Bloooody:
It seems women are very very dull when compared to us men especially Nigerian women.
I dare any man to try to bring an intellectual debate with his girl like the government or the existence of god or evolution or the theories of natural selection.
Almost no woman would answer you especially a nigerian woman.
It's very unsettling and makes you question if truly they deserve equality with us men.

Good evening,
I think it depends on the kind of girls you follow and what you want from them. Personally I have seen very intelligent and smart girls, I have seen girls being the best in different fields. Have you heard of Dora Akunyili or Ngozi okonji Iwela? Have you heard of Chimamanda Adiche? those people have a very high IQ, so it is wrong for you to just call out women in general.
Have you been to a university b4? Have you tried discussing with a socially exposed lady, and not just one random secondary school girl that you are trying to mate?
On the other hand, I have seen very dumb girls and also very dumb boys. But I am mostly surprised because the girls may be as a result of parents not willing to educate their female child whereas the males are as a result of cultist, womanising and bad influence.

kingemaker:
Good morning my NL people.

I usually don't do this but I've been forced to create this thread because my friend (a lady) needs my advice on the subject.

She met this cool dude about two years ago, they started dating after 2 months or thereabouts and everything has been fine with them.

Dude has a good career and she's also doing very well for herself. A couple of days back, she ran into some of his documents and realized that she is 5 years older than him she confirmed this via a photocopy of his international passport, WAEC certificate and Jamb documents; his DOB was consistent in all.

I advised her to confront him, at least to hear his own part of the story (because I'm aware so many Nigerians tend to reduce their "official" ages). But she insisted that that wasn't the case because she remembered when her boyfriend's elder brother in the US once celebrated his birthday with a cake with "**** at 29" inscription. She saw the photos on IG late last year and she was confused but decided to shrug it off thinking it could be a mistake.

As of this moment, she feels the dude must be hiding some other things from her, she's so broken right now.

I'll be expecting your input guys.

I don't mind if you help push this to the promised land.

Thanks

I think it depends at what stage of the relationship you guys discussed about your ages, it may be that then he never thought the relationship would go this far and so he was just out to catch fun. Just ask him again and if he still says the same thing, then he has broken "trust".
Modified
How will you define the relationship? To both of you, will it lead to marriage, or you guys are just having fun?
Lastly, The age is irrelevant in your love life unless you are angry he broke your trust.

jaytii:
Making and receiving calls.
The first thing I do whenever I get a new phone is to turn off all the sound notifications. When a call comes in on my phone while I'm making use of it, I just stare at my screen until it ends and send a text to the person or a message on whatsapp.


I think children should be taught about the all different personalities in school growing up. A lot of extroverts misunderstand introverts all the time and it can be very annoying.

Yes, I think a lot of Extroverts actually misunderstands us. Some may say you are too proud or you are forming, some will even say you don't regard your friendship with them, others feel you are quarrelling with them. It's been 7 months since the lock down, I've never called most of my friends, they are always calling, but truth is that I always think of them and have them at heart but conversations like "how d holidays b na" or "wetin dey play for that way" is not just my thing

Grate001:
So happy medicine and surgery at last

welcome onboard

hagiosfemi:
Who is in path and pharm on this group?

......please is ur path/pharm class different from ur 400 level?