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marshalcarter:
Amen






I have an idea oo
Why dnt you buy ring.....put it at the trunk of ur car....go to her house....call her to cum nd see wah you bought for her....den wen she cums out...u open ur trunk nd she sees wats in it...den u can propose to her

Hahahahha lmao man you're so not romantic

marshalcarter:
Den you call her...sit her down....talk to her...I mean...u guys have everything


(Hopin for toyota starlet or corolla)

I just have to find a better way to lay it out and perfect time.

Don't worry you might get it from, where and when you least expect it. God is real

MarvellousGod:
Do both of you show off in your relationship?

Other than this, I don't think so.

Ok now I feel like someone is getting my point. See, she is truly an amazing person, kindhearted and all. I love her with all my heart I swear to God I do but it kinda bothers me somewhat and I hope I'm just overreacting.

I just want to find a better way to address it to her in other not to come off to her the wrong way or ruin what we have going on, that all.

marshalcarter:
Mr op




Plsssss plsssss plssssss nd pllssssss


I need a toyota corolla....single door(small toyota...all dis old toyota) tnx :-D




Meanwhile....if you guys keep sharin and buyin all expensive stuffs....u won't get married....berra sit down nd plan ur marriage...ur kids infact ur future with her so things would go right


Money aint love bro

Thanks for your advice bro. I wish I have enough money to do the Oprah giveaway style lol.

And yes I know money can't buy love, I brought this here because I genuinely care about her and want future with her.

cococandy:
Did she say 'thank you' when you gave it to her?
If yes. That's enough.
What other kind of appreciative do you want her to be? Maybe the car is appreciation in her own way.(competitive maybe) but hey...

Anyway I'm gonna gonna go out on a leg here and say that you're probably like the typical African man who believes having money is a requirement that defines your manhood. And having a girl who has that same power as you is now a question mark on your status in the relationship.right?

Because for some guys as long as they are in charge financially, they have no doubt that their lady will be pliant towards them since she's all but dependent on them.

Well now you gotta learn how to be a man without hiding behind expensive gifts.
That's your new homework.
Talk about learning to use your left hand in old age.

Not at all, I am not a typical minded African even though I barely lived in Nigeria. I appreciate independent black women. Let's say maybe there wouldn't this topic if she bought me for example a dog, expensive wine, pair of shoes, a piece of artwork or something less or not similar to what I got for her. I bought a wristwatch for her parents for their 32 years marriage anniversary and on my baby bro's graduation she bought exactly the same wristwatch that I got for her dad for my baby bro.

pretydiva:
Na wa oo..dunno whether 2 believe dis story or not. Buh anyways dere is nuffin 2 scared/worried about. Buh u guys should pls cut down on d gifts ni. Dat money can b channel into smtin more productive

There is nothing wrong in buying gift to love ones and it doesn't matter how cheap or expensive it is as long as you can afford it, you are giving with good intentions and willing. I doubt neither of us will be buying each other cars every 6 months through the relationship or if lead to marriage.

cococandy:


You thought you would get a different line of response in family section?

Anyway just enjoy the gift she gave you and stop complaining.
What's your concern?

My major concerns are, feeling we are competing and maybe not appreciating what do for her simply because she can afford or gift back the similar.

To anyone else who may think this is just about the vehicle or showing off. I never said she bought me a buggatti or jet. Its just a mustang GT worth less than $37,000. I have really been suck when it comes to relationship and one time I finally found who I am deeply in love with and with no doubt I want to wife anytime soon, I don't want to screw it up.

Smh.. I guess this is the wrong section. I have moved this topic to family section.

Just because you have nothing don't mean someone else wouldn't. I didn't buy her a buggatti neither did she bought me a jet. Its just a freaking Mustang GT which is nothing up to or more than $36,000 . I hate to sound cocky but really being broke really sucks.

Again this is about saving my relationship and being happy not about a piece of car that could crash anytime.

Oyetboy:
pictures or........

Seeking opinion not attention. With that being said, I don't think I owe you or anyone a lie. I could get picture of any vehicle to post here and what else would you want me to do? Take a picture holding a sign with nairaland written on it?

I've been a sucker lover and I finally found someone I believe is right and I do not want to screw it up that's why I'm here.

agarawu23:
so you bought her that car to get her attention or what,?

is that the best way to get a lady's attention or love ?

We are in a relationship. 18 months relationship, I already have her attention. I have no doubt that I'm going to marry her.

Hello guys, I am having a little problem in my 18 months relationship so I decided to share the little issue here just to get your opinions.

I love my girlfriend with all my heart, I never knew there was young females like her until last year when I met her. She is everything amazing thing a woman should be, well mannered and cultured regardless of family background and living in America for almost all her life she still possess those awesome qualities of a well breed queen from the motherland.

I could go all day praising her lol.

The problem is, I feel like we are in somewhat of competitive relationship in terms of gifting.

