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She is one of my favorite female actress after joke Silva.

sonofananimal1:
I KNOW IT IS A BAD IDEAL, BUT JUST LOOK OUR NAIJA WOMEN NOWADAYS,

IF YOU TRY GO GENTLE ON THEM, THAT'S WHEN YOU WILL SEE THE BEASTS IN THEM, IF YOU TRY TALK TO THEM IN A LOVELY WAY, THEM WILL TALK BACK TO YOU IN A DISRESPECTFUL MANNER.

I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT THEM WANT

My brother the thing self tire me.....I was with a relative and she was telling me how a member in her church wants to divorce his wife after over 6yrs of marriage. She is trying to counsel them but the way it is going, the marriage will crash.....Many marriages are crashing becos women especially naija women are simply disrespectful and lazy.

MarieSucre:
So it's people's opinion that stop you?

Are you married?
Are you employed?

why should people's opinion stop me?

SirShymexx:
Lol.

Some women need to remain single.

I tire oooo...dey want guys to be the ones cooking in the house not them anymore...tufiakwa!!!

sonofananimal1:
AND YOUR HUSBAND COOKED FOR YOU EVERYDAY

I JUST CHOOSE TO IGNORE, BUT YOU ARE VERY STVPID IN SOME WAY FOR BRINGING SUCH AN OPINION

Gbam!!

sonofananimal1:
THAT'S WHY I SAID HE SHOULD BEAT HER JUST ONCE AND SEE THE CHANGE.

HE IS TOO SOFT ON HER. AND WHEN YOU GO TOO SOFT ON A WOMAN, THEM BEHAVE STRANGE

I concur but If you beat her they will call you a BEAST, if you complain they will say that you are not a man. Lol......Women of today sha need to be flogged especially the ones who can't or refused to cook.

keppyy:
We do thefrozen routine in my family house and now I stay alone and I hate frozen foods...

So ur mom cooks before putting it in the fridge right? So why giving an advise that will cause havoc when u know ur own mother didn't do that. Na wa for una

keppyy:
You witnessed it abiiii the stories they told you...

Go to ur village and find out...abi ur mother was feeding ur dad with canteen food abi? Na was for una.

sonofananimal1:
SERIOUSLY SPEAKING YOU ARE RIGHT!!

LET MAKE DIVORCE AN OPTION B.

AS FOR OPTION (A), LET HIM PUT HER IN COOKING SCHOOL (BUT I JUST KNOW SHE WILL DECLINE TO BASE ON HER STUBBORNNESS)

IF HE STILL CAN'T TAKE IT, LET HIM GO FOR OPTION B

Agreed but I don't think that is the issue...the issue is she can cook but has refused to cook always giving excuses that it is because of work and dat she is tired...how does he handle that now for over 2yrs.

miriamgroove:
NOT ANYTHING THAT TYPES ARE HUMAN..

Sharrraapp!!

miriamgroove:
oooooook.... my opinion.. I think the man should learn how to cook.. that's not enough reason for divorce..


wow... for the first time fp ...
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when u are 50yrs and still single, u will be blaming the witches in ur village not knowing that it is this stupiid reason u just gave that is the fault.

sonofananimal1:
YOU MAY BE RIGHT BUT CONSIDERING THE ECONOMIC SITUATION, AND THEIR KIDS. QUITING HER JOB MAY NOT BE A WISE IDEAL.

SO THE BEST WAY IS THAT THERE EMPLOY SOMEONE WHO WILL DO THE COOKING AN PAY HIM/HER ON A MONTHLY BASIS.


FOOD IS NOT SOMETHING TO FIGHT OVER WITH OR RATHER DIVORCE. ( WHAT GOES IN THE MOUTH MUST SURELY COMES OUT)

What you guys seem not to understand is that men love a woman who can cook...seeing that his wife isn't cooking is gradually killing the love he has for her hence he is thinking of a divorce... That's why the popular adage says"The way to a mans heart is through his stomach". Meaning for a wife to constantly win the love of her husband, she has to do it through her cooking.

BobUg28:
"That's not enough reason for Divorce?" Smh for Nigerian ladies. This is the height of stupidity. What's the primary duty of a wife then?

You dey mind dem?

keppyy:
I personally can't cook everyday and I hate frozen food...
I cook by weekends and eat out weekdays...

You and your wife should sit down and make a plan on how to run your home effectively...

It's not easy for one to work 8-5 and still have the strength to cook...

Your wife is your partner and not a slave...

Work as a team...

