₦airaland Forum

missbronze:
I totally concur.


Especially, on being approachable.

I went to church one time, pastor asked those looking for partners should come out for prayer, we all did. both guys/ladies.

After service, the gal sitting beside me was approached by one cute guy like that, you wont believe the gal started giving the guy attitude. I mean, this was the same gal that came out for prayer of partner.

The guy just tried more a bit before walking away. I was mad. i told the gal my church mind sharp sharp.

Even if she is nt available, (engaged or dating). That doesn't mean she should use the guy and do yeye in the company of her friend.

What happens to be friendly and explaining in a friendly way that u are already hooked.


Come to think of it..., That brother may be her destined husband.

Onwe ghi onye ma afo ga amu eze echi.

meaning: who knows belle wey go born king tomorrow?

Am glad that you can see that many ladies are the cause of their singlehhood status. They will be forming and misbehaving, when they old finish, they go dey go night vigil up and down.

When they were young they misbehave, insult and try to ridicule guys, now she don old finish she is desperate. So many Nairaland girls go end up in her shoes. Let them continue their feminist and callous behaviours.

toopsy22:
Lol, that's how it is ooo, if you become someone great tomorrow,, you'll see different miserable MofO's coming from all angles to tap into your success..,,,
I don't know how a man will rape that she-waste even when paid to do so..,,,,

with this rihanna story,, she will strategizing another tougher agenda..

She has gotten her 5minutes of fame, but she will soon be put to shame very soon. Timaya will keep on being loved by his fans while the olosho will go into oblivion

all4naija:
You shut the f**K up or I'll shut it for you! That is one the reasons why that society of Nigeria is messed up. R a p e everywhere!

sharraaapp you dis eeddiot..you come here open ur dirty stinking mouth accusing timaya of rape, abi sheila b the prostitute na ur sister? Nonsense.

all4naija:
Ugly rapist! It is a big shame Rihanna is standing close to somebody like that.

did he rape ur sister?

toopsy22:
eh eh timaya don popular reach Barbados.. that bum bum song - the beats is badass..,,,

I actually thought 'ukwu' would be his breakthrough song there..... there is just no way that olosho girl will stop screaming..

Am telling you..maybe sheila b the olosho will carry 5guns tomrw untop timaya matter. . Abeg timaya, you shall continue to grow and wax strong while the useless olosho girl will be watching.

searching4love:
It's not surprising that female population are exceeding their male counterparts in this present world and due to this many ladies are desperate and will stop at nothing to lure gullible men into their fake love trap with the hope of getting married. One amazing thing is the stupidity and pride Nigerian girls exhibit when they are still in the age bracket of (22-28) by playing hard to get on potential suitors just to give an impression of been a good girl even tho the are mostly who.res . They waste away their early years running after men for material gains. Nigerian girls are mostly insatiable. They are long throats and their money hungry nature will make Oliver Twist jealous. They jump from dick to dick heartlessly, eat like glutton on a date, and the worst part is their terrible hygiene. All these factors are responsible for the teaming population of desperate ladies who will stop at nothing to get their hands on a man after a terrible past. Nigerian girls can never be good wives. Recent study shows that most men who married Nigerian girls end up in early graves. If you want a peaceful marriage, i advise you to look out side the shores of Africa where mentalities are entirely different from these financial pest we call women in Nigeria. A foreign lady offers you true love with out deceit, Care, support, and they understand the real meaning of been in a relationship. Nigerian Girls will never love you for who you are but what you have or possess and once that thing(money) is no more, they quit you and look for the next prey to fall into their love trap. A word is enough for the wise.


#Team Foreign Girls

This is actually true..most naija ladies don't have anything to offer in a relationship apart from opening their smelling puzzy...Oshiomole is smart as he choose a foreign lady that is giving him rest and peace of mind and not a hungry naija girl that just want to chop and clean mouth. Abeg, preach on with the gospel.

sonofananimal1:
she have even turned to prayer warrior self.

Just a matter of time

No mind am. Tomrw now she go go night vigil they beg baba God for husband.

zeb04:
just the way you started these by quoting me?

by the way how would you know a single depressed girl online. if you are not surrounded by them real life.

Yawns!!!! I only quoted u because u were going off point to my friend here. Going through ur posts reeks with frustration. Anyways, that's ur headache. You can continue ranting and cursing all u want.

sonofananimal1:
DID I MENTION YOUR FATHER OR YOUR MOTHER,

IF YOU THINK MY COMMENT IS BAD, WHY CAN'T YOU JUST COUNTER IT WITH SOME VALUE POINT, AND WE SHALL COME TO CONCLUSION, INSTEAD OF SHOWING YOUR STUPIDITY ONLINE.

