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ZarZar:
LMFAO. Cool story, brah! IDK the connection between Lionessza & Tuksgrad, but I can assure you that neither of them are my accounts. If you don't believe that, then you're welcome to believe whatever the heck you want.

you have a good head and talk with cohesion, but I must admit I find your tone abit condescending. what makes you any different from the xenophobic people in your country and the holier than though people in my country, when you allow urself sound that way. do argue your points clean but don't sound so first rate. now speak on, me like ur arguements

human diversity appears not to have stopped with the colour of our skins, it also got to the brain and soundness of our minds

hmmmmm. this is a first

Kondomatic:
You and I see life from two different angles.

Nobody deserves being hurt, nobody should sleep with a lover's parent etc.

If you hurt someone they will hurt you back and you're not going to be the one to decide what they will do to you.

It's just like when you're fighting and you hit a person, where he hits in retaliation is his and not your decision to make. I am not in any way justifying sharing her pix but there is measure of hurt you will dish out to someone and sharing your pix won't even be enough.

Reason I am not going to join you to lynch anyone.

I am among the people who would rather avoid what will lead to something unpleasant than to do it make stupid laws that will not be obeyed.

You're a victim of one side of the story

nobody has the belief you have explained more than I, but let me ask, this act of public nudity blackmail, what is it trying to achieve asides public shaming. it's not an attempt to repay hurt and this is why whenever I see someone butchered or shot. I just type rip because he could be a victim of his actions. that's how to handle hurt. but it takes petty emotional revenge on perceived hurt to attempt to publicly shame people. all of us who are being showed the nudes, do we know who they are? or are we judges or privy to the details of their quarrel. do you see why I am against this, because it's an attempt to blackmail with shame to a general public.

go through any post of mine on any issue and you will see an objective two story outlook. but this is an attempt to shame and it has an emotional outlook, and nothing emotional can be objective at same time.

so it's difficult to remove your underwear and powder from those chairs you are marketing to the public for sale Abi? smh

Kondomatic:
You're victim of one side of the story sir.

let me be clear bro. there is nothing that lady would have done to warrant or justify a nude leak, even if she was owing money or she slept with his father. what has that got to do with blackmail via nudes. is it because she is a woman and we all feel nudity is a shameful thing for them? the same way we feel disgust when a thief is paraded unclad because there is no correlation with his unclothedness and stealing. same way this is wrong on all levels. mind you I have been and seen people blackmailed for no reason by strangers hoping to prove a point. let's pray this country doesn't descend into a Somalia one day, where by only the gun and wit will rule. we will skin that nigga and wear it like a dress

Kondomatic:
This here is the consequence of what she did so I am not going to join you to lynch anyone.

really a consequence of refusing to sleep with a man? has she lost right to her body ? or a consequence of having sent pictures in good faith to the individual or accepted his requests to view her pictures? how do you conclude that a lady who has her nude pics online is the aggressor suffering a consequences of her aggression. apparently the blackmailer is the victim. well buddy, guess we on two ends of a line.

Kondomatic:
I honestly won't join you to lynch anyone

we will find people willing to purge the land of scourge. I repeat nobody has monopoly of bad behavior nor should people be left to do things without consequences

wish her rest. her journey has come to an end. hopefully the journey of her killers have just begun

may the Lord vindicate you. nobody has the right to blackmail anyone. I wish we can find such people so we lynch them. guess it's a sign for people to be more careful with personal information

these could be abit far reaching, but it's truly the future of transportation and pretty much life in general. happy are those majoring in electrical/electronics and computer engineering, IT related courses. the future will be the bomb

dingbang:
yea.. I made sure he got banned... At least for a start

he will come out from somewhere again. wonder who he is and what is issue is exactly asides the thread on the front page. maybe it struck a nerve. nevertheless I will find ways to contact the DSS, I screenshoted some of his statements and all the messages I sent to the nairaland mods which they didn't respond to.

if this forum could be used by anybody to slander people, simply because many are professionals and maintain professional profiles here and there. guess things need to be watched. thanks though for the ban

raphieMontella:
, lol, this one doesn't even know that the universe is expanding. wtf are you saying bro?
I have no spontaneous disintegration theory.. . that will completely negate planetary formation. only violence could create planets. thus a nuclear event whose cause isn't exactly defined under the exact paradigms we define it here on earth elements.

