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Family / Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ecstasycity(f): 7:10pm On Jan 17
Loyalty is not how much pain you can tolerate from a partner. Goodluck.

Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?
Family / Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ecstasycity(f): 6:57pm On Jan 17
Romance / Re: How Do I Move On From The Man I Call The Love Of My Life? by ecstasycity(f): 6:57am On Jun 04, 2019
Most times, we are the cause of our problem. Cos his wife is financially stable, you decided to make yourself feel special believing he married her just for money. To be honest, You have no value in his eyes. Can't say for his kids though. But the earlier you accept he ain't necessarily using his wife but obviously using you, the better.

Men Sha... He has kids and wifey has no clue.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Good Friend... by ecstasycity(f): 10:38pm On May 15, 2019
Just take it one day at a time... You'll be fine.

Hey NLs,

I had to create a new account to get this done. I’ve been way too lonely and shattered . I just need a good friend to talk too, preferably a matured and educated lady with good sense of reasoning...

Thank you,


N:B. I’m a guy
Romance / Re: Using Only One Word, What Do You Need Right Now? by ecstasycity(f): 7:25pm On Oct 22, 2017
Romance / Re: Bf Proposed To Me Yesterday And Lost His Job Today... Pls Help Me/us by ecstasycity(f): 2:40pm On Oct 16, 2017
Laid off without notice? Strange....
Romance / Re: Looking For Ms. Adorable, Both Inside And Outide. by ecstasycity(f): 12:55pm On Oct 16, 2017

No one's perfect, she must be willing to forgive any form of imperfection or misdeed.

Stating it calls for questions. Forgiveness should not be imposed. Everyone has deir limit. Wish u all d best.
Romance / Re: Looking For Ms. Adorable, Both Inside And Outide. by ecstasycity(f): 12:45pm On Oct 16, 2017
Romance / Re: See The Five(5) Reasons Why You Should Date A Libra Man by ecstasycity(f): 12:15pm On Aug 27, 2017
Done & Dusted...
I wish he had half the personality stated here.
Romance / Re: Ladies Ask Any Question, First Guy To Nail It Earns An Exclusive PM From You by ecstasycity(f): 12:09pm On Aug 27, 2017
cool shocked shocked cool shocked shocked cool
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Meet Single Working Class Ladies In Nigeria by ecstasycity(f): 4:35pm On Aug 26, 2017
I am Lawrence, from Anambra State, I am 32_yo, attractively tall, fair in complexion, good looking, Educated, self employed and intelligent. I need a wise, humble tall or average in height, and hardworking girl for serious relationship/marriage. preferable age is between 25-35 years of age who resides Enugu, Abia, South East/South South, for easily reachable (not by tribe but by residence any tribe is welcome). when we finalize our relationship, then we can plan our final base. any serious minded girl (Graduate, who got something to offer in the Union, not just gold digger) from any religion (we all are people of God) should contact me on 08133684325
(it's unfortunate that Nigerians never grow to extend of looking for love beyond their region, religion or ethnicity? it's too bad)
Romance / Re: April Born Lets Meet Here by ecstasycity(f): 5:52pm On Aug 20, 2017
April 28/Lagos
Autos / Re: Super Clean Registered Hyundai Accent 2011/2012 Model. SOLD. Thank you JESUS by ecstasycity(f): 8:27pm On Apr 05, 2017
Autos / Re: YES!!!Buy Cars Below 500k From Germany Without Clearing .......pictures Inside by ecstasycity(f): 10:24pm On Apr 01, 2017
Price for 2009 Toyota Matrix plus clearing pls
Autos / Re: Fresh Lagos Cleared Tokunboh 2009 Toyota Matrix - Gray by ecstasycity(f): 7:39pm On Mar 23, 2017
Autos / Re: Toyota Matrix Sliver 07084491068 by ecstasycity(f): 7:18pm On Mar 21, 2017
Autos / Re: Fresh Lagos Cleared Tokunboh 2009 Toyota Matrix - Gray by ecstasycity(f): 1:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
Ur num is off... kindly respond here with an alternative line.
Autos / Re: 2010 Toyota Corolla Few Months Registered For Sale Super Clean And Creamy by ecstasycity(f): 2:55pm On Mar 12, 2017
Autos / Re: Kia Cerato 2015model @2.950m,08038580001,08077605055 by ecstasycity(f): 2:54pm On Mar 12, 2017
Autos / Re: Naija Dealers Thread...............pre-order From Germany @ 450k by ecstasycity(f): 1:48pm On Mar 12, 2017
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ecstasycity(f): 1:48pm On Feb 26, 2017

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Have You Been Dreaming Of Marrying Your Birthday Mate? Pls Come In by ecstasycity(f): 1:19pm On Feb 26, 2017

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Your Date Of Birth, You Might Find A Match by ecstasycity(f): 1:05pm On Feb 26, 2017
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Jobs/Vacancies / Latest Scam Tactics...please Beware. by ecstasycity(f): 8:41am On May 24, 2016
Thought I share, have a pleasant day y'all

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