₦airaland Forum

SlavaUkraini:
And some Tinubu supporters still believe that they will win 1 or 2 states in the South East....

They must be jokers...

Igbo people will never vote for Jagaban. They will chop his money and give Peter Obi their votes...

Jagaban will not see 25% of the votes in any South East State....

Quelme:
Is prostitution and patronising prostitutes now a crime in Nigeria?

What is also the crime the building committed?

This is an overkill and economic sabotage.

AMINDA:
Once you hear AFRICOM, just know it's about siting of a military base. Tinubu has bowed to Trump's pressure and is about to give the U.S go ahead to set up a military base in Nigeria. He's saving his own head while throwing that of our neighbours under the bus. So much for Pan-Africanism.

Kukutente23:
Lagos-Calabar road that ends in Epe
APC All Progressives Criminals

At the present count, I have 8 quotes from zombies spewing different level of trash
Same clowns who claimed Jonathan only built drawing board for 2nd Niger bridge now feel pain?
Hypocrites!!

TheStoriesOfMan:
Did I ask you? Did they tell you I didn't know?

Be forming intellectual.

Go do that stuff to babes you can impress.

Don't try that here.

TheStoriesOfMan:
North Korea?

This country, everything is forbidden, even to lobolobo is a crime.

May God have mercy on NK and make Kim Jun Un to lose heavily in their country's election.

I'm sure Tinunu must have given Kim advice on how to rig elections.

Putindbutt:
After the Government has reviewed your allowances by 90 billion, the 90 billion has already added more expenditure to the budget every year. That one never do you, you still asking for specialist allowances?, Resident doctors o, these are still trainees o, asking for specialist allowances?. People who are not yet consultants o. E be like these people are not normal at all.

Your write up stinks of ignorance and envy.
You are obviously not informed about what your are babbling about.
Resident doctors run specialist clinics, what stops them from getting specialist allowance?
Mind you, it is not for everyone, it is for Senior registrar 1 who are on CONMESS 5. They perform specialist duties so what stops them from enjoying specialist allowance. Mind you, the table for the allowance has been approved for years and paid initially before it was suspended.
Moreover, we gave 2 exams.
National and west African college of surgeons/ physicians.
After part 1 in west African college of surgeons/physicians you are issued certificate of membership which qualifies you as specialist NOT consultant, what stops national from issuing same post 1 certificate?
So understand the issue before commenting with ignorance



Look at another useless demand they are asking for, Lol. How can you be asking the medical college to issue you a certificate after Part 1 examination?. I just want someone to tell me these guys are not sick, biko. How can undergraduates be asking for certificate after only passing part 1 exam?. Do you enrol to only sit for part 1 exam, is certificate not supposed to be issued after you have fully passed all the exams to the final class?. Is like law students asking for certificate after stage 1. But I get it, they want the certificate for japa, so even if they couldn't finish the post medical courses till the final class, they can use the one they have to apply for japa, very useless people.

And some ignorant people who do not know what's going on will be quick to insult the Government when these doctors threaten the Govt with strike. They don't know that many of their demands are unreasonable and useless. But because they know the people are always sympathetic to them, they use that opportunity to exploit their crazy demands.

Doctors and lecturers be acting as if they're the only two professions we have in the country, always threatening the Govt with crazy demands. The Govt should also learn to sack them and replace them with those willing to work. Other professions do not disturb the country like these two greedy professions

Robisky001:
Imagine China only have 600 and still wants to raise shoulder with the likes of US and Russia.

Lovit:
Speak for the same Muslim women and see them attack you

Muslim women are an endangered species and slaves; they have no right or say.

Their men control everything.

forcing a young woman to marry a man she does not love just because Islam says so, is slavery.
How you speak about a topic you know nothing about baffles me.
Someone just narrated an instance where prophet Muhammad gave a young lady option of opting out of a loveless marriage, and you are here saying it is part of Islamic practice to forcefully join people together.
Are you mischievous or something?

The end is always disastrous

onyenatruchi:
Story of my life;

The woman I met online

Just take time and read from beginning to the end, you will understand.

I got married to a Yoruba Lady i met online, just to try another tribe.

Since I got married to a Yoruba woman, my life has never been the same, she prepares only ewedu and Amala for me, I told her to cook another food for me, she insisted that her parents taught her how to prepare only Amala and ewedu.