I repeat no singularity can exist in isolation even though it can be analyzed as thus. therefore when you think of the universe, you might also want to see it as an exauniverse(this is my term, google won't help) continuum. because there can never a point we can consider it in singularity. asides of course with respect to cause and effect, where focus will be on the effect and little on its causes, asides postulations
I only said that if radioactive disintegration can occur without a cause.. ..the big bang can also behave like wise.

and I tell you the Big Bang can only occur with a cause. and please who told you that radioactive disintegration can occur without a cause as the only way, there are different forms of stability and in the naturally occurring radioactive materials, this disintegration appears normal, that we can affect that disintegration and speed things up means it's not happening without a cause. please clear urself and stop arguing

dingbang:
who is that fool that was threatening you?

have no idea, would love to find him anyway. guess peeps here need to start learning there will be consequences to actions. nevertheless he talking to himself.

Brugge:
Attend your conference. In a conference you will be hanging out with professionals. But just have it at the back of your mind that anyone can hit on you. If you have it at the back of your mind when it happens you won't freak out or go into a fist fight.

okies

Shortyy:
Lol secrets? I've got terrible and scary ones. They even scare me when I think about em. I pray every day that God forgives me

just tell us the least scary, one you couldn't truly bother with it outside. cheers

sagitariusbaby:
Stop being fulish man or probably you are pretending. Gays are everywhere, they are you colleagues, your customers, neighbours, friends, relatives, pastors, imams, artists, actors, business moguls. They are as normal as you of not even more moral than the average person as they are re people of excellence

hmmmmmmmm I get it now. your dp also explains it. more grease to your elbows

Brugge:
No ever live abroad ooh more especially in Europe. Men will hit on you. I was on vac with my then Greek babe for Crete. The babe the swim me just lay for ground for beach na so one dude come dey chyk me. omo me I tell am say see my babe inside water there haha. When my woman come out from the ocean I come tell her she was impressed sey even gay guys find her man hot. ahaha oyibo dey craze. Even inside bus for Brussels. Chai Europe na really liberal place ooh.

If you do mistake show your disdain for gays, trust me you will get a lot of shit from those white people. If you ever find yourself in their midst you had better keep your disgust to yourself ooh. hahaha

really, I was planning to attend a tech conference in Europe, guess that is cancelled be that. you try oh. you didn't feel violated? hmmmmm nawa WA. anyway guess it's the living abroad thing. your mind has become liberal and thus you could shake it off. I be OMo naija and guess the local blood truly still flows at full capacity. anyway I have stopped attacking that concept a long time ago anyway. nobody holy pass.

sagitariusbaby:
So you can call it fetish because it's between girls but you hypocrites call it forbidden when it is between two guys? Una try

cos it's weird to show emotion with a guy talkless of sexual emotion. how is that not weird

Ishilove:

don't wanna corrupt ur ears any further. crazy times

Brugge:
You are right about bobrisky. Even in the corporate world in Naija there a lot of closet gays with families. I remember during NYSC days we were told that if any politician or rich men ask you to come to hotel to pick up fund (when we were soliciting for fund to do some project) do not go. Because there are cases of guys being raped and nothing could be done about it, since it is a Muslim state admitting that you were rape is putting up your head to be chopped off let alone when you can't prove your case.

The empathy towards lesbian by straight guys seems to be universal. hahaha

As for gays it depends, the way I look at it is simple, like the guy from my uni, I don't let his sexual orientation comes into play whenever am dealing with him. He is very intelligent, graduate top in his class, worked with one of the big 5 and owns a successful consult services that has employed many graduates. He is kind I have seen him done a lot of people. So that how I like looking at him. To me as long as you are not a shitty person to your fellow human being I am good with you. Because the truth is what about straight guys that enjoys licking ass and sticking their penis into their girl friend anus? Those I found disgusting but then that is their headache, I am more concern about how the treat the person next door than who you think about when you self-service or who (as long as there is no minor involved and you are taking advantage of those you have authority over) or how you stick it to someone.

yeah it's true. the person in everyone matters more than whom we decide to rock in between the sheets. but I will be emotionally scarred if a man hits on me. anyway the heterosexual fethish thing too is true, being weird is everywhere so why judge. anyway their ass, their problem

Brugge:
To be honest I never asked because when I got to know I have already lived abroad side by side with gays. I didn't asked him how he got to be that way. But one thing I found in common about his crew back in uni was that they all attended boarding school. Mind you am not saying that attending boarding school is responsible for that but I believe that when you have group of teenage boys gathered together without any girl in sight and no parents to keep close eyes on them some of them are bound to experiment.

