ATTENTION LADIES! 5 TYPES OF MEN YOU SHOULD AVOID.....if you don't want to end up being sorry.


1. He’s dashingly handsome but not very smart
Sometimes those good looks can be deceiving. Handsome doesn’t go very far when it comes to having to pay the rent, unless he lands the lead in a hit movie, but if he’s not too smart he won’t be able to learn the lines so don’t count on that. However, if you find a guy who is both handsome and smart, then grab him quick and consider yourself a lucky girl. But wait, how can you tell if he’s smart? Here are a few clues:

He has at least some higher education — academic or technical — that has or is preparing him for productive employment.

He can carry on an intelligent conversation with you about world and national events.

He’s wise with his money. Not a penny pincher, but smart about paying his bills and saving in case economic hard times hit.

2. He’s lazy
The odds are if he’s lazy now, he’ll be lazy after you marry him. If you think you have the power to turn on his latent work genes, you are sadly mistaken. What you see is what you get. Wise women who are looking for the right man to marry have been watching what has happened to their friends and the men they married. If a man is not motivated to work hard now, that’s a sure sign he needs to be passed over by you. The ability and desire to consistently earn a paycheck is one of a good man’s most desirable qualities.

3. He drinks too much
This can be a disaster. If he can’t control his drinking now, he’s on the way to becoming a debilitated drunk later. Is that what you want? Read up on the behavior of men who drink too much and you’ll find divorce courts full of the women they abuse. This applies to those who are addicted to drugs as well. Avoid these kinds of men vehemently.

4. He makes you feel less than adequate
If he’s always criticizing you and finding fault with the way you do things, that’s a huge red flag. If the man you’re with doesn’t make you feel of worth, ditch him quick. Run, don’t walk. Whatever he’s doing to you now will only increase in the future. Too many women have become doormats to domineering men who make themselves feel powerful by diminishing their mates. A good man will praise you, be proud of you for your accomplishments, and rejoice in the good that is happening in your life. You will become more because of how he treats you. That’s what good mates do for each other.

5. He is disrespectful to his mother and others
It has been said that it’s a good idea to look at how a man treats his mother because there is a high probability that this is how he will be treating you in the long term. If the man you are attracted to is disrespectful to others, no matter how he treats you now, later you will become one of his disrespected victims. Sometimes a guy can shine when he’s dating—put on a fancy front to impress you—then the true colors come out when you’re in a more committed relationship. Don’t let his actions fool you. Just know that if he treats others, especially his mother, disrespectfully, that’s how he’s likely going to treat you as time goes on.

Too many women get caught up in the I-can-fix-the-bad-boy mode. Avoid that trap like the plague. Don’t marry a fixer-upper. It doesn’t work. Date guys who are already in the groove of being a good guy. If you are in the good-girl groove yourself, you have a far better chance of attracting the good guys. Be the kind of quality person you want your man to be.

I hope with these few points of mine, it will be easier for you ladies to separate the real guys from the fake ones..... by the way, it's Friday... what will you be doing this weekend?

Ladies, have you ever found yourself in a situation where you're still far off and he's already on the verge of spilling it after a few strokes? Men, have you ever been so embarrassed that she's even tagged you 2-min noodles? Find out how you can overcome the scourge of premature ejaculation...

Premature ejaculation, or ejaculating before you or your partner wanted you to, is a common issue that strikes most men at some point in their lives. Several factors can be responsible for when ejaculation occurs, but it can be controlled with some forethought or, in extreme cases, medical intervention. Here are some strategies to help you get over premature ejaculation and improve your sexual stamina.

1.
Wear a condom. It sounds too simple to be true, but it works for a lot of men. Condoms reduce stimulation for most men, which should prolong the time before ejaculation.
Steer clear of condoms that are marketed as extra thin. You can always upgrade to a brand that allows more stimulation later.
Some condoms are coated with a slight numbing gel on the inside. This can help you put off ejaculation for longer without causing numbness to your partner. (Just make sure you know which side is where when you put it on.)

