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Another case
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/10/nigerian-lady-publicly-addresses-estranged-father-who-disowned-her-but-now-wants-them-to-meet-after-getting-sick-and-bedridden.html

See another case
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/10/nigerian-lady-publicly-addresses-estranged-father-who-disowned-her-but-now-wants-them-to-meet-after-getting-sick-and-bedridden.html

berepiki:
Laying a SOLID foundation doesn't mean you should build nonsense on it... THE Marriage BUILDING requires serious work... If you build it anyhow it will still crash even with the best foundation...

I'm here to tackle the foundation of marriage and not the building of a successful marriage...

IT'S MY ERNEST DESIRE to see young singles get it right from DAY 1... Right from the foundation...

You stayed pure and things didn't turn out right does not make PURITY bad... There is a reward for THOSE THAT WAIT till the wedding night... Who wants to know the reward?

Easy man. i know you have good intentions but take it easy man. You are being overconfident.

There is no getting it right from the beginning and there is notihing special about the wedding night.

We slept through our wedding night and even though it took another 3-4weeks, it was still not a big deal.

Marriage is harder than you see and know andI it only gets worse the longer it goes and you are ony 6years in.

Satan lives to see first marriages broken so.he throws in all the worsts.

Thus, from the beginning to the end, people are warring with Satan to keep their marriages and that can not be done without God being part of your marriage at all times.

And this is where virgins have it better because they never defiled themselves, so God is naturally with them. But will God always be with them? That is for them to ensure.

We4all:
In other words, if I am sex starved, but don't want to be perceived as promiscuous, I might just get married so I can be having sex with my partner everyday without feeling guilty. Yawns...

Married people should also be chastised for engaging in pleasurable sex. Only meet with your partner when you are ready to procreate. I said what I said, come and beat me.

I beat you now. You are being silly.and unreasonable.

Already, the sparks arising out from meeting your future spouse already shows that marriage is about joy and happiness. So the couple enjoying the pleasure they give each other in furtherance of their earlier relationship connection is definitely not out of place.

berepiki:
We are were in the same Choir for 5years but never knew we would get married...Got interested in her December 2017, got married October 2018 ( Dated for only 10months)...

Moral lesson: Dating for too long will always lead singers to having sex before marriage...

What is bad is bad... Premarital sex is bad and should be discouraged

Thought so.

You could do it because your dating period was short.

So what would you then say for mine which started from Yr2 in Uni and whom from day 1 we both knew we were made for each other and after that 9yrs of great fears, tears and ceaseless prayers for i had nothing, yet, no sex, no kissing and yet we were virgins? You can shout now.

Lonestar124:
I serve my boss for six years in business, I know how he treated me, but I never attached emotions while handling issues with him.

I was logical to know that am the one that wanted something from him, and I got it!!!

Most of the favours and connections I have today was gotten through him..

A wise man knows when to say sorry while dealing with his superior.

Na the poor man go lose last last, if he decides to take the issue to other level

Yes it is not wise for those lesser to.let issues get out of hand

Yansh fucker

Sirchiboy:
This thing has happened to me when I went to deliver a cake to someone.
I drove around for more than 1hour because of the wrong direction the cake vendor gave me.
Finallyi met the receiver..
I was already boiling with anger.
The receiver said she will not pay me because i came late..
I didn't ever exchange words with her.
I just left the place.
The father called my number begging me to send my account number.
I just cut the call.
To my greatest surprise,
I open my opay account because I used my number to registers and I saw that the lady had transfer my money .
I don't have time to waste..
If you refused to pay me.
I will just look straight into your eyes and go.
Later you will be the one to be calling me to send my account

Hmm badt guy! Very very badt guy

Lonestar124:
Lol, if you do not do your job very good, your employer go fit tear you slap ..

You obviously have never worked before since nor know how life is, else you would know that you can be the best at work and you will still be fired!

berepiki:
I and my wife, members of Dominion City Church, Port Harcourt, Rivers State... We got married 2018... We agreed to avoid sex and other sexual activities until we get married properly ( Court, Traditional and White).
By the grace of God, we kept ourselves away from sex till we got wedded in church after our court wedding and traditional.
If I could remember correctly, we were asked to kiss during the court wedding Infront our guest...
Please note: the court wedding was 2days before the white wedding... We finally had our first sex on our wedding night
... October 6th this year was our 6th Anniversary...

We did it by the grace of God... You can also do it... #SinglesCorner #RhemaboticsArchive

How long was the dating period?

mostly the north

problem is "just is" from where? Everywhere is very very bad. The police, juxges everyone is why buyable, so no one can give you just is oo.

All matters now go to God's Court that os the only Temple of just is.

kppo:
What she did is similar to the concept of 'immaculate conception'. Like Jesus Christ being born of a virgin. However, Jesus had Joseph as His father present. I think the child born to this lady needs a father. It should not be some random guy from a pool. Mary had Joseph to be Jesus' father.

The major difference is that that God, The Owner of Mary told her that He is exercising His Rights to put His Child in her.

And God still again told her husband what He did.

So Lawful ptocedure was followed here.

