Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.

i beleive it's right, then you will know too whether she truely loves you in return (reciprocal love).

well i believe u, but u know some guys like doing their things 100% & i think that was my weak point. don't u think ur girl will take it to mean u've gotten someone else & choose to kick her aside, u know ladies can be funny some times.

yeah it very ok for u to show ur gurl how u really luv her,but it depend on the gurl,cos some gurls take luv 4 granted while some don't.

i will yes and no
reason for a yes is to amke her secure and rest assured that yes she has someone
and no because we are all human she might misuse the chance

I agree with u abbey02, bt most of them think it's a way of showing how strong they are over their guys. well, i had such problem & chose to call it off, because i feel love should be 100% & 50 - 50 from both sides. That's why i am scared of showin how i feel about who ever is next.

well hhm i think it depends on the lady involved cause not all human beings are the same.

yeah,i think u need to show a lady how much u truely love her cos if u dont,u have the chances of loosing her,

But ladies in the house, could you let us guys know why some of you abuse real love. most of all when the guy has invested somuch love in you, you turn it to be a advantage over him. I believe that love is a man's solution & loving is a woman's solution.

i believe that a matured mind that knows what he's into will certainly assure the lady of his love for her; though he's not supposed to unveil the whole thing from the onset of the relationship. it could make the lady puff up, but instead do it when you are sure to have won her heart. your doing it is not to keep her but to assure her of your seriousness in the relationship

absolutelly yes 4 me, why not ? why would u want to
hold it back because then someone else might just show
her & wins her heart, thereby leaving
u in d cold . it better late than never

CAPITAL,NOOOOOOOOOO,because if you do,she will capitalise on that and start acting FUNNY and STRANGE,i mean SHAKARA,DON ENTER,cmon guys, you shld understand it BETTER,though,is verse-versa kind of GAME IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP.

The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that  and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.

if u show it too much u would be taken for a fool. ur best bet is to keep them guessing

The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.

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onyegbula (m):my own to ur qestion.well as for me i think most ladies do dat cos dey don't hv any feelings not to talk of luv at the begining of the relationship.they only pretend to luv cos they need sometin from guys,after getting wht dey want,dey walkout of the relationship without saying goodbye at all.i think we all need to be very careful in the game called relationship

Its Not Wrong. Infact its the wisest thing to do. Those who love and I mean Really well never lose. Love Conquers all.

I once had that orientation. I thot it weak to love because of the training I had back in my early years @ school.

Now I know it a trait that belongs to the strong and not the weak hearted. The strong willed always express their love. Its so hard for the weak and insecure, but in the world of the intangible you must give to receive. If u love u experience it.


Its always comforting to know u put in your best even when it looks like it wasnt good enough. Time always reveals the truth.

Ive been in war. but that never proved my strength, it infact revealed my weakness.

So brother, dont let every opportunity to xpres it pass u by.

wot okereke said, some guys show emotions too early, .comin out as weak(tho it may not be) and desperate to d gurl, in dat situation d gurl might take u for granted since she found a mugu thats in luv

just try and balance everythin so u dont look like a desperado

I think i should show love but not as much as i feel 4her, until i am convinced that she share the same amount of love with me & above all ardors the respect i have 4her. with love comes respect.

let me tell you something, no matter the love you have for her, you can never never satisfy a gurl

Here's a powerful tip: If you treat a woman more like a friend, rather than someone you're romantically interested in, this can really turn down the attraction.

some guy recently told me about a woman that was so attractive he honestly didn't think he had a chance with her, so he thought he'd just realax and have fun while they were together.

He didn't try to impress her. He didn't make any moves. He didn't act intrested or needy, because he didn't think he was even in the "game."or up to her standards.

What was the result?

Well, this unrellying non-wuss behavior worked like magic to super charge up the attraction between him and the girl, and actually set the stage for a long-term relationship.

Attractive women are used to guys acting clingy and super-interested from day 1, and it's a huge turnoff.

So instead, lean back a bit, be cool, and then enjoy your results.holla at me if u wanna get more of this tip and lots of other tips.

na wa o, naija guys una dey o. infact ladies r in trouble, see talks about ladies. easy o but i think i would go your way drayslide

If you love a Lady, Show her but let it get stupid

Yes

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abeg i dont see any problem in a guy showing his babe dat he loves her jare

let her know how deeply u love are . . .and u are doomed !!!

pls try listenin to dis song:if tomorrow never comes.

abeg try use the @ key . . .thanx

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OK . . .LET ME USE THE @ KEY SO U WOULD KNOW AM TALKING TO U . . .

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pls use the @ key so we would know who u were talking to . . .especially as u were talking about a song immediately after my post . . . geddit