Jeffmonti: [b][/b]Good morning, thanks for all your advices. Somehow i couldn’t modify the original post but here is an update;
I was able to reach Lola yesterday on the phone, tendered my apologies on how i reacted and how things has turned out thus far, she even agreed to meet within the week for me to see her bulging stomach. Her stance was that she took the 100k to take care of herself and the pregnancy, registered for anti-natal and other necessary health obligations if that was she’s going to get from me.
She said she was never going to bother me until she has put to birth and i didn’t show up or show interest all through the period before delivery then i would have seen real madness.
Also she said her boyfriend left as she couldn’t hide the pregnancy from him and if i think this is going to cost me my relationship then i shouldn’t tell my girlfriend about it just yet as she (Lola) has not intentions of forcing marriage on me because she’s not a desperado (in her own words; she cannot manage a man so she do not want any man to manage her out of pity of situation of things to avoid domestic violence later on) so i should go ahead and marry my girlfriend.
She said she has had many disappointments in her life and this to her is a blessing, the child is her blessing and that if everybody leaves, her child is not going to leave her and many other emotional talk... (i only happen to be the scapegoat who fulfilled her cravings) She claimed she has lost many things due to this pregnancy and disappointed a lot of people, family members included but she’s going to have the child anyway. She’s even suggesting that i should tell my gf she’s a fraud that she’s trying so hard to pin this on me until i blew her cover, that’s if i already told her before. That i would not understand why it’s important that she must have the child (apparently, pastor don tell her somethings because she like church well well)
I have agreed to show minimal timely or monthly support until she delivers and carry out a DNA test, if the child is mine I’ll pay child support to the best of my ability and be in the child’s life.
As for my girlfriend i was going to marry her in August, but i have cut that out, i already to spoke an elderly family friend of ours, one she respected very well. I will break the news to her within the coming weeks (after i have seen Lola and the extend of their pregnancy) and seek forgiveness. I will see whatever comes out of it as my fate, i probably deserve it.
For those other advises; Lola is not an option for me to marry given all that has happened, If Bae leaves of which i am having a 90% chance she will. I will spend the next couple years focusing on my career and providing for a child.
So i was thinking of informing my father, who’s my girlfriend biggest fan called him yesterday but i couldn’t even bring myself to tell him unto disappointment thing, plus i am an only son. If i tell my mom everything go just scatter, she will make trouble.
For those that think this is fictional, it isn’t. Some people make mistakes for others to learn as i have learnt from other people’s mistakes on other aspects of life. Hopefully someone will learn from mine.
Thanks again for all your words. I will keep you posted as things progresses.
Elder0001: Meatpie for the culture. I baked them yesterday afternoon but couldn't snap.
@dyt, @hathor07 and @pocohantas come and take your share, I ate only two yesterday. My friends that I was expecting yesterday that made me to bake this much failed to come around.
Been a while I had them Pls i will have 7 I like to eat my size
SirMichael1: I even have covers of it by different youtubers. Been a long time I played it though, so when I saw it, I knew instantly which song to listen to. Thank you and I hope your day is going well?
I need somebody to heal Somebody to know Somebody to have Somebody to hold It's easy to say But it's never the same I guess I kinda liked the way you numbed all the pain
Now the day bleeds Into nightfall And you're not here To get me through it all I let my guard down And then you pulled the rug I was getting kinda used to being someone you loved
iamoyindamola: Dyt come out I wantu tell you something Mariangeles please call her out
I no kuku blame you my broda Omo osan lonko kondo ba iye e It's mancity, They embarrassed and disgraced me, every friend of mine made a mockery of me, I love Pep still
Before Saturday now u would've eaten Shawarma, grilled chicken, Banku and okro and even grilled fish.
Shey diet nìyẹn àbí idayat
I am taking MATCHA tea It's filling and helps with my bowel too Serious jor, I am cutting it down before I enter size 16 (that's if my butt hasn't even passed)