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i want y,all to tell me if u feel me on wat am about to unlish, ight

1)being too much of a ( nice guy), have u ever noticed that the realy attractive women never seem to be attracted by (nice guys)of course u have.just like me u have had some attractive female friends that turn to date "jerks"but for some reason they were never intrested in u. wats going on here am sure u asked ur self?.its simple women dont base their choice on how (nice)a guy is.they chose the men that thy always chose becaause they have a high level of attraction for them.and u know wat being nice does not make women have that attraction for u niether does it make her chose u.but dont get me twisted i DID NOT SAY dont act like the gentle man that u are sopose to be.like doing the normal things like opening the car dors for ladies and being your self.dont be (extra nice guy)that is not the real u and they know it.so stop being extra nice.

2)trying to buy her affection with gifts and food, how many times have u tacken a girl out to chill and bought her gifts and food but she rejected u for some other guy who did not treat her even half the way u did, it has happened to me alot of times .when u do things like that u send a clair message."I DONT THINK U LIKE ME FOR WHO I AM SO AM TRYING TO BUY UR ATTENTION AND AFFECTION" ur good intentions instead look like u are a week guy trying to full her.

3)shaering ur feelings to early in the relationship, huge mistakes most guys make.attractive women get lot of attention from men so meaning that they are been aproched all the time.and so also meaning that they have dated alot of men.they have THE EXPIRIENCE so they not wat to expect from a guy.and one thing that turns a girl down is a guy that starts by saying "u know i realy raely like ,seriously i like u" after a few couple of times u guys hung out.this imidiatetly tells the girl that u are like the other guys and the goes ur down fall. chill and take things easy

4)thinking that every thing is about money and looks, women are not only out for how handsome or how rich somebody is.because i know of people whoe are not that good looking but they have one of the finest girls in skool.they are not only out for your wallet but ur personality.and if understand how to use body language then i can asure u that u will get that sexy lady u saw yesterday.

5)trying to convince her to like u, NO dont do that , if a girl doesnt fell that attraction for u how on earth will u make to feel it for u.even if u go around and around till she says "yes"its realy not going to be a lasting "yes"because after some few weeks the "yes "will become a "no".but one thing we do is we go chassing ,begging and do every thing.u can never change a womwans mind when it comes to ATTRACTION.

6)not getting how attraction works for women, women are different when it come to attraction.for example when a man sees a sexy woman he immidiately feels a sexsual attraction.but is this the same for women ?do they realy feel that attraction based on the looks of a guy, not realy women get their own attraction mechanisms triggered by something else. they are attracted to the way a guy makes them feel.and making a girl feel diffrently needs alot hard work and research and knowing wat turns a girl on and wat turns her off, if u need more of this tips holla and i will give u some copple of sites so u can learn more about how to get perfect with ur dating.

Here's a powerful tip: If you treat a woman more like a friend, rather than someone you're romantically interested in, this can really turn down the attraction.

some guy recently told me about a woman that was so attractive he honestly didn't think he had a chance with her, so he thought he'd just realax and have fun while they were together.

He didn't try to impress her. He didn't make any moves. He didn't act intrested or needy, because he didn't think he was even in the "game."or up to her standards.

What was the result?

Well, this unrellying non-wuss behavior worked like magic to super charge up the attraction between him and the girl, and actually set the stage for a long-term relationship.

Attractive women are used to guys acting clingy and super-interested from day 1, and it's a huge turnoff.

So instead, lean back a bit, be cool, and then enjoy your results.holla at me if u wanna get more of this tip and lots of other tips.

this is how i look at it.women and men are different in many ways as concerining dating.the same ways which a man will find a girl atractive are not the very ways a woman will find a man attractive.comming back to the topic how to know if a guy likes u.
1)- its easy:alot of eye contacts(checking u out as its called). the guy is always going to be giving u alot of eye contac.  the first ,second and about the third or forth time his going to smile to see if the girl is friendly.but if she doesnt smile back then the guy starts know what kind of girl she is to start with. .

