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Riskymarvelous:
What if I find out my wife private part is too wide and I can't enjoy it anymore should I be going to AV sex with another person outside?

Ellioto076:
If a man demmands anal sex and the wife don't allow it is considered a graver sin. It's a women's duty to satisfy their husbands.

sweetjohn:
Iran can surrender now and save shame. The Israelis I know, can never give up or slow down. Cos they don’t even know when to stop they just keep going and pressing further.

But if Iran agrees to the US deal, it will be victory for them bc Israel goal to destroy completely all their nuclear facilities be defeated.

The more Iran remain stubborn, then Israel will keep attacking them. Their next plan is to invade Iran and put their solders on the ground. That’s how they do in Gaza and Lebanon. They first put fear and confusion in their country and then throw some bombs kill some people, clear the road and then invade. Is the same trajectory that’s happening in Iran.

But Iran can save shame and accept the US deal and claim victory.

Those saying Israel can not reach Iran nuclear facilities, that the so called facilities where hidden 70m under a mountain, my question to you lots is, that facilities do they have doors? Do people go there? Is there road to that facilities? If there is, then Israel through her massad can get there and destroy it. To destroy it is very easy and simple, it will only take time for the Israeli massad to get there and completely destroy it just as it did to Hazabollah and Hamas hidden tunnels.

Austindark:
This is not good on both sides. Iran should have known that US is behind this and refrained from retaliating. Israel cannot lose in the middle east. America will not allow that. In fact, this is actually US war against Iran because of the nuclear deal.

I hope those praising Iran now will not flood the Internet later with the legendary "pray for this and pray for that" as if they experienced an earthquake, hurricane and tsunami.

Let's sue for peace on both sides.

Pygmalionn:
After Swahili, Igbo Language is the 2nd most spoken language in Africa.

Swahili - 3 countries (south Africa, Kenya, Tanzania)
Igbo - 2 countries (Nigeria, Equatorial Guinea)

Almost every country in Africa has an Igbo speaking migrant community.

Shut up nwannem
You people will just be exhibiting ignorance in very loud manner.
So shameful
Arabic is spoken in Egypt, libia, Tunisia, Morocco,Sudan etc
Hausa is spoken in Nigeria, Niger, Chad, Mali etc
Yoruba is spoken in Nigeria, benin Republic, Togo etc.
Yet igbo is the second language in Africa.
What weed are you smoking?

bluefilm:
Audio crashing of prices of beans

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have banged several married women and have never had such bad luck.

Your bad luck is merely coincidental or because you exploited her by using Your position to obtain sexual favours.

I occupy a powerful position but I have never used it to force anyone into having sex with me, all my sexual alliances are purely consensual

Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.

The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.

Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.

To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her

Agozskey:
Same with the food we eat as well... Maybe we will stop eating as well

nairavsdollars:
Translate it into the three major languages too, especially Igbo. Igbos are 50 percent of Lagos population, Hausas are 15 percent and Yerubas are 35 percent

Prettyangelng:
Putting your tongue into a ladies vagina does not make you a man. It makes you a fool. Yes, a big fool. How can you willingly suck in bacteria, viruses and fungi with your eyes open only because she is moaning. You are a fool. Stop the act. The mouth was not made by God for vagina. Avoid diseases by being wise. If she wants it then she does not love you. She hates you and wants you sick.

You copy what you see in blue films not knowing that those people are well tested and free from infections. They also sanities their body. Be wise.

cybersoldiers:
When it's other tribes you Yorubas will be trying to divide them. Imagine the attacks you Yorubads have given the Ikweres for the last few day when they reutuned home as Igbos and reconciled with the upland brothers.

WIKE, Amaechi, Odili, FUBARA and almost all prominent people in Rivers are Rivers Igbo.

Anyways, Congratulations to the Ikweres and other Igbos in Rivers state.

kettykin:
A fascinating story, but let’s dig deeper. What truly triggered this coup? Wasn’t its original intention to free Awolowo from prison and install him as prime minister? If so, why has history been distorted to present only one side of the story?

As usual, the one sides story seeks but to scapegoat the igbos. No one talks about another group of igbos led by Aguiyi Ironsi and Odumegwu Ojukwu that stepped in to restore government.

ChizzyBuna:
then please what is this?

PresidObi:
Thank God

Shame on the Federal government for allowing security of lives and property to be growing worse daily.

The failure is squarely that of the federal government as no states can control their own security forces.

eepeepook:
Bullshit. Animals do the same and we don’t hear of them catching throat cancer. Some people will always be unlucky with cancer. They can live the most healthy life and still catch the disease. The majority of cancers suffered in developed nations are linked to lifestyle.

arantess:
LIES!!

five days is too short, no discharge, no fever?
even retained products can stay up to 14 days.

abeg make una find wetin kill am, definitely not the baby

ChizzyBuna:
then please what is this?

tnerro1:
How mu mu ticket? Make dem carry their cross

Kobojunkieee:
Curfews can be overruled if they violate your right as a citizen particularly your right to protest. Yes, your governors instituting curfews as a weapon to keep you from protesting is against the Constitution, the Supreme Law of the Land which is above your courts and your Governors. Note this, please!

Kobojunkieee:
Tinubu killed unarmed Ismail Jannah on August 6th, 2024. . Ismael Jannah's crime was protesting against hunger and suffering in the land inflicted on him and his family by Tinubu

ganisucks:
All the election riggers have united in support of Baba blue, the father of election rigging.

This guy's interpretation is really funny.

Make APC dey play. Let them not go and start preparing for rerun, like their internal memos have suggested. Let them continue petting Baba blue.
When Tribunal sacks them, them go dey alright.

GoodRocks:
Igbos are actually more in population than the Yorubas. Get your fact right!

GoodRocks:
Igbos are actually more in population than the Yorubas. Get your fact right!

GODISGREAT123:
I don't know whether it's ignorance or sheer stupidity that make people believe Reno Omokris lies and half-truths

Peter Obi conducted Local Government elections in Anambra State

Reno is lying