This Lady can snore for Africa, she doesn't allow me to sleep at night, na snoring she dey use wake me up for night.

Whenever we want to make love, I will force her to bath, but to no avail. She said that she bath only once in a day, I did not argue with her, I insisted that she must bath before making love.

My brothers, this Yoruba Lady went into the bathroom, stayed only 1 minute and came out, I ask her why she bath only 1 minute, she said bathing is not her thing, she is used to it.

My brothers, what offence did i commit for marrying a Yoruba Lady. All the things she dey do for house, I just dey tolerate her, na so so mess she dey mess for room whenever she eat her Amala and ewedu.

She Don use ofe mmanu scatter my family, Who did i offend.

I have already divorced her in peace.

CodeTemplarr:
Hmmm. Capenter miss road go medical school.

Whois:
The voter apathy in South East is alarming

Father4all:
Why not go abroad a whole DPO

CaptainFM1:
I think it's only a matter of time. An igbo man or woman will become Governor of Lagos.

Righteousness2:
According to OP




Born in JORDAN! If you check, his Parents are Jordanians. That is his country .

Let that sink in.

Pally state is a scam. There has never anything like that.

Melezenawii:
Flood is a natural disaster that we as human cannot wish a way, but it can be mitigated through several measures.

Dubai airport was flooded last year


God Bless Anambra State
God Bless Federal Republic of Nigeria
Lol but you mock Lagos yearly and point to flooding as evidence of Tinubu failing as a governor.
It became the turn of your Agulu fraud, you remember flood is natural phenomenon

4 + 4 =2031

MichaelSokoto:
d Lasgidi dictator yaf start work!

dude is f**kn desperate!

other ADC proponents such as Amaechi, Aregbe et al are next on their shopping list!

but keep calm...
it is APC vs Nigerians in 2027

Riskymarvelous:
What if I find out my wife private part is too wide and I can't enjoy it anymore should I be going to AV sex with another person outside?

Ellioto076:
If a man demmands anal sex and the wife don't allow it is considered a graver sin. It's a women's duty to satisfy their husbands.

sweetjohn:
Iran can surrender now and save shame. The Israelis I know, can never give up or slow down. Cos they don’t even know when to stop they just keep going and pressing further.

But if Iran agrees to the US deal, it will be victory for them bc Israel goal to destroy completely all their nuclear facilities be defeated.

The more Iran remain stubborn, then Israel will keep attacking them. Their next plan is to invade Iran and put their solders on the ground. That’s how they do in Gaza and Lebanon. They first put fear and confusion in their country and then throw some bombs kill some people, clear the road and then invade. Is the same trajectory that’s happening in Iran.

But Iran can save shame and accept the US deal and claim victory.

Those saying Israel can not reach Iran nuclear facilities, that the so called facilities where hidden 70m under a mountain, my question to you lots is, that facilities do they have doors? Do people go there? Is there road to that facilities? If there is, then Israel through her massad can get there and destroy it. To destroy it is very easy and simple, it will only take time for the Israeli massad to get there and completely destroy it just as it did to Hazabollah and Hamas hidden tunnels.

Austindark:
This is not good on both sides. Iran should have known that US is behind this and refrained from retaliating. Israel cannot lose in the middle east. America will not allow that. In fact, this is actually US war against Iran because of the nuclear deal.

I hope those praising Iran now will not flood the Internet later with the legendary "pray for this and pray for that" as if they experienced an earthquake, hurricane and tsunami.

Let's sue for peace on both sides.

Pygmalionn:
After Swahili, Igbo Language is the 2nd most spoken language in Africa.

Swahili - 3 countries (south Africa, Kenya, Tanzania)
Igbo - 2 countries (Nigeria, Equatorial Guinea)

Almost every country in Africa has an Igbo speaking migrant community.

Shut up nwannem
You people will just be exhibiting ignorance in very loud manner.
So shameful
Arabic is spoken in Egypt, libia, Tunisia, Morocco,Sudan etc
Hausa is spoken in Nigeria, Niger, Chad, Mali etc
Yoruba is spoken in Nigeria, benin Republic, Togo etc.
Yet igbo is the second language in Africa.
What weed are you smoking?

bluefilm:
Audio crashing of prices of beans

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I occupy a powerful position but I have never used it to force anyone into having sex with me, all my sexual alliances are purely consensual

Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.

The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.

Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.

To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her