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Travel / Re: My Monthly Savings In Canada by DrAnie: 10:50pm On Dec 27, 2018
atutupoyoyo2211:
I dont get offended when people post negative stuff online because when whenever we post something online we should expect both negative and positive comments. I get encouraged by the negative comments.
@opebiboy you sound like a hardworking Nigerian that is just trying to be successful like each and everyone of us. You mentioned you import cars from overseas which is an honorable business. let me tell you what i see at the site i work security. This is a 5 year construction project going on here. Every day i sign in trucks to drop off sand and gravel on the site. Now 90% of the drivers of these trucks are Indian, and what they do is that, they bring their brothers from Indian to learn truck driving under them and within 2 years, the apprentice has his own truck and then delivers on his own. Most of them then register their own company and you see the name on the truck. i am at work right now and i truck driver just came. I was registering him in the system when i asked him what company he works for, and he said the name. And i released this man, who is a born and bred Canadian is driving trucks fro and Indian immigrant. The owner of the company was still delivering today, and i talked with him,. he told me he has 3 trucks that drive for him. My bank rep once told me that, everyday she sees truck drivers and restaurant owners, who come in and they have account balances of $300k and above. Anyone in Canada can correct me if i am wrong.
The longshoremen that work on our site make $50 an hour and above. And they are unionized, so their pay always goes up. One of the longshoremen on our site drives a bentley bentayga. My own Security supervisor drives a 2013 g wagon. He is from Iran. He came to Canada and worked Security and warehouse for 6 years straight, working 16 to 18 hours a day. Right now he only works 8 hours a day and his daughter also works on site as the assistant security supervisor. she is also a workaholic getting experience to be a police office. she drives a BMW X6. When my supervisor saw i was ready to work, he always gave me shifts.
The purpose of this is to tell @opebiboy, it is not all about scam, people work hard, people toil day and night to succeed.
You keep posting links thats says "the average Canadian this, the average Canadian that', I am not an average Canadian. I am and will be a successful Canadian through hard work. The internet says Nigerians are poor but all Nigerians are not poor. Try not to be classified as part of the average.
Average SUCKS! Normal SUCKS!! Being broke is normal for average people. Folks, majority of the people in the world is normal(average) - choose to be weird!
@Op, ignore all the Naysayers. I pray they will all be alive to see you reach your goal.
Financial freedom is possible!
"Personal Finance is 80% behavior and only 20% head knowledge" - Dave Ramsey

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Travel / Re: Lies Of Nigerians Living In America by DrAnie: 7:16am On Nov 19, 2017
timesup234:
Even a senior RN with an annual salary of $75,000 in America can't be compared to a Bank Manager in Nigeria. Enough with their ridiculous joke!
I had wanted to ignore this thread like a plague because I could sense someone hating on Nigerians in diaspora for only God knows.
However, i will quietly drop a few comment. Firstly, your opinion is clearly bias and over-exaggerated. I bet you over 50% of bank managers in Nigeria, if given a chance to work and live in the US would do so without blinking, leaving their almighty "bank manager" role.
For the records, I had the opportunity to work with a fellow naija brother at one of the top 4 banks in the US. The dude was always grateful for relocating to America even though he was a bank manager at Skye bank (Nigeria) for over 4 years.

Please STOP poisoning the minds of Nigerians in Nigeria who might be contemplating relocating to the US/Europe.

Note: The US/Europe might be over hyped but its sure better than naija in every terms you can imagine.

God Bless Nigeria.

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Celebrities / Re: Man To Ufedo Sunshine: Hardship In US More Comfortable Than Pleasure In Nigeria by DrAnie: 4:01pm On Jul 11, 2017
What would drive a person so desperate to vacate where his roots lie in search of an experience elsewhere in the world? Understandably, the motives of lots of nigerians putting in immigration applications are diverse but the underlying factor is the stark disappointment in our(nigeria) system and a search for a plausible hope. Hope for good health care, good schools, adequate security, constant electricity, good roads and hope for our unborn children.
The truth remains 'NIGERIA IS A FAILED STATE'! GOD has blessed this nation so much with natural resources that could make us compete with the great nations of the world yet we have chosen to move backward and not stagnant nor forward. Our leaders are so corrupt, judicial system is corrupt,almost if not all the sectors in the economy are corrupt. REALLY PROVOKING!

May God help Nigeria!
Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Kill A Man & A Girl In Benin (Graphic Photos) by DrAnie: 11:23pm On May 12, 2017
LifeIsGuhd:
90% of young boys/men in Benin are cultists...