2)-another way  is something i hate (trying to be mr nice guy)lots of guys will want to use the mr nice guy way to give the girl the impression that he is a very nice guy.starts acting all nice to her,helping her all the time, always trying to do some nice thing, NO , NO, NO, dont do that. thats when the girl knows that u like her because ur behavior is strange and u are out for her. girls easily know  when a guy is faking out.that is (the guy is not being him self)so u spoiled every thing by being (mr nice guy).because girls like unpridictable guys, just like u are watching a movie and u already know how the movie ends up(they all die at the end)that does not make the movie intresting.but when they dont know wat u are up too then then get unsecured.

3)- when the guy call u all the time, yes thats it.when a girl gives u hare phone number and u call her 70 times a day.thats the best way a girl can know that the guy is going crazy over her at home.still with this caliing thing when a guy stays for too long talkin to on the phone even when theres nothing to talk about he just keeps on bringing up this topics from some abstract world and asking the girl so that the conversation should be a long one.

ight if u want more tips on that topic u should holla at me am going to send u to my dating advice web sit.holaa at ur boy gray

this is how i look at it.women and men are different in many ways as concerining dating.the same ways which a man will find a girl atractive are not the very ways a woman will find a man attractive.comming back to the topic how to know if a guy likes u.
1)- its easy:alot of eye contacts(checking u out as its called). the guy is always going to be giving u alot of eye contac.  the first ,second and about the third or forth time his going to smile to see if the girl is friendly.but if she doesnt smile back then the guy starts know what kind of girl she is to start with. .

2)-another way  is something i hate (trying to be mr nice guy)lots of guys will want to use the mr nice guy way to give the girl the impression that he is a very nice guy.starts acting all nice to her,helping her all the time, always trying to do some nice thing, NO , NO, NO, dont do that. thats when the girl knows that u like her because ur behavior is strange and u are out for her. girls easily know  when a guy is faking out.that is (the guy is not being him self)so u spoiled every thing by being (mr nice guy).because girls like unpridictable guys, just like u are watching a movie and u already know how the movie ends up(they all die at the end)that does not make the movie intresting.but when they dont know wat u are up too then then get unsecured.

3)- when the guy call u all the time, yes thats it.when a girl gives u hare phone number and u call her 70 times a day.thats the best way a girl can know that the guy is going crazy over her at home.still with this caliing thing when a guy stays for too long talkin to on the phone even when theres nothing to talk about he just keeps on bringing up this topics from some abstract world and asking the girl so that the conversation should be a long one.

ight if u want more tips on that topic u should holla at me am going to send u to my dating advice web sit.holaa at ur boy gray

hey this days there are many way u can tell a girl like u in many ways.am going to unlish so of ma dating tips to u.as y,all know girls are not like guys.
1)when she gives u alot of eye contact.
tip, dont shy away look back at her and dont turn ur head away,if u do thats a sign telling her u are a waek guy or (a wizzy bag as i call it)
2)this days alot of dating is not done verbaly,95% of understanding wat a girl needs is understanding her body language, body language is important.u need to know wat shes saying using the way she acts towards u.some are holding hands,alway playing with her hair when she is talking to u if she has some,crosiing her legs when talking to u makes u know she feels confortable around u,laughing at any thing u say always thinks its funny even dough it made no scence,always trying to touch u or hold u.this are just some ways.
if u realy want to now more just holla at me and i will send u to a site from wich i learned all this things.it grate know the disire of girls so u can have wat u have always wanted

hey this is wat u need to do,just ma point of vew u know.good.next time when she asks u that question just act like u never heard wat she said.then if she comes back to the card topic stuf ask her who shes going to be calling with the card.ask her wat makes her think u got all that money.or she realy being serious about the card stuf.act like the whole situation is so funny and just keep laughing then tell her she got a big sence of humor.or say u are so funny i like that.if she keeps on acting like one of those girls that are after money (i call them blood suckers) and keeps on asking u the card this time in a more charming and nice manner,say thats part of the money with wich u were planing to use when guys hang out and thats the reason why u called to ask wat shes doing tomorow(thats to see if shes even intrested in u or u just wasting ur time with a blood sucker)if she says u know she wants the card to call her( great great granfather)u know wat i mean, then u tell her off and put some sence in her empty head, ask her if shes tripping, i know u can handle this part at least.shes going to be like