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My number is out there for a purpose,,so no need for yours.

I'm tired of being single...I know it sounds ironic and to some maybe stupid....I'm a christian and I have strong morals, I'm putting myself out there so I may find someone that believes in my values....BB PIN: 30c16f03....08160811744

Okkkk.....

I've learnt a lot from nairaland...i heard about it from a friend and decided to see what it's all about when I became single....I don't think it's popular in port-harcourt b'cos most people here don't know about it....I think I'm addicted b'cos I log in everyday...

Port-harcourt...

Merry christmas to y'all...I'm patiently waiting for santa...

Veryy funnny....

I would really like to become one.

I'm single and I'm happy...sometimes it's boring and lonely but when I think of the stress of relationships, I just chill and enjoy my "singlehood"

@kingheni...thank you so much...I'm grateful...

Thanxxx y'all, I've heard your views on the issue...I've met a lot of guys and they all seem to say they would have gone with me if I was a virgin..even some guys in my church said the same, sometimes I wonder if I'm the only one on this earth that thinks pre-marital sex is wrong...people say it's very essential b'cos that is the only thing both of you can have...I get scared sometimes b'cos I think I'll never settle down, my female friends all think it can never work..they say most men want their wives to get pregnant first...Even some of my brothers in the church think it's a normal thing..all I can say is "GoD is in control".

@dmcdad...thank u so much..

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Okay but I'm new on nl...I asked b'cos I'm a children teacher in my church, so I'm also a counsellor to them...

I need to know....A teenager asked me this question and I really don't know what to say...I told her I'll get back to her..she is really hurt and disturbed by her mother's actions...

@doubleDx...I know it's really difficult...

@cinammon...thank you

@doubleDx...so I can no longer abstain b'cos I'm no longer a virgin...

@stpat1...but I really think it's unfair, I know a guy dat is sticking to a girl because she says she is a virgin...I guess that's the price to pay for having sex..I know there would be someone that would see things from my perspective someday....

I developed a resolution not to have sex again till I'm married, but it has not been easy...I had to quit a 2yr relationship because of my stand on pre-marital sex..please I'm asking this because guys that ask me out for a relationship always say they would have consider my stance on pre-marital sex if I was a virgin...please I want to know what u guys think...thank you...

I understand what the OP is talking about and I believe it's a vital element to consider before marriage...

I hate it when a guy is insultive and abusive.

I believe there are still good single guys, but the fact is that they are rare.....

Minimum of 1month and a maximum of 2months

Disgusting!

Hello...I'm new here....

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