HAVE RESPECT FOR YOUR DIGNITY FOR ONCE!!

Forget that girl jare....all these frustrated single ladies that are close to their prime are just looking for guys to pour their frustration on. Make we ignore am.

zeb04:
when you insult someone for no reason, you get ready for whatever comes to you.

As for the marriage part,your sisters would benefit more from that.

Go and read ur first comment and u will find out that it was u DAT started it. BTW my sisters don marry, they are not single depressed girls like u ranting ur mouth and displaying ur frustration to the whole world.

zeb04:
USELESS is clearly your father's name

This is another negative trait of ladies nowadays... Did he mention ur father in this discussion. Tomrw una go dey cry say man never marry una.

Kia, timaya fall my hand...see the kind ugly bleached olosho him go dey sleep with.
It is obvious this woman is just an attention seeker. Nothing more.

nikkflexible:
Thanks

honestly you are a rare babe and I appreciate ur honesty.

menxer:
you will find reasons to side either the man or the woman but striking a balance is vital, the woman should not make the husband feel she is incapable of cooking for the house while he should help fill in when she is obviously tired, buying food outside once in a while is OK. IMO

Buying the food outside once in a while is not the issue, the issue is when the wife has turned it to a norm even on weekends.. What stops the woman from cooking on weekends and stocking it up in the fridge? If she does so, there won't be an issue as the man can simply go to the fridge and warm his food...shikena! But women of today wants the man to be the one cooking.

IHate9ja1:
Yes oh,this is why majority of nigerian wives/prospective bride despise with great hatred their mother in-laws.....why?...cos of this cooking matter? Recently i ve seen the trends of the wife's mother to come for a longterm stay(years) and majorly all they do is COOK...and anytime the husband family just call to say hi/intends to show up,they are being painted in a bad light....una think say Gov. Adams Oshomole na fool?

I don talk tire say oshiomole get sense. E no wan girl were go give am hypertension at his age with her stubbornness and insults, hence he just carry one babe from another country jejely.

sucess001:
So it takes u to be a machine to cook? Me tinks u have a wrong mentality to the idea od marriage.


Going by ur theory...then all men shd do a transgender operation so they can also assist with pregnancy and child delivery.


Westernisation is really disturbing a lotta our girls...I have a lot of American friends who re married and even they will tell u they ll never allow any oda person cook for their hubby...yet here our girls wanna 'belong' wit Wierd feminist views.


I wish u well with ur mentality. Hopefully it wrks for u.

Don't mind them, very soon they will be shouting that husbands too should be carrying pregnancy, since married is about sharing task. I weep for our generation of women.

Joy1706:
Which one is our mothers? Not all of our mothers farm abeg. My mum does nt wake up at 4 or 5 am for any reason. She goes to work and she has still has to work at home. When she can, she cooks. When she can't, we have a help who cooks or we buy take out. Heaven does not fall

You said ur mum cooks right? Now this is a woman that has refused to cook even on weekends... She buys food everyday, she doesnt cook at all.....Am sure when u were small you don't eat take out food everyday, so go and read the op again to have a full understanding of the situation.

MarieSucre:
OK. I understand. She has to be more active on the weekends.

Ok and glad u understand my point.

sonofananimal1:
I CHOP HER FOOD, THE NEXT THING YOU GO HEAR BESAY I DON WAKE UP DEAD

Hahahaha...she no fit do you anything my guy. We dey kampe!!!!

MissGdope:
So what is wrong if the man comes back from work to cook? If a woman can do it, whats stopping a man?? What makes him different? So because he is a man he must have someone prepare his food? Why not the other way around?... Lmme guess males are more superior or more important right?

You have not answered my question... A single mother still comes back late from work but still cooks for her children, so why now that a man is involved, suddenly she becomes to tired to cook for the children and her husdband this time? Remove the husband and she gets extra energy to cook for the children, add the husband, and she gets so weak and tired to cook. SMH.

MarieSucre:
I really hate having to re-explain myself.

I personally don't like the idea of always going outside to buy food. The risk of typhoid is too high.
There are sometimes the woman is in the mood for the naughty but the man comes back and complains he is too tired. Should the man be advised to resign? No because that's not what considerate and sensitive partners ask of their other half. They try to work around it and reach a compromise.

Doing chores or not doing chores does not add to a person's libido. What are other factors are there that are making her so tired? What kind of husband would you plan to make if all you cared about what your sexual gratification and not your wife's wellbeing?
"I don't care that she is frowning, sad or tired, I'm just going to fucck her an go, after all its my matrimonial right".

One situation does not mean its the general norm. So that woman still gives her husband excuses means that all women will give their husband excuses? You don't want women to generalize all men so don't do it to women.

