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bro,u r playing with Fire.let her know u r married wt kids and seeking ordinary friendship.tell ur wife about her too and reduce d way u relate to her.she might be playing u along to ensure d feelings grow.women r masterplanners.u need to be careful else pregnancy go enter before u know it.

I would read,&re-read my husband's chats.if I find anyone suspicious,I will ask him straight up!tot they said in marriage,1+1=1.anything he has belongs to me and vice versa

I would advice u go get a job(even if it is in a sch) and Learn ur photography at d same time,when u r thru wt dt,u can save some more for ur ccna.make sure u r gud in photography,then all u need do is just get money for ur first yr in school.ur photography can pay ur way thru.
for ur family,just keep praying.being broke is not gud and ur dad turned to alcohol out of frustration.just keeping praying for him/speak to ur religious leader yo go talk to him.

the person is very correct.if u want to start a biz,the best time is when u ain't Married yet before responsibilities mounted up.float ur biz but for safeguard,ur wife to be can be in paid employment coz of when biz will be dull.nothing like working for urself o.

how on earth can a lady under 30 give birth to all these children in today's world?this is so irresponsible and annoying!I wonder y d poor give birth to so many children they cannot cater for.just imagine!

Kachisbarbie:
It would straighten out with time, let her be...but if you are still bothered, take the little one to the hospital.
On the flipside, do you guys have k-legs? It could be gene at work you know..


lol @ igbobi.
When I was younger I heard really sad tales about them, the most common being that they love amputating legs.

funny!trust u know now that it is an orthopaedic hospital meaning anything bones.a colleague took her son there with same issue.they just prescribed calcium supplements now the legs are straightening.even without d supplements,the legs would hv straightened out.

is she ur first child?just let it be since it is small.it will straighten out with time.my neighbour's children were all like dt:serious k-leg but before they turned 3/3+,d legs don dey straight but u can take d children to igbobi,they will conduct tests and allay ur fears.children get to outgrow a lot of things with age but still talk to a specialist.

this is the first time am hearing something as despicable as ds.y can't d writer be d one beaten all In d name of sex.both of them r sick and need a psychologist.the children ain't safe wt them.even if n.a. lie,what kinda lie is ds?so annoying and irritating!

op, I would suggest u first make peace wt ur mother&tell her all that has been happening.then ensure u perfect ur tailoring, try and talk to even if it will be neighbours and church members to patronize u so as to get some money to get essentials for ur baby.as much as possible,try and depend less on ur hubby by not asking him for anything to avoid beatings.then pray to God.nothing is impossible for Him to do.

egopersonified:
I felt you were crying while writing this post, when you started referring to your husband as 'you' instead of 'he' in your write up, I started crying too. If you can't leave now, why not look for a way to ensure you go to your parents from the hospital after childbirth instead of your mum coming over? You would have that three months window to make your decision.

Training our girls solely for the purpose of marriage should be discouraged, there is more to life than being a good
wife and mother.

u nailed it.girls should know they hv value.God brought them here for a reason not just to be a brooding mare!

so true.men be forming boss at home but humble servants at work!

all these bleaching is too much!wonder what the essence is!

hello house! pls I have some money with a close family member which I lent out coz he was in a tight situation then.even though I know he has not gotten back on his feet now,the money is already 2yrs and he is showing no signs of paying it back.how best can I get this money back without sounding insensitive!

walking away is not always easy for a number of reasons.if there r no kids yet and d relationship is abusive,it is always easier to get out.with kids,anything can happen!the man can even take away d kids from d woman and she can never be happy without Them.I would suggest d woman do a personal check.If it is something she does like nagging or goading tge man,she can try to stop.if d abuse is for no reason which I doubt,she can always turn it to God.
marriage is no longer what it used to be.ppl now get married for funny reasons age,money,beauty etc dt even when they see d signs,they still put their heads so many even going to d extent of getting pregnant deliberately.

I am married.been married for 6yrs and I didn't wear my wedding ring for even 3mths!I hv never Liked jewellery and my husband doesn't complain coz I hv never given him room for suspicion or anything.different strokes for different folks!

I would suggest u send him d document but don't ever play wt him wt ur money.keep away ur atm cards&cash whenever he is around.the only way to help a thief is never tempt him.I had a brother like dt,until he changed,even my mum never sent him to atm let alone keeping money wt him.

