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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 10:04am On Mar 11, 2020
Monday60655:
Nothing to hide again because you have already told told your parents since I'm part of your family.
Funny
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 10:04am On Mar 11, 2020
lexiwonder:
1. Are you the only child your parent have? if not, tell your siblings first. then together you all can decide on how to tell your parent.
2. if you are the only child and you are scared of your dad, then i will advise you to talk to your mom. she will know how to tell your dad. they are both your parent they will not kill you, things happen. And also your parent will advise you on how to go on with the baby daddy, that's the advantage of telling them cos i feel right now you are not thinking straight.
I have 2 little sisters, will talk to my mum today
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 10:02am On Mar 11, 2020
lucky4west:
spending 21st birthday in da club...u have gotten ur reward...nice one clap for ursef....school abandoned, i wonder what ladies are thinking of these days...it is ladies like u they will send to school and will end up making a sex tape like that unfortunate Babcock University girl absolute rubbish! what were u doing with someone who was involved in a divorce process? still living together u should know they are still together....some ladies really have fish brain haba una no de think at all....if u like tell ur parents the truth will come out someday...plz try and celebrate your next birthday in a new club! more men are waiting...on a friendly level u can start school all over again since they are still sending u money...just tell them u got some extra years
I don’t need more men because I already have a loving and caring boyfriend

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 12:01am On Mar 11, 2020
Fivepercent:
send them this post's link ...
Thank you
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 11:40pm On Mar 10, 2020
Advancedman:


They already know as long it's on nairaland
No they doesn’t because if they knew my mum would have call to ask if it’s true
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 11:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
Sunrise258:
Heaven n heart know you will only be good as a 2nd wife to a useless liar of a man! Your destiny is that you will be a 2nd wife and teach the fool lesson like 2nd wife sanders did her husband in Kaduna. With your poor anger mgt, you are edging there! On your parents, ensure you wear a Deontey Wilder costume before telling them else, you will die that day. Best is, mail them the truth words for words before telling them on phone. If your parents are Yoruba, your mama ears will be hearing unpleasant ear tearing diss from your father all the time.

Note: Why don't you go back to school since you were receiving money from your parents regularly?!!!!
That will be your sisters and daughters portions
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 10:30pm On Mar 10, 2020
ChristineC:
so with all the fine looking boys in your class and your county, you preferred a man with a wife and two children.

it's like some people have constant pain in the brain grin

story has loopholes anyway, so I'd treat with a pinch of salt.
He told me they were separated and living in the same house ,if I knew they were still together then I would have never dated him. After all I don’t need him now because I have moved on with my life I have a caring boyfriend who loves me and my daughter
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 10:15pm On Mar 10, 2020
PaulSimon2020:
She he has edited the title several times already. I didn't even bother responding to her him
Haven’t edited the titles and if u have no advice for me instead of discouraging the people that want to advice me well it’s better to waka pass
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:11pm On Mar 10, 2020
alphaNomega:


I hope you named your daughter DEGREE
Her name is Destiny

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
Strydermanz:
My sister he would definitely do the same to you
I break up with him , I don’t need him in my and baby life, I have a boyfriend who loves me and my baby

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:09pm On Mar 10, 2020
Iykenuwa:
Has anybody told you that apart from being loose, you have anger issues?
Yes I know I have a anger problem when I’m I get very angry , I break and throw things , slams doors and bangs walls. I will get help soon before it landed me in prison

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:30pm On Mar 10, 2020
OgbeniSir:
Hmmmm, plenty things wrong with this post! 'In the abroad'? 'Building a house'.. unless it's one African country, who builds a house in the western world?when they buy mortgage already built houses.
Abroad doesn’t mean Europe , am still in Africa and my baby daddy is not Nigerian



Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:28pm On Mar 10, 2020
elantraceey:
My goodness!! So what we're you doing in three years? nothing?
Have been doing nothing apart from partying and clubbing with friends
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:22pm On Mar 10, 2020
rollandben:
Please enough of this your drama!
Can't you use your cell phone and call them!
But if you don't have phone, you can also use a megaphone to reach them. or should I help your tell your parent?? Mtchew...
Please don't distract us with your case again.
If you can’t give me reasonable advice waka pass
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:15pm On Mar 10, 2020
Thanks will do tomorrow
princeemmma:
Tell them on phone, or video chat, dont tell them face to face

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
PaulSimon2020:
This is a fake story, how have you been living in US since three years you fell out of status as a student? And how were you able to travel home and come back with which visa? Make una dey fear God na, with all these unnecessary online lies and fake stories! Damn it cool cool
Where did I mentioned that I live in US? Abroad doesn’t mean Europe or US

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Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 7:08pm On Mar 10, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Honestly. Too dumb! cry

Lord, this is another example of the kind of child I don't want to have.

Plus, OP, how did your mum not notice the changes in your body? A woman who's had a child sure looks different from her former self before motherhood. And I thought mothers never miss these things.
My body hasn’t changed I’m still slim and tall
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 6:54pm On Mar 10, 2020
Abroad doesn’t mean Europe ooo, I’m still in Africa
Family / Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 3:58pm On Mar 10, 2020
NextD18:
The normal me would have condemned your waywardness and unequivocally call out your evil plans and intention of destroying his marriage.

But I'll ignore!

My advice is; Kindly open up to your parents, you did not kill or steal from them, what happened to you is a mistake and something that can happen to anyone in different forms.
They are your parents and won't kill or denounce you as their daughter for making a mistake. Open up to them and let them know how sorry you are to disappoint them.

The earlier the better!!
Thank you . I’m really nervous I'll try to talk to my mum tomorrow

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Family / How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dynamic33: 8:12am On Mar 10, 2020
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

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Family / Re: Drop Your Date Of Birth, You Might Find A Match by Dynamic33: 8:00am On Mar 09, 2020
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