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RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 2:55pm On Nov 20, 2014
samisparkle24:
Guy,stop ranting poo. Its stupid for a broke guy to have a galfriend,he should get his life together.
Its very stupid for a gal to be involved with a guy that can't provide for her.
A responsible guy should provide for his family,that is what makes a man,your woman will respect you.How could you manage home without money,love will fade.
If a guy has not got his act together,why date and marry,focus on yourself to be successful.You dont have to be wealthy,atleast,you should be able to provide,that gives confidence.
oh really? I can imagine how wealthy your Grandfather was when he met your grandmom.
RomanceRe: 6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 2:52pm On Nov 20, 2014
jboy73:
Mtcheww.

Corn don komot o!

**runs to mama nkechi**

Me: ma roast me that corn there... Dat one when d leaf still green.. Add those 2 pear too, dose pear when black like my nyansh.

Mama nkechi: Ha jboy , this one wen u d order me around like say u be d boss... I hope say u never go steal ur papa money to com chop corn?

Me: Ah, mama nke no talk like that na.. U nono say I follow pour cement for that foundation behind una house..? Na my day job salary I one use chop corn.
In short mama, I don comot for your shop. Thunder destroy ur business.

Mam nkechi: ah ah J no vex na, na joke I dey na. Abi make I no joke with u again.

Me: mama OK I don gree. Just roast the corn and pear give me ma d go.
But wat of nkechi na? I never see her since our last Bleep
huh
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 11:06am On Nov 20, 2014
claireshan:
meaning you should go an make moneygrin
lol. I do intend to make more of it, actually...loads of it.

I think you got me wrong the last time though, I said 'meanie'; as in, you're mean.
RomanceRe: 6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 11:02am On Nov 20, 2014
faqman:
walking up to women publicly lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
ok. It's normal, for some people, actually. I think you should try meeting women when they have very little or no company; that way you have less to worry about. Also, if you have friends who are popular with women, simply ask them to introduce you to any one of them you may like; this can go a long way.
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:53am On Nov 20, 2014
claireshan:
Lol grin the fact is I don't date because of Money if I love you I don't care about your financial status but u should at least be able to cater for yourself and some of Ur needs forget about me I can takia of myself
I find those lines a bit contradictory, claire.

You're saying he doesn't have to be rich, but still has to be financially okay?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:46am On Nov 20, 2014
justmag:
he is just talking about taking money out of the equation and explore love.
lol. I don't think she read the article either
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op):
will1am:
Just like men are biologically wired to look for beautiful women and fertile ones women are biologically wired to look for resourceful men.
Women want to feel safe and secure.They want protection and to ensure a good future for their off springs.This happens on the unconscious level and as a result most women will get attracted to resourceful men provided that all other variables are constant.
Of course money is a the most powerful resource a man can have but this doesn't mean that you can't attract women if you don't have it.
well if a mature woman is interested in securing a financially strong future for herself and children, that's understandable, but to see an 18 year old girl hunt for an affluent man, I think that's appalling
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:40am On Nov 20, 2014
wordbank:
Every man have his own class of woman. Broke guys sticks to d broke ass girls, while d made guys can get whatever dey like. It's just a game wia the best player wins! cool cool
lol. Where I'm from, broke don't recognize broke.
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:36am On Nov 20, 2014
Truckpusher:
Thank you for being sincere.........This is exactly one reason why some rich folks treat women like trash which eventually lead to womanizing.

If I'm well aware that all the love I get from you is because of my financial status,how serious do you think I will take you?

And how much respect do you deserve from me?
now that's some sense...^^^
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:35am On Nov 20, 2014
claireshan:
No Hope
lol. Meanie
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:33am On Nov 20, 2014
guffywealth26:
Why must u be broke when u are alive? Dead niccurs get broke.

Hustle! Hustle!! Hustle!!! Make money and forget about the future of broke ass dudes.

Money o money o money o
lol. You must be super wealthy, eh?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 10:31am On Nov 20, 2014
Houseofglam7:
The jobless na EOD...(END OF DISCUSSION) grin
even if he's making an effort to get one? Haba now.
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by Drahmah: 10:03am On Nov 20, 2014
yiwaldecanta:
Macky 2 earned my respect...he is a real man,I pity tayo's baby mama am sure he beats her too......violence against women must never be tolerated.
really? He beats and disrespects her, yet he hasn't publicly disrespected her by falling for any of the female housemates?

Please, tell me how you define respect.

