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They are not yet lonely, when they are they will come back home and BUY themselves a husband.

I think is better to sleep with your boss and make money than to sleep with numerous men and remain jobless.

I miss my fraternal members,got what I mean? I said I miss my CULT members back home in Naija

If he doesn't really love you he won't have accepted to marry you in the Registry,having a baby with his former girl friend means nothing,60% of Nigerian men have children out side without their wives knowing, untill when the man dies you will start seeing different faces, mothers coming with thier children for inheritance, that is when it SHOCKED MOST, cos your the dead cannot explain or confirm to you if is true or not,but here your man yes is true, so just have it in your mind that your children will have a step brother or sisters, thats all.

And never stop the baby from coming to see his father, after all he is the FIRST CHILD, HIS FIRST BLOOD. No matter what condition he was concieved and born, he remain his first child. think wisely if you know you can't cope not been the one to give him his first child then forget him and get someone else, but if you can cope and accept your fate or your Karma, then baby girl carry on, after all we are all african, and african traditions allows a man to marry more than one wife.

Good Luck.

I WILL CHOOSE BOTH,ALL IS IMPORTANT EVEN JESUS SAID WE SHOULD GIVE WHAT BELONG TO CEASER TO CEASER AS AN AFRICAN GIRL I WILL TAKE THE TRADITIONAL FRIST SO TO FULFILL ALL RIGTHEOUSNESS WITH MY FOREFATHERS AND TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE FROM ALL NEGATIVE PART OF OR CUSTOM AND CULTURE.

THE WHITE WEDDING WHICH IS KNOWN AS THE CHURCH WEDDING WILL LATER TAKE PLACE TO INVITE JESUS INTO OUR MIST AND BETTER STILL TO UPHOLD THE RIGHT OF THE WOMAN WHEN ANYTHING HAPPEN TO THE HUSBAND.




@HOPE: if you said that Jesus SAID WE SHOULD GIVE WHAT BELONG TO CEASER TO CEASER AS AN AFRICAN GIRL I WILL TAKE THE TRADITIONAL FRIST SO TO FULFILL ALL RIGTHEOUSNESS WITH MY FOREFATHERS AND TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE FROM ALL NEGATIVE PART OF OR CUSTOM AND CULTURE. why are you not accepting also the African way of worship? so as to fullfill all rightheousness with your forefathers, AND Why must it be a man that something will happen to why not the woman?? so you think wedding in the church will uphold your right in your matrimonial home?

It got nothing to do with Naija women, all African women in the west want to be like Janet jackson, whitney houstney,celin dion, all the stars in the USA, tell me how many stars have been a good wife to their husbands? so no man in his right senses wants them as a wife. I will advice you girls to also come home and pick your husband, take him to the states and then control him as those white girls want to control their husbands.

Your men comes home and pick a good wife, you girls should also come home and pick a good husband, is simple.

The reason is simple, cos your not RICH, if you have been coming to pick her sister with HUMMER JEEP, BMW,LEKUS MECEDEZ all JEEPS the story will have been like this" my sisters husband is so nice, handsome, rich, and caring,he promise to take me to America and europe" unquote.

So you see MONEY ANSWERS ALL PRAYERS. MOney is the KEY boy look for it and grab it. james hardly chase said that, " Your dead without money"

BEN LADEN is a demon but people love and worship him only because he is rich.

@ne4real: Yes a pastor may be there, but we must all make sure that the pastor we are inviting to our various weddings is a REAL PASTOR or real man of GOD,not people like KING Jesus who burn his fellowers. or those juju pastor, they will only bring curses on the couple why prayer and inciting their incantations.

For not to go into problems like that,Tradition is still the best, in the traditional wedding GOD is also present in the UNION.

When you people talk of pastor, what are the QUALIFICATIONS that makes him or what are the proves that show that he is really a man of GOD?

Oh i thought is a new millionaires club to join so one can get rich.

CHINUE ACHEBE wrote a book and called it "THE gods are not to blame" YOUR ARE TO BLAME BABY? HOW CAN YOU allow yourself to be introduce as cousin, thats why his friend want to sleep with you, cos thats what he was told. Go on a find someone else to love, cos that guy is gone for good ok. In front of you he was enjoying the company of many women while calling you cousin. My God I can't believe this, are you from the Village?? Any pray to God to give you your real man.

