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How To Ask Your Best Friend Out by duvettalkng: 1:00pm On Jun 16, 2015
For girls who have a guy friend they really like romantically, getting to the stage of asking him out isn't always easy.There's the ever present fear of losing a friendship, and being just plain too afraid to ask the guy out. If you're a girl longing for a little more than friendship with this cute, wonderful guy you call your best male friend, it's time to pick up the courage and do the needful - ASK HIM OUT!
1.Offer compliments.
As a best friend, you already know things about him - make sure he knows that you appreciate some of those things you know about him. Don't overdo it - just be sensible.

2.Act like you normally do around him, nothing unusual.
Being yourself is very very important. Not only will he suspect something if you start acting strange and weird, it'll probably put him on alert and possibly turn him off.

3.Ask him questions about what his weekends are always like or what he's doing on the weekend. He's your best friend. For all he knows, you might be suggesting a visit to a fun place together.

4.Get flirting with him a little!Here's where it begins to cross the divide between normal friendship and moving it up to the next level. Strike a few cute poses, twirl your hair a little and make eye contact. Biting your lip is cute, too. A few longer-than-usual lingering looks should be great. Give him sweet little smiles, a slite touch on the wrist will also do some magic...

5.Ask him to a movie or something you both enjoy doing like going shopping together. If it makes you uncomfortable to call it a date, just ask him if he wants to 'go to the movies' or 'go shopping'. Congratulations, you've asked him out!

6.Take it further. So, you want to make out? Take it easy! If he's a good one that's worth hanging onto, he's worth taking things really slowly with. Let this relationship grow and simmer a while. Good things take time. Be happy he's a best friend and make sure nothing rocks that. He'll still go to the ends of the earth for you as a best friend; don't mess that up. Most important make sure he feels the same way about you.

Points To Note
-Don't be upset if he turns you down. Maybe he just isn't ready for such a big change in his life. Accept that you're still friends and be very open, honest and forthright about this changing nothing in your friendship for one another.
-Be subtle when you flirt with him, if you are shy. For bolder people, take a bigger step and maybe even put your hands on your hips or something else that's fairly sexy.
-Remember, he's still your friend, no matter what.Sometimes it is better to casually tell him how you really feel, and when you do this be modest. -If he already suspects something it may take the strain off your friendship and possibly make it stronger.

Warning
-Even if you are getting nervous, don't get any one else to ask him out for you. It's best to see his reaction first hand, and he might not tell the other person how he really feels.
-Don't be too forward, you don't want to scare him. Try not to note pass, as people can read it and you might be embarrassed if every one knows he said no.-Don't tell all your friends that you like him. That's a big no-no. You want to be the one to ask him out, and he won't like it very much if everyone knew how you felt except him.
-Don't have one of your friends ask him out for you....

Good Luck!!!

Re: How To Ask Your Best Friend Out by donholy28(m): 1:04pm On Jun 16, 2015
soon u go post...how to propose to ur boyfriend
Re: How To Ask Your Best Friend Out by Feranchek(m): 1:58pm On Jun 16, 2015
I've always known Amadi's gialfriend has something on her mind about me! Op just exposed her now! Amadi must hIA dis!!
Re: How To Ask Your Best Friend Out by Rosemary216(f): 2:41pm On Jun 16, 2015
uhmmmm... z it d girl dat z askin d guy out??

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