There's something a lot of y'all do not know about people like Ty. People like that can rant, shout and shake a woman, but they'll respect her too much to lay a finger on her. Ty's problem's that he's very emotional. He takes things very seriously, but that don't mean he's unreasonable or callous. I didn't watch his altercation with miss p last night, so I can't tell if he was wrong or not, however, I think it's absolutely wrong to assume he's a wife/girl beater just because he's very vocal.
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 8:01pm On Nov 19, 2014
Harbosede02:
last i checked a struggling guy is far better than a guy who sit and do notin abt his financial status....so yea,i can consider a struggling guy.
lol. That's fair enough
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 7:43pm On Nov 19, 2014
dechandel:
Damn serious
you sound so sure. Have you tried one before now?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 7:39pm On Nov 19, 2014
Harbosede02:
Being broke is different frm being poor,the former is temporary while the later is the other way round....i can cope with a broke guy nt a poor guy.....
lol. In this context, 'broke' actually means 'poor'; you know, a struggling guy. Would you give one a chance?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 7:34pm On Nov 19, 2014
dechandel:
You see.. @khalessi has said it all.. A girl who is financially dependable can't date someone who is beneath her. It is very difficult to find a girl who would actually do that..
Tho i can do that. tongue no big deal sef tongue
lol. If only you meant that
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:45pm On Nov 19, 2014
Khalessi:
What am trying to say is I won't give any man that isn't up to my financial status the chance, I don't care if you are romeo or whatever. A relationship that the woman is more financially stable than the man is never going to last.
I respect your opinion, but don't you think his financial strength can increase with time? Or you do not believe in building a relationship?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:42pm On Nov 19, 2014
dechandel:
Sometimes it all about the financial security like they term it tongue
I have seen girls who don't ask a dime from their bf. They have there own money.. But nope.. They won't date a broke guy
And yep. I'm currently seeing someone.. My dad's pocket cheesy
lol. Your dad's pockets must be super.

Well, but why would I want financial security from someone else if I actually had my own money?

I think most women either just want to feed off guys or they do it for status (you know, so the society see them in a 'bigger light')
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:31pm On Nov 19, 2014
Khalessi:
I never dated a broke guy. I've an expensive taste. I don't need your money but you need to match my status.
in essence, you're saying when it comes to dating, your taste is guided by a man's ability to meet your financial status rather than his ability to meet your emotional needs?
RomanceRe: 6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 6:17pm On Nov 19, 2014
Houseofglam7:
(7) You're addicted to Nairaland
seun wouldn't like that ^^^
RomanceRe: 6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 6:16pm On Nov 19, 2014
faqman:
shy
well, I totally understand. But do you have this problem when you're alone with your woman of interest or u just have a problem walking up to women publicly?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:12pm On Nov 19, 2014
ERCROSS:
Yes..
But not all women..
there's hope then...
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:11pm On Nov 19, 2014
dechandel:
Take shopping once every month? shocked shocked
Pls where are the guys that would do this o
lol. You'd trade a guy like that for your current man (that's if you're seeing someone)?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:09pm On Nov 19, 2014
Zeemoor:
All women are not the same
We don't look the same, we don't think the same, and certainly, we all don't want the same thing
All we have in common is a va.gi.na
For some of us, our choice isn't based on how fat his bank account is or his good looks
of course, I wasn't generalizing, but you'd agree that a large percentage of women today would never consider a broke guy for a relationship...
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 6:06pm On Nov 19, 2014
Houseofglam7:
There's hope for broke guys......that just got jobs.....
lol. And the jobless?
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by Drahmah: 5:52pm On Nov 19, 2014
sholay2011:
The housemate playing the 'Dillish game' isn't Ellah; it's Goitse.
yeah, I noticed. She's looking stronger than people give her credit for.
RomanceRe: 6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 5:38pm On Nov 19, 2014
faqman:
guilty of number1 though.... embarassed embarassed embarassed
why? You're shy or just scared of rejection?
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 5:36pm On Nov 19, 2014
Blebleswag:
Go and work and make money and dont b lazy, mitchewwwwwwwww.


This is hw u wil get married n u expect d woman 2 také responsibilities of d families.
you a gold-digger? undecided
RomanceRe: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 5:34pm On Nov 19, 2014
ERCROSS:
Nope..

No hope..

Absolutely NO..

Money rules the world...
does that mean women these days are gold-diggers?
RomanceWomen And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by Drahmah(op): 5:07pm On Nov 19, 2014
In a world where money is given so much importance, and the value of everything is measured in terms of it, it becomes difficult for those who lack or don't have enough of it (money) to matter in the scheme of things.