Or are you in love with him till now cos he is out of the country, many men of today are out of the country, some travel out of the country every week, so find someone else ok. I included.

If our people can be truthful for just once to themselves, they will confess that too money been wasted in our african marriages,and later put the family or the man in question in debth that could have been avoided. and think of the alarming rate of unwanted pregnancy due to the fact that men are running like BEN JOHNSON not to get themselves in such a debth.and yet everyone complains.

Why not scrap that useless expenses? Even in some cases marriages don't last more than one year after all the money wasted. Some don't even produce a child, they man or woman has to go outside to get a child. what a senseless Culture. Traditional won't put anyone in debth.

YES OOOOOOO and may he make Dollars come down to 50 naira per dollar so that our economy can grown.

May he also take Nigeria back to the early 70s where we were the first palm oil producing nation in the world, and cool from Enugu state, may he never allow us continue living only on this BLACK DEVIL CALL CRUDE OIL.

Do you want to just have a QUIKY with him or for ever? I can help you, he married my former girl friends friend, we are now like family friends, I have access to their house anytime I visit Naija, so what is your problem.

Do you want to give him a child out of his matrimonial home? or just to suck him and drink emmmmmmmmmm I reserve my comment

Traditional wedding should be highly encourage in Africa today, is it due to this useless white wedding that many men are not yet married cos is too expensive and meaningless,if trafditional wedding can just be the only wedding I assured you that 95% of men will rush to get married thereby reducing the alarming rate of our unmarried sisters in the society,girls are suffering because of this, no man wants to marry them, yet they are the one to first tell you they want a white wedding knowing fully well there is no money,and when the man finally find a girl who is satisfy with only traditional wedding the former girl will cry her heart out, cos she is becoming an OTANAKA NNE in igbo language which means she who got stuck in her mothers hand without getting married.

All this is what civilisation has course on us all whether we like it, accept it or not.

The course is improper TRADITIONAL WEDDING which make both couples commited to each other, not money. If you marry because of money , you will go when the money will finish. Remember nothing last forever except the LOVE of GOD on our life, that love is what we share with each other husband and wife.

Traditional marriage is the real wedding, more cheaper and makes the wife to be really commited to her husband, while the White weding is just a ceremonial thing, so uneccessarily expensive,makes wife uncommited to their husband in the name of modernization.

African way if your wife commit adultery she will have some sicfkness of problems that will make her confess with her own mouth,while such thing does not exist in the white wedding, that why 99% of todays women are flirting around,especially when their husband is not well to do financially.

So Tradition wedding is our Root and should be encourage by every real and bonafide African.

After making noise, you can see from the post above that the World has started paying their OBEISANCES to Yara dua, our president elect. they know they can't do without Nigeria.

Expect slight changes in govt personnel —Yar'Adua * AC to Yar'Adua: ‘You don't have Nigerians' mandate’

By Ben Agande with agency reports
Posted to the Web: Friday, May 04, 2007


ABUJA — PRESIDENT-ELECT, Alhaji Umaru Yar’Adua, says only “slight changes” in personnel should be expected in government post-May 29, 2007. He said at a meeting of the Honorary International Investors Council (HIIC) at the Presidential Villa, Abuja, yesterday, that the government he planned to run would not derail from the policies and programmes of the out-going Obasanjo administration.

The honorary council is being co-ordinated by former British minister, Lynda Baronness Chalker, who on the occasion, cautioned the international media against blowing out of proportion the alleged fraud in the last elections in the country.
However, the opposition Action Congress (AC), reacting yesterday to Alhaji Yar’Adua’s statement that he won the presidential election fair and square, described it (Yar’Adua statement) as “an affront, a provocation and an insult on Nigerians.”

Alhaji Yar’Adua at the Honorary International Investors Council (HIIC) meeting said: “The policies, focus and direction of government will continue with the same determination,” noting that members of the council should be rest assured that he would build from where Obasanjo would stop. The president-elect said he believed the establishment of the honorary council was in good faith and in the interest of the speedy development of the country.

Earlier, Chalker had congratulated the president-elect and commended the steps he has so far taken to extend a hand of friendship to members of the opposition.

