redsun:

Was there any kind of pre-colonial homosexuality in igbo land?As far as i know,they don't seem to be any word or instance referring to homosexuality in igbo culture.Can one rightly say it is whiteman's thing and phenomenon which as usual some of us are dutifully embracing?

Its not a "whiteman" thing, it's an attraction thing. It was commom (and still) in the Sub-Sahara parts of Africa before the colonalism. Check out this website. http://www.glbtq.com/social-sciences/africa_pre.html

Personally, I don't have nothing against people that refuse to "embrace" homosexuality, its the homophobia that comes with it that I hate. Many people say that they hate homosexuals and/or homosexuality because their religion or culture is against it, personally I think that is bulls**t because I could name alot of things that their religion or culture is against; that they practice with relish.

Heard of it but I dont think its true, why would you bite the hand that feeds you? However, people can be evil for no reason at all.

Cheating: I don't share.

Abuse (of any form): I love myself.

Jealousy: I am not a jealous person so I can't be with a jealous person.


Those are my top three :-)

Sagamite:

ChinenyeN,

Dare I say, the opposition is actually the diametrical opposite: Healthy and natural.

Unfortunately the gay crusade have hijacked and now dominate the most powerful forces of culture and its dessimation in the world at the moment: The Western media.

This is probably because the gay populace are generally on average more of the creative type than the heterosexual crew. And since the media of the world nowadays is coasting from the educative & morally upright to the sensational & morally decadent outlook on issues, you are bound to see the prevalence of the creative types. The creative types (including the ones that are not gay) are less focused on social order, rather they have a strong focus on all forms of freedom and fun (usually with poor assessment of wider consequences).

Please could you explain what are the "wider consequences" of two same sex adults in a relationship?

honeric01:

We shouldn't even compare 14 years old pregnant daughter to a gay son,
Reasons:
It's Natural to be pregnant mistakenly, because we humans are prone to Mistakes.
But it's not a Natural thing to be sexually attracted to your same sex because the normal human and animal bodies are created to be attracted only to their opposite sex, If you don't believe that, then make your own human beings and then make it natural to be attracted to same sex,

Imagine the world where animals are allowed to choose the fact that they can be attracted to same sex,
Result of that would be:
Famine
Malnutrition
Hunger
Scarcity of meat and eggs to give proteins
Starving causing death to humans and even wild animals who rely on other animals to survive.

Bottom line: Lesbianism and homosexuality were not created that way, the scientists are really hiding the truth from the real world,
I suspect foul play from the agent of Satan (Most scientists who believe there is no God and it trying to make sure they contradict every laws and guidelines God gave mankind and his creation).
They must have mixed somethings in some of these pills pregnant women take or even this sex enhancing products for both male and female.

Lastly, I believe The angels of THE Devil have really transformed into humans just to spread this Lies called Gay.

Humans who still believe in God should hold firm to God and stick to what the bible teaches,
Advise:
READ REVELATION IN OTHER TO UNDERSTAND THE CHANGES WE ARE EXPERIENCING IN THIS WORLD.

Here we go again 

@Sapphic:
You're lucky someone did it for you, most of my siblings know but my parents don't (I don't want to think about their reaction).

@Poster:
You're independent of your parents, go ahead and tell your mom, you have a life partner, a child on the way, you have so much going for you, its time to look foward. Wish you goodluck in whatever decision you make.