Everything in the world today has a price tag including love. I remember back in the days, it was totally different. I mean, love was difficult to find, but it wasn't because of money, rather it was largely based on emotions and people's ability to connect. If you were born before the new millennium, then, you understand what I'm saying. Then, spending money was not an issue in relationships because it wasn't the foundation on which it was built. If you spent money, it was solely because you wanted to, not because you needed to.

I remember the first relationship I had; I didn't spend a dime on this girl (who was supposedly the hottest in college at the time). The only time I spent on her was when I got her a gift (a set of earrings) which I did without breaking a sweat. She didn't ask me for nothing...not even $1. And this wasn't the case with me alone, but with every of my friend at the time. You may argue that this happened because we were all still very young, but how many younger men today (both in and outta college) can boastfully say they're in a relationship where they don't have to spend to keep the girl around? How many young girls today even want to date boys within their age circle? Things have completely changed, and with each passing moment, getting worse. Young women no longer date people of their age circle because they believe that most of them aren't financially stable enough to take care of them...but you look at it all critically, and you realize that The responsibilities that come with having a girl these days, even makes it more difficult for financially impoverished guys to find the courage to ask a girl out. You have to buy her weaves (which she changes every 2 or 3 weeks), take her shopping as often as every once in a month, irrespective of how much you earn, buy her toiletries and stuff, sometimes, you she even wants you to pay her rent/feed her. It's almost like you have to take full responsibility of the girls' upkeep...

And one begins to wonder---where do broke guys look to for love in a world such as ours? Does this trend mean they don't get to date or get married? Or do they have to wait till they make money before they get some loving? I mean, what happened to dating because you actually have real feelings for someone? I think It's crazy really, guys. Please, share your thoughts and experiences with me---do broke guys ever date? Ladies, would/have you dated any broke guys?



Source: www.elcrema.com/2014/11/11/women-and-money-any-hope-for-broke-guys/
Romance6 Possible Reasons Why You're Single---and Won't Attract A Lover by Drahmah(op): 4:45pm On Nov 19, 2014
Someme people are single by choice while some others are single not because they chose to, but because they just can't seem to get someone hooked...no matter how much they try, these set of people just can't get someone into their lives.

It's one thing to be available, and an entirely different thing to be admirable. Some people are available, but they're just not admirable, and here are possible reasons why that is so.



1. YOU DON'T ASK

They say, 'ask and you shall receive', but some of us just don't get this. There's no way you can get something you don't make an effort to get, if you want a partner, you must walk up to someone you like and tell them. I get that some people are shy and fear rejection, but that won't get you anywhere, if you desire something/someone, you go get it, life is about risks.


2. YOU'RE A NOTORIOUS CHEAT

Some people are so promiscuous they make a reputation out of it. When everyone knows you're an incorrigible cheat, they tend to steer clear off you, and keep their friends and loved ones as far away from you as possible because no one wants to be associated with an unreliable person. Promiscuous people are unreliable; they are considered to be heartbreakers, some people don't know this, but It can render you unattractive to potential partners.


3. YOU NAG TOO MUCH

This is more for women than men. Some women can cause you a heavy migraine with their constant complaining. If there's one thing men hate about women the most, it is nagging. It doesn't matter how pretty you may seem, if you nag, men will RUN as far away from you as they can.


4. YOUR PERSONAL HYGIENE IS NEXT TO ZERO

You can wear the most expensive designer outfits, but unless you're really clean, there's no way you're leaving a good impression. Some people are so dirty they don't even bath and brush their teeth often. Your body, teeth and clothing should be well cleaned (and ironed) if you want to make a good impression on people. Everyone likes cleanliness, so it's a step towards getting hitched.


5. YOU'RE A NEGATIVE PERSON

Some of us just don't see the good in any situation or people; we only see the bad. People like that usually have a negative vibe around them, they rarely even smile or laugh---It's bad! People want to be associated with positivity and happiness, you need to change that about you, if you're someone like that.


6. YOU'RE SLOW

Some people are just too slow when it comes expressing their feelings for someone they like. They finally meet their crush, and rather than cut right to the Chase or at least, drop a hint, they decide to play it cool---and get friend-zoned in the end. If you like someone, make your feelings known ASAP...delay is dangerous!


So there you have it. You think I left out anything?

Source: www.elcrema.com/2014/11/18/6-possible-reasons-why-youre-single-and-wont-attract-a-lover/

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