₦airaland Forum

ifyalways:
Madam. Ramadan Kareem. I mailed you.

Silkmoth33:
Give me the right butt cheek let me dash u d tv

banjicom:
Aunty are you a footballer?

A190:
Abeg, show us pix

overdrive:
He will definitely enter jupiter if I am to follow him.

A190:
This is my 7th year here. Forgot my login details of those days

A190:
You used to have a very hippilicious blue profile pix, can I see it?
Nice hips

OfficiallyMad:
Lmao

Mznaett:
You no dey ever disappoint

pcguru1:
The paying attention and checking up actually goes a long way sometimes you enter relationship mode when you are just being friends sef.

Silkmoth33:

justwant2bhappy:
God bless you my sister

Lucario007:
Fantasy. None of this is relatable to the average Nigerian couple, much less the average African couple. Where if your wife argues with you, your solution is the back of your hand or her father's house.
Abegi, carry this romanticized western bullsh*t out of here.

GhettoG1:
Buh a single mum no matter how can never raise a Son alone nd expect much from him...

kayzat:
The cheating may have started when you have issues with your business but you don't expect to feel the effect immediately.


Don't rule out the possibility of her cheating and may be her head is getting turned by the secret one.

hillsiderfak:
This looks like a family pattern, you will need to pray, I advice you go to Mfm prayer city for advice and prayers.

armyofone:
By the way, your wife didn't do anything wrong. You are badly stressed up. Please use the gym your body and mind really need it.

TheGreatIYANU:
DYT! DYT!! DYT!!!

How many times did I call you? Come and Learn. Thank you Ginaz for sharing. Of a truth we easily take those who love us for granted. It's a lesson for you and now you're paying it forward - educating others. God bless your heart.

Mayflowa:
Dyt...where have you been? I like the way you respect union. Are you married?

munas:
We have seen all that in the situation were wifee earns more than the husband even in my own family

If you dont change thing right now,you will continue like that forever.

You may end up training those kids yourself till university.

The man will not even struggle to earn extra income becos he feels you have money.

You have to sit him down and map out how he can earn extra income to add to what he is earning.

If he is not ready,then i think you should tell him of an impending sack in your office and later non come
up with a story of you been offered a lower salary of say 120k to retain your job and since the economy is
bad,you will still manage the pay cut.

If that goes well,then you have to limit how much you are bringing to the table to say 40k.

Both of you should draw the house budget and you will sample your 40k while he brings the rest.

If he d

PMWSpirit:
It's not bad to earn more than your husband . TBH your husband has only shown us financial recklessness and gross irresponsibility which is very harmful to your future . You might not achieve anything tangible in life and probably end up living below your income negatively.
I don't support you leaving your husband (anti husband no easy to find these days oo, 2 much fuxk boys thinking they are men)
so try this . Tell him you have to take a pay cut BC your company released a memo that it intends to downsize and restructure, and the only reason you are taking the pay cut is to have something doing till you get another job . Peg your salary a bit higher than his . Save a lot for rainy days trust me it's coming and if you are not coming it's gonna be flood. Hopefully he will stop his money stupid actions and man up . And always use sense , these days nobody discloses his or her pay to partner for financial security . Wise up

nnamdiokere45:
tel him dat due to changes in ur office,dat der has bin salary slash for all staffs.dat u earn half dat pay nw. do as if ur very sad.den tel him u guyz nid to change d way tinz are now.u can now save half and bring out half.