Btw, I am Bini, before some people will come after me.

RIP to the dead!
Oh dear, your claim is so fallacious. I am not sure where you generated your stats from, but I totally disagree with you. I was born, bred and even "buttered" in Benin and for the most part neither me nor the folks I moved with is affiliated to any cult. So, please get your facts right and don't misinform the public on issues you don't have a broad knowledge on.
Shalom.

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Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by DrAnie: 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2017
FrankNetter:


Social Security Number, driver's license and Green card?
There you go..
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 1:41pm On Dec 29, 2016
HARDDON:


U r too naive , too Nice, too needy! ! Gross Misconduct punishable by punch! angry embarassed

7 gud weeks she has been eating ur dough! Flezing ur time , airtime n so many other while u r here calling BABE? U r lucky this is not wiithin my training session, guys wud hv held ur hands n legs, lie u flat oon d floor while i gives u sttrokes of aboki bulala .

Who Dah f gives a flying f about dating her sORry a33? ( i only use d f word wen im angry! N ryt now i am!))
Noted HARDDON. Would act accordingly. Thanks.

U just succedded in handinG her ur huge balls strewpidly.
N oh how she controls u so!
One wud hv tit tot u learnt ur lesson from d oda gurl.

REMEDY

Too pisses to proffer any!

Ok, im feelin beta now after pausing for 15mins


Here is what you wud do.

U wud assume u broke up with her n stop calling, hanging out.
If she calls, pick n in a hurry tone tell her u wud call her back n drop. Dont call back. Or let d phn ring , dont take. UnDo all d nice moves. Cut her wings

Pay the sacrifice n digest this Thread.
Meet others while @ it.

If eventually u let her a lil audience n she go asking why u changed, tell her u got a new gurl n uve moved on, she should do dsame!

Then excuse urself n roll home. this is where u wud see begging if she really likes u, but if she never did n was just using u, u wud know also cos she wud move on with her life!

Digest the thread!
Romance / Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by DrAnie: 9:21pm On Dec 28, 2016
AsapTeddy:



dnt ask her out.

you don't wana come off as being desperate.
what you need, instead of asking her out is to instill a sense of trust inside her, thats what you need.

dont succumb to her pleas.

use future projection and you are good to go.
Thanks Teddy. Noted!
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 3:08pm On Dec 27, 2016
LordZero:


It's a shit test.. She's trying to see if you are faking it.. The moment you ask her out, say bye bye to your balls and control of the relationship.

Ask yourself, are you willing to lose your balls because you want her to kiss you?

Give her some space, act indifferent around her. Dial down the affection/attention and the sweet names and see if she starts chasing you or not. Make her work for ur attention. . You are the price not d other way round. ..

Talk to other girls too.. Always have a backup grin..
Thanks lordzero. Would act accordingly.
Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 7:33am On Dec 27, 2016
Hey harddon and other gurus in d house. Please, i need a quick advice. I just got out of a messed up relationship about 2 months ago. As y'all might already know, I was overly caring and proclaimed love for my girl several times due to my naivety. I also naively asked out, which she responded with " i will pray about it". Well, i ended the relationship thingy to give her time to pray well after 4months of dating. Nonsense!
Anyways, all that is past story now. I have been going out with a new girl for about 7 weeks now. I always call her my babe on IM chats, phone calls and text. She keeps on saying i haven't asked her out yet. That she would not concur she's my gf, until I ask her out. She won't even kiss me for this same reason. I really don't want to shoot myself in the leg this time. I really won't want to surrender my balls to her by asking her out. She's kinda putting me under pressure to ask her out formally. Women matter sef...
Please guys what do you advice about this issue?
Romance / Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by DrAnie: 7:00am On Dec 26, 2016
Hi Teddy and other gurus in d house. Please, i need a quick advice. I just got out of a messed up relationship about 2 months ago. I was overly caring and proclaimed love for my girl several times due to my naivety. I also naively asked out, which she responded with " i will pray about it". Well, i ended the relationship thingy to give her time to pray well after 4months of dating. Nonsense! Anyways, all that is past story now. I have been going out with a new girl for about 7 weeks now. I always call her my babe on IM chats, phone calls and text. She keeps on saying i haven't asked her out yet. That she would not concur she's my gf, until I ask her out. She won't even kiss me for this same reason. I really don't want to shoot myself in the leg this time. I really won't want to surrender my balls to her by asking her out. She's kinda putting me under pressure to ask her out formally. Women matter sef...
Please guys what do you advice about this issue?
Travel / Re: Yankee: through the eyes of a village boy. by DrAnie: 4:34am On Dec 11, 2016
Nice move Frank. Congrats! It's a different ballgame living in a western world most esp the US or UK in terms of food, weather, advancement in technology, lifestyle etc. Seems you were studying medicine before migrating. However, you dont really need to pursue a career in the medical field in the States to make good money unless you have a passion for it. I would suggest you delve into computer science or information systems and you will never regret you did, since you already have a penchant for computers. Once you get your SSN, DL and GC you are then "ripe" for the job market lol. Please dont be so excited in getting a job and then grab just any kinda job you find. Some jobs may not be worth doing.. lol. Although, you have to start from somewhere. God bless your hustle!
Please do go back to school asap. That would put you at great advantage in the US. Also, the friends you keep would either make or mal you.
#Shalom.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Donald Trump Appoints Adebayo Ogunlesi, A Nigerian In His Economic Advisory Team by DrAnie: 1:55am On Dec 03, 2016
Indeed, Nigeria has a very long way to go! It is disgraceful and even embarrassing to read the post of fellow Nigerians here on nairaland insulting one another simply because of their ethnicity. When would this nonsense ever seize?? I believe it is high time we started seeing ourselves as Nigerians and not as Ibo, Hausa, Yoruba, Ibibio etc.
Please my brothers and sister we are ONE and let's accept the status quo, and stop the barrage of insults towards people from different ethnicity.