But here, she went to give herself a child exactly how Saul went to give himself Samuel through a witch.

blackboy:
She did no wrong. Did she commit fornication or adultery?

Yes! Through the sperm.

VinnyBaba:
Maybe It's because of High body count of most of our Ladies today before marriage.

The mixture of the different SPERMS inside their bodies can't produce a beautiful baby.

See what I am talking about


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JovialJune:
Lol, men are truly ,emotional beings that love gaslighting women, imagine blaming females for not commenting on romance section, the hypocritical irony 🤣

See it. No one blamed any woman here, but you people come here, lie, blame men as you have just done, then complain that men are you burning you people up.

Who would not beat and gas light a thief?

Zooposki:
Women are crying to be married because they have been socialized by men to want marriage. Things are changing rapidly in the west and will soon get to Africa where the girl child will be liberated.

Stop this unreasonability and lies. Nature has made it so that both males and females want to join themselves in marriage.

And women destroyed their chances of it by committing whoredom, So, if a woman is not able to get married, it is clearly her fault.

And already females are free as we all can see they are the ones buying houses and building cars and even marrying men, so the issues you raised are being "solved".

[quote author=Zooposki post=132612916][/quote]All these are separate issues departing from the topic and if you want my input then the proper thing is to raise a thread,

Time to return to village mode and letter writing and using donleys, horses, cows as vehicles.

Zooposki:
She did no wrong. Married women with children die m uch younger than single women.

Deceive yourself all you want. What a fallacious argument to wit that she is right because "Married women with children die much younger than single women."

Like the law of sin is based on the fact one group dies faster than another?

Clearly, you are not normal not even talking about your crazy speech of marriage being created by men whereas, all over the world women are crying to be married.

Bashcash2024:
I want to know?

Why do we pray and fast and nothing still changes?

Why the sufferings?

Why the hardships?

Why the Pains?

Does God derive pleasure in seeing us Go through Pains?

I don't understand

Is it everybody who calls you that you answer?

O, na begging format!

Arkmanbuddy:
I don't know why this sounds funny to me. Both the Mathias and OP are high on some kind of weed.

Clearly God answered him and had him destroyed.

Yes she did.

Compliance with Law also involves the process of compliance.

Pregnancy is proof of sex and the evil of science is in helping people to break God's Law while trying to make the lawbreakers claim that they have not done so through indirectly breaking it.

Sp the mere fact that the sperm did not enter by lawful marriage is proof of fornication and if the provider of the sperm was married, then adultery is there.

dawnomike:
She did no wrong...

She did!

Johnmiles11:
but regardless ,money will still be involve,me way no too get,as my wife self no dey too bill me but me as a man know say money is needed to keep love going,imagine say you love a girl and u no get cash,hunger na real o

Sure! money and everything is involved. Love no get limit na (of a sort)

AntiChristian:
That's better. Alright.

Wikiislam says

Wife-beating is instructed by the Qur'an and the Hadiths, and has been an accepted part of Islam law since its inception. Quran 4:34 states that men are maintainers of women and tells husbands that in certain circumstances they should, among other things, "beat them".

And that is why they don't like to the "marry outside" , saying "You won't understand. You won't understand xxxx culture".

Clearly confessing that they.know you would not accept the wickedness they do and so they have to go "home" so as to marry their own who understands their wickedness and obvious abominations of sleeping with their daughters and their brothers' wives' in return for monies/riches, support and family. protection.

If you see any wife they are throwing out of her husband's property because her husband died, it is because she did not comply with sleeping with her husband's brother or brothers or uncle or the most influential in male in the family

Which is why the ones who have are very very superconfident as they know that by fvckkin the relevant members, they have secured themselves and would not be thrown out.

And that is why you always hear "our wife"! They truly mean it. A woman is community property and that is also why the man has no regard for women and they see women as their pleasure things good only for sex and the stomach and personal comfort.

And that is why any woman who does not comply with their demands for sex. is violently and savagely attacked and brutalized with everything both physically, financially and emotionally.

And no matter what, the community will tell her that she is wrong and that she is supposed to do all that her husband or father or family has said if she wants peace.

The women even tell the victim to bear it that it is "turn by turn. Tomorrow it would be your turn and you would be enjoying", they said.

So, if this can be done to a full grown woman, how then shall the girl child fare?

Wearetheugliest:
bros, God abeg Una no fit do without olosho dis olosho dat ni

Una own don dey too much oo

Make i no call am olosho but call am "HK up", ok?

Merry100:
Sex is not a sin. It is sex between unmarried couples that is a sin.

In other words you say "sex is not a sin" and yet "sex is a sin"

VinnyBaba:
Lol,
One will be Sick at home and the other will be Restless in class.

All those things nor dey Nigeria again.

14,15yrs old Boys now are thinking of joining HK while the Girls are shaking their YANCH on tiktok.

Wow! love don die go like dat? E no even dey small tintini. Men dis world don spoil patapata.

e good say people no dey born pikin.

Ehen have you noticed that dem no dey born beautiful girls again?

People jus dey born normal normal looking. No more "wow your baby is very beautiful oo. my pikin must marry am"

Specifically, the gilrls don't look blastingly beautiful again. Compared to the past they look nearly ugly, do you notice that?