Dead people voted against me in Britain—Chalker
She said elections had never been perfect in any part of the world, including Europe and the US, noting that she was also a victim of electoral malpractice in Britain when “dead people” voted against her in one of the elections she contested.

Baroness Chalker said some of the allegations trailing the last elections were also obtainable in the advanced countries of Europe and America. Her words: “Let us get rid of the superficial comments and let us help the government of Nigeria, the in-coming government to put right those things which they know are not perfect, which they want to reverse and accept sensible, constructive advice.

“We are impressed with your determination to continue with the excellent work which President Obasanjo has been doing. We welcome you and hope that you will bring experts and technocrats to join real politicians to continue the reform work of Nigeria, ” she said.

Also speaking, President Obasanjo said Nigeria had benefitted from the “experience, contact and knowledge” of the members of the Honorary International Investors Council (HIIC), just as his administration has been open to the council for critique and advice.

Inaugurated on July 6, 2005 in London, the HIIC comprises reputable Nigerian and foreign investors and meets twice yearly within and outside Nigeria.

You don't have Nigerian' mandate, AC tells Yar’Adua
Meanwhile, the Action Congress (AC), yesterday, described as an affront, a provocation and an insult on Nigerians, the claim by Governor Yar’Adua that he has the mandate of Nigerians to take over the Presidency.

The AC in a statement in Abuja said: “The PDP Presidential candidate does not have ‘the mandate of Nigerians’ as no legitimate and credible claim of mandate can be made out of the barefaced cheating and fraud which Maurice Iwu calls an ‘election’ but which the whole world has dismissed as a fiasco, a charade, and the fact of being the worst election ever in Nigeria (some say in Africa).

“The claim of a mandate based on the flawed election is the worst form of insult that anyone can inflict on Nigerians. Nigerians have never expected a ‘perfect election’ as canvassed by the abject apology of the PDP candidate, but the conduct of INEC in the last elections sets Nigeria back by at least 48 years in her electoral history and put the nation on a trajectory of one party, authoritarian rule and possibly the worst form of dictatorship.”

The Action Congress warns that if this fraud and charade were allowed to stand, the PDP would become emboldened to abolish future elections, as there would be no need for any

Do you girls also dislike a man with too much SPERM for you Do you also dislike a rich and wealthy man?? Do you also dislike a man who is faithful to you and take good care of you?? just a question.

Enjoy your relationship with him, Age is nothing but a NUMBER

Where is this your town your talking about? can you mention the name of your town for us to know pls? Yes your right WAR is not the solution, but also no one should think that nigeria is his or her personal property.

Am glad that my fellow nigerians have learn from the mistakes of the past,Athief abubakar and Bu--garri, should use their families and girl friends, extended ralations who have been eating our oil money all alone all these years,so that at least when the police will shot the bullet can hit at least 200 of each family members of Atiku and Buhari, making it 400 people to lose their lives excluding ordinary poor nigerians. Useless election losers,the people that lost their lives during elections are not enough for them, they want more people to sacrifice their life again, is that not blood money they are doing? and they will be the first to talk of stoping cultism in our campuses

So I can know when she is getting a quiky somewhere.

They are losers, is unfortunate that they can't get it,our president elect is beggining his world tour next week,and in the next 29 days he will be in Aso rock.

Guys harrase you cos you have to be bleeped, like every other woman you not an exception period.

The most important and first thing girls hate is a five minutes man, who can't Bleep them had to their satisfaction, all what they have been saying here is just liesssssssssssssss.they seems to be shy about saying what they really hate.

The last thing any northern president elect can do is to do anything I REPEAT ANYTHING WHATSOEVER that can break up Nigeria thereby puting them the entire north into one of the sahara dezard countries,do you think they are not enjoying the OPPULENCE of oil rich Nigeria? DO you think they are stupid? in my opinion Northerners are more sensitive than any other tribe in Naija, they can never allow nigeria to break hence no nonsence ACTS to distabilize Naija.

Atiku and Buhari too can also impose sharia law cos they too are muslims, there is no president in nigeria that can ever dream of imposing a muslim or christian law becuase nigeria is not a one religion country. So Stop this your nonsence and move on with our new and educated president and vice president.