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samisparkle24:oh really? I can imagine how wealthy your Grandfather was when he met your grandmom. |
jboy73: ![]() |
claireshan:lol. I do intend to make more of it, actually...loads of it. I think you got me wrong the last time though, I said 'meanie'; as in, you're mean. |
faqman:ok. It's normal, for some people, actually. I think you should try meeting women when they have very little or no company; that way you have less to worry about. Also, if you have friends who are popular with women, simply ask them to introduce you to any one of them you may like; this can go a long way. |
claireshan:I find those lines a bit contradictory, claire. You're saying he doesn't have to be rich, but still has to be financially okay? |
justmag:lol. I don't think she read the article either |
will1am:well if a mature woman is interested in securing a financially strong future for herself and children, that's understandable, but to see an 18 year old girl hunt for an affluent man, I think that's appalling |
wordbank:lol. Where I'm from, broke don't recognize broke. |
Truckpusher:now that's some sense...^^^ |
claireshan:lol. Meanie |
guffywealth26:lol. You must be super wealthy, eh? |
Houseofglam7:even if he's making an effort to get one? Haba now. |
yiwaldecanta:really? He beats and disrespects her, yet he hasn't publicly disrespected her by falling for any of the female housemates? Please, tell me how you define respect. There's something a lot of y'all do not know about people like Ty. People like that can rant, shout and shake a woman, but they'll respect her too much to lay a finger on her. Ty's problem's that he's very emotional. He takes things very seriously, but that don't mean he's unreasonable or callous. I didn't watch his altercation with miss p last night, so I can't tell if he was wrong or not, however, I think it's absolutely wrong to assume he's a wife/girl beater just because he's very vocal. |
Harbosede02:lol. That's fair enough |
dechandel:you sound so sure. Have you tried one before now? |
Harbosede02:lol. In this context, 'broke' actually means 'poor'; you know, a struggling guy. Would you give one a chance? |
dechandel:lol. If only you meant that |
Khalessi:I respect your opinion, but don't you think his financial strength can increase with time? Or you do not believe in building a relationship? |
dechandel:lol. Your dad's pockets must be super. Well, but why would I want financial security from someone else if I actually had my own money? I think most women either just want to feed off guys or they do it for status (you know, so the society see them in a 'bigger light') |
Khalessi:in essence, you're saying when it comes to dating, your taste is guided by a man's ability to meet your financial status rather than his ability to meet your emotional needs? |
Houseofglam7:seun wouldn't like that ^^^ |
faqman:well, I totally understand. But do you have this problem when you're alone with your woman of interest or u just have a problem walking up to women publicly? |
ERCROSS:there's hope then... |
dechandel:lol. You'd trade a guy like that for your current man (that's if you're seeing someone)? |
Zeemoor:of course, I wasn't generalizing, but you'd agree that a large percentage of women today would never consider a broke guy for a relationship... |
Houseofglam7:lol. And the jobless? |
sholay2011:yeah, I noticed. She's looking stronger than people give her credit for. |
faqman:why? You're shy or just scared of rejection? |
Blebleswag:you a gold-digger? ![]() |
ERCROSS:does that mean women these days are gold-diggers? |
In a world where money is given so much importance, and the value of everything is measured in terms of it, it becomes difficult for those who lack or don't have enough of it (money) to matter in the scheme of things. Everything in the world today has a price tag including love. I remember back in the days, it was totally different. I mean, love was difficult to find, but it wasn't because of money, rather it was largely based on emotions and people's ability to connect. If you were born before the new millennium, then, you understand what I'm saying. Then, spending money was not an issue in relationships because it wasn't the foundation on which it was built. If you spent money, it was solely because you wanted to, not because you needed to. I remember the first relationship I had; I didn't spend a dime on this girl (who was supposedly the hottest in college at the time). The only time I spent on her was when I got her a gift (a set of earrings) which I did without breaking a sweat. She didn't ask me for nothing...not even $1. And this wasn't the case with me alone, but with every of my friend at the time. You may argue that this happened because we were all still very young, but how many younger men today (both in and outta college) can boastfully say they're in a relationship where they don't have to spend to keep the girl around? How many young girls today even want to date boys within their age circle? Things have completely changed, and with each passing moment, getting worse. Young women no longer date people of their age circle because they believe that most of them aren't financially stable enough to take care of them...but you look at it all critically, and you realize that The responsibilities that come with having a girl these days, even makes it more difficult for financially impoverished guys to find the courage to ask a girl out. You have to buy her weaves (which she changes every 2 or 3 weeks), take her shopping as often as every once in a month, irrespective of how much you earn, buy her toiletries and stuff, sometimes, you she even wants you to pay her rent/feed her. It's almost like you have to take full responsibility of the girls' upkeep... And one begins to wonder---where do broke guys look to for love in a world such as ours? Does this trend mean they don't get to date or get married? Or do they have to wait till they make money before they get some loving? I mean, what happened to dating because you actually have real feelings for someone? I think It's crazy really, guys. Please, share your thoughts and experiences with me---do broke guys ever date? Ladies, would/have you dated any broke guys? Source: www.elcrema.com/2014/11/11/women-and-money-any-hope-for-broke-guys/ |
Someme people are single by choice while some others are single not because they chose to, but because they just can't seem to get someone hooked...no matter how much they try, these set of people just can't get someone into their lives. It's one thing to be available, and an entirely different thing to be admirable. Some people are available, but they're just not admirable, and here are possible reasons why that is so. 1. YOU DON'T ASK They say, 'ask and you shall receive', but some of us just don't get this. There's no way you can get something you don't make an effort to get, if you want a partner, you must walk up to someone you like and tell them. I get that some people are shy and fear rejection, but that won't get you anywhere, if you desire something/someone, you go get it, life is about risks. 2. YOU'RE A NOTORIOUS CHEAT Some people are so promiscuous they make a reputation out of it. When everyone knows you're an incorrigible cheat, they tend to steer clear off you, and keep their friends and loved ones as far away from you as possible because no one wants to be associated with an unreliable person. Promiscuous people are unreliable; they are considered to be heartbreakers, some people don't know this, but It can render you unattractive to potential partners. 3. YOU NAG TOO MUCH This is more for women than men. Some women can cause you a heavy migraine with their constant complaining. If there's one thing men hate about women the most, it is nagging. It doesn't matter how pretty you may seem, if you nag, men will RUN as far away from you as they can. 4. YOUR PERSONAL HYGIENE IS NEXT TO ZERO You can wear the most expensive designer outfits, but unless you're really clean, there's no way you're leaving a good impression. Some people are so dirty they don't even bath and brush their teeth often. Your body, teeth and clothing should be well cleaned (and ironed) if you want to make a good impression on people. Everyone likes cleanliness, so it's a step towards getting hitched. 5. YOU'RE A NEGATIVE PERSON Some of us just don't see the good in any situation or people; we only see the bad. People like that usually have a negative vibe around them, they rarely even smile or laugh---It's bad! People want to be associated with positivity and happiness, you need to change that about you, if you're someone like that. 6. YOU'RE SLOW Some people are just too slow when it comes expressing their feelings for someone they like. They finally meet their crush, and rather than cut right to the Chase or at least, drop a hint, they decide to play it cool---and get friend-zoned in the end. If you like someone, make your feelings known ASAP...delay is dangerous! So there you have it. You think I left out anything? Source: www.elcrema.com/2014/11/18/6-possible-reasons-why-youre-single-and-wont-attract-a-lover/ |


no big deal sef 