Remember "SHARING IS CARING". Put pride aside. Put your family first. There is no woman in her right mind who will not be willing to work with a man who wants to work with her.

You have not explained anything. This is a woman that has simply refused to cook even on weekends. She buys food everyday and the husband is sick of it....i believe that she has made it a norm that even on weekends where tthere is no wwork, she still ask her husband money to buy food. That woman is just too damn lazy. Go and read the op again.

MissGdope:
What's stopping the man from cooking. There's such a thing as single fathers too. Men need to grow up and realize that we're in the 21st century and women are not slaves. If the marriage was important to him, he would have made some compromises but obviously his ego is more important to him.

What are you saying The single woman comes late from work but still cooks for her children...why doesn't she load their stomach every day with bukka food? Now that a man is involved, she is now too tired and wants the man to cook...SMH for this generation of women.

SirShymexx:
That looks like the future and with that, you can keep getting varieties without the need to be tied down to one woman. You just have to know how to beat the system and not let them suck you for child support.

Women are the most annoying beings on this planet - daughters of Jezebel.

Hahahahahaha, guy no tear my belle.

MissGdope:
So let him stop working. Women can work too. What about single parents who have to do all of these things themselves anyways? Misogynism is ridiculous

If she can cook as a single mother for her children when she still comes late from work, what stops her from cooking for the husband?

sonofananimal1:
I DEY TELL YOU OHH, BUT I KNOW SAY SHE GO DEFEND AM

Make una arrange sharperly, then chop am and clean mouth but make she no go give u bukka food chop sha.

MarieSucre:
That's why you help her. or did you not read my original comment. when all the evening work is done, the result is that either both of you will be equally tired or both of you will be equally rested and bonded. The outcome is up to you.

You can put your feet on the table and decide to watch Supper Sport 7-9 while she prepares the meal and serves the children and serves you and washes their plates and bathes them and puts them to bed and washes her and washes their clothes and soaks your stockings and boxers, and completes her office work she brought home. Then musters the energy to satisfy you because trust me that woman is not getting an orgasm(assuming you're not one of those selfish men who care about a woman's climax) or YOU CAN ASSIST HER.

The choice is your bro.

What are u saying She comes back with bukka food...they both eat...They enter the bedroom and the husband ask her for sex, she says no that she is tired. Please tell us how the man will help her in this situation because she didn't go through the stress of not cooking..Mind you, I have seen people who are married, they have house help that does the cooking and all, yet the woman gives stupiid excuses that she is tired when it come to sex. What do you expect the man to do? Admit it that women of today are just lazy.

SirShymexx:
Honestly, most women these days don't add anything to people's lives apart from trying to hustle whatever they can get off you. And a lot of them are mental cases who can dish out all kinds of disrespectful things, but once you reciprocate the gesture - they'll start getting emotional.

They're not worth the stress apart from when they need to get laid.

Hahahaha..I agree. Apart from the puzzy, there is little or nothing these ladies are willing to add to a mans life.

MarieSucre:
pls can you put your real picture as your dp. We women like men not beast. We need to know when to avoid sexist, misogynist, inconsiderate, insensitive, callous and skewed principled men like this. So pls do us all a favour and post your pix.

Am sure you are tripping for him that's why u want to see his pix...@sonofananimal1 , this lady is tripping for you oooooooh.

MarieSucre:
This has nothing to do with western culture. The man should lend a hand. not some time but all the time. The food enters not just his stomach but his children's stomach. No time for pride. Family comes first. This way she will not be too tired when night comes but will be able to actively participate in bedmatics with him. Doing things together help couples bond and teach their children responsibility early. Use your head not your pride.

Its either the above or she resigns.

This is how u deceive yourself...How will a lady that is practically tired to cook for her husband be able to perform in bed...The same reason she gave to you for not cooking is the same reason she will give when the time fcomes for sex in the night.....Thats why u hear a lot of women saying that they are tired in the night, they want to sleep...oh, am going to work tomrw, pls leave me alone etc.....I seriously pity some men that support this idea. SMH

SirShymexx:
Ya siggy is cray, yo!

A lot of these women lack what it takes to be a mother in the house. They're better off as baby/single mum, due to the stress they cause everywhere for adding absolutely nothing to the home.

And bride price is the biggest scam ever for things that don't render the services you paid for. There should be a refund clause!

Exactly what I said on another thread and some pained single ladies were just crying up and down the thread.

keppyy:
Did I say the woman should not cook

It's not my business how they choose to run their home..

Husband and wife should come together and find a system that works...

Do not dictate for a family if you are not a part of it...period!!!

it is nobodys business how they choose to run their family but ur mom cooked for ur father, same as ur grand mother upwards so why is it difficult to cook for the family?