GOD BLESS NIGERIA!

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 3:48pm On Nov 27, 2016
HARDDON:



Hmmmm, two @ a blow! Kuuul ! Dont puniSh them too much coS of her
N hey,
She wud b back... just like magic!
I wont' lol. However, I am just acting carefree this time..
If she eventually comes back she would go to the back of the line.

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 4:44am On Nov 27, 2016
@HARDDON
No doubt. I messed up and I have learned the hardway. The experience makes me even stronger. I won't make such a silly mistake again. I have cut all ties with her. Infact, i deleted her contact, and every picture we may have taken together.
I was only being naïve in women issues and was trying too hard to impress. Which obviously was a NO! NO!!.
I have been dating this two other girls recently. And Im just a different and new man in the game now. No more niceness!
I really don't give a sh*t to no girl no more....

Thank you HARDDON for all your input here.

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Education / Re: Pius Ojemolon Bags 19 Awards At University Of Benin Convocation by DrAnie: 3:33pm On Nov 25, 2016
Pius is a genius! He has been bagging awards right from primary school. Infact, he was best student in his class from JS1-SS3.. #smartie...
Proud to be a friend to this young man! His humility is also out of this world...
#UNIBENdoctors...

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 6:35am On Nov 24, 2016
lazeal:



She likes you, vour mistake was asking her out more than ones. I don't know about you but I would have stop asking her out (cos the more you do,the more you lose) and then go as far as romancing her or kissing her. There are ways to get her up to that level but as it seems, you are already slipping into the friendzone area.

You have stop communication, get busy, get other girls and even display them on your whatsapp. If possible get her friend and befriend her, go close to the friend. Do anything to make her feel she has chance of losing you. When you make it seem like she is the ONLY one you have got, you often lose the game but step back a little, she will come around.

Cut all forms of communication with her, if she calls, do not pick on first day. Let her call for like 2-3 days and when you feel you have had enough pick but not the first first ring. Make it seem like you are busy. Yeah, busy as in really busy and end the call within 2minutes. Promise to call her back but don't.

You have to make her know you can do WITHOUT her as oppose to the impression she had of you. Make it seem like you are losing interest and gradually slipping away. I unconsciously did this where I was asking a girl out she kept telling me she has boyfriend blah blah. I stopped communicating with her for 3 months when she started calling. I didn't pick her calls for some days.

When I finally did, she valued the call.