I am very sure I will make that list in a few years to come by God's grace. Working towards starting up a company that will produce soap;creams;fertilizers and germicides. I have started already I just need to go public.

u can't get a bus to gboko from ikeja.am 100% sure of iddo.

hi all.pls I need a good female tailor around ikotun,Igando(alimosho axis).pls contact me on 08093938889.

funny question but it happened to me and I had it up to d throàt dt I ended up beating my sis in law(a 23yr old) after much disrespect to both me,her brother and my visitors.I was so blinded wt fury I didn't even think twice.

you r spool right!

lakesidepapa:
Bros don't blame apc/government for ur situation, I think ur problem is laziness, u're waiting for miracle without working towards it. Dnt worry by the time u reach 35, ur sense will reset.
#Sorryfortheharshword

u r very rite bro.Nigerian youths r lazy.always waiting for opportunities to come to dm.giving excuses abt d govt.d problem lies wt d parents.d day I wrote my last paper in school was d last time my mum gave me money.I just knew I had to get out&do sth.

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maybe he takes someone along on such trips coz I don't understand such attitudes. if I were u,I wld first get a job dt wld keep me busy, then on any of such his trips, I wld ensure I don't call, d nite am sure he is coming home,I wld take an overnight bag,go sleep in his own ppl's place. if he calls, u won't pick then next day watch out for his reaction!

dangotesmummy:
wonderment

Who begs or apologises for going to stay with MY MOTHER.your mother is your mother and your mother Inlaw can only be an INLAW to you not a MOTHER.please there's a difference.

No matter how much you love me you can't take my mother to do your own mother and the same way marriage can or didn't break the bond between mother and son is the same way marriage can't break the bond between mother and daughter.

There are some individuals in our lives that are IRREPLEACEABLE and that is your MOTHER

did u read my post at all or y did u quote me?who said anything about begging to stay wt her mother?I said NO need to beg anybody!pls try and read well b4 quoting.

op,IMO just be urself.no need to go,kneel down,cry and beg.for what now?the deed has been done already coz if I refused to go meet her for omugwo,u shdnt hv packed ur bag to ur mum.probably U wld hv told ur mum to come over to avoid bad blood.but as things are,just call ur mil periodically to check her welfare.if she doesn't pick,text her then find time to visit wt ur baby. for the sisters in law,don't bother facebooking them.do occasional call&text. u can only try.people don't need to hv reasons to dislike another.that's life

Now it pains me when out of ignorance or plain over sabi when ppl relegates some courses or just discourage those studying them.

As far as am concerned,bch&phy are very good courses.biochemistry is vast having branches in food,drugs,chemicàl etc,meaning a biochemist can work in manufacturing/pharmaceutical coy like swipha,m&b,greenlife,vitabiotics,Honeywell,viju, etc I mean any coy as long as they use chemical or manufacture whatever.

physics also:telecoms,electrical,ict,security etc. meaning a physicist can work in telecommunications, IT, phcn etc. the guy in charge of my maintenance/security section in office did physics.my cousin read physics and is into security(fire alarms,smoke detectors etc),on his own getting contracts from ever where.

Not to mention the fact that what u read in today's world for ur first degree doesn't really matter as u can always diversify if u so want.
I read computer sc,finished service 7yrs ago,d first job I got was sales. till now am in sales,built my career there and so loving it!

pls,let's get our facts right and stop misleading the upcoming ones!it is all about self development and outshining your peers.

igñorance is a disease.biochemistry has many applications in today's world:drugs,chemical&food meaning a biochemist can work in any manufacturing,pharmaceutical coy. physics too:telecoms,electrical,ict.
mind u,I read computer sc,been working for 7yrs,so I know what am talking about.

just out of curiosity and in a bid to promote our Nigerian heritage, how many states hv u been to in Nigeria and where is the most interesting place u hv been either in culture,natural resource or ppl?
as for me,I hv been to about 24states.the most interesting place I hv been is gembu,taraba st due to d landscape and weather.the fulanis scattered all over the state r also funny in lifestyle!

stivesng:
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Registration for the promo starts on Monday, February 1st, 2016 and ends on Monday February 29th, 2016 and it is valid in our Ikoyi branch only; the numbers to call for further information are: 08023389610; 08038183212; 08101688093.

This initiative, which is in its 7th year since it debuted in 2010, aims to lighten up drastically the cost burden on couples who are experiencing delay in procreation as a result of one fertility challenge or the other.

At St. Ives, we have identified cost as a major factor militating against stemming incidences of infertility in Nigeria. To this end, we have further been strengthened in our resolve to continuously make IVF accessible and relatively affordable to couples. Therefore, we urge interested couples to take this fifty percent (50%) discount advantage and register for the treatment

gd day.pls what month do u run ikeja promo and is the promo on all treatments?