserves climbed to about $46.7 billion • Investor confidence is gradually returning
Even the IMF has acknowledged improvements in liquidity and transparency.
Now, why does this award matter?
Simple.
Global recognition like this does three things: 1. Restores credibility Investors trust countries that show policy discipline. 2. Attracts foreign investment Money flows where risk is lower and rules are clearer. 3. Signals stability Businesses can plan long term without fear of sudden policy chaos.
But let’s be realistic.
This does not mean Nigerians are suddenly better off. Cost of living is still high. Many people are still struggling. Economic recovery at the macro level does not immediately translate to relief at the street level.
So what is the real takeaway?
Nigeria is moving in the right direction structurally, but the benefits will take time to fully reach everyday citizens.
This award is not a finish line. It is just proof that the reforms are starting to make sense globally.
Now the real test is consistency.
Because Nigeria’s biggest problem has never been starting reforms. It has always been sustaining them. https://www.thisdaylive.com/2026/03/29/cbn-gains-global-recognition-with-emergence-as-central-bank-of-the-year/#:~:text=CBN
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It's just hilarious the way guys took it. Twitter is crazy.
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