Our mothers and fore mothers will leave to the farm as early as 4am-5am and come back late..they trek to the market to buy food stuff, yet they take care of the family and also cook. Women of today are just lazy. Simple....maybe it is part of modernization

fairheven:
This primitive mindset is killing--if the woman stays at home ,the man wd complain she is lazy, now she is working the man complaints about not cooking food-is there any law that mandates the woman to be the one cooking for the Family

When u get married don't cook for your husband, then you will find out if there is a law that mandates the woman to cook or not.

Women of today are very lazy, troublesome, insulting and stubborn!!!!
It is better for the man to marry the caterer in the canteen since the wife is virtually useless!!!

leGeExus:
Start to dey badmouth Idiot..na all ladies be olosho,na u go know gAl who dey ugly!...Na u know o.....u too look for popularity,stop wasting ur 24hrs to dey badmouth others huh

Shut the fvck up.. Eddiioot!

E bi like say na only rape stories dey make front page today Mods una well don ooooooooo.

standd:
Hmmmmn..
I strongly believe that no one deserves to be raped, not even the fair sisters of the night plying their wares on the streets.
So, let's hope that the victim gets vindicated and the culprit, punished. Whoever is the victim or the culprit, I don't know cos I wasn't there, unlike you Dragonking, who is so sure that Timaya was framed. Are you Psychic?

Of course we all believe that no one deserve to be raped. But the way she is going about it, showing us complementary card and a photocopied paper that she is filling rape charges against timaya is just pitiful. She shoild do it in an orderly manner instead of trying hard to convince us... Well, Like I said, if timaya is smart, he will nail this woman, as she will make a mistake that will expose her. Anyways, timaya will learn his lesson so that next time he wanna sex another girl, he will even invite BBC or tvc station to film their sexcapades.

filallan:
fulani girls are the best

is her name a Fulani name? Olodo.

standd:
Why do you feel like this also applies to SheillaB or what's she called?
Shouldn't you be blaming your much-loved Timaya for not having enough common sense.
Is there a shortage of girls who are willing to give him $ex?
Don't you also think there's something wrong with Timaya who still thinks hopping into bed with random girls is the way to go?

Btw, we can only watch and see how this case plays out, you are also a man so you should learn from this

I believe something is wrong with both of them, timaya and the money hungry wiitch...Well if timaya was smart, he would have evidence that will send the woman to jail for false accusations. And yes I believe that sheila b is faking the accusation. She is a typical hungry woman shouting up and down on social media for attention. Timaya should act smart on the issue and get hard evidence against her to seriously prosecute her for defamation etc.

standd:
They found out the allegation was false by investigating, right?
So, wait for the outcome of Timaya Vs sheillaB's case. Simple.
You can not judge a case as heavy as RAPE from the comfort of your bedroom.

And this will also serve as a deterrent to so-called Naija celebrities( even with the wack noise they call music) who do not apply common sense to konji, and tends to jump into bed with anything with a willing hole.

Typical!!! This shows that you didn't even read the brain banks case. They arrested him and jailed him for over 10years as the former school mate(a lady accused him of rape) He had to redeem himself when the lady meet him secretly and confessed that she wrongly accused him, not knowing that banks had a recorder that recorded her confessions. That's how he was able to redeem himself. The police over there don't do proper investigation when it comes to rape, hence any woman can open her mouth and shout rape, and send the guy to jail.
Several innocent men are suffering in jail because of the way america handle rape cases. Am not saying that there are no rape cases but they should do proper investigation first.

Dharniel:
that's not always right...

What am trying to let you know is that a lot of women in the us know that the law favours them, that's why they easily set the man up and end up with his cash. The police will not hesitate to arrest a man whether guilty or not as long as the woman shouts rape. Imagine the case of brain banks, after spending 10years in prison was able to finally get the girls confessions on tape. This is what this evil lady is doing too....it is a simple set up, and timaya being fo0lish fell for it.

Dharniel:
those are my opinions exactly, what IF?

standd:
From most of the comments I have read on this forum..

TIMAYA is rich and popular so he CAN sleep with any woman who ventures into his hotel room even when she does NOT wish to sleep with him.

SheillaB is the 'LOOSE WOMAN' that promised a man $ex, went into his hotel room and later said NO to $ex. Then she later tried to blackmail him by asking for money and then filing a police report.

You see, we are gone in this country. I wonder how we can sit behind our monitors to judge a matter that we didn't witness first-hand in good conscience.

Naija, I hail oh.

Google Brian Banks false rape allegations and you will find out how many women in the us lie to bring down a successful man just to collect his wealth.

thorpido:
I read your article.It wasn't straight-up case of handing the woman that judgement.He was supposed to sign a document and prove his case but unfortunately,he was in prison and somehow the papers were passed.
I know the law favours women and that is why men need to be careful.