There ladies I know that have boy friends some married but at full time into lesbo. If by chance anti-gay law is rescinded in Nigeria, you will surprised at number of closet gays around. Things are happening ooh. If you are into counselling or have a partner that is, ask them and you will be blown away.

you are right though, peeps like bobrisky are surviving and all that, there must be men who patronize him and in truth it appears many here are on the down low. well I won't tell lies as much as I don't judge since it ain't my body, I can't be comfortable with a gay guy as a friend. how will I be able to know for sure he doesn't think of me while masturbating or having me as a sexual object. I just can't.

for the lesbians, bro I have seen, been there and Dat one (selfish) of me. I don't hate it or judge it. so far she is bisexual and not these hateful feminist butch folk. I just see that as a fetish. I even had a friend who was into sugar mummies and she made alot of money at the time. she is married now and I am no longer close to her again for two crazy reasons. can't say them here before I scare more people.

sollybaby:
I blended cockroach. used the water to prepare indomie for a guy who spread rumors about me and I will do worse till he dies

OK you win. you are the real killer

Brugge:
There plenty of them around you. There are lots of gays in Nigeria. There are some group of guys I went to uni with, never knew they were gay until one opened up to me thinking I was one (back then in school I was chill no drama all my chic runs are off campus so I can focus on studies within campus. So he thought I wasn't into chics, without knowing all my matches were at a different campus close bye). When he gave me that was when I realized that all the guys I knew then that used to spend a lot of time at his place back then were gays. His place was a rally point for them.

wow. this is truly eye opening. well I don't really judge but I won't wanna ever have to meet them in person. won't be good for them to see my incredulous eyes judging them. wonder how you aren't scarred by that experience. nevertheless did they tell you how they came to be that way? is it for ritual purposes or really who they are

Cloud007:
imagining him getting to the last two.....even the devil himself will raise his hand up dat "I no send am Oh"

lol, funny peeps. but no be lie sha.

gbosaa:
Eddygourdo, I respect and love your posts on here but you gotta let go of some stuffs. You just have to stop all these sending of pms and meeting offline to quash some silly beef.

The loudest online isn't the strongest offline. You'd be surprised who visit and read stuffs here everyday. You have nothing to prove meeting or arranging to fight it out offline. That is childish and very immature.

OK bro.

lestat:
Stop taking drugs...

I have marked you, one day you will slip, and we will get to know Berra. I will love to know how much "man " you will prove to be.

till we see Mr lestat.

lestat:
Hahahahahahahaha
You make me laugh.... I rest my case.. you have no idea..
Kids now says have no respect.. but I can teach you some you little b1tch.
Be very very careful...
You are not invisible.
It would be a pleasure to teach a loud mouth rat like you some manners
Keep your secrets to yourself you rat who has no honor

still making noise, haven't seen your pm. please please voltron send the pm. I will love to meet you. anywhere you wish. send the fecking pm. or get off my mentions

chalantmike:
yhud be surprised how many ladies are like that, to some sex is no different than a handshake or playing football, all na activity. have a guy like that duo,his the only one I know, and I don't understand how his mind works. obsessed with ladies, to a freakish level, yet, Buh a guy with the right advances can ger him to bed,as bottom not top, he says the thought of penetrating anyone irritates him ,he can't even think of it.

me am still wondering how his mind created that bias.

you know a gay? a real human gay? wow sometimes I just assume all that gay thing is a joke. wow. anyway his life, his ass, his problems

donbabade:
You be vampire?

leave that small boy. he no dey fear face yet. he go learn soon the more he blabs