2
Use an analgesic cream or spray. There are two classes of these products. The first is the traditional "numbing" creams and sprays that have been on the market for some time. The upside is that you'll feel less sensation, which will delay ejaculation. The downside is your partner may suffer a loss of sensation as well—and of course less sensitive intercourse is not always an appealing notion, even in these circumstances.

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Apply strategic pressure. With a little anatomy knowledge, you can delay an oncoming ejaculation by applying pressure to one of two spots.
Perineum pressure: Pressing on the perineum, a spot midway between your scrotum and your anus, will help to stop ejaculation because this spot reaches through to the prostate gland. It is the prostate that contracts and expands during orgasm and then expels the ejaculation fluid. Ask your partner to apply this loving pressure for you.
Testes tug: When a man nears orgasm his scrotum rises up closer to his body. You can delay ejaculation by gently pulling your testes down and away from your body. Your partner can also do this for you.....I have highlighted about 10 points. www.duvettalkng.com has the rest. It's a must-read!

It is often said that communication is key when you're thinking of having or you're in a romantic relationship. Communication therefore begins with a line of question or statement. Now, how do you find the right words? Hmmm....

Are you ready for the truth about conversation starters??

There are numerous different romantic conversation starters that are very effective. There is the way of telling a story, sharing memories, finding communalities, talking about dreams, passions and desires etc.

In this article I will first give you some romantic conversation starters when approaching a woman and then some starters when being on a date.

But before I start giving you examples of romantic conversation starters, let’s first talk about what ‘romance’ really is. There are a lot of definitions like:


Romance is doing something special or unexpected for someone you love.
A couple that is showing how they feel about each other in a really pleasant and warm atmosphere.
A way of showing someone you care. Someone you love, like or choose to cherish.
I think the point here is that you have to talk about emotions and really trying to connect to her in order to create this romantic atmosphere. This could be through asking her questions or telling her an interesting story.

I think it is really important to get a woman comfortable and relax when bringing up a romantic conversation, like having good body language, strong eye contact, really listening to each other and being in the moment.

Furthermore it is creating a warm, open-minded and relax situation in which she can easily express herself to you and vice versa.

Romantic Opening Lines

Here are some great romantic conversation starters to start a conversation with a woman:

“Hi, I really like your energy, so I had to come over and say ‘hi’.”
“There is something interesting about you and I wanted to find out what that is.”
“Hi, you have a great outlook, so I wanted to meet you.”
“Hey, I need an opinion on something. Do you think it is possible to find romance in a club/bar?”
“Hey, you are cute, so for the next 5 minutes you are my new girlfriend. What is our first adventure?”......

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For girls who have a guy friend they really like romantically, getting to the stage of asking him out isn't always easy.There's the ever present fear of losing a friendship, and being just plain too afraid to ask the guy out. If you're a girl longing for a little more than friendship with this cute, wonderful guy you call your best male friend, it's time to pick up the courage and do the needful - ASK HIM OUT!
1.Offer compliments.
As a best friend, you already know things about him - make sure he knows that you appreciate some of those things you know about him. Don't overdo it - just be sensible.

2.Act like you normally do around him, nothing unusual.
Being yourself is very very important. Not only will he suspect something if you start acting strange and weird, it'll probably put him on alert and possibly turn him off.

3.Ask him questions about what his weekends are always like or what he's doing on the weekend. He's your best friend. For all he knows, you might be suggesting a visit to a fun place together.

4.Get flirting with him a little!Here's where it begins to cross the divide between normal friendship and moving it up to the next level. Strike a few cute poses, twirl your hair a little and make eye contact. Biting your lip is cute, too. A few longer-than-usual lingering looks should be great. Give him sweet little smiles, a slite touch on the wrist will also do some magic...

5.Ask him to a movie or something you both enjoy doing like going shopping together. If it makes you uncomfortable to call it a date, just ask him if he wants to 'go to the movies' or 'go shopping'. Congratulations, you've asked him out!

6.Take it further. So, you want to make out? Take it easy! If he's a good one that's worth hanging onto, he's worth taking things really slowly with. Let this relationship grow and simmer a while. Good things take time. Be happy he's a best friend and make sure nothing rocks that. He'll still go to the ends of the earth for you as a best friend; don't mess that up. Most important make sure he feels the same way about you.