Did you read the part were the woman said and I quote " “I had to turn to welfare to get assistance… and I had to put him down as the father. That was the only way I could get assistance… He shouldn’t have to pay it at all. I want everything to go away for him so he can go on with his life.”.
Despite the woman confessing at the end the court didn't charge the woman but still held its stance that the man should pay or go to jail.
This is how the women set innocent men up knowing fully well that the laws over there will favour them no matter what in the us.
Just Google it, u will be amazed with so many false claims and set up and how several innocent men are suffering in jail for tthe woman's deceit.
What am simply trying to prove is that timaya was gullible and not knowing how rape cases work in the us and the lady simply used the opportunity to get something from him or ruin his career.

GentleToks:
She has successfully brought Timaya down already as far as US is concerned. Timaya should stay away from anything US cos the authority would bang him up while the trial and the rest of d rape procedure goes on; we are talking about years here.

The best Timaya could do is to get a sound lawyer to fight the case of on his behalf if that is allowed in US. And the cost of this alone might send Timaya back to poverty circle.

It's quite sad that this lady has destroyed this guy music career in US and it is obvious that it wasn't a rape.

What happened btw Timaya and this lady was the usual No No No response that usually accompanied a shy lady or first timer girlfriends' response to a sexual advance from their boyfriends/husbands even housewives do say No No No to sex sometimes while the husband keep trying his luck. In Nigeria, it's a natural norm. Sometimes, a girlfriend's No to a sexual advance does not always mean No and that was Timaya thought in this instance but unknown to him that this lady has another plan for him. This was what Timaya did and this lady capitalised on it......

Exactly!!!!!!!

Asatiloko:
you're still ignorant of the gravity of the word RAPE ..if i promised to blow ur mind away and have d greatest sex ever with you, and i arrive d scene and change my mind, does it entitle u to force me?
If you do, it's rape!!! and I reserve the right to report it or not. It's just a choice.
The fact that it(sex) was promised does not mean it must be given.

thorpido:
@bolded,this was Timaya's words against hers.What if she said she never agreed to that?
If it gets to the courts,the prosecution will seek evidence and one is for Timaya to prove she agreed to come and have sex with him.

The American system is so twisted that it gives room for the woman to easily rope the man into a case he knows nothing about..

For instance, read this story below of how an american woman put a guys name to collect child support despite that he isn't the father of the child..this Is a similar set up by the woman. And the stupiid court has ordered the man to pay or go to jail. Read; http://truthinmedia.com/state-orders-man-to-pay-30k-in-child-support-or-face-jail-despite-proof-he-is-not-father/

This is a similar set up this babe is trying to use knowing fully well that the american law will support her lies. That's is my point

Genea:
Can u provide evidence dat he didnt

since i was the first to ask the question, answer mine first then I will answer urs.

thorpido:
Guy,the US(and other developed countries) don't run like naija o.Did you read about Mike Tyson rape case?The lady visited his hotel room and still he was convicted of rape.
A guy in the US told me how he got a girl into his room and they kissed and even got a bl** job from her.When he tried to go further,she said no and meant no.If he had forced it,it would have been rape
We don't know what rape really means in Naija.

You still didn't get my point. Timaya has already told her that they will have sex which she agreed and came visiting. She promised to blow his mind away with sex but also saw an opportunity to exploit the gullible timaya by recording some conversations and putting it up as cheap blackmail. I know the case of rape in the us is different and favours the woman but this is what some women use to blackmail gullible folks like timaya. Na timaya I blame sha for not using common sense.

Genea:
this is d reason y victims of rape dnt come out to voice out wah happened,cos ppl lyk u expect dem to always kip mute,pls she knows her right,he raped her and he shud bear d consequences of his action even if she is voicing out strongly

Can u provide evidence that he raped her?

thorpido:
Why are most people saying she's fraudulent?A lady can come to your hotel room and sit on your bed,it doesn't give you a right to have your way.
Whether it was consensual sex or not,the law and the courts are there to sort it out.

I'm surprised at the comments of some ladies here.I thought you ladies are the ones who suffer this thing more.

What was she doing in the hotel in the first place? Timaya stated clearly that he wanted to have sex and invited her over. If she didn't want to have sex, why did she go?

Dbboy:
Look at all of us judging her,how sure are we she wasn't raped,Lets give her the benefit of doubt untill proven otherwise. This is the reason why your sisters and daughters would be raped and they wont tell you because of the backlash they might receive from those who are suppose to protect them

Guy, if truely she was raped, she has a "responsibility" to immediately report it to create evidence of the crime …and not months after because she didn't get money for her cheap blackmail.