₦airaland Forum

ima1:
why are all you men raining on her parade, if you men are dumb enough to toast women saying that you are rich, why in the world shouldn't she collect. we all know how ya'll men use women and now u  r complaining.

@poster, if its obvious he is just using you then i say use him back, say you need money for upkeep, and for the guy asking for a letter of invitation, tell him you need money to have the letter processed, open an acct, have him send the money and then close the acct.

Thank you, Ima.

I knew other Nigerian girls abroad would understand. Those bastards are ruthless. Thank God I have heard enough stories and I went to Naija prepared for their nonsense. God forbid I'm victimized in the hands of any opportunist criminal.

Moreover, my intended actions are moreso to teach this bas.tard a lesson than the actual money itself. I know if you really want to Fu.k with a Naija dude, fu.k with his money! That's where it really hits them hard! I'm sure after I'm done with him, he will think twice before he attempts to mess with another Yankee babe.


Oh wow, I didn't even think to open a separate account for this. Thanks for watching out!

About how much should I ask for, as per the letter procession fees? I'm not too familiar with all these immigration proceedings. Perhaps I should tell him I love him so much and want to make sure his visiting visa is approved. Thus I need to hire an Immigration lawyer to compose the letter on my behalf. I can get away with a few thousands for the lawyer's fee.

I was not expecting this sort of reaction. This desperately begs for the infamous phrases:

"Why ya'll mad tho?" and "Abi, is it your money??"



Abeg, spare me all the cursing and ill wishes. You people dont know me from Adam hence ya'll sound ignorant as hell.


So, no one has anything meaningful to contribute? Ya'll su.ck!


This is the main reason why I cant stand "Naija" Nigerians. You guys are fair to shallow minded and primitive for my liking. So, you're mad because I was smart enough to understand the game this idi.ot wants to play with me and want to teach him a lesson at the same time? Assuming he succeed into coning me into a false marriage just for the sake of coming to Yankee, gotten me pregnant and as a result ruined my life? Innocent, naive girls abroad always get taken advantage like this all the time.

And yes, I'm sure the dude has money. It was impossible for him to fake everything I saw in Naija. He's not struggling at all. I knew the type of business he was into before he even told me. And with the nature of business plus the caliber of people he huge with and how everyone around respected him. Trust me, I know what I'm dealing with. I'm sure dude can easily wire 5-10K to my account without shaking!

So, you people want me to miss this grand opportunity? Una wicked ooooooooo

Anyways, I'm headed to bed. I hope to have pages on pages on pointers upon my return in the morning.

^^^ yeah? And so? Are you going to give me some pointers or not?

You stingy!!!

This is a serious topic.

Can I get some serious suggestions on how to execute my plan?

obowunmi:
Btw, I think u may be the mugu --- what if this so-called rich boy really likes you, that's how your foolishness will let you miss a good guy. Just be careful ---- your attempt to prove smart might backfire.

Do things with a clean heart and conscience. Be wise!

He can't possibly like me.

He made many comments that convinced me of his negative intentions. Moreover, I introduced him to one of my cousins in Naija. And he's apparently chasing the girl now and trying to sleep with her. If he's serious and truthful with his intentions, why would he want to sle.ep with my blood relative?


Anyways, I need some coaching on how to eat him mugu.

Should I tell him I need assistance with my tuition payment? Or maybe I need money for my upkeep? I need a good story ooo.

Hey NL,

So, I'm a Nigerian born and raised in Yankee. And I got to spend this past holidays in Nigeria. I met some few guys that aggressively expressed their interest to making me their wife.

One guy in particular is making his intentions too obvious. I guess, he thinks I'm a Naive akata! . I'm sure he only wants to use me to get a greencard. Upon my return to Yankee, we have been keeping in contact and I want to use it to my advantage. I believe the guy has money. And I want to try and milk him. But I'm not your typical naija girl. I mean, I have never done anything of this nature before so I need some pointers.

I believe the guy has money. At least he was living big within the short period of time I spent with him in Lagos. And moreover, he has been begging me to send him a letter of invitation to enable him to come to Yankee and visit my family thus express his marriage intentions to my folks. 

So, what can I possibly tell him that will lead him to wire some thousands of dollars to me here in Yankee?