₦airaland Forum

Chimarto:
Which sort of fire is this that cannot be stopped.

yemmit90:
Lolz, it amaze me how some of you reason, If you check well, men are the ones running after these broke girls and not the other way round. There is no logic in running after a broke girl and complaing she is demanding. Women will always demand, even your wife of 20 years, it is in their nature to do so as long as they don't have the means to do so themselves. You can only say she doesn't love or care about you if she earn well and still demanding as broke girls.

You know she is broke, you know she can't fend for herself, yet you chose to date her and start pounding the innocent girl with nothing to show for it. Naturally, men don't like their women to suffer no matter the circumstances, it so unfortunate some of you will come here to claim otherwise.

My point is that, some ladies are genuinely being battling with abject poverty, the ones that won't do a hookup will surely ask from their boyfriends. The best you can do for such a girl is to set her up if you know that the relationship is 99% heading to marriage.
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Ynix:
it's good you love her and she loves you, it's better for you to make her know you can't grow if you give her all you have, and also stop falling in love, clear your eyes and work on yourself. If gbege happen now the lady will look for someone better than you. I guess you started the relationship with spending money that is why you are in this crisis, ladies are often loyal to their feelings, know how to play your game well, you too start asking her for money

BABANGBALI:
Awon bunch of modafokas


Please If you're looking for a wife material, go for a lady above 35 years because their senses have come back to normal.
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Kobojunkie:
1. Yet in that same Nigeria, every year over 20,000 men settle for exactly the kind of women you described. OP is probably one of them so are you attempting here to deny him the right to go for what he seems to prefer?

2. The man is OK with a woman who does not work to support her man. The woman wants a man who would not mind her not working and is ready to support her needs. Demand & supply ... they are both available to each other. He is not a victim and she isn't a victim here— no crime committed by both in their choice.

Why attack the woman when she is the man's choice?

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet, what you described happens over 20,000 times across Nigeria —at least 20,000 traditional marriages take place where unemployed women are sold into marriage by their families— to this day. So, what are you on about?

2. What has shame to do with a man consciously choosing for himself an unemployed woman as his wife, agreeing to buy her sanitary pads as well? These men are not forced into these arrangements so why do you feel the need to vilify the females in these setups?

Kobojunkie:
1. Yet, what you described happens over 20,000 times across Nigeria —at least 20,000 traditional marriages take place where unemployed women are sold into marriage by their families— to this day. So, what are you on about?

2. What has shame to do with a man consciously choosing for himself an unemployed woman as his wife, agreeing to buy her sanitary pads as well? These men are not forced into these arrangements so why do you feel the need to vilify the females in these setups?

Kobojunkie:
Let's not tell this lie abeg! The traditional relationship model in Nigeria pretends the woman is to be supported by the man meaning that so long as a woman is ready for a relationship, the man is to give in and provide for all of her needs. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Riskymarvelous:
And your parents are there suffering and smiling u never ask God to give you money so that you can be able to take care of them

yemmit90:
Some came from poor homes and genuinely need money or helper, if such girl know you have, she will ask for it. It doesn't mean she don't love you, she just don't have money to fix basic things in her life.

Akanoaaa:
You dey ask God to give you money bcuz you want to take care of girl that has many options in this 2025? Will your parent be proud of this?

Ororocelemi:
Taa gbafuo mugu

Hope you don f^ck her sha?

Kobojunkie:
1. How much money is enough for a person in a relationship to demand from the other?

2. Does she not support him sexually, emotionally, and otherwise? Did you OP tell you what you claim or are you comfortably inserting yourself as a voice in the relationship? Why is financial aid the only sort of support you recognize in the relationship?

3. Money does not need to grow on trees for it to be used as a form of support in relationships. A person in a relationship can work to earn his/her own or depend on the other in the relationship for his/her monetary needs. Relationships provide such benefits too.

4. If OP feels the relationship has become parasitic then OP is free to quit the relationship. Making her out as the enemy here makes no sense since OP clearly admits that he himself is to blame for why they are still together. He has not made any concerted effort to let go of the relationship. So, why do you fault her?

OP knows he cannot afford her. Yet, OP holds onto her. Why? If he lets her go, she can easily go out and find herself who can afford her and has no problem supporting her financially. That is what should happen next. But as OP says, he has yet to grow the balls to let her go.

Ndubuisipaul1:
Am in love with this lady. She loves me too. But she always ask me for money.

If I had enough I will make sure I meet most of her need, due to how much I love her.

But the issue is that I don't have enough. So am withdrawing myself from her.
anytime she discover that am withdrawing from her she will complain .

I love her and it's hurt so much that I can't provide her with her basic needs.

Am just asking God, Why can't you give me money to take care of this girl?

She loves me I love her too but money no dey

Obviouslyblunt:
9mobile is there? The worst network ever seen.

Elusive001:
Are you okay upstairs?

Do you understand the psychology of an 80 year old? Do you know how vulnerable an old person can be? Wait till you get even 70 years and tell us how smart you are compared with a 26 year old.

You think being 80 years is easy.

hopedey:
VDM GO VOMIT THAT MONEY