Hello, the deed is done already, and I would not like to reprimand you for this uncouth attitude of yours and misuse of a rare opportunity.
You have already put your parents in a messy and shameful situation. You yourself are in a state of utter disappointment.
Just tell your parents, at this point, whatever the outcome, just grin and bear it. After all you caused the problem.
Your parents are indeed one of the best to have given you what every child is entitled to.
Afterwards, try to be more focused, and mindful of every action you take.

How else would the lie be outlined you should have known from the onset he was a lier and a cheat.. that man is bad guy P.. well I dunno how to advice becos dis is beyond wat I can say.. dnt leave that baby motherless when coming back shez innocent of ur self ignorance ..

Uniqueteco:
They will be mad at you for deceiving them all along but the joy of having a grand child is a joy without limits for parents. Open up to them and be free

Grand child from an irresponsible man! With the calibre of her parents I don't think they will appreciate such.

By calling them

Tell your parents
Come back home.

Plenty polytechnic in Nigeria.

Another story for the gods!

This story is not true people!

Just tell them the truth and be ready to face whatever comes after, they won't be happy with you at all, why the rush when you will still settle down later, you just allowed him to receive you and you fell for his cheap popularity.

How about your boufriend you left in Nigeria before travelling,hope you see as life be now... Carry your cross sis.

You can try this. Send a text message before you come to Nigeria, so as not give your parents heart attack.
Appreciate your parents for the love and care they have bestowed on you to have strained every sinew to give you the best education they could.

Introduce the next paragraph by saying you would like to let them know the hardship you are currently going through as a result of your own actions which has been lingering for over 2years and has caused a severe heartache for you.

Telling your parents on how and why you dropped out from school because in your case I don't think money was the object.

Tell them of how you got pregnant, and how disappointed you are to even tell them.

And finally tell them you are deeply sorry for the shame/disgrace you have brought upon them, yourself and whole of the family.

And let them know that it's truly a bitter pill to swallow, but they should please forgive you from the depth of their hearts.

Promise them to be a good child, for a second chance.
All is well dear
I hope you find favor from them.
Be closer to God and seek for wisdom.

Oyindidi:
Only if you close your legs the way you close your mouth, wahala for no dey.

Both of them are mouths, only that the lower one is toothless.

I'm thinking u should just tell ur mum u actually graduated before ur time so instead of giving u certificate they mistakenly gave u a child. Beautiful one at that.

ValCon888:
If only you spent your 21st birthday jejely at home, all this shìt won't have befallen you.
Now you're a baby mama to an irresponsible man and a dropout. I'm not bashing you. Just pointing out the facts.
The least you can do right now is to be upfront with your fam. Tell them about your child and the fact you've not been going to school.

Your child is a blessing and you're a young girl. I'm confident you can get your life back together.

Point of correction please, a young woman.

NextD18:
The normal me would have condemned your waywardness and unequivocally call out your evil plans and intention of destroying his marriage.

But I'll ignore!

My advice is; Kindly open up to your parents, you did not kill or steal from them, what happened to you is a mistake and something that can happen to anyone in different forms.
They are your parents and won't kill or denounce you as their daughter for making a mistake. Open up to them and let them know how sorry you are to disappoint them.

The earlier the better!!

So you fit talk to woman in this lovely manner

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

The same way you come to social media to tell us...Emmh! Some people sha, private stuff don become public discuss :/

Oyindidi:
So you fit talk to woman in this lovely manner

There's nothing lovely about my comment.

As the tutelary spirit guides, I comment.

omo po bi osan

Olunmercy56:
Every child is a blessing, your parents can't kill you, go and tell them.

Hitler wasn't a blessing, neither was Bin Laden.

Ye

NextD18:

There's nothing lovely about my comment.

As the tutelary spirit guides, I comment.

Give the phone to the owner

Oyindidi:
Only if you close your legs the way you close your mouth, wahala for no dey.

you are right , but kasala don already burst .




just give her your own solution

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IWTBAB:
where u see USA for the thread? Na wa 4 u o

She he has edited the title several times already. I didn't even bother responding to her him

Dumebi Don Go Carry Belle

very easy just drop in and tell them. simple.

PaulSimon2020:
She he has edited the title several times already. I didn't even bother responding to her him

oh really? d story get as e be den

Lmao - Na your type them dey call ‘omo sun owo ni ina’ , that is to say ‘pikin burn money’ - Omo ale, o doko gbagbe school

PaulSimon2020:
She he has edited the title several times already. I didn't even bother responding to her him

Haven’t edited the titles and if u have no advice for me instead of discouraging the people that want to advice me well it’s better to waka pass

Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

Naked man no dey put hand for pocket. You have no hiding place. You have to inform them and prepare to rent a house for yourself when you get to Nigeria

so with all the fine looking boys in your class and your county, you preferred a man with a wife and two children.

it's like some people have constant pain in the brain

story has loopholes anyway, so I'd treat with a pinch of salt.

ChristineC:
so with all the fine looking boys in your class and your county, you preferred a man with a wife and two children.

it's like some people have constant pain in the brain

story has loopholes anyway, so I'd treat with a pinch of salt.

He told me they were separated and living in the same house ,if I knew they were still together then I would have never dated him. After all I don’t need him now because I have moved on with my life I have a caring boyfriend who loves me and my daughter

eniolaamos7:

Grand child from an irresponsible man! With the calibre of her parents I don't think they will appreciate such.

Yeah but the deed had been done already, what other option do they have left? They cannot pray to lose their daughter because of her mistakes

Oyindidi:
Only if you close your legs the way you close your mouth, wahala for no dey.

It is not easy to close those two oooo, body no be. firewood ooo