I will not hide under the clock of not being tagged a bad person or not a christain and failed to advise you.
Having a baby that you are not prepared for, could alter a whole lot of things in your life and that of the girl.
Though 98% of the damage done are for the girl. She will lose her family respect, friends respect, community acceptance, her education, self respect and dignity. Most importantly, she becomes a second hand lady and the stigmatisation will continue if you failed to marry her. As it now, it is not likely that you will marry her if she gives birth outside marriage.
My advise will be if you are capable and willing, quickly go and meet the parents and pay her dowry before the pregnancy becomes public.
Failure to meet the family for marriage, you will lose focus in life as you will be mentally drained and occupied with so many thoughts that will not allow you to think staright and pursue your dreams.
For your information 99% of all the people advising otherwise have done that without asking or blinking an eyelid. Since the pregnancy is just in weeks, free yourself and the girl after which ask God for forgiveness. yours truly was once faced with the challenge and i did the needful. Today i am happily married with kids and my erstwhile girlfriend is also married with kids. God is a merciful God.
A stitch in time saves nine.
You and the girl have a lot of prospect in future.

It is quite unfortunate that your fiance lost his job at this chritical period of your relationship. As an accountant, there is a lot he can do with the skills you mentioned he has. Please advise him not to be discouraged nor loose hope. You can also advice him to private chat me or send his cv for possible help in job search. More so, there are various job openings on ICAN career page on its website. Let him take a look at it and decide for himself. Goodluck

Dear Friend, it is important for you to know that any accounting graduate without professional certification is only existing without living . such person survival in the changing business environment is uncertain. Professional certifications offers you a new breath and confidence to face the world. Yeah a few chartered accountants may be earning less now, waiting for the right opportunity that will change their fortune. A famous writer said, it is better to prepare yourself and wait for the opportunity rather than getting the opportunity and regret not being prepared.
Most people will tell you to ignore ICAN because they think it is difficult to pass but i know you are very brillant and passing ICAN will be easy for you.
My advise, make up your mind and pursue your professionalism and i can assure you that it is one step you will not regret taking.
SHALOM

what a coutry,

Kratos3364:
these are are facts! All you've stated are facts.

I really like the way you ended it. Relatively speaking, ANAN holders are bunch of lazy people, in climes where high standards are expected there would be no such thing as ANAN, it infuriates me to know that majority, if not all of them are found in the public sector, the fact that the accountant general of the federation holds a ANAN qualification kills me. Truly, the standards are falling.

Sir, I'm a 23 year old graduate currently undergoing ICAN, I'm in my finals now, I can substantiate this claim if you want me to. Sir I don't have work experience and I'm looking to get one. I'll like to use this opportunity to ask if there's a vacancy in the firm you work for or if there's a way you can recommend me...

@kratos3364 be patience and definitely you will get there. kindly drop your email address to my box or on the portal i will contact you. the truth of the matter is that once you develop your skill and qualify as a chartered accountant the market will locate you. kindly drop your email i will contact you for possible audit and work experience. good luck.

i am going to respond to this issue as a professional and ICAN chartered accountant.
op, do not be deceived by people that knows close to nothing about your profession because every profession has its down side.
as a professional chartered accountant, of ICAN breed, you need not to worry about the number of accountants in the market. accounting profession has moved from adding figures and being a financial reporting expert.
as a financial reporting expert the following are some of your core area of expertise.
(a) financial modelling which entails detail management of funds for your organization
(b) investment appraisal which entails seeking out profitable investment portfolio for your organization
(c) financial analyst which entails advising corporate bodies on ways and means for business success
(d) tax adviser which entails managing tax matters so as to pay less tax
(e) internal control consultant which entails setting up internal control to reduce fraud in an organization.
(f) cost controller which entails providing means to cut cost and control expenses.
(g) variance analyzer which entails analyzing the differences between budget and actual to advise management.
(h) cash officer which entails maintenance of cash float and imprest account and sundries.
(i) payroll manager which entails management of wages and salaries
(j) chief financial officer which entails taking decisions on sources and application of funds for your company.
(k) management accountant which entails determining the cost of item or services your company render.
(l) feasibility studies consultant which entails carrying out study on possible profitable business.
there are so many things you can do as a chartered accountants and do not allow anybody to deceive you.
i am a proud chartered accountants of ICAN breed and i have never looked back ever since i qualified.
however, you may need to start small and build and apply your knowledge and skill appropriately so that the market will locate you.
the business environment is rapidly changing and demand for accountants are on the increase so brace up for your job opportunity.
as for the pay, accounting is rewarding now. chartered accountants working with small audit firms are not collecting less than 70,000 per month to start with. Chartered accountants working with big firms are not collecting less than 200,000 per month.
if eventually you land a dream job as a chartered accountant(ICAN), you may not be rich but you CANNOT AND NEVER be poor because you take home pay per month will not be less than 300,000.

in all and all there are medical doctors, lawyers, engineers and others that are underpaid like chartered accountants so we are not different. kindly note what i wrote is for ICAN standard and not for ANAN accountants.
please be properly guided.

you have no right to slap a lady, let alone apologizing with this unappetizing sleek. if you are my ex or sis and you come home with this stuff, you will receive further slaps. nonsense.

how on earth did the prostitutor (the guy) and the prostitutee (the lady) fought and the prostitutes (the neighbours) did not know.
just because of 500 the prostitutor has committed murder upon his initial sin of either fornication or adultery as the case may be. yawn

richy16:
Things they happen oo..

Bros, how do you mean.

addizzle:
Nice one...learnt something new....I ate at nyt....ate u??

yawn, no wonder i am very tired this morning. lets repeat it again today.

alatbaba1:


when pesin go see ur front side. I'm tired of this ur back side.

please leave that matter alone the front side belong to somebody else i know.

amiibaby:
A man that will cheat will cheat....... cheat is in d blood

Are you really serious about this. Hmmmmmm,
Cheat and cheaters are handiwork of environment, opportunities and disposition.

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She is a woman and has ntin else to offer.
Ladies pls continue offering we appreciate.

Are you sure of this. Are you snitching on her because she refuse to offer to you. Guy cherish good thing so that you will experience it in life.

She looks gorgeous. Congratulations lady.

She looks gorgeous. Congratulations lady.

Beauty is beautiful and it lies on the eye of the beholder. The most important aspect of beauty is the Heart. She has a heart of humanity. God bless Omotola.

I will be shocked at the comment and definitely take him on it at the appropriate time. Activate *frown*