I will only give few instances. Her birthday is in August but I decided to surprise her with a newer model one of her favorite vehicles (sports car) because we both love sports cars. I gave her the early birthday gift because I'd be out of the country during her birthday. 

Now as everyone know yesterday was fathers day. I don't have a child yet beside 3 God children 2 girls and a boy. I was invited to her family home by her mother since my parents are around here for Father's Day. Nice dinner served, good music,drinks, a few family friends and all that..

To cut the long story short. She didn't let me drive, she picked me up from my home. I came home to a brand new mustang near my driveway. She bought me a car for father's day.

Now I feel like we are in some kind of competition especially on gifting. Am I overreacting? Because I am still thinking about telling how I feel about her giving me similar gifts or exactly the same thing whenever I buy things for her. She also does that whenever I buy gift for her friends or family members.

Please your advice will really be appreciated. I love her and I do not want to come up as an ass or ungrateful brat and ruin what we have for each other. 

Front page please..

leuelliot:
Cool story Bro!

Ok, ever heard the saying "if you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all"

Hello guys, I am having a little problem in my 18 months relationship so I decided to share the little issue here just to get your opinions.

I love my girlfriend with all my heart, I never knew there was young females like her until last year when I met her. She is everything amazing thing a woman should be, well mannered and cultured regardless of family background and living in America for almost all her life she still possess those awesome qualities of a well breed queen from the motherland.

I could go all day praising her lol.

The problem is, I feel like we are in somewhat of competitive relationship in terms of gifting.

I will only give few instances. Her birthday is in August but I decided to surprise her with a newer model one of her favorite vehicles (sports car) because we both love sports cars. I gave her the early birthday gift because I'd be out of the country during her birthday.

Now as everyone know yesterday was fathers day. I don't have a child yet beside 3 God children 2 girls and a boy. I was invited to her family home by her mother since my parents are around here for Father's Day. Nice dinner served, good music,drinks, a few family friends and all that..

To cut the long story short. She didn't let me drive, she picked me up from my home. I came home to a brand new mustang near my driveway. She bought me a car for father's day.

Now I feel like we are in some kind of competition especially on gifting. Am I overreacting? Because I am still thinking about telling how I feel about her giving me similar gifts or exactly the same thing whenever I buy things for her. She also does that whenever I buy gift for her friends or family members.

Please your advice will really be appreciated. I love her and I do not want to come up as an ass or ungrateful brat and ruin what we have for each other.

Front page please..

I saw two flags in this pictures. Next to the President. as American born Nigerian I will love to know. Or its Nigerian Version of confederate flag?

Shout-out to any iddiot who'd believe this bs.

Hotstepper:
Honey86, who told u Canada doesn't give automatic citizenship? Nd who told you Mr man that people from Canada goes to US to give birth? Datz pure lie, rather its US people that goes to CANADA cuz Canadian passport is danger free. @OP, giving birth in Canada is not dat expensive, budget 10k dollars or less. Passport takes nothing less than 14 workings days, so they say but u get it faster and birth certificates takes 3 weeks. From da hospital, the baby will be given temporary health card nd the permanent one will be sent to the Addy u will provide nd social insurance no as well.

What are you talking about? $10,000 Canadian
Dollars for child birth? What are you giving birth to? dinosaur? It doesn't even cost that much in a private hospital here in america unless for C-section

What do you mean Canadian passport is danger free? My dad's PA is here from Nigeria to gift for the 2 time and her kids passport process are way faster than the time frame you of what you said about Canadian's.

Congrats..

You stole your friend's shine not really cool. BTW your English stinks

kilode100:
Lol..
I'm sure he's asking for a friend "

Like y'all always say haha!

Demoladoc:
1. Zigzag
2. Candy crush saga
3. Flight pilot
4. Freeze!
5. Cooking dash
6. Smash hit
7. Sniper 3d
8. Hungry shark
9. Stick tennis
10. Spot it

If you are not addicted to ALL these games then you need your life examined and go see a doctor asap.

You mean "If you're addicted to these games or any other games you need a life"

I am proud of your creativity and hard work. Even though I have no idea what I saw going on in the pictures due to poor quality.

Maryam my beautiful smart fam!

Too dry! I didn't read more than 3 lines and I was like what the fucck

Picture of a hot blonde chick giving him head in that tub, if not, nothing special or luxurious about it cuz I do it almost everyday.

Lmfao is that how they tow cars in Nigeria? Maybe I should open tow truck business in Nigeria

My kind of ho

Nigerians will continue to be slaves in the hands of these selfish and demonic crooks until they come in one accord putting tribalism, bigotry and other differences aside to fight for what's right. Shame. These assshole are not working for that money, they seat around and make millions.

Talk about shiiting on the entire country

That breakfast tho lol

Next fantasy for Nigerian chicks until they find out they're not his type.

We owned them. I am so happy for Iguodala