Well bro, she likes you and that's why acting like she I losing you will make her sit up.
Thanks Lazeal! You are right, I shouldnt have asked her out a second time. We have kissed and cuddled numerous times(but no sex). Anyways, I am hanging out with two other girls already.. Trying to get her off my mind. *women sha

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Romance / Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by DrAnie: 12:59am On Nov 24, 2016
hey HARDDON, great work you are doing here! Thank you! I have gone over this thread, and have learnt a lot on how to handle girls. I have made several blunders dealing with girls and I am already making corrections from what I have read on this thread as well as books written by great minds.
My story goes thus; I met this girl through her Uncle's wife when they came to my place visiting few months ago. She is pretty and I remember liking this girl at first sight. Anyways, before they left that day, the Aunt told me to come take her to my church every sunday. That was how we connected and became friends. Due to my inexperience in women affairs, I always would call her, take her out, complimented her, buy her items,used the abominable word "I LOVE YOU", and even told her I wanted her to be my girl within 2 week of meeting her. She was quite excited about the whole thing. Just to add, the parents live in a different state, but she goes to university in my town, where she lives with the uncle(and wife), who both know me to be a gentle and ambitious guy. Infact, they call me "pastor". She had sent her best friends my pics and according to her, they approved me.. lol. Anyways, she promised to get back to me asap regarding my proposal (it's 4 months now but nothing). Six weeks after my proposal, she was acting up, cancelling dates, giving straight answers to text etc. So, I sent her a text stating "if you don't want me, don't mess with my feelings". She called and apologized, giving several excuses. I forgave her, we became closer again. Meanwhile, there was a lot of romantic activities between us whenever she comes to my place but no sex.
Cut long story short, the Uncle's wife was so concerned about my move with the girl and wanted to make sure I was not playing some games, I confirmed my seriousness to her and I guess she spoke to my girl validating me. She started acting up again ,after the uncle's wife has spoken to her, barely returns my call, reply texts and even come to my place. I met her at a friends birthday party last month, so seized the opportunity and called her into my car for a one on one talk. She told me if I cant be patient with her, then I have to look elsewhere cos she aint ready to commit yet. I was stunned....
I decided to be a lil patient and put in more effort to win her(cos I was sensing some other guy was about snatching her away). The more I tried, the more I was even getting her irritated. She came to my place 4 weeks back and acted as if everything was normal again, we had a nice time together but I chose not to touch her cos I dont want to give her the impression I was only after her body. I drove her to her place that night, she was all happy and excited. Next day, texted her abt her night, but no reply.. She called two days later to check on me, but I ended the call after abt 10mins claiming to be busy. communication became less frequent after that..
To wrap up this long epistle, she got involved in a minor accident while driving back from church that same week(though she sustained no injuries) but her car was damaged and needed some repairs. This girl wouldn't even call or text me to let me know, until I had called her 3 days after the wreck before she told me. I was furious as to why she didn't inform me, she said she wanted to but forgot. It just got done on me she doesn't respect nor regarded me. Since then,up till now, I didn't call her, and she wouldn't even call me or text either.

I am just letting her go cos she is not worth all the stress. So, I am taking that bold step and learning from my mistakes in subsequent encounters. (Although, I still have some feelings for her).

Please, What do you advice Harddon?

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Nairaland / General / Re: 20 Ways To Show Courtesy by DrAnie: 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2016
Nice one. Most people have lost these gestures in this present dispensation. Most especially returning calls or replying messages.

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Properties / Re: Prices of Quality Aluminum Roofing Sheets, Get it Cheaper, Call 0813 834 26 42 by DrAnie: 1:28am On Nov 03, 2016
Cornerstone001:


You should do the wood work first then, we can Take the measurements
Ok would do that. I will keep you updated. Thank you.
Properties / Re: Prices of Quality Aluminum Roofing Sheets, Get it Cheaper, Call 0813 834 26 42 by DrAnie: 11:23pm On Oct 30, 2016
Cornerstone001:


Wood/Carpentry work of the house....
oh ok. Not yet. He told me all that is included in the #800k.
Properties / Re: Prices of Quality Aluminum Roofing Sheets, Get it Cheaper, Call 0813 834 26 42 by DrAnie: 12:38am On Oct 30, 2016
Cornerstone001:


May I ask, have you done your carcass sir
Carcass? Please what does that mean?
Properties / Re: How Much Will It Cost Me To Roof A 2 Flat Apartment(2bedrm/3bedrm) by DrAnie: 3:19pm On Oct 28, 2016
Hi there, please how much would it cost to roof a two bedroom flat? Current Contractor had told me about 800k.
Thanks
Properties / Re: Prices of Quality Aluminum Roofing Sheets, Get it Cheaper, Call 0813 834 26 42 by DrAnie: 3:14pm On Oct 28, 2016
Hi there, Please how much would it cost me to roof a 2 bedroom apartment? The current contractor had told me it would cost about #800k.
Thanks.

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