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Toaskarity:
Hi, I think I might be in a good position to answer this question. I am two years older than you now, I moved to America on my 20th birthday. I just graduated from college last year.

Short answer: MOVE!!
Let's say you move
At 25 yrs old, you re still a baby. What is you life mission?
Money? There re 11 million millionaires in America(2/3 of lagosians) and most are in their thirties. In the whole of African continent only 144 thousands millionaire out 1 billion ppl. Nigeria has about 500.
Quality of life?
Average life expectancy here is almost 80 yrs unlike where you are right now with 53 yrs (at 25 yrs old 50% your life gone).
Your worth as american vs naija
$59,000.00 gdp per cap
$2000.00 gdp per cap

It will be a struggle at first but I promise you it is nothing compared to struggle in a third world. Your struggle here is different from the struggle in Nigeria; basic things such as food, water, housing, electricity and even car will never be a problem. You concentrating in school and not getting carried away might be the struggle for you. I said this cos I noticed naija guys that achieve little thing back home wants same life real quick here with out going through the process. If you have same mindset stay tf back home. Also choose the right field in school too. My suggestion: computer, medical ( do something that get you a Certificate)

4-5 years from now (29-30) your life will be amazing.Aleast as a graduate with above college field is 60k and above a year (21 million naira) You will make your money back with a better life.You can literally afford anything anybody in most part of the world can afford.

I have been to Nigeria twice since I moved here, i swear to God what people define as development in Nigeria is not, it's just hype including lekki this or that.Nothing has changed since I left Nigeria and nothing will happen anytime soon. Yes there will be few road construction here and there and block houses but my brother pack your bag and get tf out!! It is home and will always be home. You can always visit or move back if you feel like it.

Ps: I assume you are so sure visa will be given to you if you haven't or not sure. I want to remind to remind you that American visa is hard and it's better to improve your life in Nigeria than throw away money for visa

My brother, more grease to your elbow. With 20m, I am f.out, no two ways about it. 9ja is home, I will always come visiting.

Most times, it's what you eat that they get you from. Mind what you eat. A word is enough.

Hello! do you have bulk delivery to make within the island or mainland, I could help you make them for a fee. An SUV with spacious boot space...Could also do that airport run for you, convey you and your luggage for an affordable fee.

I could also take you out for a learners drive(Learners driver) if you have a permit to drive. As long as there is another adult in the car,(Me). Some parents are too busy or scared to take their child out to practice. Driving schools are expensive. I could help keep your cost down with extra practice.

Do you have an elderly person going for a medical appointment, I could take you there, wait for you to be through, and bring you back home safely. Sometimes this appointment can be traumatic if you have to wait for a taxi.

Contact me on, or WhatsApp chat:
09091402282
Lagos Resident's.

Hope help comes his way soonest.

Hello! do you have bulk delivery to make within the island or mainland, I could help you make them for a fee. An SUV with spacious boot space...Could also do that airport run for you, convey you and your luggage for an affordable fee.

I could also take you out for a learners drive(Learners driver) if you have a permit to drive. As long as there is another adult in the car,(Me). Some parents are too busy or scared to take their child out to practice. Driving schools are expensive. I could help keep your cost down with extra practice.

Do you have an elderly person going for a medical appointment, I could take you there, wait for you to be through, and bring you back home safely. Sometimes this appointment can be traumatic if you have to wait for a taxi.


Contact me on, or WhatsApp chat:
09091402282
Lagos Resident's.

I love this man, Sanusi! Na chess player!

Hey dear,

Someone mentioned negotiation on one of the comments here. Try negotiating. Suggest starting up a job when your child is of school age, say 3 or 4plus, you need negotiate that now. I did not say argue, I said negotiate! with love, if you wanna have a loving, respected and peaceful home. Pray for wisdom.

Lol. Sister are you short? This one his hand is always reaching your head to knock you! Abeg be wearing very high hill so you will be taller than him, his hand might not reach your head any longer.

What's love to you? Seems you have low self esteem or no love for yourself. You are broken and need good counseling therapy. Go discover yourself and leave this confusion.