Points To Note
-Don't be upset if he turns you down. Maybe he just isn't ready for such a big change in his life. Accept that you're still friends and be very open, honest and forthright about this changing nothing in your friendship for one another.
-Be subtle when you flirt with him, if you are shy. For bolder people, take a bigger step and maybe even put your hands on your hips or something else that's fairly sexy.
-Remember, he's still your friend, no matter what.Sometimes it is better to casually tell him how you really feel, and when you do this be modest. -If he already suspects something it may take the strain off your friendship and possibly make it stronger.

Warning
-Even if you are getting nervous, don't get any one else to ask him out for you. It's best to see his reaction first hand, and he might not tell the other person how he really feels.
-Don't be too forward, you don't want to scare him. Try not to note pass, as people can read it and you might be embarrassed if every one knows he said no.-Don't tell all your friends that you like him. That's a big no-no. You want to be the one to ask him out, and he won't like it very much if everyone knew how you felt except him.
-Don't have one of your friends ask him out for you....

Good Luck!!!

Lack of libido is a very common problem most especially as women get older and experience the hormonal changes of menopause, but it can happen at any age.

Fluctuating hormone levels can contribute, but so can stress at home or at work, medications (some antidepressants and birth control pills have been linked to lowered sex drive), poor physical fitness, and lack of sleep.

If you've lost interest in sex, first check physical factors. Visit your doctor for a general checkup and tests that will detect changing hormone levels.

Consider whether low libido may be a side effect of a new medication, and make sure that you're getting enough sleep, exercising, and eating healthfully.

Then look at your stress level: If your daily to-do list is overwhelming, don't be a hero; get help. Buy, don't bake, cookies for the school sale; tell your boss that you need more assistance on a project.


If money woes have you on edge, schedule a family budget talk or a session with a financial adviser at your bank. If you find you need serious help with managing stress, don't hesitate to confide in a therapist or your clergyperson.


Finally, take time for the pleasures that can reconnect you with your inner vixen: a hot bath, a spa day, time with friends, date night with your husband.
"Men are so ashamed of speaking up about low sexual desire



Have you ever lost your sex drive? Has it ever gotten you into trouble in your marriage?



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Most women have their insecurities when it comes to sex, believe it or not. There’s always this question of whether or not you’re a disappointment in bed or you’ve done something the wrong way OR you deserve a round of applause.


Sometimes ago I had a conversation with some guys on this topic and I was not so surprised with the kind of response I got. I asked if giving head is important to guys. One of them said, “Besides food, air and water, what could be more important? Then, I realised that this goes to show that MouthAction is really something most men don’t like to joke with.

Well I think the most important thing is to relax and share the pleasure talking about both giving and receiving. You see, when it’s done under duress, it’s never going to be enjoyable for either of you.

One thing that should be noted is that lovemaking is more about sharing your feelings than the act itself, and trust me, your man will appreciate the Mouth Gig more if he can sense that you want to give him pleasure all the way.

Now, sexperts have argued that MouthAction is more intimate than intercourse itself, so if you’re giving it, you just have to be extremely comfortable with your partner’s organ because MouthAction happens to be one of the most highly erotic, loving and satisfying sexual activities.

No matter what you tell some people, they’ll tell you it’s unhygienic or probably they dislike the taste, or they even worry about their technique (you know, having the fear that they may fall short of their partner’s expectation) – thing is, you should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable and at the same time, you must not limit your partner’s pleasure.

So, if you cannot give your partner a head, you better find an alternative by asking him/her what else he/she likes apart from Mouth Gig.

MouthAction AND YOUR HEALTH

Simple habit of cleanliness will solve the problem of holding back on giving your special one a Mouth Gig. Both of you can decide to take a sexy shower and get clean together. We need to look at the health factors of MouthAction, things you need to know in order to prevent some sexually transmitted infections because when you think about it on one hand, MouthAction can be fun (no doubt about it) but on the other hand, it can also spread disease...


Would you engage in an oral session with your better half?

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